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ModestMouse
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Getting back in the game
#22183757 - 09/03/15 04:41 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I didn't think I'd be looking at a relationship so soon, but this girl I've been seeing lately has absolutely stunned me. She's been cooking dinner for us, I've been doing odd jobs around her apartment, and I've been sleeping with her every night she doesn't work (she's a nurse at the hospital). The thing is, we're not technically dating right now. We're just exclusive fuck buddies who sleep together every night. There's romance between us, and it's early in the game, but I feel as if maybe we're doing it backwards?
Does it matter at all? Is seeing her so often and getting so quickly intimate going to hurt the relationship down the line?
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Mr. Material
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Re: Getting back in the game [Re: ModestMouse]
#22183850 - 09/03/15 05:04 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Don't make assumptions. Just enjoy what you have dude.
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SunnyD
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Re: Getting back in the game [Re: ModestMouse]
#22184716 - 09/03/15 08:02 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Good honest feelings
never act needy though but show affection
just be you and do what feels right
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Re: Getting back in the game [Re: SunnyD]
#22184895 - 09/03/15 08:33 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
AddyZomeD said: Good honest feelings
never act needy though but show affection
just be you and do what feels right
unless what feels right is to be needy and lacking in affection...
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Re: Getting back in the game [Re: ModestMouse]
#22186431 - 09/04/15 04:55 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Since you stopped paying her alimony she has decided to start dating you again.
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zappaisgod
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Re: Getting back in the game [Re: ModestMouse]
#22187240 - 09/04/15 10:19 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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You're not dating. You're married
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Re: Getting back in the game [Re: ModestMouse]
#22190059 - 09/04/15 08:27 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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ModestMouse said: we're not technically dating right now. We're just exclusive fuck buddies who sleep together every night.
Yeah uh-huh surrrrrrrrre...
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Re: Getting back in the game [Re: zappaisgod]
#22190816 - 09/04/15 10:51 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said:
You're not dating. You're married
LOL
That's fucked updide.
Edited by Mr. Material (09/04/15 11:00 PM)
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Mr. Material
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Re: Getting back in the game [Re: ModestMouse]
#22190943 - 09/04/15 11:34 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Oh yeah, don't ruin what you have with labels dude.
Just have fun for us that aren't right now!
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Enjoywho
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You guys are in a relationship. Dont fuck it up by putting a label on it.
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Re: Getting back in the game [Re: Enjoywho]
#22192848 - 09/05/15 01:57 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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My recent ex and i she's the one that asked me will you be my boyfriend? Twice. The first time i said i dunno i just love being around you lets see where this goes. The second time she had just cooked me some bomb ass food and i love the girl. Sure darling. Then we started fighting and only dated for 2 months.
I dont even know why all the fights started over the smallest stupidest bullshit. But we're both stubborn as fuck so it is what it is. Im bummed about we had so much fun this summer.
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Re: Getting back in the game [Re: Enjoywho]
#22205453 - 09/08/15 01:06 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'm pretty sure I was in that same situation recently. But she pushed for exclusiveness then dating. Then we were sleeping every night together. And then the problems started, arguments constantly and fighting, we were basically living together and then our bedroom got dead... Idk man everyone's different. If it is love then it could work out. Just see where it goes I guess.
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Enjoywho
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Re: Getting back in the game [Re: Rainman420]
#22206414 - 09/08/15 09:47 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yep thats pretty much exactly how my situation went down.
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