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is it worth it?
#22191211 - 09/05/15 01:30 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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to start off i have never had a girlfriend... but today i asked a girl at the library for her number she said she didn't do that sort of thing and she gave me her snapchat. she was a 6/10 and extremely shy.her face went red and she looked like she was completely out of her comfort zone.
my question is, is it worth pursuing it? she wasn't very attractive, very friget and didn't look like great fun to be around but i have never had a girlfriend and my hand can't offer me that something that another soul can...my hand can't make still my wavering heart, tell me everything is ok or offer me support as i cry myself to sleep.
i am not that desperate btw. infact going on holidays soon.
Edited by Anonymous (09/05/15 01:31 AM)
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personergos
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why not pursue it man? she could end up being super chill. you never know. if nothing happens then nothing happens, but I'd say give it a shot and see how it goes.
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it would be super awkward if i meet her personergos..
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personergos
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most of the relationships i've been in have started out with really awkward situations honestly lol.
I'm not a very social person and it takes me a while to warm up to people, that's just me though.
All I'm saying is why not? What's the worst possible outcome? Maybe just text (or snapchat) her for a little bit, and try to meet up with her and some other people? That might make it less awkward. You know, ask her if she wants to hang out with you and a couple friends or something?
Idk. Just trying to encourage you man, it could turn into something wonderful.
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personergos, i like your style...if i could i would go out with you and there after you could teach me what it means to be a man, with a firm grasp but a soft tone...We could hold eachother and pretend just for a minute that we are flying and everything is ok..hesitant to come back down to continue my ordinary life.
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koraks
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Anonymous said: my question is, is it worth pursuing it? she wasn't very attractive, very friget and didn't look like great fun to be around
There's your answer.
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Re: is it worth it? [Re: koraks]
#22191276 - 09/05/15 02:15 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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can u elaborate
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koraks
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Well, you don't really seem to be very enthusiastic about this girl. The only reason I can find in your post for pursuing her is your desire to have a girlfriend - and it almost seems like it doesn't really matter who she is. I'd recommend waiting for someone who does give you that special feeling and who you click with, and then see where things go. It's actually much more satisfying to have your heart broken in a stormy courtship with someone who really matters than to end up in a lukewarm relationship with someone you find only mildly interesting.
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Re: is it worth it? [Re: koraks]
#22191288 - 09/05/15 02:30 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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interesting
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Re: is it worth it? [Re: koraks]
#22192304 - 09/05/15 11:46 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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koraks said: Well, you don't really seem to be very enthusiastic about this girl.
yeah, so why bother.
I would pursue the ones that can't stop thinking about, the ones that light your fire ya feel me.
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Re: is it worth it? [Re: Lucis]
#22192480 - 09/05/15 12:35 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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When I was younger I had a policy of generally avoiding fucking girls I didn't want to be my girlfriend. In some cases it was clear it was just a one off but most of the time they were using pussy to get a relationship. In those cases if I was reluctant to get involved I didn't fuck. You can spot it a mile away.
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Anonymous said: personergos, i like your style...if i could i would go out with you and there after you could teach me what it means to be a man, with a firm grasp but a soft tone...We could hold eachother and pretend just for a minute that we are flying and everything is ok..hesitant to come back down to continue my ordinary life.
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sudly
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Pursue a friendship then, doesn't sound overly promising for the moment but if she's friendly you should be friendly too.
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rackem



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she gave you a snapchat instead of her number.
i wouldnt pursue anything with that.
i no longer like this world.
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Re: is it worth it? [Re: rackem]
#22204630 - 09/07/15 09:27 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I would say it wouldn't hurt to at least try making friends with her. You say you've never had a girlfriend so it would be good experience to attempt to keep talking to this girl. That way when you do come across one that you are really into you wont be wondering what to do. Lots of people can seem cold on first impression but once you get to know them they are completely different for the better. Just don't put any more energy into her then she is, the snapchat thing is pretty weird. What has this world come to
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twoseeeye
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There's a lot of fish in the sea. Why this one? Just curious.
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Anonymous #1
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ew i think you are mistaken my dear..i am not exactly attracted to her i just want experience...and not to be alone....a feeling only personergos can save me from, yet he disappears and spits in my face leaving me to fend off my demons by myself...where to now i ask? who will save me?
personergos? do you hear my cries for help?
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"I must have a relationship and the first person who talks to me is the only one it could possibly be". Nice trolling.
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not trolling man...i don't know where you got that idea that i only want her..
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twoseeeye
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Well I'm confused. All I'm saying is the more times you roll the dice the more likely you are to end up with a 3 or a 7.
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Re: is it worth it? [Re: twoseeeye] 1
#22214657 - 09/09/15 10:23 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Basically she wants you to send dick pics thru snapchat. Send lots of them and then finish the gallery with a pic tucking your wang between your legs. She'll be extra into it if you paint a face on your dick and balls.
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brokentv

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one more thing to add is that by befriending this girl, if she is up for being friends at the least, it will show you that girls are just people. I say this because many inexperienced guys myself included at one point will easily put females they are into on a pedestal confusing it with basic respect and closing themselves off to the rest of the world. Understanding a healthy dynamic is essential.
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personergos
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Anonymous said: ew i think you are mistaken my dear..i am not exactly attracted to her i just want experience...and not to be alone....a feeling only personergos can save me from, yet he disappears and spits in my face leaving me to fend off my demons by myself...where to now i ask? who will save me?
personergos? do you hear my cries for help?
lol. i was just trying to help you out man. but you were making it pretty obvious that you had already decided you didn't want to try talking to her and what i was saying didn't mean anything. so i shut up.
i don't see why making a new friend at the very least would be a bad thing. sorry for leaving you like that, will you ever forgive me?
Edited by personergos (09/11/15 08:43 AM)
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Patlal
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Anonymous said: to start off i have never had a girlfriend... but today i asked a girl at the library for her number she said she didn't do that sort of thing and she gave me her snapchat. she was a 6/10 and extremely shy.her face went red and she looked like she was completely out of her comfort zone.
my question is, is it worth pursuing it? she wasn't very attractive, very friget and didn't look like great fun to be around but i have never had a girlfriend and my hand can't offer me that something that another soul can...my hand can't make still my wavering heart, tell me everything is ok or offer me support as i cry myself to sleep.
i am not that desperate btw. infact going on holidays soon.
Go for it. See what happens.
Who knows...
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