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Re: Slowly but surely getting over my life long phobia of females [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
#22181314 - 09/03/15 12:05 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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You sound like you own a white van with no windows.
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Re: Slowly but surely getting over my life long phobia of females [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
#22181315 - 09/03/15 12:05 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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This is how OP looks when he sees a hot chick
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Re: Slowly but surely getting over my life long phobia of females [Re: Bitter Cactus]
#22181332 - 09/03/15 12:12 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I look more scared than that lol
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Re: Slowly but surely getting over my life long phobia of females [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
#22181338 - 09/03/15 12:14 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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MagicalOrangutan said: You act like you're so important that I or anyone cares if you are or are not going to continue posting? Bye tho lol
Nah he sounds like me. Like he's talking to someone who is so much of a self defeatist it's not even worth debating them anymore because there's literally 0 chance of them looking at anything logically and are just going to keep continuing on as if they're right regardless of how much information is provided to prove the defeatist attitude is wrong.
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Re: Slowly but surely getting over my life long phobia of females [Re: Shroomslip]
#22181366 - 09/03/15 12:22 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Does this even belong in The Pub? lol
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Re: Slowly but surely getting over my life long phobia of females [Re: Shroomslip]
#22181373 - 09/03/15 12:22 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Well as I said I am at least trying to get over my phobia. But if you compare how much girls wanteme back a few years ago compared to now..it really makes me wonder what changed
-------------------- On the ground you lay, with your dogs you pray, at a neon hieroglyph sky you gaze Hugging your mind, praying to survive, feeling the love of the hieroglyphs in the sky We all need more love, and mainly less hate Hate is the blind that covers the heart's eye That makes the heart's eye cry Locked deep away in the skies of our minds It's all in the mind
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Re: Slowly but surely getting over my life long phobia of females [Re: Kush_Zombie]
#22181378 - 09/03/15 12:23 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Phobia of females? Shit i love talking to females.
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Re: Slowly but surely getting over my life long phobia of females [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
#22181382 - 09/03/15 12:24 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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MagicalOrangutan said: Well as I said I am at least trying to get over my phobia. But if you compare how much girls wanteme back a few years ago compared to now..it really makes me wonder what changed
lol idk what that has to do with what I asked
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Re: Slowly but surely getting over my life long phobia of females [Re: Kush_Zombie]
#22181384 - 09/03/15 12:25 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Kush_Zombie said: Does this even belong in The Pub? lol
Something tells me if he took this to S&R or something people would either quickly grow pissed at providing thoughtful information only to have rebuked by "I had hair before, and I had girls before, now I don't have hair, and no girls, therefore hair is the problem" or would just give up entirely on it a few posts in.
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Re: Slowly but surely getting over my life long phobia of females [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
#22181387 - 09/03/15 12:25 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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MagicalOrangutan said: Well I'm not sure how things are gonna work with me and my current girlfriend so basically I might consider looking for a new one soon or at least a good fuck buddy.
First I'd have to build the confidence to approach girls. I'm already making progress. I tell a woman who's physicallymy type that she's beautiful/gorgeous all the time now lol. I know that's probably not a good way to hit on them because they don't like getting physical compliments all the time but it's making me less and less scared to approach them.
Just a few months ago I couldn't even say a word to a cute girl I was so terrified lol. Now it's really not even nerve racking in any way to make small talk or compliment them.
Practice makes perfect..and the only way to get over your fears is to face them. Now granted I'm not particularly attractive to women and the chances of any of them actually wanting a 5'9 a non-stop glorious hair sporting guy with fairly average facial features-other than the fucked up slutty crazy girls who are basically dumps for all the genetically defective sperm in America- are very slim realistically speaking based on my experience and observations of people. But dammit this is getting to be like the lottery, the chances are slim but it's addicting to keep trying lol. If that comparison makes sense.
I guess that's the right way to think about this subject matter..it's like the lottery. It's always fun and a little exciting to try even if you know the odds are massively against you lol
Your post was pretty positive vibes until bolded/underlined, so maybe a bit of reframing the situation.
Focus on improving yourself each day -- if someone is not attracted to you on a particular day, treat it as their loss because you're just going to keep getting better and they missed their chance.
Focus on who you are, and to fuck with people who are caught up in what people look like.
Good luck to you either way.
