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#22164982 - 08/30/15 02:14 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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The past is history!
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone] 3
#22164986 - 08/30/15 02:17 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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she said that u dont take care of the baby, and instead of considering her perspective u said "the way u act is repulsive to me"?
thats a pretty bizarre reaction, telling ur lover that theyre repulsive like that
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#22164997 - 08/30/15 02:21 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Shouldnt have gotten that pint brah. You have a newborn now. I can do whatever the fuck i want i was careful to not have kids.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Sheekle] 1
#22164998 - 08/30/15 02:21 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I guess i should have mentioned, I was taking care of the baby... She just was looking for an excuse to argue...
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165003 - 08/30/15 02:22 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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thanks for your perspective guys. I feel guilty in a way too, but i just cant believe she called the 5-0. And the things she said to me... she really wanted to push me.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Sheekle] 1
#22165011 - 08/30/15 02:25 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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thats a pretty bizarre reaction, telling ur lover that theyre repulsive like that
What do you expect? Sounds to me like op was calling it how it was. If someone came at me sideways(the way she did) i'd call her out on her bullshittery too
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Enjoywho]
#22165012 - 08/30/15 02:26 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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And the whole "spend more time with the shroomery" bitch please. My ex and i consistently slept back to back. We'd wake up and snuggle eachother for a while than go back. Can't fuckin snuggle all night shit. Girls hair makes me itch a lot and i move around a lot while i sleep.
Ill cuddle you to sleep but time for me to roll over and pass out.
Its just the fact of knowing shes there. Give her a kiss on her shoulder even though she isn't awake to realize it but im sure she did the same. I love you.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone] 1
#22165016 - 08/30/15 02:26 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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My girl dont like the shroomery either. She pretty much dont like anything that takes my attention off her. What a selfish bitch. Best of luck to you man hope you get through.
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#22165026 - 08/30/15 02:29 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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You both sound like idiots.
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#22165028 - 08/30/15 02:31 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Also: did you mow the lawn or not?
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Mental Taco]
#22165035 - 08/30/15 02:32 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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We would lay in bed and dick around on our phones all day.
My girl before that when i was trying to explain why i come here thought i was hitting up bitches. Turned into this huge argument. Because this place is just so full of bitches. 
I dunno. I just like this site and it gives me a place to talk. I dunno
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Burke Dennings]
#22165041 - 08/30/15 02:33 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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It kinda sucks that no one near my area is into mycology as much as me. I always felt that learning this is a big passion to me but most people don't understand that passion.Quote:
Burke Dennings said: You both sound like idiots.
luckily for us there's righteous folks like you out there to point it out for us
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Sheekle]
#22165049 - 08/30/15 02:37 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Sorry to hear about what's going on. I have a newborn as well; three months in a few days. He's an easy baby, he only fusses at the normal 1900-2000 witching hour and when he's hungry. Even still it's a lot of work. I am the sole provider financially, but that doesn't mean I am off when I get home. My wife is off when I get home. From my own experience as an alchy I can sympathize. As a father and husband who pulled up his bootstraps I say it's time to man up. Put the booze down. Pick your kid up. Thank you for reminding me why I quit drinking. Taking accountability will change your life.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Burke Dennings]
#22165061 - 08/30/15 02:40 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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.Quote:
Burke Dennings said: You both sound like idiots.
My thoughts... I feel bad for the kid they just had.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165075 - 08/30/15 02:44 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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How old are the two of you? Me and my wife were pretty young when we had a baby. There was lots of fighting/arguing. Having a baby at a young age can really strain the hell out of a relationship. We hardly ever argue anymore though. For the child's sake I hope you two can "grow up" (no offense meant) and get through this.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: falsereality]
#22165079 - 08/30/15 02:44 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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My thoughts... I feel bad for the kid they just had.
To be honest, I never wanted a kid. Now Im realizing alot of things...
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Shroomslip]
#22165082 - 08/30/15 02:46 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Shroomslip said: How old are the two of you? Me and my wife were pretty young when we had a baby. There was lots of fighting/arguing. Having a baby at a young age can really strain the hell out of a relationship. We hardly ever argue anymore though. For the child's sake I hope you two can "grow up" (no offense meant) and get through this.
Im 25, shes 30. And IDK if I could ever "get through this". Im pretty sure its done... I just am still confused because everything was fine 24 hrs ago
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165085 - 08/30/15 02:47 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Perfect example of the matriarchy when it comes to the law OP.
Also, she just had a baby man. Estrogen makes them act fucking crazy. Anyone who says otherwise is in complete denial about how much our moods and emotions really are effected by hormonal balances. This even includes mental illness and hormones being related.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165087 - 08/30/15 02:48 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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shellzenone said:
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My thoughts... I feel bad for the kid they just had.
To be honest, I never wanted a kid. Now Im realizing alot of things...
Have you considered adoption?
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165096 - 08/30/15 02:51 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yeah that's a bit older than I imagined. If you two can't make it work at that age, kinda doubtful a few more years to temper the relationship is gonna change much.
And no, it probably wasn't fine 24 hours ago. Things like this don't just happen overnight. It's a powder keg that has been building for awhile now. You may have been unaware of it, but I can almost guarantee she wasn't. IMO/IME women tend to bottle shit up a lot more than men do. That's why everything seems fine one day and the next day you get blindsided.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165101 - 08/30/15 02:51 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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shellzenone said:
To be honest, I never wanted a kid. Now Im realizing alot of things...
I don't know what you meant by this and don't want to assume. Could you please elaborate?
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Burke Dennings]
#22165112 - 08/30/15 02:55 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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OP you drank a pint of vodka. You were hammered. We're only hearing your side of the story. Sorry for your shitty situation but I'll bet it's not as cut and dry as he tells it. I'll bet he doesn't remember half of what he said/did.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Shroomslip]
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Reminds me of my ol best friend and his toxic relationship geting into physical fights over petty shit
they dont have a kid yet, but its only a matter of time
I feel sorry for your son, growing up in a rough household sucks my parents used to physically beat each other and i used to be physically abused as a toddler
I wish the best for your son If you guys cant work it out and stop fighting itd be best to give the kid up for adoption or break off the relationship cause broken homes suck so so bad..
