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Moonshoe
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Re: How do I meet a sober girl? [Re: GoldenEye]
#22169398 - 08/31/15 02:27 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Church is the best way you can find. If you are christian and want to date a christian. christian dating sites are also numerous.
Lots of single christians out there looking for other single christians.
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Re: How do I meet a sober girl? [Re: Moonshoe]
#22169407 - 08/31/15 02:28 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Or you could become muslim and have the brothers arrange a marriage for you!
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Re: How do I meet a sober girl? [Re: GoldenEye]
#22169414 - 08/31/15 02:30 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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GoldenEye said: Or you could become muslim and have the brothers arrange a marriage for you!
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Re: How do I meet a sober girl? [Re: GoldenEye] 2
#22169425 - 08/31/15 02:32 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Giftofdeprivation
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Re: How do I meet a sober girl? [Re: GoldenEye]
#22169443 - 08/31/15 02:35 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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That's so offensive!
*gasp* SHOULDER???!!!!
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Re: How do I meet a sober girl? [Re: GoldenEye] 3
#22169479 - 08/31/15 02:44 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Pretty sure I just found my new fetish.
*faps away!*
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Christian dating sites are hilarious to me.
Oh, there are so few Christians in the world now that they feel the need to make a website dedicated to Christians who cannot find lovers, probably due to their foolish beliefs.
I am being mean but it is the truth.
Unless your Christian.
Sorry.
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85% of my friends and potential girlfriends are all drug users. I just don't seem to associate with people who just don't do drugs. Drugs are such a big thing in my area so chances are that random prospective partner you know nothing about and have just sparked a conversation with is a drug user.. 
Your best bet of not meeting a drug user is not going to raves, festivals, and clubs and going to somewhere like a museum, library, or some other uptight place like that.
And also you can go to like a church or an republican/conservative club or maybe a christian dating sight like the dude above just said. God knows all of them are prudes
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Moonshoe
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Re: How do I meet a sober girl? [Re: Janky Tits]
#22169542 - 08/31/15 02:56 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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For me having a wife who enjoys smoking flower and the occasional drink and even roll is a big part of our happiness together. I would not want a sober wife, although that would be much better then an alcoholic one. Me and my wife share many interests and passions including smoking flower and very occasionally rolling and dancing. We met that way and it really set the tone for our whole relationship as a very loving, fun, free spirited one.
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Re: How do I meet a sober girl? [Re: Moonshoe]
#22169554 - 08/31/15 02:58 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Moonshoe said: For me having a wife who enjoys smoking flower and the occasional drink and even roll is a big part of our happiness together. I would not want a sober wife, although that would be much better then an alcoholic one. Me and my wife share many interests and passions including smoking flower and very occasionally rolling and dancing. We met that way and it really set the tone for our whole relationship as a very loving, fun, free spirited one.
Couldn't agree more. I don't think I'd ever date someone who doesn't do drugs or even more specifically rolls. It sounds shallow but rolling is such a big thing for me and for my partner to do that if she doesn't do it then she isn't the oen for me
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Re: How do I meet a sober girl? [Re: Moonshoe]
#22169569 - 08/31/15 02:59 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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About the Christians on dating sites... They're not prudes man. They saved themselves for years and years. Once that ring is on that finger and the words I do have been spoken, it's baby after baby after baby after baby.
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Re: How do I meet a sober girl? [Re: Moonshoe] 1
#22169571 - 08/31/15 02:59 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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That sounds awesome Mantis.
As I said, don't seek what you cannot relate to.
Most people that have not gotten it don't get it.
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Re: How do I meet a sober girl? [Re: cosmicg] 1
#22169723 - 08/31/15 03:33 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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change your lifestyle, change your habits, don't seek but focus on what you're doing and your outside world will shift as well. the women you end up with are probably a reflection of the values you associate your life with.
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topdog82
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danielx said: The first comment nailed it. I know the NA/AA comments were partially jokes, but that's a terrible idea. AA woman will ruin your life, although it'll be fun for awhile.
Find interests that don't involve drugs. Maybe take some community college classes, yoga perhaps? You could also find an interest via meetup.com and try to meet like minded folks that way.
There is a reason you are only attractive drug addicts, self analyze to find the answer.
Make a serious effort to conversate with atleast one woman a day out and about. Even if its just a generic conversation about the weather while standing in line at the market, just get used to talking to woman outside of the party scene.
I know its easier to bang the drugged out babes, but you have to break free from that habit and meet normal woman in normal everyday situations.
I'm working on it myself.
very helpful and realistic idea. I will try this!
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Moonshoe said: Christian singles.com
Or walk up and down busy streets and ask passing girls "hi do you drink? No? Want to be my wife?"
seems legit
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cosmicg said: Look man, you may think that is what you want but you have to think for what reason do I want this. I have been with my girlfriend for five years now. She is straight-edge and I mess with everything under the sun.
We hooked up five years ago because she fell in love with the idea of saving me and I fell in love with the idea of being saved. Turns out in real life things just don't go that way unless you truly want them to.
A toxic relationship is just that...a relationship filled with toxicity.
We are still together because we own a house and several pets, but are we okay? I don't know. It's a day by day type thing.
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Giftofdeprivation said: It also depends on what you are looking for in a long term relationship.
Do you want someone attached to the hip, as an extension of yourself. Better with than without and all that?
Or do you like to sleep in separate beds, come together for dinner, and make with the sex from time to time.
It's also usually an age thing. People usually move towards the latter extreme with time.
probably the second. Relationships with girls at this age are retarded and over attached
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Re: How do I meet a sober girl? [Re: GoldenEye] 1
#22169851 - 08/31/15 04:10 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Addicts and dabblers go to church, too. Plus, the ones who go to church are typically better at hiding their extracurricular activities from the community (read: better at being sneaky and disingenuous). So church isn't a guaranteed place to find sober people. Honestly, nowhere is a 100% safe bet.
Sorry if this has already been covered; I can't be arsed to read the whole thread right now.
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Re: How do I meet a sober girl? [Re: sun_spots]
#22169893 - 08/31/15 04:19 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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sun_spots said: Addicts and dabblers go to church, too. Plus, the ones who go to church are typically better at hiding their extracurricular activities from the community (read: better at being sneaky and disingenuous). So church isn't a guaranteed place to find sober people. Honestly, nowhere is a 100% safe bet.
Sorry if this has already been covered; I can't be arsed to read the whole thread right now.
good point
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Re: How do I meet a sober girl? [Re: rackem]
#22204794 - 09/07/15 10:01 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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rackem said: aa meetings are by far the easiest way to get laid.
haha its frowned upon, i can totally see it though buncha broken ladies with addict brains
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Re: How do I meet a sober girl? [Re: thelanzii]
#22204811 - 09/07/15 10:03 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Ex female meth/ coke addicts look so withered and weird to me and always have high pitched mumbly voices.
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Re: How do I meet a sober girl? [Re: thelanzii]
#22204834 - 09/07/15 10:08 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Nemmies said:
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rackem said: aa meetings are by far the easiest way to get laid.
haha its frowned upon, i can totally see it though buncha broken ladies with addict brains
I might consider looking into this...
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