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Re: Slowly but surely getting over my life long phobia of females [Re: Tantrika]
#22181395 - 09/03/15 12:27 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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SweetLeafSamadhi said:
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MagicalOrangutan said: Well I'm not sure how things are gonna work with me and my current girlfriend so basically I might consider looking for a new one soon or at least a good fuck buddy.
First I'd have to build the confidence to approach girls. I'm already making progress. I tell a woman who's physicallymy type that she's beautiful/gorgeous all the time now lol. I know that's probably not a good way to hit on them because they don't like getting physical compliments all the time but it's making me less and less scared to approach them.
Just a few months ago I couldn't even say a word to a cute girl I was so terrified lol. Now it's really not even nerve racking in any way to make small talk or compliment them.
Practice makes perfect..and the only way to get over your fears is to face them. Now granted I'm not particularly attractive to women and the chances of any of them actually wanting a 5'9 a non-stop glorious hair sporting guy with fairly average facial features-other than the fucked up slutty crazy girls who are basically dumps for all the genetically defective sperm in America- are very slim realistically speaking based on my experience and observations of people. But dammit this is getting to be like the lottery, the chances are slim but it's addicting to keep trying lol. If that comparison makes sense.
I guess that's the right way to think about this subject matter..it's like the lottery. It's always fun and a little exciting to try even if you know the odds are massively against you lol
Your post was pretty positive vibes until bolded/underlined, so maybe a bit of reframing the situation.
Focus on improving yourself each day -- if someone is not attracted to you on a particular day, treat it as their loss because you're just going to keep getting better and they missed their chance.
Focus on who you are, and to fuck with people who are caught up in what people look like.
Good luck to you either way. 
your signature goes beautifully with this advice
-------------------- How to get started in bulk: Presto 23-Quart Pressure Cooker BOD's Simple as FUCK Still Air Box PastyWhyte's Easy Agar Tek Munchauzen's Cultivation Video Series How EvilMushroom666 Prepares His Grains (I use jars with Synthetic Filter Discs) What is G2G? (Grain-to-Grain) Damion5050's Coir Tek (I use 5.5 - 6 quarts of water instead of 4. Also ignore step 13 and ignore the monotub completely. The only purpose of this tek is to show you how to make a simple substrate. I also add gypsum to it but not necessary) Spitball's Monotub Tek (A liner isn't necessary but is useful) Use 6500k lights throughout the whole process. When you wake up, turn the light on. When you go to sleep turn the light off. It's as simple as that.
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Re: Slowly but surely getting over my life long phobia of females [Re: Kush_Zombie]
#22181416 - 09/03/15 12:32 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I still say confidence comes from experience and maybe being a pompous douche lol. Either way the best way to build confidence is to get numb to rejection
-------------------- On the ground you lay, with your dogs you pray, at a neon hieroglyph sky you gaze Hugging your mind, praying to survive, feeling the love of the hieroglyphs in the sky We all need more love, and mainly less hate Hate is the blind that covers the heart's eye That makes the heart's eye cry Locked deep away in the skies of our minds It's all in the mind
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Re: Slowly but surely getting over my life long phobia of females [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
#22181421 - 09/03/15 12:34 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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OP are you nervous around your mother?
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Re: Slowly but surely getting over my life long phobia of females [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
#22181431 - 09/03/15 12:36 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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MagicalOrangutan said: I still say confidence comes from experience and maybe being a pompous douche lol. Either way the best way to build confidence is to get numb to rejection
Bingo. What i was going to say. I've fucked up so god damn much. But you only really need one to say yes. It was a lot of trial error and I'm still doing it at 24
I just love talking to pretty girls so i keep doing it.
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Re: Slowly but surely getting over my life long phobia of females [Re: MagicalOrangutan] 1
#22181441 - 09/03/15 12:42 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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MagicalOrangutan said: Either way the best way to build confidence is to get numb to rejection
This is wrong as well.
Confidence isn't not caring about what people say/do/think of you. Confidence is having a good opinion of yourself and believing in your own worth. You can go and ask 100 women out and get rejected and not give a fuck, but as long as you're still thinking your hair makes you less desirable, you aren't being confident.