You brought him into this world hes your responsibility while he growing up to *hopefully* have a healthy happy life
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#22165115 - 08/30/15 02:55 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's not really about what was said by you or her. Doesn't matter who was right or wrong. What matters is that you're in a relationship where it's OK for physical abuse to take place.
Your relationship has become toxic, and I for one don't accept any form of violence in a relationship for it to be healthy. Much less viable.
I've been on the receiving end of domestic violence, and I can tell you that the first time a finger was laid on me was the last time I saw that woman. Thankfully we didn't have kids and went our separate ways.
Just do everything in your power to take care of that child. That's what's important right now and if you "didn't want a kid", shit, I don't know what to tell you.
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#22165118 - 08/30/15 02:56 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Mescalean said: Perfect example of the matriarchy when it comes to the law OP.
that must be why the cops wanted to take my ex wife to jail for domestic battery when she assaulted me and then called the cops to settle the argument, lol. it must also be why I have custody of my 2 kids. I am oppressed by the matriarchy!
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#22165131 - 08/30/15 03:00 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Mescalean said: Perfect example of the matriarchy when it comes to the law OP.
that must be why the cops wanted to take my ex wife to jail for domestic battery when she assaulted me and then called the cops to settle the argument, lol. it must also be why I have custody of my 2 kids. I am oppressed by the matriarchy!
You know damn well not everyone gets as lucky as you. "matriarchy" was more so me just being a smart ass. I also know you're far from what I would call a unfit parent. This is a position I would have expected crystal to defend lol.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Mescalean]
#22165150 - 08/30/15 03:07 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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that sucks
emo people suck the life out of you day after day
as do hard asses
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165151 - 08/30/15 03:07 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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shellzenone said: After the cops got there, got both sides of the story, saw the marks on my neck, they said I had to leave. What bullshit. I got kicked out of my house. I guess men don't have rights when it comes to domestic disputes.
You must live in a small town.
In my city someone has to go to jail if it involves any physical contact.
As a matter of fact, the police will take you to jail and charge you with domestic violence if your gf/wife "feels threatened".
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165153 - 08/30/15 03:08 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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She sounds like a bitch but you consistently reacted horribly to what she was doing. Maybe drop the liquor habit.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Webster10]
#22165182 - 08/30/15 03:16 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Just to clear things up, Yes i did drink, but my tolerance is high. I usually drink two pints within 4 hours to get drunk. It was just a pint i had. It was saturday night so i though "sure, why not?" I WASNT DRUNK! I would have gone to jail probably. And the only reason i didnt press charges was because I had a sack in my drawers. I dont even smoke but its been there for about a month and thought she would rat me out. I think she was just desperate for my attention, Ive been realy busy with work lately. She gets to stay home all day. Probably gets lonely.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Confucian]
#22165186 - 08/30/15 03:17 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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She used to work in the Police Department Dispatch... She knew what she was doing.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165187 - 08/30/15 03:18 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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shellzenone said:
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falsereality said:
My thoughts... I feel bad for the kid they just had.
To be honest, I never wanted a kid. Now Im realizing alot of things...
Doesn't matter if you wanted a child or not. You have one now. You gotta be there for your kid, no matter what. I'm sorry for the stuff that you're going through. I can relate in a lot of ways.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Space Elf]
#22165197 - 08/30/15 03:21 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Feels bad, OP.
Bitches are crazy and the man will always lose in a DV. Even when the female is culpable, the charges are always almost dropped or greatly reduced.
The legal system is sexist.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Space Elf]
#22165198 - 08/30/15 03:22 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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You'll be back together within 1 day.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone] 2
#22165220 - 08/30/15 03:31 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Plant a bunch of meth on her and call the cops and get your baby back
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Prisoner#1]
#22165230 - 08/30/15 03:33 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Mescalean said: Perfect example of the matriarchy when it comes to the law OP.
that must be why the cops wanted to take my ex wife to jail for domestic battery when she assaulted me and then called the cops to settle the argument, lol. it must also be why I have custody of my 2 kids. I am oppressed by the matriarchy!
Could you go into further details as to how she assaulted you, what led to it and how you explained it to the cops?
Cause you know, all the cops have to do is take a look at your dick and see that you are carrying a dangerous weapon
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Patlal]
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Is that true?
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#22165245 - 08/30/15 03:37 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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"She gets to stay home all day" I don't want to attack you, but you are making it very hard not to comment on your ignorance. It appears that you cannot fathom the responsibility of parenthood, therefore you do not respect or appreciate her appropriately.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night... [Re: SkagitHunter]
#22165257 - 08/30/15 03:40 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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What i meant to say was that she might feel like im not around because she stays home and I work monday-saturday and even sundays when I have to.
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shellzenone said: Just to clear things up, Yes i did drink, but my tolerance is high. I usually drink two pints within 4 hours to get drunk. It was just a pint i had. It was saturday night so i though "sure, why not?" I WASNT DRUNK! I would have gone to jail probably. And the only reason i didnt press charges was because I had a sack in my drawers. I dont even smoke but its been there for about a month and thought she would rat me out. I think she was just desperate for my attention, Ive been realy busy with work lately. She gets to stay home all day. Probably gets lonely.
Oh okay, you only drank a pint and not two, so you were being responsible that night.. The fact that you 'weren't drunk' from a pint of vodka and you need to drink two to get hammered means you're a pretty big alcoholic.
You're probably too fucking smashed all the time to even realize how horrible you are to live with. And whoever said you probably don't even remember half the shit you said or did is right.
I hope you can work through all of this and still be there for your child, whether you and your g/f actually split up for good or not. I think your perspective has been warped, and is going to continue to be warped on everything that happens until you stop letting the alcohol cloud it and get some help. You've got a kid man.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165286 - 08/30/15 03:51 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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shellzenone said: What i meant to say was that she might feel like im not around because she stays home and I work monday-saturday and even sundays when I have to.
