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Rebelutionsssss
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Janky Tits]
#22122439 - 08/21/15 01:18 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yea she's hella cute and down to earth so it would be dope if it worked out but I'm not losing any sleep over it or anything.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22122465 - 08/21/15 01:26 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I feels you man. I've been through at least 3 girls already who I was like "Yep this girl is perfect, she is the most beautiful girl in the world and if I don't have her I will never be happy." I'm happy I eventually realized these kinds of girls are interchangeable when it comes to looks. I use to think that hot blonde girl with pretty blue eyes and a perfect face and boobs is the most beautiful girl in the world and is surely the one for me and she is so one of a kind that I'll never find a girl that is as hot or beautiful as her. But guess what there is a girl almost identical to her look wise down the street. It sounds corny but what counts is if you find a girl who is chill and cool and shares similar interests as you. You just have to open to the idea that there are plenty of fish in the sea man.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Janky Tits]
#22122514 - 08/21/15 01:35 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yeah I honestly really dont even trip off how "beautiful a girl looks more than likely its just makeup and more than likely she is really self-centeredI hope I can find a Woman who does not need any make up or feel any need for make up I dont mind if she wants to spice it up in bed to getr some make up on but I dont want a clown mask girl that is just performing black magic deception on all the Men that is a disgusting trait to deceit like that
Wow im rambling Best of luck Rebelution hope you get her and she gets you, but please try to look for games of deja vu they will appear and make sure she is true I really hope you do. I dont want to read about how your Heart has been broken in a month or whenever your a great Guy from what I read.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: BoomerMan420]
#22122551 - 08/21/15 01:41 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Thanks man wish everyone could see me as you guys do
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22128223 - 08/22/15 06:51 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Rebel, don't text her next week. You don't want to come off as even a little desperate. Not even a fucking little bit. And no, nobody tell me a girl likes it when you are pushy.
She knows whatsup and now all you can do is wait. If she doesn't call or text, move on. She might even text or call down the road because she saw you didn't "need" her so she feels like you have something other girls would want.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#22128241 - 08/22/15 06:55 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Bodhi of Ankou said: Shes fucking someone else bro
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Bill_Oreilly]
#22130195 - 08/23/15 09:51 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Don't listen to Bill.
Rebel you should not have told her to call you next week as a man you are supposed to put the effort in to get them to go out with you. Did you do the whole picture on Facebook thing?
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: The Doobie Dude]
#22130634 - 08/23/15 12:09 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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? Why does asking a girl out have to be difficult like this Shouldn't it be like "hey I like you, do you like me? Ok well let's go on a date"
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22130638 - 08/23/15 12:10 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yes you could have done it like that
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: nicechrisman]
#22130677 - 08/23/15 12:16 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Cause it works like this "I might like you, do you might like me?"
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: The Doobie Dude]
#22130700 - 08/23/15 12:21 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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And then it's like "well I kind of like you but there's another guy I kind of like but I'll act like I like you to see if I can benefit"
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22130728 - 08/23/15 12:27 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Rebelutionsssss said: And then it's like "well I kind of like you but there's another guy I kind of like but I'll act like I like you to see if I can benefit"
Then there is "hey im gonna fuck your best friend and sit back and watch the cat fight"
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22130821 - 08/23/15 12:50 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Rebelutionsssss said: ? Why does asking a girl out have to be difficult like this Shouldn't it be like "hey I like you, do you like me? Ok well let's go on a date" 
Is it really this hard? That's how I always got dates. Honestly, I asked first tho.
Haha you guys are so cute with your awkward bashfulness. Sorry it hinders you tho.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: pachoo]
#22131657 - 08/23/15 04:23 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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It's tougher for us cos were expected to put the work in and win them over. Girls get to kick back and consider all their options and toy with any of the gladiators that try to enter the arena
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Soulidarity]
#22132103 - 08/23/15 05:50 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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OP did you say you were going to invite a bunch of other people out on your date with this chick? I don't think that's a very good idea. It might take the edge off, but it also ceases to be a date at all. At that point you are just hanging out.
Other than that, I think you did the fine. It's mostly up to her now, but you will likely be expected to call or text her up and confirm next weekend.
If she liked you, it wouldn't matter if you called or texted or asked face to face.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: fbi365]
#22132267 - 08/23/15 06:28 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I always thought that asking a girl out is super cliché and just embarrassing. A girl must think " did a guy really just ask me out on a date? that's super weird what am I supposed to do? This isn't the 70s"
if I was a girl, that's what would go through my head.
To this day I have never asked a girl "out". I just start talking to them..if theres a connection, we end up hanging out more and more until eventually its implied that we are dating. I have never asked a girl on a date, never asked a girl to be my "girlfriend"...etc.
the only thing I have done that resembles something like that, is ask my girl to marry me.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Bill_Oreilly]
#22132309 - 08/23/15 06:37 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well I count asking someone to go do something just the two of you is equivalent lol
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22132315 - 08/23/15 06:37 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I haven't been on a "new" date in 5 years and 4 months - but then again I got married. Good luck!
If I was single I wouldn't have the slightest clue what to do. I got lucky because I was horrible at being single.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22132445 - 08/23/15 07:06 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Rebelutionsssss said: Well I count asking someone to go do something just the two of you is equivalent lol
ah, I gotcha.
im not saying what you did was wrong or you should be embarrassed at all, so please don't think that. Im just saying from MY point of view and my insecurities that I would never ask a girl out on a date. It just seems outdated 
just like asking a girl to be your girlfriend.
I think both just happen naturally.
I wouldn't even be like "hey do you want to go see a movie later or something?"
even that is too cliché for me and implies a "date".
The way I do it, is just ask a girl if she wants to hangout. Then when im with her, is when ill ask if she wants to see a movie or something.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Shroomslip]
#22132477 - 08/23/15 07:15 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Shroomslip said: You've been on the shroomery for over a year and you don't know what DSHSB means? Dude it comes up in like 1 of every 10 threads, minimum.
Holy shit I just spit coffee everywhere, nice.
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