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Anonymous #1
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first ever girl / girl-friend?
#22163510 - 08/30/15 06:03 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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im 20 and everything recently has began to fall in place for me in life.
money, girls, friends, job, gym gains.
Theres this girl at my job, shes a volunteer, we've been kicking it off.
first time we went out she invited me to a milkshake bar with her friend after work,which her friend also likes me. we were there just talking. she invited me to clubbing with her on the saturday, she said ill enjoy it. clubbing is not my thing but i decided to go. smoked a joint and had to vodkas and we dance all night together, we kiss, i touch her tits and her pussy up, and her ass. it was a good night. we all head home, and we kiss one more time before parting.
the next time we see each other is at work, she comes in we talk alittle, and i start touching her ass and hugging her. we talk, she pushing my her ass against my dick, when no customers are around. anyways after work that day i go gym with my friend and she comes along. shes just there hugging me and motivating me putting her ass against me as my friend does he's reps. we head home i drop her off at the station again we kiss.
on thurday im off, and we are going out. i have no idea where to take her? what do i do? im thinking of going to a cafe, and i want to go either to a muesum i dont know if shell like it? do we have sex on the first time? ... or i take her cafe, shops alittle and to my place for sex? or is this to quick? im not sure if i even want a relationship, i just want a fuck buddy i think. any advice please?
Edited by Anonymous (08/30/15 06:08 AM)
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Anonymous #2
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Re: first ever girl / girl-friend? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22163644 - 08/30/15 07:39 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said: im 20 and everything recently has began to fall in place for me in life.
money, girls, friends, job, gym gains.
Theres this girl at my job, shes a volunteer, we've been kicking it off.
first time we went out she invited me to a milkshake bar with her friend after work,which her friend also likes me. we were there just talking. she invited me to clubbing with her on the saturday, she said ill enjoy it. clubbing is not my thing but i decided to go. smoked a joint and had to vodkas and we dance all night together, we kiss, i touch her tits and her pussy up, and her ass. it was a good night. we all head home, and we kiss one more time before parting.
the next time we see each other is at work, she comes in we talk alittle, and i start touching her ass and hugging her. we talk, she pushing my her ass against my dick, when no customers are around. anyways after work that day i go gym with my friend and she comes along. shes just there hugging me and motivating me putting her ass against me as my friend does he's reps. we head home i drop her off at the station again we kiss.
on thurday im off, and we are going out. i have no idea where to take her? what do i do? im thinking of going to a cafe, and i want to go either to a muesum i dont know if shell like it? do we have sex on the first time? ... or i take her cafe, shops alittle and to my place for sex? or is this to quick? im not sure if i even want a relationship, i just want a fuck buddy i think. any advice please?
Take her out for lunch and then suggest to go back to your or her place to chill out, then fuck.
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Re: first ever girl / girl-friend? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22164665 - 08/30/15 12:40 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Alright man, its obvious to me that she wants to have sex but you are worried if you are moving to fast or not. Additionally, you desire a fuck buddy and not sure on how she will take that or if that is what she wants at all. I think you should talk about it with her to some degree.
Others will tell you just to fuck but its hard for us guys that have hardcore moral compasses. I think you should take her out to places that interest you and also her, again talk with her to figure out those interests. Most females want a relationship, but you all are brand spanking new, you got to figure out that as you go along.
Me personally, I have to have sex with someone before i think about long term commitment. I say have sex with her. Communicate interests prior and then bang it out. If the sex is great than i would hang on to her for as long as possible.
It's nice having guaranteed sex, when you're single you have to try to impress all the time and it's hit or miss. If she is a keeper, than hang on to that piece of poontang ~ Infinitetoker
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Anonymous #4
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Re: first ever girl / girl-friend? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22180910 - 09/02/15 10:20 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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If you don't at least make an attempt to fuck her you'll regret it for the rest of your life. She obviously is craving your dick just invite her over for a "movie" and get the ball rolling. It's kind of hard to fuck in a cafe, go somewhere private.
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Anonymous #5
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Re: first ever girl / girl-friend? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#22183562 - 09/03/15 03:33 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Usually for me taking a girl out in public is so she doesn't think I'm just trying to fuck her. She seems comfortable being alone with you...just invite her over
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Anonymous #6
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Re: first ever girl / girl-friend? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#22185066 - 09/03/15 09:02 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yeah you gotta try to have sex. She will be into it.
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Anonymous #7
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Re: first ever girl / girl-friend? [Re: Anonymous #6]
#22205379 - 09/08/15 12:41 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yea shes down... Obviously haha. You did a good job by waiting now she wants it even more...
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Anonymous #8
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Re: first ever girl / girl-friend? [Re: Anonymous #7]
#22226365 - 09/12/15 09:44 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Bro if you touched her pussy you are basically half way there. Fuck that bitch quick bro. She wants your dick
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Anonymous #9
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Re: first ever girl / girl-friend? [Re: Anonymous #8]
#22231398 - 09/13/15 12:10 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Start off by maybe not calling her a bitch, but yeah bro, totally hit that.
Honestly, if you just want a FWB, you might tell her that. (Like, get laid first, obvs.) But if you're the one to first bring up that notion of, "Hey, I'm not sure I want a relationship just yet, but I really enjoy your company," I'd bet she'd appreciate the honesty and also feel relaxed that the stress wasn't on her of "defining the relationship." It buys you time, essentially. You get a chance to spend more time together, feel it out (heh), see if you even want to pursue a long term thing, and then you can make an informed decision later. If she pushes you for it, well, that's another story. We don't know a ton about her at this point, other than she makes your dick hard, but if she seems cool, then cool. Pursue that shit.
-lutece
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