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First Threesome
#22138308 - 08/25/15 12:17 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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So I'm kind of in a predicament...
I've never had a threesome before, and my girlfriend would like to change this. One of my friends, and his ex-gf have been staying at our house this past week with my gf, while I have been gone visiting my family. Well, it turns out that my gf and my friend's ex-gf have been talking, and my gf mentioned the threesome thing to my friend's ex-gf. His ex-gf then admitted that she is attracted to my gf, and insisted that she would be down to have the threesome with us as she just broke up or got dumped by her current bf.
This girl is really awesome, and very beautiful, but I don't know if this is the right thing to do seeing as to how she's my friend's ex-gf. She said we could all keep it on the DL, and I begin to think "life is short, we only live once", but I have some reservations. In all honesty, I'm not even sure my friend would care, but I'm afraid to ask him.
I am very picky about who I have sexual relations with, and this girl is perfect (the embodiment of everything I would hope for in a woman to partake in a threesome with my gf and I).
What would you guys do?! I'm torn!
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Re: First Threesome [Re: unsui888]
#22138357 - 08/25/15 12:37 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I did this once. Me and homie are still really good friends. When he asked about it, I asked him, "What would you do if two beautiful women got you drunk and then wanted you to have a threesome?" He kinda laughed and agreed he would probably do the same especially based on the situation (she slept around with a bunch of people afterward). With that being said, I felt guilty for a while, and he didnt find out about it until after he had a new girlfriend.
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Re: First Threesome [Re: unsui888]
#22138469 - 08/25/15 01:46 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Do it and don't stir the pot. If your friend D asks you, be honest.
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Re: First Threesome [Re: koraks]
#22138690 - 08/25/15 03:45 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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You are only going to regret the chances you didn“t take. Such a cliche but so true in this case.
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Yep. You're always gonna ask yourself how this would have turned out
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Re: First Threesome [Re: hayabuser] 1
#22138828 - 08/25/15 05:06 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Also if you make sure both ladies have a lot of fun, then its likely that your gf will be down for future threesomes.
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Re: First Threesome [Re: thelanzii] 1
#22140145 - 08/25/15 10:25 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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DO IT! Make them both blow you at the same time too. It's awesome
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The only reason I am hesitant is because there is a good chance that my friend's ex and him might get back together...
It's weird though too... I'm trying to see whether I would care or be hurt by such a situation, and with this particular friend I am not so sure I would care if he had a threesome with my ex... but I don't know if he feels the same way and I'm just scared to even ask.
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Re: First Threesome [Re: unsui888] 1
#22143112 - 08/25/15 08:48 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Fucking do it.
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Re: First Threesome [Re: automan]
#22143636 - 08/25/15 10:41 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I think I'm going to have to take some Vicodin or something, or else I'll probably bust too soon!
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Re: First Threesome [Re: unsui888]
#22143665 - 08/25/15 10:46 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Eat some acid with them, and then it wont matter if you cum too soon because you will stay hard and cum a bunch more times. Its pretty much superViagra for threesomes.
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3somes are so overated. Fuck it's so much work satisfying one girl. Mmf is a different story. I've done it a couple times with the homies and the slutty girls. But mff i just focus on the girl that i actually want to be fucking. There are some hot moments but ugh. So much work.
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Re: First Threesome [Re: Enjoywho]
#22143967 - 08/25/15 11:55 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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It all depends if your both into it. Me personally no. Not really my girl is mine and i wanna keep it that way. But some people like that stuff. That's cool do you.
It doesn't really sound like your into the idea. And frankly your gfs friend may be hotter. I've had this propositiend before and i ended up fucking the other girl more as it was new and hot as fuck. I'm not with that girl anymore.
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Re: First Threesome [Re: Enjoywho]
#22144042 - 08/26/15 12:17 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Imo you should get the 3rd party off first with your girl. Then you and 3rd party get your girl off. I call it "the Star Player". As long as its communicated and everyone is into it, it works really well on keeping everybody happy. This has always been my favorite way to have threesomes because I usually am initially way hornier for the girl I havent fucked yet or dont fuck a lot while my partner plays with her, and then after I fuck her and she inevitably isnt as good of a fuck as my partner, I have a blast fucking my partner while the other girl licks her clit or asshole. MFF has never been hard work for me.. maybe I just have crazy stamina though.