I'm sure it has to do with you not being there when you ARE home. It is no longer about you bro.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Midnight_Toker]
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Ok, I guess im misleading you all. I guess a pint is alot more than what i actually drank. It was a small $3 bottle, the smallest they sell! and i drank it over a 6 hour span and also had dinner! My point is i wasnt drunk. and I usually drink on weekends only. So if that makes me an alcoholic then i guess i am. But I still manage to go to work everyday, pay my bills, and am taking courses in accounting.
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Im glad to read all your feed back, its very much appreciated. I realize that im not always right, but the problem is, she never considers my view. She always assumes her point of view is the only one. She's never tripped. She's never experianced ego death like i have. I try to consider her in every way, but I also have to put my foot down. One only gets as much respect as he demands.
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#22165318 - 08/30/15 03:59 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I don't know if I agree with that really, people who need to demand respect get very little from me - people who believe that there is no reason for me not to respect them and act accordingly however do get it 
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: twighead]
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well i grew up in correctional institutions.
It sucks because I felt like everything was coming together with our newborn, my job, and her...
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: twighead]
#22165359 - 08/30/15 04:08 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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And now your story changes from one pint over 4 hours to one little bottle over 6. Sorry dude but seems like your trying to manipulate the story to get us on your side.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: WyoMX]
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To be fair, maybe you should re-read the OP. It's stated right there at the beginning of the story it was over a 6 hour period.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone] 2
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Shroomslip]
#22165380 - 08/30/15 04:16 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Ya you're right I got confused another one of his posts said he normally drank 2 over 4 hours my mistake. Either way I hope things end up ok for all three parties involved.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shLong]
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she's the type of person to hold on to grudges. She has a strong ego. She never gets out of her head. I dont think she'll ever reallize how much i tried. In her head, I was probably just trying to avoid her to talk to some other chick. In my reality, I was just tired and really interested in what i was reading at the time. Thats why i was distant. Thats why this whole thing started.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: WyoMX]
#22165403 - 08/30/15 04:22 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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WyoMX said: And now your story changes from one pint over 4 hours to one little bottle over 6. Sorry dude but seems like your trying to manipulate the story to get us on your side.
Im open to all feedback. These next few days will be life changing for me. I dont want to come off as an attention seeker. Im genuinely wondering what I'm going to do next. I made the mistake of saying a pint because that detail didn't seem important to me. Even if it was a pint, I was not drunk. The cops would have not even considered my side of the story if I was drunk.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shLong]
#22165408 - 08/30/15 04:23 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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How many times have you been told to clean up your side of the street, and worry about your own actions? How many more times do you need to be told?
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: SkagitHunter]
#22165423 - 08/30/15 04:29 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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What do you mean? to worry about myself? I dont get it
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165451 - 08/30/15 04:35 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Mod Edit- Flame removed.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Shroomopotamus]
#22165454 - 08/30/15 04:36 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Shroomopotamus said: every woman ever is a fucking cunt and should have her head removed via butter knife
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165463 - 08/30/15 04:39 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Shroomslip said: How old are the two of you? Me and my wife were pretty young when we had a baby. There was lots of fighting/arguing. Having a baby at a young age can really strain the hell out of a relationship. We hardly ever argue anymore though. For the child's sake I hope you two can "grow up" (no offense meant) and get through this.
Im 25, shes 30. And IDK if I could ever "get through this". Im pretty sure its done... I just am still confused because everything was fine 24 hrs ago
I still think that's too young to have a kid. At 25, I was hitch-hiking cross-country, getting blasted nightly & not even considering settling down for another 10-15 years. I didn't get married until I was 35 & had a kid when I was 38. I'm 61 now & still married to the same chick with a 24 yr old son. I think guys should live it up while in their 20s & think about marriage/kids/careers when they're done getting loaded nightly. I'd be pissed if I were you as well. She should have never called the cops on you. You didn't do anything to warrant a call to 5-0. The worst thing about this situation is the baby. Kids need both parents to bring them up & if your kid is a boy, he really needs his dad around. This is fixable. The broad will cool down, but you need to let her know who the bread winner is in the family. If you 2 separate, you have 18 years of child support ahead. 21 yrs if the kid goes to college. Best of luck to you & hopefully this'll get resolved without attorneys.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Shroomopotamus]
#22165465 - 08/30/15 04:40 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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#22165468 - 08/30/15 04:40 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Shroomopotamus]
#22165471 - 08/30/15 04:42 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Shroomopotamus said: every woman ever is a fucking cunt and should have her head removed via butter knife
What in the actual fuck is wrong with you?
Jeez... I don't care if you meant that or not. Regular people don't even have these thoughts.
GTFO of here.
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#22165475 - 08/30/15 04:43 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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That clip made me laugh. I love Bill Burr - my favorite still-breathing comedian
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: kr0nik0]
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Shroomopotamus said: every woman ever is a fucking cunt and should have her head removed via butter knife
What in the actual fuck is wrong with you?
Jeez... I don't care if you meant that or not. Regular people don't even have these thoughts.
GTFO of here.
Yeah dude, I've dated some psychotic women but I've also dated some extremely sweet and caring ones. Huge generalization
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: kr0nik0]
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165485 - 08/30/15 04:46 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I mean take accountability for your own actions. Own your shit. What did you do to cause this? She's wrong too. That is not important. What is important to your growth and serenity in the future, is if you realize how your actions affect the world around you.
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Shroomopotamus said: every woman ever is a fucking cunt and should have her head removed via butter knife
ORIGINS OF THE WORD "CUNT"
"Cuneiform", the most ancient form of writing, derives from "kunta" meaning "female genitalia" in Sumerian of ancient Iraq. "Kunta" is "woman" in several Near Eastern and African languages and a Mother Tongue that is being compiled by linguists today. It was also spelled "quna," which is the root of "queen." Since priestesses were known to be accountants/administrators of Temple of Inanna in Sumeria c.3100 B.C. when Cuneiform was first used, it is highly likely that cuneiform was "the sign of the kunta" who kept the books (clay tablets) for the temple economy/redistribution of wealth that evolved from communal economics of ancient mother-cultures.
