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vandago



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Being single with projects.
#22120200 - 08/21/15 02:06 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Is way more fulfilling then a relationship at this point in my life. I'm always on here either talking insane sex stories.....awkward relationships, or griping about being single.....but this time I am very very very happy to be completely alone.
I do hate not having the witty banter that ensues when you talk to a like minded female.....but I have been so engulfed in myself lately I don't even act the same towards women. It's all coffee chat.
Since I decided to cut the misogynist jokes out of my stand up, I have been getting a lot better results in just standard every day convo. It's weird the standards of conversing.....women can HATE men in every way shape and form....you tell one period joke and you don't get eye contact for a month lol.
All and all I'm not living with an older woman anymore.....that just wasn't supposed to be.....though she did help me a lot, I just didn't want to be close to anyone, now I am back to a house by myself playing music, writing, and reading......seems I don't do those things when I am with a woman, and I think it's because I am never truly comfortable, at least haven't been for 5 years or so. I need creativity in my life to maintain sanity, and I can't be creative if a woman is already driving me insane.....
Goddamn I wish I was 20 again. Now I'm all thinking about savings accounts and shoes and shit......
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LackToast
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Re: Being single with projects. [Re: vandago]
#22122172 - 08/21/15 12:15 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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How old are you?
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empty space
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Re: Being single with projects. [Re: LackToast]
#22124353 - 08/21/15 08:26 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I feel you man. It's nice having the time to do the things you want to do and better yourself for yourself. Keep up the self-improvement!!
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vandago



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Re: Being single with projects. [Re: LackToast]
#22124814 - 08/21/15 10:21 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
LackToast said: How old are you?
30 in a couple months.
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Black_Sunset
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Re: Being single with projects. [Re: vandago]
#22129454 - 08/23/15 02:19 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Glad to hear you're on the up, V.
What kind of projects? I feel you. It's important to have a hobby or you turn women into projects. At least I do.
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vandago



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Just work really. Moving, trying to fix this car......Being alone and not bothered lol. I have had no company what so ever for a few weeks now, and it's so peaceful. Lack of physical anything is dull, but it's better then being crowded all the time. I'm trying to get back into the habit of socializing more, I need to go do things again.
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Lachy
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Re: Being single with projects. [Re: vandago]
#22154806 - 08/28/15 02:50 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Nice work man, it is so important to be able to self-develop whenever possible, become the true person who you wish to be. You will figure out who you truly are. Once you do, nobody will ever be able to take that away from you.. and it they do, they don't deserve to be in your life.
Keep it up, socialize when you want to, but don't block out the whole world, socializing to a certain degree is healthy for yo mind and soul
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