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Hmmm, never tried sex on acid before. Usually my dick seems to shrivel up, but I'm usually on dissociatives with acid as well.
And I'm definitely not into MMF threesomes, only MFF. I am really starting to think I might just go for it.
And I like your thinking empty space. Perhaps I can lick the girl's clit, while my gf fingers her, and then my gf can sit on her face and get eaten out by her, while I fuck her. And then I can fuck my gf, while she eats out the girl? Of course all of this would occur after they both give me head at the same time :-)
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Re: First Threesome [Re: unsui888]
#22146728 - 08/26/15 01:59 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Exactly. Yes to all of that. Just have fun with it. I personally think MFF threesomes are only difficult for guys whose sole idea of sex is penis into vagina.
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Re: First Threesome [Re: automan] 1
#22146752 - 08/26/15 02:05 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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That would sort of defeat the whole purpose of a threesome...
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My first 3way, the girls were up for the idea, but in the room it was clear that they wouldnt be getting each other off. My 2nd 3way was much better
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Re: First Threesome [Re: automan]
#22147301 - 08/26/15 03:49 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well the girl made it clear that she is attracted to my gf, and that she was up for the threesome, so I don't think that will be an issue...
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Re: First Threesome [Re: unsui888]
#22147682 - 08/26/15 05:08 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'd just encourage you to think about how you'll feel when she wants to be made seaworthy. If you don't mind an MMF (or MMMF) taking place with your GF then go for it. If you don't think you'd be down for that, then skip the MFF (with her at least) or else you'll never hear the end of it.
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Re: First Threesome [Re: Srirachi]
#22147771 - 08/26/15 05:26 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Not necessarily true. I think its reasonable for a straight man to be down for an MFF and not an MMF. With that being said, if its something your girl wants and you dont, it can definitely cause some problems in your relationship. Personally, Ive never had to experience that because my rule with my partner is that I'm down for an MMF but it has to be a guy I'm comfortable with in a situation I am comfortable with -- obviously the same as it would be for her and an MFF threesome. We both have absolute veto powers when it comes to who we have threesomes with and we both respect each other. Luckily, she finds women to be far more attractive than men so she has never tried to initiate an MMF. If it ever happens, it will probably be at Burning Man on a lot of acid and K with a super cute bisexual guy that we will never see again.
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Yeah, she has already kind of given me a little slack for not being down for MMF, but I don't think it's anything serious. I should definitely make it clear that if we are to do the MFF, I don't want to hear about it being unfair. I think she understands where I stand on the issue though.
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Re: First Threesome [Re: Srirachi]
#22148732 - 08/26/15 08:21 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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What? MFF doesn't mean he has to do MMF..that doesn't make any sense. I love MFF and hate MMF. Shes bi clearly that doesn't mean he is, who in their right mind would demand a sex a.c. from someone not into that? Sounds like you just had a bad experience with a crazy and think it applies to everyone.
Anyway OP absolutely do it! They're both consenting adults and clearly want to, I dont see the harm in it.
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Re: First Threesome [Re: Euphie]
#22148864 - 08/26/15 08:46 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well the only thing holding me back is my conscience concerning my friend, who I think still likes his ex....
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Re: First Threesome [Re: Euphie]
#22149291 - 08/26/15 10:18 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Oh, I wouldn't call it a bad experience...
I'm shocked to learn that there will be exceptions, because in my experience everyone is exactly the same.
I stand by my point. It's something to think about, and if it would bother OP, discuss.
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Re: First Threesome [Re: Srirachi]
#22154619 - 08/28/15 12:47 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well it turns out this girl just got back together with her bf (not my friend, but her most recent bf who recently dumped her because she was hanging out with my friend - aka her ex bf). So looks like I will have to wait until they finally break up for good!
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Re: First Threesome [Re: unsui888] 1
#22154801 - 08/28/15 02:43 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Threesomes only happen in porn, I knew it!
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Do it man! don't think just do it!
you will regret it if you don't.
Once upon a time I was hanging out with this girl and her friend (both very sexy, one black one white)at her house. Me and the white girl went into her room and started making out on her bed. then her friend walked in and sat down on the bed on my other side. I forgot what she said but it was something along the lines of "Im lonely" and gave me a very sexy seductive look. I kept at it with the white girl and eventually the black girl left the room saying something like "oh I'm not good enough?". SOMEHOW this all went right over my head
I genuinely didn't see what was going on untill the next day.
real shitty lol
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So apparently, although this girl has a bf, her bf is okay with her having a threesome with us... 