So when an abuser calls a woman a "cunt" he is actually calling her a "queen who invented writing and numerals." Girls and women can thus reclaim the words in our language that have been used as weapons against us in emotionally explosive situations.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Shroomopotamus]
#22165491 - 08/30/15 04:47 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Op quit fucking drinking and be there for your kid.
I was raised in a situation like this and it didn't end well.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Shroomopotamus]
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Shroomopotamus said: every woman ever is a fucking cunt and should have her head removed via butter knife
ORIGINS OF THE WORD "CUNT"
"Cuneiform", the most ancient form of writing, derives from "kunta" meaning "female genitalia" in Sumerian of ancient Iraq. "Kunta" is "woman" in several Near Eastern and African languages and a Mother Tongue that is being compiled by linguists today. It was also spelled "quna," which is the root of "queen." Since priestesses were known to be accountants/administrators of Temple of Inanna in Sumeria c.3100 B.C. when Cuneiform was first used, it is highly likely that cuneiform was "the sign of the kunta" who kept the books (clay tablets) for the temple economy/redistribution of wealth that evolved from communal economics of ancient mother-cultures.
So when an abuser calls a woman a "cunt" he is actually calling her a "queen who invented writing and numerals." Girls and women can thus reclaim the words in our language that have been used as weapons against us in emotionally explosive situations.

ur such a cunt
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: yogabunny]
#22165499 - 08/30/15 04:49 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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#CuntSwagYOLO
interesting read actually  who'da thunk it
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Sheekle]
#22165500 - 08/30/15 04:49 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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bunny it said dustbunny edited potamus' post
does that mean dustbunny is ur puppet
ur both bunny's
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Sheekle]
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night... [Re: Mescalean]
#22165589 - 08/30/15 05:20 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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SkagitHunter said: "She gets to stay home all day" I don't want to attack you, but you are making it very hard not to comment on your ignorance. It appears that you cannot fathom the responsibility of parenthood, therefore you do not respect or appreciate her appropriately.
lol im a manager of a roofing company, but on saturdays, im out with the crew doing the actual roofing
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
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Yeah, OP. Stop twisting the story to suit yourself, you're probably a genuinely bad guy who came onto here to share a story in the hopes of currying favor by making yourself look good. Stop having a drink to unwind, especially if it's a weekend, because you don't deserve it. Listen to your gf when she's being the nagging bitch we all know she was, even if it means you've just gotta swallow your pride and go with the flow, because her ego is so huge that only her perspective is the right one, and yours never can, or will be taken into account.
I read this post when you first made it and I knew you'd have at least 1 or 2 heroes telling you to do it their way. Get off the drink brah you're probably just too smashed to reason with, you bullheaded oaf. What's having a trippers personality vs non trippers personality got to do with being reasonable, especially in a heated argument? exactly, nothing.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165593 - 08/30/15 05:22 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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SkagitHunter said: "She gets to stay home all day" I don't want to attack you, but you are making it very hard not to comment on your ignorance. It appears that you cannot fathom the responsibility of parenthood, therefore you do not respect or appreciate her appropriately.
lol im a manager of a roofing company, but on saturdays, im out with the crew doing the actual roofing
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Just because the OP drank some alcohol doesn't mean he's in the wrong, he removed himself from a argument, he was physically assaulted for no reason, he had the cops called on him for no good reason.
As far as I can see, he's the victim and he's very lucky he is not in jail today.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: qman]
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I think OP is a genuinely bad guy that has just been ousted by the enlightened members of the shroomery that can see straight through the bullshit that clouds his own eyes.
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qman said: Just because the OP drank some alcohol doesn't mean he's in the wrong, he removed himself from a argument, he was physically assaulted for no reason, he had the cops called on him for no good reason.
As far as I can see, he's the victim and he's very lucky he is not in jail today.
pretty much how i see it.
this whole women are always the victims bullshit needs to end. you'd think something that paints women in a weaker more vulnerable light like the assumption "the woman is always the victim" would be fought tooth and nail by feminists. or not surprising because it does benefit in domestic court cases
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: nuds]
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"I think the OP is a genuinely bad guy"
For what? Getting physically assaulted for no reason? I think the OP's wife is genuinely a bad woman!!
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: nuds]
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Yes I totally agree with you. I realize now that i didnt take enough time to actually get to know her before we had the baby. It was only a year into our relationship that we made him. Ill do my best to make him a better person than I am. He has no fault in all this.Quote:
nuds said: Yeah, OP. Stop twisting the story to suit yourself, you're probably a genuinely bad guy who came onto here to share a story in the hopes of currying favor by making yourself look good. Stop having a drink to unwind, especially if it's a weekend, because you don't deserve it. Listen to your gf when she's being the nagging bitch we all know she was, even if it means you've just gotta swallow your pride and go with the flow, because her ego is so huge that only her perspective is the right one, and yours never can, or will be taken into account.
I read this post when you first made it and I knew you'd have at least 1 or 2 heroes telling you to do it their way. Get off the drink brah you're probably just too smashed to reason with, you bullheaded oaf. What's having a trippers personality vs non trippers personality got to do with being reasonable, especially in a heated argument? exactly, nothing.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night... [Re: Mescalean]
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SkagitHunter said: "She gets to stay home all day" I don't want to attack you, but you are making it very hard not to comment on your ignorance. It appears that you cannot fathom the responsibility of parenthood, therefore you do not respect or appreciate her appropriately.
lol im a manager of a roofing company, but on saturdays, im out with the crew doing the actual roofing
So you understand physical labor (:
yes both physical and mental. Its alot of stress managing a company that makes almost 2 mil a year.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: qman]
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I think the irony and sarcasm in my posts is lost on you guys.
It sounds like she needs a boot up the arse and a reality check. OP shouldn't have had to deal with the entire scenario in the first place.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: nuds]
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nuds said: I think OP is a genuinely bad guy that has just been ousted by the enlightened members of the shroomery that can see straight through the bullshit that clouds his own eyes. 
And thats what im afraid of. I understand that my point of view is my own. What if I AM THE PROBLEM?! Its like a bad trip... I dont know what to think anymore. Thats why i posted this. For feedback. But i guess its pointless if you guys dont hear her side of the story. Maybe I should get some counseling.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: nuds]
#22165723 - 08/30/15 05:52 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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nuds said: I think the irony and sarcasm in my posts is lost on you guys.
