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DTCharlieB
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Bill_Oreilly]
#22132595 - 08/23/15 07:55 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Rebelutionsssss said: Well I count asking someone to go do something just the two of you is equivalent lol
ah, I gotcha.
im not saying what you did was wrong or you should be embarrassed at all, so please don't think that. Im just saying from MY point of view and my insecurities that I would never ask a girl out on a date. It just seems outdated 
just like asking a girl to be your girlfriend.
I think both just happen naturally.
I wouldn't even be like "hey do you want to go see a movie later or something?"
even that is too cliché for me and implies a "date".
The way I do it, is just ask a girl if she wants to hangout. Then when im with her, is when ill ask if she wants to see a movie or something.
That all seems like dates/dating to me. Seems like you just don't want to put labels on things, which isn't a bad thing, but regardless most relationships start out with similar courtships.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: DTCharlieB]
#22132607 - 08/23/15 07:59 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yes exactly but i would never make known during the text or phone call that it was a date. I dont know why it just feels cliche to me
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Bill_Oreilly]
#22132611 - 08/23/15 08:01 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I would tend to agree with you Bill. But then again, I've been doing it wrong my whole life so... I wish we had a female opinion about this.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Bill_Oreilly]
#22132637 - 08/23/15 08:09 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Bill_Oreilly said: Yes exactly but i would never make known during the text or phone call that it was a date. I dont know why it just feels cliche to me
Oh yes I see what you mean. I can dig that.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: fbi365]
#22132645 - 08/23/15 08:11 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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fbi365 said: I would tend to agree with you Bill. But then again, I've been doing it wrong my whole life so... I wish we had a female opinion about this.
Females don't know what they want. Ask males who have had various successful relationships.
Half joking about the female comment but I do think the best advice comes from the other side of the coin.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: DTCharlieB]
#22134431 - 08/24/15 08:12 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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This is the second thread that I've posted something and a guy says "Oh I wish there was a woman's perspective" haha
Most of time I see what bill O'Reilly does. A few times that's happened to me but it confused me until I asked. I think ladies need labels to see where they are in a relationship. I do, but not like just to know where we stand. But honestly it's like the same story over on our side with what you guys are saying. Alot of ladies like to get wooed, and alot are really shy and awkward as well. Alot of times now men and women want to hang out without being intimate so it gets even more confusing. I know with me, you could be hitting on me really hard but it will seriously go right over my head. I'm so oblivious. And alot of my lady friends tend to second guess the intentions of guys alot as well.
I would advise to be clear in your intentions while maintaining calm about it?
"Hey I like you and would like to spend more time together. What do you think about coffee/movie/hang out?"
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I was going to say something else....
Oh, and it's not the same amount of pickings for every girl. It's not like men are falling for us all over the place vying for our attention. That sounds very inaccurate. I think both sexes try to show what they can offer to a relationship and both choose accordingly.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: pachoo]
#22135719 - 08/24/15 02:27 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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OP I met a girl at a concert 2 days ago. 5 texts later we are going to a bar for wings and drink on Wednesday...
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: The Doobie Dude]
#22149425 - 08/26/15 11:07 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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So I just saw her and we talked for a few minutes and she said to get her to go out Friday
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