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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
    #22165962 - 08/30/15 06:59 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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shellzenone said:
I don't mind the sun since I used to do roofing, and am in Texas. Just throw on a long sleeve and a hat and you're ready to go! I was also going to plant some pumpkins to harvest around November. Hopefully I can still plant them. I've realized that I need to suck it up, forgive and forget. I really love this woman and I don't expect her to change, but I hope she'll also realize her mistakes and learn from life. I understand her and I know how her emotions can get the best of her. At the same time, Im ready to let go If it is best for both of us. Im just going to wait for her to vent and see if she texts me. If she does, good, Ill be here for her, just like I promised her in the begining. If she really wants to leave, Ill let her go...



I think the question Burke wants answered most is.. Are you gonna go mow the yard even if you two do not reconcile?


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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
    #22166036 - 08/30/15 07:15 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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shellzenone said:
What do you mean? to worry about myself? I dont get it



I mean take accountability for your own actions. Own your shit. What did you do to cause this?
She's wrong too. That is not important. What is important to your growth and serenity in the future is if you realize how your actions affect the world around you. When you get home you need to be with your family if you want to make it work. And she thinks you're cheating because she just went through a major body change, she's going to be very insecure for a while.


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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: SkagitHunter]
    #22166109 - 08/30/15 07:28 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

OP when do you get to be back in the house?  Since you pay the bills, I feel as if she has to be the one that leaves.....


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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: InfiniteToker]
    #22166575 - 08/30/15 08:45 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

OK guys, She texted my father and said she's getting her things out of the apartment tomorrow, I might keep the apt, or I might just roomate with a friend to save some cash. If I stay, Ill mow the lawn cus I hate mosquitoes!


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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shLong] * 1
    #22166585 - 08/30/15 08:46 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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shLong said:
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shellzenone said:
She's never tripped. She's never experianced ego death like i have.



:lol: so what? How is that relevant?




Maybe some people consider ego-death from tripping to be clearly more impacting to one's state of being than creating a new life in your body and bringing it into the Universe; the latter situation just makes egocentric people emotional.
Or something like that. :lol:

The narrative in the OP maybe reads kind of differently to me than others though perhaps, to me the key points picked up as:
- OP felt indecisive about cutting the grass; decided to drink instead; got rid of his "maddening sobriety"

- OP and girlfriend watch a movie together; OP decides to ignore that together time because he's really into what he's reading on Shroomery

- Girlfriend rolls over with the blankets; baby cries; OP doesn't get up for the baby; girlfriend gets out of bed from sleeping position angry that OP never deals with the baby

- OP call's his girlfriend's actions repulsive; girlfriend takes offense and starts reflecting on/talking about her ex; OP walks out and goes to the couch like he knows he's in trouble

- OP eventually gets woken up by his phone; makes no indication whether his girlfriend was woken up by it first and came to see why he did not answer, but she is there when he wakes up to answer

- OP verbally assaults random caller in his rage

- girlfriend snaps and physically assaults OP; OP responds in violence by physically throwing her across the room
- girlfriend realizes she isn't strong enough to finish what she started; calls the cops

- cops come, hear both sides, tell OP to leave

Not going to judge OP for his girlfriend assaulting him.
It is discouraging that the narrative provides very little concern or accounting of the child, aside from that it cried, they argued, and he left the room(presumably left the child with the girlfriend?)

Personally decided in favour of getting a vasectomy before ever having children of my own, so it will never be genuinely possible to relate.
Would hope that if I ever were in a similar situation that I would care more about the well-being of my child than arguments with his or her mother though.


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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Tantrika]
    #22166614 - 08/30/15 08:51 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

The fact that psychedelics shaped both who my girlfriend and I are in such a profound way has made us have a bond that I haven't had before with anyone.

I had never thought about tripping having anything to do with relationships before.

I now see that couples that trip together, stay together (if they don't abuse other drugs as well)


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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Tantrika]
    #22166731 - 08/30/15 09:15 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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SweetLeafSamadhi said:
Quote:

shLong said:
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shellzenone said:
She's never tripped. She's never experianced ego death like i have.



:lol: so what? How is that relevant?