It sounds like she needs a boot up the arse and a reality check. OP shouldn't have had to deal with the entire scenario in the first place.
Wow, completely lost. I honestly thought you were being serious.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone] 2
#22165727 - 08/30/15 05:53 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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If you plan to stay with her, you both need individual counseling for a while and then couples counseling. If you're breaking up, as you probably should, I'd still say you can benefit from some therapy.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165732 - 08/30/15 05:54 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Also: DID YOU MOW THE LAWN OR NOT?!??
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shLong]
#22165733 - 08/30/15 05:54 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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shellzenone said: She's never tripped. She's never experianced ego death like i have.
so what? How is that relevant?
Most people who claim they have experienced ego death ironically usually have the biggest egos of them all. Most people who trip are only open minded when you adhere to their very narrow views.
Oh, your girl never tripped. Big deal. Doesn't mean you are better then her because she isn't as enlightened as you.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: nuds]
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nuds said: I think the irony and sarcasm in my posts is lost on you guys.
It sounds like she needs a boot up the arse and a reality check. OP shouldn't have had to deal with the entire scenario in the first place.
Believe it not, lots of feminized males on this site think the same exact way you posted your sarcasm.
It's politically correct to always blame the male, even when it's the females fault.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: qman]
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nuds said: I think the irony and sarcasm in my posts is lost on you guys.
It sounds like she needs a boot up the arse and a reality check. OP shouldn't have had to deal with the entire scenario in the first place.
Believe it not, lots of feminized males on this site think the same exact way you posted your sarcasm.
It's politically correct to always blame the male, even when it's the females fault. 
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Burke Dennings]
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Im starting to realize that I shouldn't be asking for help in this situation. This something I'll have to figure out on my own. A lesson from the great universe we live in... Thank all of you for your support and feed back. And no, I Didnt mow the lawn, i was kicked out you prick! JK... Still love the shroomery!
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165753 - 08/30/15 05:59 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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They aren't going to kick a chick and baby to the curb no matter if you pay the bills and have marks on you and mowed the lawn. Best case scenario u get to see that kid on weekends and pay support. Chicks can duck your life up but bachelor apartments rock too good luck op
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165757 - 08/30/15 06:00 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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So if I sat you both down separately, had you both relay your version of events individually to me, and then brought you back together to share what I'd learnt, do you think her version would match yours? Would that be because your judgment is clouded or because she'd twist the story to make herself sound better? would she wither at the fury shown when her pathetically weak story was blown to smithereens or lie to the bitter end?
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Patlal]
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Mescalean said: Perfect example of the matriarchy when it comes to the law OP.
that must be why the cops wanted to take my ex wife to jail for domestic battery when she assaulted me and then called the cops to settle the argument, lol. it must also be why I have custody of my 2 kids. I am oppressed by the matriarchy!
Could you go into further details as to how she assaulted you, what led to it and how you explained it to the cops?
I was replacing a section or rotton floor in the house we were living in, she wasnt watching our son, he kept crawling over toward the 8'x16' hold in the floor so nothing was getting done because I had to deal with the repair and the kid, all she wanted to do was talk on the phone. he house was a mess, she wasnt cleaning it because TV was more important, I finally got fed up and called her on her laziness, the argument started and she beaned me with a bottle, I decided to walk outside and she followed me and started screaming about all kinds of nonsense and then hit me in the eye. I went to get in my truck and leave and she started screaming that she was calling the cop. so I waited.
the cops asked her if I hit her, she was at least honest about that, they asked me if she hit me, I would have denied it by the cops kept loooking at the cut on my head and my reddened eye. I said yes. they asked if I wanted her arrested and I said no. they didnt push it much other than to say that an abusive spouse generally will not stop
she tried to make it a habit of calling the cops to settle her arguments and it got her arrested when she started some shit with her sister one night
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Cause you know, all the cops have to do is take a look at your dick and see that you are carrying a dangerous weapon
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Prisoner#1]
#22165801 - 08/30/15 06:10 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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You could've mowed before this all went down. I would have, but I like mowing my lawn. Probably 50% of the reason i maintain my yard is to embarrass my trashy neighbors with their shaggy yard.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Burke Dennings]
#22165843 - 08/30/15 06:18 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I'd be your trashy neighbor. I live in Texas and in the middle of summer fuck mowing the yard until it HAS to be done. I don't care how crappy it looks.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Burke Dennings]
#22165845 - 08/30/15 06:18 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Cackle evilly knowing how mortified your neighbour's will be seeing short grass next to long grass
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: nuds]
#22165857 - 08/30/15 06:22 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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That's exactly what I do blud.
Shroomslip: I mow that sumbitch at 7 AM to beat the heat. I'm not in TX, but it can still get hot as hell here. Also, I just like doing yardwork.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Burke Dennings]
#22165862 - 08/30/15 06:23 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Only time I'm up at 7am is when I haven't been to sleep yet.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Shroomslip]
#22165950 - 08/30/15 06:56 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I don't mind the sun since I used to do roofing, and am in Texas. Just throw on a long sleeve and a hat and you're ready to go! I was also going to plant some pumpkins to harvest around November. Hopefully I can still plant them. I've realized that I need to suck it up, forgive and forget. I really love this woman and I don't expect her to change, but I hope she'll also realize her mistakes and learn from life. I understand her and I know how her emotions can get the best of her. At the same time, Im ready to let go If it is best for both of us. Im just going to wait for her to vent and see if she texts me. If she does, good, Ill be here for her, just like I promised her in the begining. If she really wants to leave, Ill let her go...
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Burke Dennings]
#22165953 - 08/30/15 06:57 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Burke Dennings said: You could've mowed before this all went down. I would have, but I like mowing my lawn. Probably 50% of the reason i maintain my yard is to embarrass my trashy neighbors with their shaggy yard.
