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Pretty Girl at Farmer's Market
#22149321 - 08/26/15 10:30 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I started going to a popular farmer's market over the last couple weekends. I had met this girl that must be around my own age (30) whom has a vendor around Shea butter products. The first time I approached her vendor I was mainly curious about her product and took a flyer on Shea butter. the next week she remember seeing me and said hi, so I bought some of her Chapstick because I feel the rest of her stuff is more geared towards women. she had bug spray too, but meh. I found out her name and went to her Facebook. she has a young boy with a black guy. she is white. I'm white. meow ever there profiles didn't say they were a couple eventhough his profile reflects that a lot. I want to ask her out for dinner at the next farmer's market. however, I don't know how I would approach that other than commenting about her Chapstick I've been using then leading into asking her out. am I going too far. does it matter if her child is there. he isn't but works at a children's hospital.
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fbi365
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Re: Pretty Girl at Farmer's Market [Re: encryptor]
#22149359 - 08/26/15 10:44 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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If she doesn't want to go on a date with you she will tell you she has a boyfriend. If she has a boyfriend she will say something similar.
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Re: Pretty Girl at Farmer's Market [Re: fbi365]
#22149363 - 08/26/15 10:46 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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maybe she's just staying in this relationship until something better comes along.
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fbi365
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Re: Pretty Girl at Farmer's Market [Re: encryptor]
#22149391 - 08/26/15 10:54 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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You don't know that. Better just buy some shae butter products and ask her out...
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Re: Pretty Girl at Farmer's Market [Re: fbi365]
#22149408 - 08/26/15 11:01 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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she probably would like if I bought something more and then ask her out.
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Re: Pretty Girl at Farmer's Market [Re: encryptor]
#22149525 - 08/26/15 11:40 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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buy something expensive at the store....it will impress her...she is a money hungry whore just like all women
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Re: Pretty Girl at Farmer's Market [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22149801 - 08/27/15 02:29 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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No don't buy anything else from her. Just start some small talk and ask her out.
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Re: Pretty Girl at Farmer's Market [Re: DTCharlieB]
#22149994 - 08/27/15 06:22 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yeah just pretend to be really confident and talk to her. After the first minute or so you'll be comfortable enough to not force it and go from there. Try to not square your shoulders up to her either.
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You're screwed either way, op....even if you do get a date with her and manage to get lucky, you will here those horrible words spoken..."Is it in yet?" Remember....she's been with a black guy...you will always feel inadequate.
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nah, I've never heard complaints. ok, I won't buy anything and will start some small talk then ask her out on a dinner date.
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Re: Pretty Girl at Farmer's Market [Re: encryptor]
#22154538 - 08/28/15 12:24 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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stick a banana in your pocket for good luck!
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Re: Pretty Girl at Farmer's Market [Re: LackToast]
#22158276 - 08/28/15 08:18 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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ok, that's pretty good thinking.
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Re: Pretty Girl at Farmer's Market [Re: encryptor]
#22162067 - 08/29/15 06:58 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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 Sounds like a nightmare you are just aching to have. Be direct, I can tell you most of us darker skinned guys tend to be straight forward and tell females what we want. I suggest not playing games and making small talk with her, just straight up tell her you find her attractive and that you are interested in getting to know her. Only thing else I can add is there is a distinct possibility she isn't attracted to white guys since she has a mixed race son. Well best of luck. Nothing ventured nothing gained
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Re: Pretty Girl at Farmer's Market [Re: basqueshaman]
#22226618 - 09/12/15 11:01 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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i went to the following farmer's market and her black boyfriend was there feeding the baby. So this time I just walked by and now I've moved on. I probably should have spoke up about finding her attractive the week before. live and learn.
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Re: Pretty Girl at Farmer's Market [Re: encryptor]
#22227530 - 09/12/15 03:14 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yeah bcus being a week earlier would have given you a better chance at her leaving her family to be with you because you find her attractive
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Re: Pretty Girl at Farmer's Market [Re: Anonymous #2]
#22232092 - 09/13/15 02:42 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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you're right
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