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Srirachi
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Take it from someone who enjoys a high end hooker once in a while - prostitutes are as good at filling the need for companionship as a can of soup.
You don't hire hookers because you're lonely. If you do, you'll be more broke and more lonely than before. A good woman is hard to find, because a.) It's fun to look for her and b.) It's totally worth it once you find her. If every woman was "a good one" then men would be falling for every girl they meet.
The beauty of a hooker is that it is a type of sex you can't have any other way than by paying for it. When you're with your wife, girlfriend, mistress, or any other woman with whom you have anything other than a business relationship, some part of you is focused on her enjoyment.
With a hooker, they neither expect nor want you to please them. You're paying for it, it's yours for an hour. There is absolutely no need to worry about her because she got what she wanted when she walked through the door. You're free to just do what you want and not think about whether or not it is good for her.
It's all you 
However, that doesn't do a thing for that longing that true companionship fills.
Stop being so worried about the bullshit. Don't be afraid to fail so you're free to succeed. Find a woman, love her, get your heart broken and go on. The pain is worth the adventure.
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Your post doesn't make sense you don't want a girlfriend because all they want are free dinners and sex... Your seeking a Hooker so obviously you want sex, and you willing to pay for it, ( more than a nice meal would cost) so I think the real point in your post is your telling us your getting a hooker because you can't get a gf... And ps so many low lifes and creeps bang hookers, so the chance of hooker having an std over a regular female are astronomical
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Mr. Material
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Anonymous said: Your post doesn't make sense you don't want a girlfriend because all they want are free dinners and sex... Your seeking a Hooker so obviously you want sex, and you willing to pay for it, ( more than a nice meal would cost) so I think the real point in your post is your telling us your getting a hooker because you can't get a gf... And ps so many low lifes and creeps bang hookers, so the chance of hooker having an std over a regular female are astronomical
I'm saying there isn't really a difference between the women I've been wih and 'hookers'. Hookers don't lie, so I'm seriously wondering if it's best to cut my losses and just hire hookers.
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Srirachi said: Take it from someone who enjoys a high end hooker once in a while - prostitutes are as good at filling the need for companionship as a can of soup.
You don't hire hookers because you're lonely. If you do, you'll be more broke and more lonely than before. A good woman is hard to find, because a.) It's fun to look for her and b.) It's totally worth it once you find her. If every woman was "a good one" then men would be falling for every girl they meet.
The beauty of a hooker is that it is a type of sex you can't have any other way than by paying for it. When you're with your wife, girlfriend, mistress, or any other woman with whom you have anything other than a business relationship, some part of you is focused on her enjoyment.
With a hooker, they neither expect nor want you to please them. You're paying for it, it's yours for an hour. There is absolutely no need to worry about her because she got what she wanted when she walked through the door. You're free to just do what you want and not think about whether or not it is good for her.
It's all you 
However, that doesn't do a thing for that longing that true companionship fills.
Stop being so worried about the bullshit. Don't be afraid to fail so you're free to succeed. Find a woman, love her, get your heart broken and go on. The pain is worth the adventure.
That's what I'm doing and it sucks because that's all I'm coming across.
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Patlal
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I never went the prostitute's way. It creeps me out. Then again, it's in a legal gray zone up here. I thinking pimping is illegal but whorehouses aren't. Prostitution is legal, but hiring one is illegal or whatever. gray zone
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MagicMush123
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Re: Sex Work [Re: Patlal]
#22169910 - 08/31/15 04:24 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Not a Gray zone, law changed from charing the prostitute, to charging the Jon... Still illegal, protects no one
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Well keep in mind that quality with females who want compensation for their time cost more and the best have regular clients. Be prepared to spend around 300 a full hour for a good one or pay for the whole night.
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i like cow poo
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You're one fucked up dude.
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empty space
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I'm glad that you don't want a relationship. Now my future kids won't have to grow up in the same generation as your fucked up offspring. Just don't knock up a hooker because then you'll lose your health and money plus everyone will hate you for being a shitty parent, more so than just for being a shitty person.