I never mow my lawn -Trashy Neighbor
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165962 - 08/30/15 06:59 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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shellzenone said: I don't mind the sun since I used to do roofing, and am in Texas. Just throw on a long sleeve and a hat and you're ready to go! I was also going to plant some pumpkins to harvest around November. Hopefully I can still plant them. I've realized that I need to suck it up, forgive and forget. I really love this woman and I don't expect her to change, but I hope she'll also realize her mistakes and learn from life. I understand her and I know how her emotions can get the best of her. At the same time, Im ready to let go If it is best for both of us. Im just going to wait for her to vent and see if she texts me. If she does, good, Ill be here for her, just like I promised her in the begining. If she really wants to leave, Ill let her go...
I think the question Burke wants answered most is.. Are you gonna go mow the yard even if you two do not reconcile?
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22166036 - 08/30/15 07:15 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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shellzenone said: What do you mean? to worry about myself? I dont get it
I mean take accountability for your own actions. Own your shit. What did you do to cause this? She's wrong too. That is not important. What is important to your growth and serenity in the future is if you realize how your actions affect the world around you. When you get home you need to be with your family if you want to make it work. And she thinks you're cheating because she just went through a major body change, she's going to be very insecure for a while.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: SkagitHunter]
#22166109 - 08/30/15 07:28 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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OP when do you get to be back in the house? Since you pay the bills, I feel as if she has to be the one that leaves.....
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: InfiniteToker]
#22166575 - 08/30/15 08:45 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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OK guys, She texted my father and said she's getting her things out of the apartment tomorrow, I might keep the apt, or I might just roomate with a friend to save some cash. If I stay, Ill mow the lawn cus I hate mosquitoes!
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#22166585 - 08/30/15 08:46 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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shellzenone said: She's never tripped. She's never experianced ego death like i have.
so what? How is that relevant?
Maybe some people consider ego-death from tripping to be clearly more impacting to one's state of being than creating a new life in your body and bringing it into the Universe; the latter situation just makes egocentric people emotional. Or something like that. 
The narrative in the OP maybe reads kind of differently to me than others though perhaps, to me the key points picked up as: - OP felt indecisive about cutting the grass; decided to drink instead; got rid of his "maddening sobriety"
- OP and girlfriend watch a movie together; OP decides to ignore that together time because he's really into what he's reading on Shroomery
- Girlfriend rolls over with the blankets; baby cries; OP doesn't get up for the baby; girlfriend gets out of bed from sleeping position angry that OP never deals with the baby
- OP call's his girlfriend's actions repulsive; girlfriend takes offense and starts reflecting on/talking about her ex; OP walks out and goes to the couch like he knows he's in trouble
- OP eventually gets woken up by his phone; makes no indication whether his girlfriend was woken up by it first and came to see why he did not answer, but she is there when he wakes up to answer
- OP verbally assaults random caller in his rage
- girlfriend snaps and physically assaults OP; OP responds in violence by physically throwing her across the room - girlfriend realizes she isn't strong enough to finish what she started; calls the cops
- cops come, hear both sides, tell OP to leave
Not going to judge OP for his girlfriend assaulting him. It is discouraging that the narrative provides very little concern or accounting of the child, aside from that it cried, they argued, and he left the room(presumably left the child with the girlfriend?)
Personally decided in favour of getting a vasectomy before ever having children of my own, so it will never be genuinely possible to relate. Would hope that if I ever were in a similar situation that I would care more about the well-being of my child than arguments with his or her mother though.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Tantrika]
#22166614 - 08/30/15 08:51 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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The fact that psychedelics shaped both who my girlfriend and I are in such a profound way has made us have a bond that I haven't had before with anyone.
I had never thought about tripping having anything to do with relationships before.
I now see that couples that trip together, stay together (if they don't abuse other drugs as well)
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Tantrika]
#22166731 - 08/30/15 09:15 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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shellzenone said: She's never tripped. She's never experianced ego death like i have.
so what? How is that relevant?
Maybe some people consider ego-death from tripping to be clearly more impacting to one's state of being than creating a new life in your body and bringing it into the Universe; the latter situation just makes egocentric people emotional. Or something like that. 
The narrative in the OP maybe reads kind of differently to me than others though perhaps, to me the key points picked up as: - OP felt indecisive about cutting the grass; decided to drink instead; got rid of his "maddening sobriety"
- OP and girlfriend watch a movie together; OP decides to ignore that together time because he's really into what he's reading on Shroomery
- Girlfriend rolls over with the blankets; baby cries; OP doesn't get up for the baby; girlfriend gets out of bed from sleeping position angry that OP never deals with the baby
- OP call's his girlfriend's actions repulsive; girlfriend takes offense and starts reflecting on/talking about her ex; OP walks out and goes to the couch like he knows he's in trouble
- OP eventually gets woken up by his phone; makes no indication whether his girlfriend was woken up by it first and came to see why he did not answer, but she is there when he wakes up to answer
- OP verbally assaults random caller in his rage
- girlfriend snaps and physically assaults OP; OP responds in violence by physically throwing her across the room - girlfriend realizes she isn't strong enough to finish what she started; calls the cops
- cops come, hear both sides, tell OP to leave
Not going to judge OP for his girlfriend assaulting him. It is discouraging that the narrative provides very little concern or accounting of the child, aside from that it cried, they argued, and he left the room(presumably left the child with the girlfriend?)
Personally decided in favour of getting a vasectomy before ever having children of my own, so it will never be genuinely possible to relate. Would hope that if I ever were in a similar situation that I would care more about the well-being of my child than arguments with his or her mother though.
Haha yeah that's actually a pretty decent way of looking at things
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Alright then. I admit, I made some wrong decisions. In my mind, at the time, I had no control over my emotions. I was taken over. I couldn't help it. I'll accept it and try to learn from it. Thank you guys for offering a different perspective.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22167268 - 08/30/15 11:50 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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shellzenone said: Alright then. I admit, I made some wrong decisions. In my mind, at the time, I had no control over my emotions. I was taken over. I couldn't help it. I'll accept it and try to learn from it. Thank you guys for offering a different perspective.
You have a mature perspective on things to be able to look at the issue from multiple perspectives. 
I hope that if it is too late to sort out the issue and alleviate the pain from it, that you at least find space for personal growth that makes the pain worth while.
