|
Black_Sunset
Amateur Anesthesiologist


Registered: 11/16/08
Posts: 2,451
Loc: Somewhere California
Last seen: 5 years, 7 months
|
Good things come to those who wait
#22129442 - 08/23/15 02:10 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
Since the first day I started this job 9 months ago I have had a strong connection with one of my coworkers. We flirt, tease, have a lot in common and catch each other staring constantly...but of course we never talk about it...just lots of fun sexual tension. A few weeks ago she became single. I didn't really have a plan to ask her out as I had lost sight of my old desires to be with her.
A few weeks go by and one day she hands me my coffee which had an incredible design etched in the top of the foam. It was so elaborate that all the customers around us oo'ed and ahh'ed and one said "wow she must REALLY like you" - she started blushing instantly and so did I probably. I walked back to what I was doing smiling and thought about asking her out again. I remembered that the next day there was a show I had wanted to go to. I caught her alone as she was leaving work and in a nervous spattering of words I asked her to come out with me that night. Nervous as well she told me about her plans she had already made. Fuck.
I was bummed. She walked off and I sat next to her barista coworker and told her what happened and that I had asked her out. Suddenly after recanting the story I realized I had told her the wrong day, so I got her number from the girl and finished my shift and went home.
I sent her a text, trying to sound cool and not desperate and not weird that I got her number from someone so that I could ask her out to the same thing twice...I over think things if you cant tell. Told her it was tomorrow...she asked about it...and said YES!
I pick her up after work. We had never hung out outside of work except for one party months ago. It was fun...I was nervous and excited. We drove far to the party but the ride was great. It was a show in a big venue but with a low-key vibe kinda deal. DJ's, artists, whatever. We weren't feeling the music too much but that was fine because we spent most of the night in this secluded spot overlooking the sea of people outside. We had a lot to talk about and had a fun time. After a few hours of the party and a few drinks I kissed her in that spot. I told her I had been wanting to do that for a long time... she said what took you.
4 am we get kicked out. I didn't want to hookup with her so I took her to the beach and we grabbed a blanket and just talked more until the sun came up. Got some breakfast and I took her home so she could get ready for work. It was really comfortable and I was happy.
2nd date, hiking, food, star gazing, I showed her some stuff I had written. We found the backseat of my car but she was on her period so we just talked and held each other half dressed and fell asleep.
3rd date I take her to this awesome event. Run around the city and we end up at her place. Sex was good and what a fucking relief too. 3 dates is a long time to wait! I got her to call in sick so we could keep going well into the morning
--------------------

Edited by Black_Sunset (08/23/15 02:12 AM)
|
Tripsurfer
Bring Back Asante!



Registered: 08/01/12
Posts: 7,129
Loc: West of Windward
Last seen: 3 months, 28 days
|
Re: Good things come to those who wait [Re: Black_Sunset]
#22129453 - 08/23/15 02:18 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
-------------------- Ach en wee ben ik de klos, met mijn boog schoot ik een albatros... A philosopher is a person who knows less and less about more and more, until he knows nothing about everything.

|
MoxyOx
Grazin'

Registered: 10/08/10
Posts: 1,439
Loc:
Last seen: 1 month, 20 days
|
Re: Good things come to those who wait [Re: Tripsurfer]
#22141068 - 08/25/15 02:23 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Tripsurfer said:

-------------------- No one behind, no one ahead. The path the ancients cleared has closed. And the other path, everyone's path, easy and wide, goes nowhere. I am alone and find my way.
|
empty space
the void


Registered: 12/19/12
Posts: 1,120
Last seen: 6 years, 10 months
|
Re: Good things come to those who wait [Re: MoxyOx]
#22141347 - 08/25/15 03:24 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
MoxyOx said:
Quote:
Tripsurfer said:

--------------------
|
Lachy
Just doin' it



Registered: 06/03/15
Posts: 308
Loc: Australia
Last seen: 4 years, 3 months
|
Re: Good things come to those who wait [Re: empty space]
#22152191 - 08/27/15 03:56 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
Good things rarely come to those who wait, this is one of the worst philosophies in life. Sorry to burst ya bubble... If you want something you have to go for it, work for it or earn it. Like anything in life.
In saying that, 3 dates is somewhat of a long time to wait these days for sex, considering how easy girls/guys are these days.. obviously you had to do a bit of work for it, good on you for getting there.. but 3 dates.. how easy does that tell you she is? Not meaning to offend if I am.. I hope you see where I'm going with this.
On the flip side.. if you just wanted your dick wet and thought she would be good for it.. mission complete.. lol? Haha.
Edited by Lachy (08/27/15 03:57 PM)
|
basqueshaman
Todays scapegoat



Registered: 04/01/11
Posts: 6,258
Loc: Washington State
|
Re: Good things come to those who wait [Re: Lachy] 1
#22162083 - 08/29/15 07:02 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
|
|
Congratulations on having life go your way. Now answer the question, next time she is on the rag are you going to earn your red wings?
|
Dakotaap0



Registered: 10/05/12
Posts: 465
|
Re: Good things come to those who wait *DELETED* [Re: basqueshaman]
#22162111 - 08/29/15 07:12 PM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
|
|
Post deleted by Dakotaap0
Reason for deletion: .
-------------------- "We
|
Black_Sunset
Amateur Anesthesiologist


Registered: 11/16/08
Posts: 2,451
Loc: Somewhere California
Last seen: 5 years, 7 months
|
Re: Good things come to those who wait [Re: Dakotaap0]
#22168315 - 08/31/15 10:00 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
|
|
lmao. Yeah, technically it would have been 2 dates. I don't know, does that make her easy or not I don't understand what you're getting at. We have great chemistry and it worked out at the right time, not because of some morality about waiting to have sex.
Anyway, update. We hangout once or twice a week and enjoy each other a lot.
Actually I have never earned my true red wings, only caught the beginning or end and stained a mattress. I have a very sensitive sense of smell and taste so most times I can smell that shit through their pants and it makes me want to vomit. We will see. Time to man up.
I did eat some ben and jerry's out of her pussy last night though. Ice cream wings?
--------------------

|
Amanita86
OTD Keymaster


Registered: 09/26/12
Posts: 89,464
Loc: hades
|
Re: Good things come to those who wait [Re: Black_Sunset]
#22168535 - 08/31/15 10:55 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Black_Sunset said:
I did eat some ben and jerry's out of her pussy last night though.
Which flavor?
--------------------
Orange clock, pencil "They threw me off the hay truck about noon..."
*Mark 15:34  Gam zeh ya’avor...
|
MoxyOx
Grazin'

Registered: 10/08/10
Posts: 1,439
Loc:
Last seen: 1 month, 20 days
|
Re: Good things come to those who wait [Re: Amanita86]
#22168541 - 08/31/15 10:57 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
|
|
Meatloaf.
-------------------- No one behind, no one ahead. The path the ancients cleared has closed. And the other path, everyone's path, easy and wide, goes nowhere. I am alone and find my way.
|
Black_Sunset
Amateur Anesthesiologist


Registered: 11/16/08
Posts: 2,451
Loc: Somewhere California
Last seen: 5 years, 7 months
|
Re: Good things come to those who wait [Re: MoxyOx]
#22172199 - 09/01/15 12:50 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
|
|
chunky monkey.
--------------------

|
Amanita86
OTD Keymaster


Registered: 09/26/12
Posts: 89,464
Loc: hades
|
Re: Good things come to those who wait [Re: Black_Sunset]
#22172251 - 09/01/15 01:18 AM (8 years, 4 months ago) |
|
|
Turtle soup..
--------------------
Orange clock, pencil "They threw me off the hay truck about noon..."
*Mark 15:34  Gam zeh ya’avor...
|
|