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Patlal
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Re: So I need some sort of dating explanation about this...... [Re: Baraktai]
#22179062 - 09/02/15 05:04 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Fuck the betas. Let them have the leftovers.
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Re: So I need some sort of dating explanation about this...... [Re: Patlal]
#22179145 - 09/02/15 05:25 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Find your own woman.
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Re: So I need some sort of dating explanation about this...... [Re: Capers]
#22179185 - 09/02/15 05:33 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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beta/alpha is fucking stupid
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Capers
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Re: So I need some sort of dating explanation about this...... [Re: luvdemboomers] 1
#22179199 - 09/02/15 05:37 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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All this shit about the "game" in general is stupid. Just be yourself, use common sense, and talk it over with friends if you have to. Not that I'm a dating guru or anything, but god damn.
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Patlal
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Re: So I need some sort of dating explanation about this...... [Re: luvdemboomers]
#22179207 - 09/02/15 05:39 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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luvdemboomers said: beta/alpha is fucking stupid
Clearly you're a beta.
No it's not stupid. It's nature.
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Patlal
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Re: So I need some sort of dating explanation about this...... [Re: Capers]
#22179214 - 09/02/15 05:39 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Capers said: All this shit about the "game" in general is stupid. Just be yourself, use common sense, and talk it over with friends if you have to. Not that I'm a dating guru or anything, but god damn.
No it's not bullshit. It's the way it is.
Nobody wants to do it. Nobody likes it.
And yet... everybody does it.
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Re: So I need some sort of dating explanation about this...... [Re: Patlal] 1
#22179229 - 09/02/15 05:42 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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No offense, but if you knew anything about dating you wouldn't be asking for advice on The Shroomery.
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DTCharlieB
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Re: So I need some sort of dating explanation about this...... [Re: Capers]
#22179240 - 09/02/15 05:44 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Tip fishing?
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luvdemboomers
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Re: So I need some sort of dating explanation about this...... [Re: Patlal]
#22179255 - 09/02/15 05:46 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Patlal said:
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Capers said: All this shit about the "game" in general is stupid. Just be yourself, use common sense, and talk it over with friends if you have to. Not that I'm a dating guru or anything, but god damn.
No it's not bullshit. It's the way it is.
Nobody wants to do it. Nobody likes it.
And yet... everybody does it.
Ok mr alpha I'm a beta and you are the almighty alpha professor pussy
That make you feel good?
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Re: So I need some sort of dating explanation about this...... [Re: Patlal]
#22179263 - 09/02/15 05:48 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Patlal said: I've been going to this restaurant for a while now and me and the waitress have been chatting. I think she's cute so today I decided to ask her out for coffee.
Here's the conversation:
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Me/her: blablablabla, restaurant chit chat
Me: So I was wondering, would you like to go out for coffee sometime?
Her: Sure I could, I have a boyfriend though
Me: Oh.. Well, boyfriend was the position I was going for here.
Her: Awww, well I'd like to go for coffee with you
Me: Um ok... Here's my phone number then...
So What's going on here? I was clear about me wanting to be her boyfriend and yet in the end she still wants to go for coffee despite the fact that she's taken....
Am I stupid here or does shit don't really add up? Is that a sign that she wants to break up wwith her BF or soemthing? WTF?
She's considering you for the rebound. There's a high possibility she may leave her boyfriend for you, but there's also a high possibility she'd do the same thing to you.
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Re: So I need some sort of dating explanation about this...... [Re: luvdemboomers] 2
#22179275 - 09/02/15 05:49 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Dude, he's in the position to possibly buy coffee for another dude's girlfriend. He's clearly alpha.
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Re: So I need some sort of dating explanation about this...... [Re: twighead]
#22179289 - 09/02/15 05:52 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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twighead said:
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Patlal said: Whatever. What's the normal dating game thing with this. Wait max 3 days to give a sign of life?
So I'll wait 3 days and update... Stupid fucking game, but everybody plays it...
Come on where's your instincts?
Tune into the testosterone you robot!
Really, don't do the dumb waiting shit. Good way to be forgotten.
I forgot to say in the last post, her not wanting to hurt your feelings is a possibility too, but I kind of doubt it because she continued to offer instead of letting you just move on from it as most girls would do.
