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Mr. Material
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Sex Work 2
#22167066 - 08/30/15 10:40 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Does anybody here hire prostitutes?
I'm 27. I've never had a "girlfriend" and I've never been in an "official" relationship before in my life. I'm done.
I don't even want a relationship anymore. The only thing that keeps people together is sex and money anyways.
I'm thinking that I'll just sleep with sex workers until I die.
It's not that bad. I can focus on fitness and my career.
It's not paying for sex, it's paying to have these women tested.
Who else agrees?
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sprinkles
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i think you should get a life. and a girlfriend.
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RainyWA



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I agree. Bone da hoes
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Mr. Material
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sprinkles said: and a girlfriend.
Why?
There was a time where I wanted one, but all of these women are out here juggling dick. I would rather keep my health, sanity and most importantly, my money.
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sprinkles
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whatever. Make it sound like you cant get one because you dont want one. I'll believe that.
you're gonna spend MONEY either way. And since you admittedly have never had a girlfriend how do you know how expensive they are? Anyway good luck. I've been in love before with men Ive been in relationships with. I dont enjoy pain so I have considered never being in another relationship again, but who stops dating at 34? It's feels like being a widow who never even wants to look at another man again ever.
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Arctic W. Fox


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Mr. Material said: I'm 27. I've never had a "girlfriend" and I've never been in an "official" relationship before in my life. I'm done.
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Perhaps the biggest concern of clients who face charges or violating Penal Code § 647(b) is whether they will need to register as a sex offender under Penal Code § 290. It is not required. However, the judge has discretion to impose such a lifetime registration requirement if the judge finds that the client engaged in (or agreed to engage in or solicited another to engage in) prostitution “as a result of sexual compulsion or for sexual gratification.”
It's your life. Jail time for ten days, thirty days, ninety days, with a possible record of being a sex offender.
Personally, I'd concentrate on getting another PhD, instead, and find the best woman in the world later in life to live happily ever after with.
Maybe you can only think with your pecker, though?
And... prostitutes can remove you of your health, sanity and money all in one shot. Feeling lucky?
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Mr. Material
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sprinkles said: Make it sound like you cant get one because you dont want one.
I used to want one. After a lot of the same, I don't anymore.
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you're gonna spend MONEY either way.
Again, why? Why not go dutch? If I have to pay, I'd rather spend my money well and pay for a back massage with a happy ending.
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I dont enjoy pain so I have considered never being in another relationship again, but who stops dating at 34?
Dude, that's kind of late to continue looking. If you have a kid at 35, you'll be 55 when they're 20. That's old. Why do you even want a relationship if it's mainly about fucking anyways?
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Mr. Material
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Arctic W. Fox said:
Personally, I'd concentrate on getting another PhD, instead, and find the best woman in the world later in life to live happily ever after with.
Maybe you can only think with your pecker, though?
I wish I was asexual honestly; that way I can focus on higher aspirations in life, (like you said) but I am combating my ANIMAL BIOLOGY and it's impossible.
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koraks
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Maybe it'll get a little easier if you manage to shed that truckload of assumptions and prejudices you seem to be carrying along. For starters: Not all women are interested in your money. Stop dating/approaching the wrong people. 35 is a fine age to become a father. So is 40. There's no hurry.
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Mr. Material
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Re: Sex Work [Re: koraks]
#22168142 - 08/31/15 08:49 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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koraks said: Maybe it'll get a little easier if you manage to shed that truckload of assumptions and prejudices you seem to be carrying along. For starters: Not all women are interested in your money. Stop dating/approaching the wrong people. 35 is a fine age to become a father. So is 40. There's no hurry.
Maybe it's this shitty small border town I live in?
It's just been my experience that you're judged by your job, clothes etc.
They don't know how much I have saved up or what I plan to do with that money, and I'm not going to tell them.
It seems like people are less interested in actually getting to know someone, and either just want to fuck, or have a free meal.
