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Burke Dennings
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165101 - 08/30/15 02:51 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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shellzenone said:
To be honest, I never wanted a kid. Now Im realizing alot of things...
I don't know what you meant by this and don't want to assume. Could you please elaborate?
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Burke Dennings]
#22165112 - 08/30/15 02:55 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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OP you drank a pint of vodka. You were hammered. We're only hearing your side of the story. Sorry for your shitty situation but I'll bet it's not as cut and dry as he tells it. I'll bet he doesn't remember half of what he said/did.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Shroomslip]
#22165114 - 08/30/15 02:55 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Reminds me of my ol best friend and his toxic relationship geting into physical fights over petty shit
they dont have a kid yet, but its only a matter of time
I feel sorry for your son, growing up in a rough household sucks my parents used to physically beat each other and i used to be physically abused as a toddler
I wish the best for your son If you guys cant work it out and stop fighting itd be best to give the kid up for adoption or break off the relationship cause broken homes suck so so bad..
You brought him into this world hes your responsibility while he growing up to *hopefully* have a healthy happy life
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone] 2
#22165115 - 08/30/15 02:55 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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It's not really about what was said by you or her. Doesn't matter who was right or wrong. What matters is that you're in a relationship where it's OK for physical abuse to take place.
Your relationship has become toxic, and I for one don't accept any form of violence in a relationship for it to be healthy. Much less viable.
I've been on the receiving end of domestic violence, and I can tell you that the first time a finger was laid on me was the last time I saw that woman. Thankfully we didn't have kids and went our separate ways.
Just do everything in your power to take care of that child. That's what's important right now and if you "didn't want a kid", shit, I don't know what to tell you.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Mescalean] 4
#22165118 - 08/30/15 02:56 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Mescalean said: Perfect example of the matriarchy when it comes to the law OP.
that must be why the cops wanted to take my ex wife to jail for domestic battery when she assaulted me and then called the cops to settle the argument, lol. it must also be why I have custody of my 2 kids. I am oppressed by the matriarchy!
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Mescalean
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Prisoner#1] 1
#22165131 - 08/30/15 03:00 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Prisoner#1 said:
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Mescalean said: Perfect example of the matriarchy when it comes to the law OP.
that must be why the cops wanted to take my ex wife to jail for domestic battery when she assaulted me and then called the cops to settle the argument, lol. it must also be why I have custody of my 2 kids. I am oppressed by the matriarchy!
You know damn well not everyone gets as lucky as you. "matriarchy" was more so me just being a smart ass. I also know you're far from what I would call a unfit parent. This is a position I would have expected crystal to defend lol.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Mescalean]
#22165150 - 08/30/15 03:07 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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that sucks
emo people suck the life out of you day after day
as do hard asses
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165151 - 08/30/15 03:07 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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shellzenone said: After the cops got there, got both sides of the story, saw the marks on my neck, they said I had to leave. What bullshit. I got kicked out of my house. I guess men don't have rights when it comes to domestic disputes.
You must live in a small town.
In my city someone has to go to jail if it involves any physical contact.
As a matter of fact, the police will take you to jail and charge you with domestic violence if your gf/wife "feels threatened".
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165153 - 08/30/15 03:08 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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She sounds like a bitch but you consistently reacted horribly to what she was doing. Maybe drop the liquor habit.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Webster10]
#22165182 - 08/30/15 03:16 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Just to clear things up, Yes i did drink, but my tolerance is high. I usually drink two pints within 4 hours to get drunk. It was just a pint i had. It was saturday night so i though "sure, why not?" I WASNT DRUNK! I would have gone to jail probably. And the only reason i didnt press charges was because I had a sack in my drawers. I dont even smoke but its been there for about a month and thought she would rat me out. I think she was just desperate for my attention, Ive been realy busy with work lately. She gets to stay home all day. Probably gets lonely.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Confucian]
#22165186 - 08/30/15 03:17 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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She used to work in the Police Department Dispatch... She knew what she was doing.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone]
#22165187 - 08/30/15 03:18 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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shellzenone said:
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falsereality said:
My thoughts... I feel bad for the kid they just had.
To be honest, I never wanted a kid. Now Im realizing alot of things...
Doesn't matter if you wanted a child or not. You have one now. You gotta be there for your kid, no matter what. I'm sorry for the stuff that you're going through. I can relate in a lot of ways.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Space Elf]
#22165197 - 08/30/15 03:21 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Feels bad, OP.
Bitches are crazy and the man will always lose in a DV. Even when the female is culpable, the charges are always almost dropped or greatly reduced.
The legal system is sexist.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Space Elf]
#22165198 - 08/30/15 03:22 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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You'll be back together within 1 day.
Edited by Confucian (08/30/15 03:22 PM)
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone] 2
#22165220 - 08/30/15 03:31 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Plant a bunch of meth on her and call the cops and get your baby back
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Prisoner#1]
#22165230 - 08/30/15 03:33 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Prisoner#1 said:
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Mescalean said: Perfect example of the matriarchy when it comes to the law OP.
that must be why the cops wanted to take my ex wife to jail for domestic battery when she assaulted me and then called the cops to settle the argument, lol. it must also be why I have custody of my 2 kids. I am oppressed by the matriarchy!
Could you go into further details as to how she assaulted you, what led to it and how you explained it to the cops?
Cause you know, all the cops have to do is take a look at your dick and see that you are carrying a dangerous weapon
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: Patlal]
#22165235 - 08/30/15 03:34 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Is that true?
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night... [Re: Confucian] 2
#22165245 - 08/30/15 03:37 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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"She gets to stay home all day" I don't want to attack you, but you are making it very hard not to comment on your ignorance. It appears that you cannot fathom the responsibility of parenthood, therefore you do not respect or appreciate her appropriately.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night... [Re: SkagitHunter]
#22165257 - 08/30/15 03:40 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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What i meant to say was that she might feel like im not around because she stays home and I work monday-saturday and even sundays when I have to.
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Re: so my girl called the cops on me last night.... [Re: shellzenone] 2
#22165273 - 08/30/15 03:47 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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shellzenone said: Just to clear things up, Yes i did drink, but my tolerance is high. I usually drink two pints within 4 hours to get drunk. It was just a pint i had. It was saturday night so i though "sure, why not?" I WASNT DRUNK! I would have gone to jail probably. And the only reason i didnt press charges was because I had a sack in my drawers. I dont even smoke but its been there for about a month and thought she would rat me out. I think she was just desperate for my attention, Ive been realy busy with work lately. She gets to stay home all day. Probably gets lonely.
Oh okay, you only drank a pint and not two, so you were being responsible that night.. The fact that you 'weren't drunk' from a pint of vodka and you need to drink two to get hammered means you're a pretty big alcoholic.
You're probably too fucking smashed all the time to even realize how horrible you are to live with. And whoever said you probably don't even remember half the shit you said or did is right.
I hope you can work through all of this and still be there for your child, whether you and your g/f actually split up for good or not. I think your perspective has been warped, and is going to continue to be warped on everything that happens until you stop letting the alcohol cloud it and get some help. You've got a kid man.
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