My girl keeps asking me if I want it to be a stranger or someone we know; to lay some ground rules... but I honestly don't know. I'm not usually the type who feels comfortable fucking some stranger, unless she is just drop dead gorgeous. So perhaps it would be better to just do it with this girl who we've began to know...
But then I brought up that I don't want her hanging this over my head because I won't be into a MMF, and that her participating in a MFF is entirely different than me participating in a MMF. She is bisexual, so of course a MFF would be more than gratifying for her. On the other hand, I'm probably as far as you can be on the non-gay spectrum without actually being a homophobe gay basher. So participating in a MMF would just never happen; plus, I would probably feel sick watching another dude's dick go into her. Apparently, this is a double standard to her and she thinks it is because she is just more sexually open, and that if I were more sexually open then I could participate in a MMF. Well, duh. She's fucking bisexual, so of course she's more open! I am not bi in anyway so that would be extremely difficult for me to participate in an MMF.
Do you guys agree with her in that it's a double standard for me (a straight male) to have a threesome with my gf who is bi and another girl who is bi, while rejecting the possibility of an MMF?
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Re: First Threesome [Re: unsui888]
#22162527 - 08/29/15 09:22 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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http://fyfriendlyfire.com/
i don't think it is a double standard but it does sound like the threesome is complicating things before it ever even happened
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That's why i don't fuck around with 3 somes with my girl. I like to keep it 1 on 1. 3 somes are for that weird night everyone gets drunk and shit just naturally happens.
But personally i wouldn't want my girl fucking another guy or girl. Some people are into it. Me personally? No
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Re: First Threesome [Re: unsui888]
#22162678 - 08/29/15 10:02 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Tell her you're repulsed by seeing naked men with boners. She sounds like a freak
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Re: First Threesome [Re: Enjoywho]
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Whether or not its a double standard comes down to who you ask. Personally I think it is not a double standard, and regardless I'd still be down for an MMF w my main partner in the right situation. With that being said if your partner thinks its a double standard, that's something you gotta figure out with her.
Btw I'm not bi I'm not sexually attracted to men -- I've tried it out and it didn't excite me. But I am into group sex and I don't want to deprive my partner of her sexual fantasies if she wants to explore. I agree with your girl that you are being a little closed minded but I still don't think that's a double standard -- if you aren't down with the MMF then you aren't down with the MMF. Personally I think it's worth toying with the idea of MMF because MFF is reallllllllly fun.
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Enjoywho said: 3 somes are for that weird night everyone gets drunk and shit just naturally happens.
Eh not really they are way better with other substances that are more lucid. I personally don't like drunk threesomes (buzzed is another story) because someone usually regrets them later. If you can't be comfortable with a threesome without alcohol you probably shouldn't have them. Although once you're more experienced with group sex, a little bit of alcohol can definitely be fun.
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Let me rephrase. When everyones fucked up in general. Mollys a good one.
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Re: First Threesome [Re: Enjoywho]
#22163057 - 08/29/15 11:49 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Yeah, I don't know why she thinks it's a double standard when she's bisexual, and I'm not! If I was bisexual like her, then I might begin to think it's a double standard, but I just do not want to see any dudes naked, let alone fucking my gf.
I told her that we maybe shouldn't have a threesome because of her thinking it's a double standard, but then she thinks that I will stray away from her and fuck some other girl because I've already mentioned that I want to have a threesome, and I would essentially be depriving myself if we did not. Granted, we have past issues with me wanting other women, so I understand where she's coming from. But all in all, I want to be with her, and if I'm with another woman I would want to share her with my gf...
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Re: First Threesome [Re: unsui888]
#22163705 - 08/30/15 08:12 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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Tell her to stop being so greedy for foreign cocks
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Well, she says it wouldn't bug her that much that she would hold it over my head, but she tends to hold other shit over my head sometimes (such as my drug use)...
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Re: First Threesome [Re: unsui888]
#22168361 - 08/31/15 10:15 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
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What do you mean by hold it over your head? If the relationship is good just say fuck the threesome because she obviously wants to make a big deal about it.
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