Maybe some people consider ego-death from tripping to be clearly more impacting to one's state of being than creating a new life in your body and bringing it into the Universe; the latter situation just makes egocentric people emotional.
Or something like that. :lol:

The narrative in the OP maybe reads kind of differently to me than others though perhaps, to me the key points picked up as:
- OP felt indecisive about cutting the grass; decided to drink instead; got rid of his "maddening sobriety"

- OP and girlfriend watch a movie together; OP decides to ignore that together time because he's really into what he's reading on Shroomery

- Girlfriend rolls over with the blankets; baby cries; OP doesn't get up for the baby; girlfriend gets out of bed from sleeping position angry that OP never deals with the baby

- OP call's his girlfriend's actions repulsive; girlfriend takes offense and starts reflecting on/talking about her ex; OP walks out and goes to the couch like he knows he's in trouble

- OP eventually gets woken up by his phone; makes no indication whether his girlfriend was woken up by it first and came to see why he did not answer, but she is there when he wakes up to answer

- OP verbally assaults random caller in his rage

- girlfriend snaps and physically assaults OP; OP responds in violence by physically throwing her across the room
- girlfriend realizes she isn't strong enough to finish what she started; calls the cops

- cops come, hear both sides, tell OP to leave

Not going to judge OP for his girlfriend assaulting him.
It is discouraging that the narrative provides very little concern or accounting of the child, aside from that it cried, they argued, and he left the room(presumably left the child with the girlfriend?)

Personally decided in favour of getting a vasectomy before ever having children of my own, so it will never be genuinely possible to relate.
Would hope that if I ever were in a similar situation that I would care more about the well-being of my child than arguments with his or her mother though.



Haha yeah that's actually a pretty decent way of looking at things


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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Sheekle] * 2
    #22167097 - 08/30/15 10:47 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Alright then. I admit, I made some wrong decisions. In my mind, at the time, I had no control over my emotions. I was taken over. I couldn't help it. I'll accept it and try to learn from it. Thank you guys for offering a different perspective.


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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
    #22167268 - 08/30/15 11:50 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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shellzenone said:
Alright then. I admit, I made some wrong decisions. In my mind, at the time, I had no control over my emotions. I was taken over. I couldn't help it. I'll accept it and try to learn from it. Thank you guys for offering a different perspective.




You have a mature perspective on things to be able to look at the issue from multiple perspectives. :smile:

I hope that if it is too late to sort out the issue and alleviate the pain from it, that you at least find space for personal growth that makes the pain worth while.

Best of wishes with everything, either way. :heart:


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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
    #22167272 - 08/30/15 11:54 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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shellzenone said:
OK guys, She texted my father and said she's getting her things out of the apartment tomorrow, I might keep the apt, or I might just roomate with a friend to save some cash. If I stay, Ill mow the lawn cus I hate mosquitoes!




Wait, you live in an apartment but you still have to mow the lawn? (Watching this thread to see if this lawn will ever get mowed)


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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: ryanriot]
    #22167305 - 08/31/15 12:10 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Some do have "yards" that are ridiculously small, but still your responsibility to maintain (I'm guessing it's in the lease). My Mom lived in a place like that once. I remember her bitching more than once that her having to mow a yard while living in an apartment was ridiculous, which it was.

I've never heard of someone having to do it in a huge complex, but on smaller units, they sometimes come with an actual yard. A couple of garage apartments on a single property with fenced in yards for each would be one example.


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I’m in no shape to be alone contrary to the shit that you might hear.


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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: ryanriot]
    #22167312 - 08/31/15 12:15 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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ryanriot said:
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shellzenone said:
OK guys, She texted my father and said she's getting her things out of the apartment tomorrow, I might keep the apt, or I might just roomate with a friend to save some cash. If I stay, Ill mow the lawn cus I hate mosquitoes!




Wait, you live in an apartment but you still have to mow the lawn? (Watching this thread to see if this lawn will ever get mowed)



Townhouses are apartments.


