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ModestMouse
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Lifting my head out of the sand
#22149383 - 08/26/15 10:53 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm starting to become close friends with a girl who's caught my eye. We met through mutual friends, one of which I'd had a small fling with awhile back. Ended up laying on a friends bed chatting the night we met. This chick makes me laugh, and can hold good conversation for hours. She made me and a few of my friends dinner tonight and invited us over. She cooked a fucking awesome meal and I stuck around chatting with her and another friend for a while. The home cooked dinner did my body justice since I've been eating sparse lately. She joked that she'd cook for me every night in exchange for a bottle of wine every week. It was absurd but I enjoyed the thought.
I haven't seen a chick so cool and relatable in almost half a decade, and I just realized I'm rusty at starting proper relationships. Most of my interactions with women over the past few years have been drunken flings, friends with benefits, or a few weeks of indulgence; Simply put nothing was catching my eye at all, the women seemed vapid and uncompelling.
I want to tell her how I feel but my gut tells me to ride this out a little further and it will just click into gear eventually... There's always the possibility she may lose interest through inaction or slow pace, but I think shes in my court so to speak.
Any advice or am I playing this out right? I'm almost certain I'll let fate handle it, but I had to write this out to rationalize it, and second opinions don't hurt.
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Edited by ModestMouse (08/26/15 11:30 PM)
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Re: Lifting my head out of the sand [Re: ModestMouse]
#22149411 - 08/26/15 11:02 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Do what feels right
Im usually upfront and honest about liking someone sometimes subtle and sometimes blunt
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Re: Lifting my head out of the sand [Re: SunnyD]
#22149446 - 08/26/15 11:14 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Just hit her up, then you'll know either way, the signs seem positive so go for it dude, what have you got to lose? At very least you'll put the idea in her head and who knows what might come from that.
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Maybe try to do something with just you and her? Unless you have already? That's usually a good way to get things started. And hell if she likes you it won't matter what you propose you do, she'll just be happy you asked her to hang out.
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ModestMouse
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Re: Lifting my head out of the sand [Re: ModestMouse]
#22164078 - 08/30/15 10:10 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Mission accomplished.
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Re: Lifting my head out of the sand [Re: ModestMouse]
#22164133 - 08/30/15 10:26 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Nudes?
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ModestMouse
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Re: Lifting my head out of the sand [Re: madmodder]
#22164277 - 08/30/15 11:02 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Lol perfect grem.
Probably not, that'd be a dick move unless she was into it lol.
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Re: Lifting my head out of the sand [Re: ModestMouse]
#22164319 - 08/30/15 11:14 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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just continue to spend time with her and hopefully enjoy that time, it sounds like she is enjoying it as well, should be a natural progression from there.
if she likes wine man find out from her friends if you don't know what varietals she enjoys and pick up some nice bottles, booze gifts will sweeten any deal.
enjoy the thrill of finding someone at least semi compatible.
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ModestMouse
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Good advice. She likes Apple pucker ( ), so I'm gonna bring her a bottle one of these nights.
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