Best of wishes with everything, either way.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22167272 - 08/30/15 11:54 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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shellzenone said: OK guys, She texted my father and said she's getting her things out of the apartment tomorrow, I might keep the apt, or I might just roomate with a friend to save some cash. If I stay, Ill mow the lawn cus I hate mosquitoes!
Wait, you live in an apartment but you still have to mow the lawn? (Watching this thread to see if this lawn will ever get mowed)
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: ryanriot]
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Some do have "yards" that are ridiculously small, but still your responsibility to maintain (I'm guessing it's in the lease). My Mom lived in a place like that once. I remember her bitching more than once that her having to mow a yard while living in an apartment was ridiculous, which it was.
I've never heard of someone having to do it in a huge complex, but on smaller units, they sometimes come with an actual yard. A couple of garage apartments on a single property with fenced in yards for each would be one example.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: ryanriot]
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shellzenone said: OK guys, She texted my father and said she's getting her things out of the apartment tomorrow, I might keep the apt, or I might just roomate with a friend to save some cash. If I stay, Ill mow the lawn cus I hate mosquitoes!
Wait, you live in an apartment but you still have to mow the lawn? (Watching this thread to see if this lawn will ever get mowed)
Townhouses are apartments.
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ORIGINS OF THE WORD "CUNT"
"Cuneiform", the most ancient form of writing, derives from "kunta" meaning "female genitalia" in Sumerian of ancient Iraq. "Kunta" is "woman" in several Near Eastern and African languages and a Mother Tongue that is being compiled by linguists today. It was also spelled "quna," which is the root of "queen." Since priestesses were known to be accountants/administrators of Temple of Inanna in Sumeria c.3100 B.C. when Cuneiform was first used, it is highly likely that cuneiform was "the sign of the kunta" who kept the books (clay tablets) for the temple economy/redistribution of wealth that evolved from communal economics of ancient mother-cultures.
So when an abuser calls a woman a "cunt" he is actually calling her a "queen who invented writing and numerals." Girls and women can thus reclaim the words in our language that have been used as weapons against us in emotionally explosive situations.

interesting. it makes sense that a woman invented language considering how they talk so much
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: kr0nik0]
#22167324 - 08/31/15 12:21 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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kr0nik0 said: The fact that psychedelics shaped both who my girlfriend and I are in such a profound way has made us have a bond that I haven't had before with anyone.
I had never thought about tripping having anything to do with relationships before.
I now see that couples that trip together, stay together (if they don't abuse other drugs as well)
i often thought i would meet my SO on hallucinogens. hasn't happened yet. it's pretty awesome though right? it's like they put you on the same vibrational frequencies as each other.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22167441 - 08/31/15 01:35 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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could have been worse..
shit appens mang,
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: zZZz] 1
#22167545 - 08/31/15 02:58 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Its good to see you guys are worried about my lawn. I might just let it grow to spite you guys!
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Prisoner#1]
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that must be why the cops wanted to take my ex wife to jail for domestic battery when she assaulted me and then called the cops to settle the argument, lol. it must also be why I have custody of my 2 kids. I am oppressed by the matriarchy!
You're just lucky you're not a bee. Same goes for OP. If he was a bee, he'd have been thrown out and left to starve to death. No one gives a fuck about the male bees.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22167569 - 08/31/15 03:15 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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shellzenone said: Its good to see you guys are worried about my lawn. I might just let it grow to spite you guys!
Well you have a kid now, you're getting pretty old. Won't be long now before you're screaming at the neighborhood kids to get off your lawn and you're going to look pretty silly saying that when it isn't obsessively manicured. We just don't want you to look like a crazy old geezer.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22167575 - 08/31/15 03:21 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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an untamed lawn...a sign of an alcohol addict
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: mindbodysoul]
#22167822 - 08/31/15 05:53 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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hmm interesting thread... a short history lesson on the origins of the word cunt, an unmowed lawn, a OP with choked tan lines on his neck
but yeah man its not cool that she assaulted you, and its not cool that you bounced her off your hairy chest into the wall and well more importantly you ignored your baby and your wife and your lawn
both of ya'll should get conselling and try to work things through and give your relationship another go
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Elff]
#22167865 - 08/31/15 06:34 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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There's nothing to indicate that he was ignoring his kid necessarily, yet people without kids keep coming to this conclusion. It's a mire fair assumption than the one's I'm speaking of to say he probably has a job. If he has a job that means he can have some drinks and do his lawn whenever the fuck he feels like it, and that also means she probably spends a lot of the time with the kid because someone needs to be home with him/her. When that happens, the wife always feels like they are 'on duty' because they are, it's called being a mom and his now ex signed up for it.
One thing mentioned in this thread is hormones, and I'll tell you one thing, hormones makes it hard at times to see past your own perspective.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22168040 - 08/31/15 08:10 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's a mans job to take a womans problems that she percieves as big and shrink them down. You failed miserably, and you don't understand women in the slightest
Read Corey Waynes entire book...you need it badly, bro.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: RanOutOfWeed] 1
#22168200 - 08/31/15 09:19 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Being alone at home and raising a kid aint easy for no woman and having to be cut off from the outside world is depravation,maybe all she wanted was a conversation, having a job does seem to justify his masculinity immensely by bouncing her off onto a wall and having a self confession along the lines that he's a tripper and shes not, so shes got a big ego and he gets to do that,fck that, and what about his drunk ego fuelled by rage, oh I forget he works lol
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Elff] 1
#22168369 - 08/31/15 10:17 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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No woman is forced to be 'cut off from the world.' If they do that just because they have a child then they're just a lazy shit. Poor her right? Poor him right? They both idiots who don't know when to shut the fuck up.
By the way, it's quite obvious you didn't even read the thread, or maybe just not properly comprehend what was being said, so why even bother replying?
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: larry.fisherman]
#22168853 - 08/31/15 12:15 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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A lot of women are forced to be cut off from what they choose to do
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XLCaps said: By the way, it's quite obvious you didn't even read the thread, or maybe just not properly comprehend what was being said, so why even bother replying?
Get off your high horse everyones entitled to post their opinions and express themselves,why you so rabid ?