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MagicMush123
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You guys shouldnt be so mean to him
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Konyap

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pimps are so stupid at least with a brothel the girls are in control and you don't have to deal with emo bullshit or guilt lol
freedom means banging anyone you want
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TEAMSESH
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Re: Sex Work [Re: Konyap]
#22171435 - 08/31/15 09:37 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Get on a dating app. Some girls say " if you're looking for a hook up then don't message me" In some cases its the exact opposite. They just chosey.
girls like trill . You gotta take them for a ride on the wild side.
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Mr. Material
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MagicMush123 said: You guys shouldnt be so mean to him
Yeah, I don't get where the static is coming from. 
I've just had a fucked up experience; just because I haven't had a fucking fairy tale relationship filled with fairy dust it makes me a "bad guy". Maybe they're angry because I'm hitting a nerve?
I'm just calling it like I see it.
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Mr. Material
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i like cow poo said: You're one fucked up dude.
You know you'd buy one.
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Tomandjerry58
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idk bro... ive bought a prostitute ...maybe she just didnt suck that great..pun intended:P edit:>>> horrible pun cause ive been drainkin
The trick is finding that one that's just a real freak in the sack...maybe thats your problem. YOu have no idea how to look for the freaks
But I know horrible looking deuds that score some real winners...hard to believe peeps cant catch on to this
Edited by Tomandjerry58 (09/01/15 12:19 AM)
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koraks
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Mr. Material said:
I've just had a fucked up experience; just because I haven't had a fucking fairy tale relationship filled with fairy dust it makes me a "bad guy". Maybe they're angry because I'm hitting a nerve?
Speaking for myself I just find you slightly pathetic in that you seem to generalize your views to all women and relationships. And to be honest, I doubt if the origin of these views of yours are the wrong women you've dated or (also) the way you viewed women when you started dating. Either way, I can guarantee you that you won't get much out of your relationships with the attitude you're currently displaying here. I'm confident your views will change at some point, but at 27, you're a bit slow on the uptake, that's for sure. Most guys shape up a few years earlier, but we're not all the same. Either way, you'll find that it just works better if you're a bit more constructive in your views. And sure, you have to have a little luck with the women you meet as well, but there's so goddamn many of them that you're bound to get lucky at some point if you give it a serious try.
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Mr. Material
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Re: Sex Work [Re: koraks]
#22173103 - 09/01/15 09:06 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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koraks said:
Speaking for myself I just find you slightly pathetic in that you seem to generalize your views to all women and relationships.
Not generalize; quantify. No, and not to "all women" - but ALL WOMEN that I've met.
Do you know how expensive these dates can get?
I've been on 5 dates in the past month.
They costed on average between $60-120 bucks. Nothing fancy.
I paid for everything, because if I don't that would break tradition and society would collapse (and worse... I would be called "cheap").
So I go on multiple dates with these chicks and they're like: 
Then they poof and text me every once in a while.
Then, there are girls that don't even want to date, they just want to fuck.
One asked me to fuck her boyfriend and then fuck her (and I was just wanting to go for coffee).
So it's like, I have a choice to buy asexual robotic women free meals for fun, OR have hookups with girls that are down to fuck random dudes and risk AIDS.
This has been THE WHOLE of my dating experience!
So I come to the internet for advice, thinking that my experience might be common. Apparently it isn't? Maybe it's because I live in a small town (30,000) and I've exhausted all of my resources to find women (in my age range). It's all numbers man.
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i like cow poo
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I was referring to when you said you didn't care if they were sex slaves
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Mr. Material
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preschooler said: ive been drainkin
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Mr. Material
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.;.l;.l,l
Edited by Mr. Material (09/01/15 10:42 AM)
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Srirachi
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You don't. That's what makes it so magical when you find a relationship that works.
This is why I said you should care less. If I can pick up on your effeminate whininess over the internet, imagine how easy it is for those chicks who date you to pick up on it. Hence, the one date and occasional pity texts pattern.
Females, back me up on this: The single most unattractive thing in the world is a man who complains/whines/is generally negative.
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