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With my face against the floor I can’t see who knocked me out of the way. I don’t want to get back up but I have to so it might as well be today. Nothing appeals to me no one feels like me, I’m too busy being calm to disappear. I’m in no shape to be alone contrary to the shit that you might hear. You can't wake up, this is not a dream. You're part of a machine, you are not a human being With your face all made up, living on a screen. Low on self esteem, so you run on gasoline
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Re: Slowly but surely getting over my life long phobia of females [Re: Shroomslip]
#22181446 - 09/03/15 12:43 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Shroomslip said:
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MagicalOrangutan said: Either way the best way to build confidence is to get numb to rejection
This is wrong as well.
Confidence isn't not caring about what people say/do/think of you. Confidence is having a good opinion of yourself and believing in your own worth. You can go and ask 100 women out and get rejected and not give a fuck, but as long as you're still thinking your hair makes you less desirable, you aren't being confident.
Well said. I was going to comment on that but I wasn't sure how to put it in words
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Re: Slowly but surely getting over my life long phobia of females [Re: Kush_Zombie]
#22181461 - 09/03/15 12:55 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Kush_Zombie said:
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SweetLeafSamadhi said:
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MagicalOrangutan said: Well I'm not sure how things are gonna work with me and my current girlfriend so basically I might consider looking for a new one soon or at least a good fuck buddy.
First I'd have to build the confidence to approach girls. I'm already making progress. I tell a woman who's physicallymy type that she's beautiful/gorgeous all the time now lol. I know that's probably not a good way to hit on them because they don't like getting physical compliments all the time but it's making me less and less scared to approach them.
Just a few months ago I couldn't even say a word to a cute girl I was so terrified lol. Now it's really not even nerve racking in any way to make small talk or compliment them.
Practice makes perfect..and the only way to get over your fears is to face them. Now granted I'm not particularly attractive to women and the chances of any of them actually wanting a 5'9 a non-stop glorious hair sporting guy with fairly average facial features-other than the fucked up slutty crazy girls who are basically dumps for all the genetically defective sperm in America- are very slim realistically speaking based on my experience and observations of people. But dammit this is getting to be like the lottery, the chances are slim but it's addicting to keep trying lol. If that comparison makes sense.
I guess that's the right way to think about this subject matter..it's like the lottery. It's always fun and a little exciting to try even if you know the odds are massively against you lol
Your post was pretty positive vibes until bolded/underlined, so maybe a bit of reframing the situation.
Focus on improving yourself each day -- if someone is not attracted to you on a particular day, treat it as their loss because you're just going to keep getting better and they missed their chance.
Focus on who you are, and to fuck with people who are caught up in what people look like.
Good luck to you either way. 
your signature goes beautifully with this advice 
 My signature mostly exists to distract people from the fact that my posts generally contribute nothing of real worth, but great catch.
It could have been even more comical if you were familiar with my appearance -- scruffy as hell with dreadlocks down past my waist.
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Re: Slowly but surely getting over my life long phobia of females [Re: Tantrika]
#22181464 - 09/03/15 12:57 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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SweetLeafSamadhi said: scruffy as hell with dreadlocks down past my waist. 
Those are the best kinds of people
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Re: Slowly but surely getting over my life long phobia of females [Re: Shroomslip]
#22181486 - 09/03/15 01:08 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Shroomslip said:
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MagicalOrangutan said: Either way the best way to build confidence is to get numb to rejection
This is wrong as well.
Confidence isn't not caring about what people say/do/think of you. Confidence is having a good opinion of yourself and believing in your own worth. You can go and ask 100 women out and get rejected and not give a fuck, but as long as you're still thinking your hair makes you less desirable, you aren't being confident.
Yep
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Re: Slowly but surely getting over my life long phobia of females [Re: Enjoywho]
#22181498 - 09/03/15 01:14 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Shit just today we had fuck all to do in packaging. So went up to this shaker girl cute as fuck because why the fuck not? And she's gonna hint to the other cute ass girl as they went to high school together. I love talkin to a pretty girl since i started. Love it and ill continue doing it.
I've already fucked 2 of the girls there. Fucking why not.
-------------------- "I don't give nothin' to nobody, I just pay the cost to do business." - Riley "Young Reezy"-Boondocks "The road to hell is paved with good intentions." "In the days of kings and queens I was a jester." "And then the great lord created bears... too many bears... shoulda really dialed back on the bears." Squidbillies "Can you start speaking words instead of your damn filthy lies!"- Louise "Bobs Burgers"
Edited by Enjoywho (09/03/15 01:16 AM)
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