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: falsereality]
#22168992 - 08/31/15 12:44 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Burke Dennings said: You both sound like idiots.
My thoughts... I feel bad for the kid they just had.
Yeah, this is what I'm thinking. It was kinda a bitch to read his walls of words, but I got most of it down, sounds like both fucked up.
P.S Why the fuck wasn't your phone already silenced? You have a sleeping newborn.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Prisoner#1] 6
#22169009 - 08/31/15 12:49 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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that must be why the cops wanted to take my ex wife to jail for domestic battery when she assaulted me and then called the cops to settle the argument, lol. it must also be why I have custody of my 2 kids. I am oppressed by the matriarchy!
Could you go into further details as to how she assaulted you, what led to it and how you explained it to the cops?
I was replacing a section or rotton floor in the house we were living in, she wasnt watching our son, he kept crawling over toward the 8'x16' hold in the floor so nothing was getting done because I had to deal with the repair and the kid, all she wanted to do was talk on the phone. he house was a mess, she wasnt cleaning it because TV was more important, I finally got fed up and called her on her laziness, the argument started and she beaned me with a bottle, I decided to walk outside and she followed me and started screaming about all kinds of nonsense and then hit me in the eye. I went to get in my truck and leave and she started screaming that she was calling the cop. so I waited.
the cops asked her if I hit her, she was at least honest about that, they asked me if she hit me, I would have denied it by the cops kept loooking at the cut on my head and my reddened eye. I said yes. they asked if I wanted her arrested and I said no. they didnt push it much other than to say that an abusive spouse generally will not stop
she tried to make it a habit of calling the cops to settle her arguments and it got her arrested when she started some shit with her sister one night
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Cause you know, all the cops have to do is take a look at your dick and see that you are carrying a dangerous weapon
I dont normally show my dick to the cops, not unless I am asked
Many years ago I was sitting in my truck reading a book at the Park and Ride when a cop suantered up. He asked what I was doing. I said I'm reading. He asked why aren't you reading at home. I told him because my (ex) wife was there. He said oh and left me alone
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Elff]
#22169699 - 08/31/15 03:27 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Elff said: A lot of women are forced to be cut off from what they choose to do
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Get off your high horse everyones entitled to post their opinions and express themselves,why you so rabid ?
Because what you were posting was some bullshit that you were ragging on him for that was just your lack of reading comprehension.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: TNK]
#22169702 - 08/31/15 03:28 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Burke Dennings said: You both sound like idiots.
My thoughts... I feel bad for the kid they just had.
Yeah, this is what I'm thinking. It was kinda a bitch to read his walls of words, but I got most of it down, sounds like both fucked up.
P.S Why the fuck wasn't your phone already silenced? You have a sleeping newborn.
I used to listen to my stereo while my son was sleeping as a newborn. For the first comple months they sleep like a rock.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: 404]
#22169901 - 08/31/15 04:21 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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"Girls and women can thus reclaim the words in our language that have been used as weapons against us in emotionally explosive situations."
I'be been called "asshole, cock sucker, piece of shit, waste of life" by certain ex's during fights. And when I use the cunt or bitch it a horrible emotional weapon that should never be used.... I don't get this logic. When will men get to reclaim our words.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Mescalean] 5
#22169946 - 08/31/15 04:33 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I mowed the lawn today and my fiancé, our infant son, and I are still happily living under the same roof with no police involvement. Coincidence? Probably not.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Burke Dennings]
#22169958 - 08/31/15 04:37 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Burke Dennings said: I mowed the lawn today and my fiancé, our infant son, and I are still happily living under the same roof with no police involvement. Coincidence? Probably not.
Knowing what I know it is most certainly not a coincidence
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Burke Dennings] 1
#22169962 - 08/31/15 04:38 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Burke Dennings said: I mowed the lawn today and my fiancé, our infant son, and I are still happily living under the same roof with no police involvement. Coincidence? Probably not.
Can you please provide a Tek with photos for OP?
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: ryanriot]
#22169994 - 08/31/15 04:46 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Burke Dennings said: I mowed the lawn today and my fiancé, our infant son, and I are still happily living under the same roof with no police involvement. Coincidence? Probably not.
Can you please provide a Tek with photos for OP?
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: TNK]
#22170013 - 08/31/15 04:53 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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I don't think you guys understand what he meant by mow the lawn.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: larry.fisherman]
#22170879 - 08/31/15 07:42 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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People fuck up. Shit like this can happen and nobody should give him alot of shit about it. But he did put it out there on a message board so yanno how that goes. The question is has things like this happened before and hopefully they both learn from this and they act more appropriate in the future.
People do fuck up and lose their tempers and this doesn't necessarily mean they are the scum of the earth. I can't judge either one of them from one message board post but I can say learn from your mistakes and work hard to never put yourself in a shitty life situation like this again.
Good luck op. Take care of your son, yourself, and the mother of your child. You may end up despising her but your son never should as long as she is decent to him.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: DTCharlieB]
#22170951 - 08/31/15 07:55 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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typical crazy significant other thread
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: DTCharlieB]
#22171603 - 08/31/15 10:09 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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DTCharlieB said: People fuck up. Shit like this can happen and nobody should give him alot of shit about it. But he did put it out there on a message board so yanno how that goes. The question is has things like this happened before and hopefully they both learn from this and they act more appropriate in the future.
People do fuck up and lose their tempers and this doesn't necessarily mean they are the scum of the earth. I can't judge either one of them from one message board post but I can say learn from your mistakes and work hard to never put yourself in a shitty life situation like this again.
Good luck op. Take care of your son, yourself, and the mother of your child. You may end up despising her but your son never should as long as she is decent to him.
My thoughts exactly. I was aware posting this would draw out raw criticism and that's what i was after.
I was also entertained by the logic of some of these members. For all we know, I could be making this whole story up!
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22174467 - 09/01/15 03:28 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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You aren't making the whole story up. But probably parts of it.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: CookieCrumbs]
#22174734 - 09/01/15 04:41 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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CookieCrumbs said: You aren't making the whole story up. But probably parts of it.
This guy; he gets it.
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