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Re: So I need some sort of dating explanation about this...... [Re: Baraktai]
#22179306 - 09/02/15 05:55 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Baraktai said:
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Patlal said: Whatever. What's the normal dating game thing with this. Wait max 3 days to give a sign of life?
So I'll wait 3 days and update... Stupid fucking game, but everybody plays it...
Say thank you for beta males who are buying drinks and doing everything for women. Because of them you must "play dating game". Even 3 days is not so long. Contacting after 5 days will be way better. However, let me leave here some flirting tips for you guys. So, the best way to flirt is to chaff and turn the tables. Pretend as if she wanted to pick up you and joke about it. Go here - flirting tips for men for examples. You can learn them by heart or modify them to be sure that it's original and only you use it. It's also the best way to find out if this girl you are talking with have a sense of humor and a distance to herself. If she doesn't take offence then it's ok. If she does take offence - that's ok too! With such a person you would only torment and you would also need to mind your words all the time. It's her problem, not yours.
Bad advice. She's open to possibilities. You want to stay a possibility while it's fresh. More men will come in 5 days, guaranteed.
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Patlal
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Re: So I need some sort of dating explanation about this...... [Re: Capers]
#22179307 - 09/02/15 05:55 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Capers said: No offense, but if you knew anything about dating you wouldn't be asking for advice on The Shroomery. 
I'm not afraid to ask for advice. Everybody has n opinion, some of them smarter than my own.
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Patlal
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Re: So I need some sort of dating explanation about this...... [Re: luvdemboomers]
#22179317 - 09/02/15 05:57 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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luvdemboomers said:
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Patlal said:
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Capers said: All this shit about the "game" in general is stupid. Just be yourself, use common sense, and talk it over with friends if you have to. Not that I'm a dating guru or anything, but god damn.
No it's not bullshit. It's the way it is.
Nobody wants to do it. Nobody likes it.
And yet... everybody does it.
Ok mr alpha I'm a beta and you are the almighty alpha professor pussy
That make you feel good?
It does. Even if the comment was 50000% sarcastic, you still wrote it down for everyone to see. Now kneel vassal!
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Re: So I need some sort of dating explanation about this...... [Re: Capers]
#22179349 - 09/02/15 06:04 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Capers said: Dude, he's in the position to possibly buy coffee for another dude's girlfriend. He's clearly alpha.
Not necessarily. I knew a girl who would pull a similar stunt. Instead of the guy buying her coffee, her & the boyfriend would take their cash, car or other valuables. They were never arrested for this and pulled it probably a dozen or more times.
Eventually they stopped when her boyfriend got a job making ~$250,000 a year.
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Re: So I need some sort of dating explanation about this...... [Re: D.M.T]
#22179381 - 09/02/15 06:11 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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are we still talking about this? She is bull penning you. you might get to come in and pitch relief, or maybe not. depends on the performance of her current bf.
This is similar to your other thread about the roommate who went back to her bf. Same deal. she called you into the game because the other dude was fucking up. He got his act together or whatever and he's back. He's the starter, you are the relief pitcher. This is a simple concept, and is for sure the reality of your situation.
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Re: So I need some sort of dating explanation about this...... [Re: Patlal]
#22179393 - 09/02/15 06:14 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Patlal said:
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luvdemboomers said: beta/alpha is fucking stupid
Clearly you're a beta.
No it's not stupid. It's nature.
You asked the interwebs if you should wait 3 days to contact a girl 
If you don't know what to naturally do, with your own style.... you're basically a Gamma... cause at least betas have the weird passive-aggressive instincts down... what have you got m8? Nothing!
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Patlal
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Re: So I need some sort of dating explanation about this...... [Re: twighead]
#22179431 - 09/02/15 06:21 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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twighead said:
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Patlal said:
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luvdemboomers said: beta/alpha is fucking stupid
Clearly you're a beta.
No it's not stupid. It's nature.
You asked the interwebs if you should wait 3 days to contact a girl 
She has 3 days to contact me. Not the other way around. I gave her my number. Did you read the thread?
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Re: So I need some sort of dating explanation about this...... [Re: Patlal]
#22179506 - 09/02/15 06:34 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Either way, who follows rules like that?
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