Edited by Mr. Material (08/31/15 09:14 AM)
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Mr. Material
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Arctic W. Fox said:
Personally, I'd concentrate on getting another PhD, instead, and find the best woman in the world later in life to live happily ever after with.
... then one day she wakes up and decides that she isn't 'happy' anymore, cheats on you with the pool boy and then takes everything in the divorce.
You almost got me there for a minute!
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Dawks
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Mr. Material said: Does anybody here hire prostitutes?
Not recently but of course. The best thing about using prostitutes (as I'm sure you know) is that you can have sex on your own terms.
In a relationship sex usually requires some degree of compromise such as matching schedules, mood and kinks with your partner. Then there is the possibility that your partner might not share your kinks OR be unable/unwilling to provide for your specific interest (4 way m-f-f-f, for instance).
Using prostitutes allows you to simply walk into a brothel or call up an escort agency whenever and however it suits you and get your freak on.
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Mr. Material said: I'm 27. I've never had a "girlfriend" and I've never been in an "official" relationship before in my life. I'm done.
You really should give it a try.
Sex is great and all but there really is much more to relationships than just sex. If all you want is just sex, then I agree, stick with the professionals HOWEVER I'm sure you'll be bored with it eventually.
Being in a relationship involves giving, rather than just taking. Sharing pleasure rather than reviving it. Sharing in life's adventures.
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Mr. Material
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Re: Sex Work [Re: Dawks] 1
#22168314 - 08/31/15 09:59 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Thanks.
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Dawks said:
In a relationship sex usually requires some degree of compromise such as matching schedules, mood and kinks with your partner. Then there is the possibility that your partner might not share your kinks OR be unable/unwilling to provide for your specific interest (4 way m-f-f-f, for instance).
You really should give it a try.
Sex is great and all but there really is much more to relationships than just sex. If all you want is just sex, then I agree, stick with the professionals HOWEVER I'm sure you'll be bored with it eventually.
Being in a relationship involves giving, rather than just taking. Sharing pleasure rather than reviving it. Sharing in life's adventures.
Dude! This sounds like a fairy tale. I work a rotating shift. I've had women stop "dating" me because of my work schedule.
She followed me to work because she thought that I was fucking someone else because I wasn't fucking her.
So unless I'm paying for a free meal or fucking them, they don't stay.
If I want to snuggle and watch a movie with them, they'll suddenly have something that they need to do. It's been like that with all of them.
The modern woman just wants to either fuck, or take your money.
That's it.
It's like they're voids that can never be filled (satisfied), because they can never have enough.
At least with sex workers you get an even exchange.
Some of them even talk to you.
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i like cow poo
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As long as they're not sex slaves I think it's OK. I'd be worried about stds. Yes most women are a pain in the ass but there are some good ones. Why not just watch HD porn?
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Mr. Material
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I'm thinking that focusing on my money and getting abs, grooming a fucking prostitutes will get me a lot farther in life than dealing with these malicious women out here juggling dick. 
I taught myself Spanish. I'm learning French, Portugese and Arabic.
Eventually, I can leave the country and buy women from different places.
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Mr. Material
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i like cow poo said: Why not just watch HD porn?
I have a high sex drive. You know it's not the same dude! 
At the end of the day, I like good company.
I would just like to chill with a chick, go on trips, and fuck.
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You sound like Just For Today
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Mr. Material
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Tripsurfer said: You sound like Just For Today
That guy is a douche.
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Tomandjerry58
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sounds like you want a gf tho ever had a bj from prostitute? not that great really....somebody that is attracted to you can do way better!
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Mr. Material
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i like cow poo said: As long as they're not sex slaves I think it's OK. I'd be worried about stds.
There is no way to tell if they're slaves or not and I don't care.
We're all slaves to something at the end of the day.
It's the same risk sleeping with women who are not sex workers.
At least the prostitute get's tested.
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