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Re: When you have a major crush on ur boyfriends good friend.... LADY'S help [Re: burningstar06]
    #22124922 - 08/21/15 10:51 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I don't know I've been thinking about our relationship a lot latley o really do love everything else about him and what makes it worse is that he's the only guy over ever intimately been with. I'm going through a lot mentally right now and I don't know what would happen if we broke up I'd probably have a mental break down and I dont have any where to go no family will take me in, my only option would be a shelter or living in New Hampshire with my bio mom and little sister but things are difficult between my bio mom and I. I can't even talk when I see her words just won't come out she left me when I was 2 and did a lot of bad things during visitation that really fucked me up. So yeah

I don't know I love him to bits when he's not acting like a psycho.... I guess I'm just used to being treated like that because of my childhood and  I have really bad self esteem he's been there for me through a lot of tough things. I'd be devastated I dont think have it in me to end it with him I guess I'm afraid of what he would do.

I'm very stuck in life right now I have a lot going on we are buying a car from somebody right now we owe $200 more on it but I've been the one making the payments but we both paid for the down payment together so... Idk what to do I really do like his friend though (sigghhhhh)

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Re: When you have a major crush on ur boyfriends good friend.... LADY'S help [Re: burningstar06]
    #22124950 - 08/21/15 10:59 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

You may note even like him as much as you think you do. He's familiar and for the most part you're comfortable with him. So your brain and emotion is going to go very far to convince you that you like him. You will live in flat out denial until something major happens and you can no longer hide from this shit. You'll finally have to just accept the fact that this isn't working.


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Re: When you have a major crush on ur boyfriends good friend.... LADY'S help [Re: burningstar06] * 1
    #22124955 - 08/21/15 11:00 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Have some patience.
We all go through those moments in life where we can see the end but have to wait for it.


Get a job, save up some money; and then get the fuck away from that dude.


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Re: When you have a major crush on ur boyfriends good friend.... LADY'S help [Re: Shroomslip]
    #22124959 - 08/21/15 11:01 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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Shroomslip said:
You may note even like him as much as you think you do. He's familiar and for the most part you're comfortable with him. So your brain and emotion is going to go very far to convince you that you like him. You will live in flat out denial until something major happens and you can no longer hide from this shit. You'll finally have to just accept the fact that this isn't working.




:sadyes:

The fact that this is her first serious relationship makes this even more pronounced.


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Re: When you have a major crush on ur boyfriends good friend.... LADY'S help [Re: Acaterpillar]
    #22124974 - 08/21/15 11:05 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

:confused::sad:


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Re: When you have a major crush on ur boyfriends good friend.... LADY'S help [Re: burningstar06]
    #22124982 - 08/21/15 11:09 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

We're fighting now he's making fun of my family and my dad and me


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Re: When you have a major crush on ur boyfriends good friend.... LADY'S help [Re: burningstar06] * 1
    #22124990 - 08/21/15 11:10 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

suck his friends dick asap


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Re: When you have a major crush on ur boyfriends good friend.... LADY'S help [Re: burningstar06]
    #22124993 - 08/21/15 11:10 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

If I leave I have no money and nowhere to go we save money together and what would I do about the car I've pai$600 for so far and owe $200 on ? Am I supposed to cut my losses? I have no idea what to do in these situations


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Re: When you have a major crush on ur boyfriends good friend.... LADY'S help [Re: burningstar06]
    #22124995 - 08/21/15 11:11 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

You probably shouldn't leave right now then.
Like I said, have some patience before you leave so you can do it on better circumstances.


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Re: When you have a major crush on ur boyfriends good friend.... LADY'S help [Re: Acaterpillar]
    #22124997 - 08/21/15 11:12 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

:frown:


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Re: When you have a major crush on ur boyfriends good friend.... LADY'S help [Re: burningstar06]
    #22124999 - 08/21/15 11:14 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Leaving your first serious love is a very very hard thing to do.
Especially when you still love them.

I feel your pain.

Be strong. You'll make it through this.


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Re: When you have a major crush on ur boyfriends good friend.... LADY'S help [Re: burningstar06] * 1
    #22125011 - 08/21/15 11:16 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

um parental controls?  wtf are you talking about?


your boyfriend sounds controlling. If he hasnt already isolated you from your friends and your family its coming. 

if he is jealous and insecure and you dont give him reason to be, its likely he is the one cheating and he is insecure because of his own behavior and guilty conscience.  My suggestion, find out of he is cheating on you, if so bang his friend.  And his brother, and his father, etc.