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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: yogabunny]
    #22167319 - 08/31/15 12:19 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Shroomopotamus said:
every woman ever is a fucking cunt and should have her head removed via butter knife






ORIGINS OF THE WORD "CUNT"

"Cuneiform", the most ancient form of writing, derives from "kunta" meaning "female genitalia" in Sumerian of ancient Iraq. "Kunta" is "woman" in several Near Eastern and African languages and a Mother Tongue that is being compiled by linguists today. It was also spelled "quna," which is the root of "queen." Since priestesses were known to be accountants/administrators of Temple of Inanna in Sumeria c.3100 B.C. when Cuneiform was first used, it is highly likely that cuneiform was "the sign of the kunta" who kept the books (clay tablets) for the temple economy/redistribution of wealth that evolved from communal economics of ancient mother-cultures.

So when an abuser calls a woman a "cunt" he is actually calling her a "queen who invented writing and numerals." Girls and women can thus reclaim the words in our language that have been used as weapons against us in emotionally explosive situations.


:awesomenod:





interesting. it makes sense that a woman invented language considering how they talk so much  :maximumtrolling:


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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: kr0nik0]
    #22167324 - 08/31/15 12:21 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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kr0nik0 said:
The fact that psychedelics shaped both who my girlfriend and I are in such a profound way has made us have a bond that I haven't had before with anyone.

I had never thought about tripping having anything to do with relationships before.

I now see that couples that trip together, stay together (if they don't abuse other drugs as well)




i often thought i would meet my SO on hallucinogens. hasn't happened yet. it's pretty awesome though right? it's like they put you on the same vibrational frequencies as each other.


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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: 404]
    #22167425 - 08/31/15 01:17 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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404 said:
Quote:

yogabunny said:
Quote:

Shroomopotamus said:
every woman ever is a fucking cunt and should have her head removed via butter knife






ORIGINS OF THE WORD "CUNT"

"Cuneiform", the most ancient form of writing, derives from "kunta" meaning "female genitalia" in Sumerian of ancient Iraq. "Kunta" is "woman" in several Near Eastern and African languages and a Mother Tongue that is being compiled by linguists today. It was also spelled "quna," which is the root of "queen." Since priestesses were known to be accountants/administrators of Temple of Inanna in Sumeria c.3100 B.C. when Cuneiform was first used, it is highly likely that cuneiform was "the sign of the kunta" who kept the books (clay tablets) for the temple economy/redistribution of wealth that evolved from communal economics of ancient mother-cultures.

So when an abuser calls a woman a "cunt" he is actually calling her a "queen who invented writing and numerals." Girls and women can thus reclaim the words in our language that have been used as weapons against us in emotionally explosive situations.


:awesomenod:





interesting. it makes sense that a woman invented language considering how they talk so much  :maximumtrolling:






:rofl:


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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
    #22167441 - 08/31/15 01:35 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

could have been worse..

shit appens mang,


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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: zZZz] * 1
    #22167545 - 08/31/15 02:58 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Its good to see you guys are worried about my lawn. I might just let it grow to spite you guys!


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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #22167554 - 08/31/15 03:05 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Mescalean said:
Perfect example of the matriarchy when it comes to the law OP.




that must be why the cops wanted to take my ex wife to jail for domestic battery
when she assaulted me and then called the cops to settle the argument, lol. it
must also be why I have custody of my 2 kids. I am oppressed by the matriarchy!




You're just lucky you're not a bee. Same goes for OP. If he was a bee, he'd have been thrown out and left to starve to death. No one gives a fuck about the male bees.


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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
    #22167569 - 08/31/15 03:15 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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shellzenone said:
Its good to see you guys are worried about my lawn. I might just let it grow to spite you guys!



Well you have a kid now, you're getting pretty old. Won't be long now before you're screaming at the neighborhood kids to get off your lawn and you're going to look pretty silly saying that when it isn't obsessively manicured. We just don't want you to look like a crazy old geezer.


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With my face against the floor I can’t see who knocked me out of the way.
I don’t want to get back up but I have to so it might as well be today.
Nothing appeals to me no one feels like me, I’m too busy being calm to disappear.
I’m in no shape to be alone contrary to the shit that you might hear.


You can't wake up, this is not a dream. You're part of a machine, you are not a human being
With your face all made up, living on a screen. Low on self esteem, so you run on gasoline


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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
    #22167575 - 08/31/15 03:21 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

an untamed lawn...a sign of an alcohol addict


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