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Invisibletrekie
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Getting married and changing your name * 1
    #22134847 - 08/24/15 10:20 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

What do you guys think about this.

Should a women keep her name or take his. If that's okay then what's wrong with him taking hers .

I'm taking her last name my last name is from my father who I haven't seen in 25 years or so.

It's free so I changed my middle name too.

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Re: Getting married and changing your name [Re: trekie]
    #22134873 - 08/24/15 10:26 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

whatever you do, don't sign anything. why make a symbolic act legally binding?


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Re: Getting married and changing your name [Re: trekie]
    #22134874 - 08/24/15 10:28 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

It's an inconsequential and trivial matter.  You are you, not your name.


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Re: Getting married and changing your name [Re: abltsandwich] * 1
    #22134903 - 08/24/15 10:32 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

trekie said:
What do you guys think about this.

Should a women keep her name or take his. If that's okay then what's wrong with him taking hers .

I'm taking her last name my last name is from my father who I haven't seen in 25 years or so.

It's free so I changed my middle name too.

:bender:




I don't think many men would choose to take their wife's last name, kind of degrading.


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Re: Getting married and changing your name [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #22134909 - 08/24/15 10:34 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

That's how I feel. So I made my name awesome.




I've been with my woman for almost a decade. So I'm pretty sure it's going to work
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rbalzer said:
whatever you do, don't sign anything. why make a symbolic act legally binding?




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Re: Getting married and changing your name [Re: abltsandwich]
    #22134910 - 08/24/15 10:34 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

My wife kept her name because of her professional credentials.  Too much of a pain in the ass to go about changing all that crap.


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Re: Getting married and changing your name [Re: qman]
    #22134911 - 08/24/15 10:34 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I'm almost 100% likely going to take my wife's last name as long as it's not an ugly ass last name. The reason I'm taking my wife's last name is because I hate my father and it would be a giant fuck you to him if I not only absconded his family name but also completely cut off his legacy by not giving my children his family name and instead giving them my wife's family name. Fuck my dad


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Re: Getting married and changing your name [Re: qman]
    #22134918 - 08/24/15 10:37 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I didn't weant my first wife to chasnge her name but she insisted.  She still uses it.  Which I hate.  My second wife kept her name through both marriages but all the kids have the father's last name.  The whole thing is kind of anachronistic but hyphenation is idiotic.


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Re: Getting married and changing your name [Re: trekie] * 1
    #22134960 - 08/24/15 10:49 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

You should change your name to Engelbert Humperdinck


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Re: Getting married and changing your name [Re: nicechrisman]
    #22135046 - 08/24/15 11:12 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

In the unlikely event I get married, I would prefer my wife take my name. Personal preference. Whether or not she keeps her old last name before mine is up to her.


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Re: Getting married and changing your name [Re: nicechrisman] * 1
    #22135050 - 08/24/15 11:14 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I changed my Shroomery name from Wiccan_Seeker to Asante when I got married to God



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Re: Getting married and changing your name [Re: Asante] * 1
    #22135188 - 08/24/15 11:59 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

:picard:


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Re: Getting married and changing your name [Re: trekie]
    #22135244 - 08/24/15 12:14 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

You should hyphenate the names together ten when your kids get married, they can do the same thing.


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Re: Getting married and changing your name [Re: zappaisgod]
    #22135297 - 08/24/15 12:31 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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zappaisgod said:
:picard:




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Re: Getting married and changing your name [Re: Asante]
    #22135337 - 08/24/15 12:46 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I don't plan on getting married, but I put importance in my heritage so it would be hard to relinquish my last name for another.
If I ever did change my last name, I would change it back to what it was before my ancestors were put through the progroms in Ukraine.


I wouldn't ever make the demand for my spouse to change her last name either. It's something that should be a voluntary choice.


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Re: Getting married and changing your name [Re: Asante]
    #22135385 - 08/24/15 12:59 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Since I have to change my name just to be on Facebook.

I'll have to change my name before I get married, too, I suppose.


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Re: Getting married and changing your name [Re: trekie]
    #22135398 - 08/24/15 01:00 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

The name thing doesn't matter to me but I get the problems with it. I mean eventually, one name has to win out. You can't go hyphenating two already hyphenated names or you'll end up with a frankensteinien mosnter of a name after a couple  generations of implementation.
I'd have no problem with a woman keeping her name, and as a guy I wouldn't change mine personally.


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Re: Getting married and changing your name [Re: Ezuma] * 1
    #22135485 - 08/24/15 01:27 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

wait....asante is wiccan seeker?

damn names changes


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Re: Getting married and changing your name [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #22135549 - 08/24/15 01:49 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Didnt you know? :shocked:


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Re: Getting married and changing your name [Re: Psilosopherr]
    #22135582 - 08/24/15 02:00 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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rbalzer said:
wait....asante is wiccan seeker?

damn names changes




I even remember his old avatar from days gone by, it was a black dude walking, a computer generated graphic if memory serves me correct.


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