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Re: When you have a major crush on ur boyfriends good friend.... LADY'S help [Re: burningstar06] * 2
    #22125019 - 08/21/15 11:21 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

you need to get your shit together. Wise up woman.  Never depend on a man to meet your financial needs.  That leaves you dependent on him. 

Id rather live under a bridge than live under a mans thumb who puts me through hell or tries to control me.  LOL good fucking luck.  Id make his life living fucking hell.  By the time im done they want to kill themselves, some try.


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Re: When you have a major crush on ur boyfriends good friend.... LADY'S help [Re: burningstar06]
    #22125020 - 08/21/15 11:21 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I'd say it's time to call it quits. Work on finding a way out. Ask friends if you could stay with them for awhile while you get your life straightened out, find a roommate or something. You said only you are paying for the car (minus the down payment) so obviously you have some kind of income. Through your other posts and these, there really isn't much a relationship going on. You just have an overbearing roommate.

Of course, it'd be great for all of us to see this for ourselves to make better/more clear judgements of the situation, because there are two sides to every story, but from what you've given, it's time to move on.

This shit is likely to just keep snow balling and getting worse. He doesn't seem to have much interest in fixing the problem.

As for the car, who's name is on the title? His, yours or both? Try to talk him into letting you pay what he paid in the down payment. If that don't work, ask for him to pay what you've paid into it. Failing both of those, take it to small claims court. If literally all he's done is make the down payment, you have a good shot at having the car awarded to you. Laws related to this shit vary from state to state though. But having the title only in your name, and you alone making the payments, it's a pretty solid case the car is "yours".


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I don’t want to get back up but I have to so it might as well be today.
Nothing appeals to me no one feels like me, I’m too busy being calm to disappear.
I’m in no shape to be alone contrary to the shit that you might hear.


You can't wake up, this is not a dream. You're part of a machine, you are not a human being
With your face all made up, living on a screen. Low on self esteem, so you run on gasoline


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Re: When you have a major crush on ur boyfriends good friend.... LADY'S help [Re: Shroomslip]
    #22125069 - 08/21/15 11:37 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

My heart is aching </3 ..... :frown:

I have to go to bed now or try to anyways I have work in the morning


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Re: When you have a major crush on ur boyfriends good friend.... LADY'S help [Re: sprinkles] * 1
    #22125076 - 08/21/15 11:39 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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Id make his life living fucking hell.  By the time im done they want to kill themselves, some try.



You sound like quite the catch.
:rolleyes:


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Re: When you have a major crush on ur boyfriends good friend.... LADY'S help [Re: Shroomslip]
    #22125100 - 08/21/15 11:45 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Teach that bitch a lesson he'll never forget.  Have his friend take him to a movie or for a guys day out. Then you pack your shit into the car and fucking GO. Immediately change your phone number. Go stay some place safe at a friends house, dont tell his friend where you are going yet.  You can bang him later.  You will never have a relationship with that boy if you cheat on your current man with him.  He will never respect or trust you.

Anyway...  Get another job and be happy.  If you do decide to have contact with at some point explain why you left and tell him you date a cop now so dont come knocking or stalking or he'll get shot in the face.  Thats what I did!  Went from a stalker to a cop.  needless to say he wasnt hanging around anymore and was scared to death to drive anywhere near my area.  Where as before he would watch me and wait for me to leave from work, home, wherever.


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Re: When you have a major crush on ur boyfriends good friend.... LADY'S help [Re: Acaterpillar]
    #22125104 - 08/21/15 11:47 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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Quote:

sprinkles said:
Id make his life living fucking hell.  By the time im done they want to kill themselves, some try.



You sound like quite the catch.
:rolleyes:





sounds like something a bitter, lonely, and unloved person would say.


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Re: When you have a major crush on ur boyfriends good friend.... LADY'S help [Re: sprinkles] * 2
    #22125121 - 08/21/15 11:51 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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My suggestion, find out of he is cheating on you, if so bang his friend.  And his brother, and his father, etc.



Bitter you say?


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Re: When you have a major crush on ur boyfriends good friend.... LADY'S help [Re: CookieCrumbs]
    #22125705 - 08/22/15 06:57 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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Okay yeah your boyfriend sounds like a control freak. It sounds really unhealthy.


I remember someone saying something to me once. When someone says "I love every part of them except..." then that's a problem. Because in love you accept someone for their flaws if they are acceptable. This controlling jealousy doesn't sound acceptable at all.




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