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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22116504 - 08/20/15 12:26 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Just be silly and joyful and funny and overall just bring great energy towards her and she'll be hooked.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22116618 - 08/20/15 12:54 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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DSHSB man
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Mr.PhilCybin]
#22119593 - 08/21/15 12:18 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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So I finally got a drink and asked she to grab the balls with me.
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Sheekle
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22120599 - 08/21/15 02:59 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Honestly man I feel like this thread and all the responses are kind of bizarre.
"BAD MOVE MAN, U ASKED HER TO COME PARTY WITH U...... VIA TEXT!"
Nah, I feel like our society is a little overly caught-up on the concept of "appearing confident", which is in itself a less-than-confident mentality to possess.
Everybody should just,
Ya know,
Take it easy, man. 
Maybe dance around a bit, shake the dust off a little. C'mon ya'll, shake a tail feather for once. Life's too short for this trash.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Sheekle]
#22120612 - 08/21/15 03:08 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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There's a difference between appearing confident and being confident. Being confident is definitely a key factor in these situations.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Sheekle]
#22120624 - 08/21/15 03:20 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sheekle said: Honestly man I feel like this thread and all the responses are kind of bizarre.
"BAD MOVE MAN, U ASKED HER TO COME PARTY WITH U...... VIA TEXT!"
Nah, I feel like our society is a little overly caught-up on the concept of "appearing confident", which is in itself a less-than-confident mentality to possess.
Everybody should just,
Ya know,
Take it easy, man. 
Maybe dance around a bit, shake the dust off a little. C'mon ya'll, shake a tail feather for once. Life's too short for this trash.
They're not bizarre. While not universal, these are facts. Texting for a date is a bad move, many people read this as a lack of confidence, it's impersonal and goes a long ways to separate the two people involved. Though I'd argue that it doesn't matter if you are confident or are just appearing to be confident, all that matters is perceived confidence. The confidence really has nothing to do with you. It's a show for whoever you're trying to impress. If they see confidence, then it doesn't matter whether it was an act (so long as you can keep the act up) or if it truly was confidence.
Totally serious. How many women have you asked out and dated?
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Shroomslip]
#22120641 - 08/21/15 03:36 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Shroomslip said: Totally serious. How many women have you asked out and dated?
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Sheekle]
#22120851 - 08/21/15 06:37 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sheekle said: Honestly man I feel like this thread and all the responses are kind of bizarre.
"BAD MOVE MAN, U ASKED HER TO COME PARTY WITH U...... VIA TEXT!"
Nah, I feel like our society is a little overly caught-up on the concept of "appearing confident", which is in itself a less-than-confident mentality to possess.
Everybody should just,
Ya know,
Take it easy, man. 
Maybe dance around a bit, shake the dust off a little. C'mon ya'll, shake a tail feather for once. Life's too short for this trash.
i think society is too caught up on trying to impress other people and the need to be accepted. cos i think most people do all this stuff to impress others and make them think they are cool or more palatable.
but i hate the whole cat and mouse game thing myself. it causes un-necessary problems and alot of times can end up ruining a good thing. My experience has taught me to basically not take anything seriously, not really care about anything or at least not let people know i do, and to try not get suckered into traps or used.
it almost seems like in these kind of things being genuine can actually be detrimental. ' i cant let her know i like her or she wont like me anymore and lose interest ', having to ' be cruel to be kind ', and ' that's too much too soon, it'll put her off '.
It seems you get better results from just telling people what they want to hear, as opposed to speaking your mind openly. and presenting or acting in a way that you think is viewed favorably to other people, as opposed to just being yourself.
Literally all it does is complicate things and cause confusion. But its also human nature and society has established alot of these social conventions. 'dude, i can't text her back instantly', 'sending a second un-answered message means i've lost and makes me look desperate' and that 'three day rule' thing people quote as gospel about not contacting a girl for 3 days after so you dont appear desperate or clingy, when really you just want to talk to the person and interact with them.
communication is a bit of a confusing mess when you start thinking about it. trying to transfer a message from your brain in a way that will be translated in the other persons brain to have the desired effect, and trying to take note of all the things that can distort a message. such as the disconnect between how the very direct male logic and common sense driven mindset works, compared to the emotionally driven and indirect female mind set. And then individual personalities. i'm also not a fan of all of the ques people tend to pick up on, like body language, ' its not what you say, but how you say it ', all kinds of crap.
But maybe theres a hidden answer in this communication quandry.. to skip all of the headaches by just not over thinking things in the first place and just taking them at face value. saying what you mean and meaning what you say.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: koods]
#22120862 - 08/21/15 06:47 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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koods said:
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Shroomslip said: Totally serious. How many women have you asked out and dated?

I've asked many times and have never gotten a straight answer. Sheekle, we all want to know about your sexual prowess!
Unless of course, your prowess is close to that of Wilt Chamberlain which would make us all feel inadequate.
@Solidarity: Good post, man. That's what I was thinking while reading through this thread but just didn't have the patience to type it out like you did. Good stuff.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: kr0nik0]
#22120882 - 08/21/15 06:57 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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He's asked out more guys I think. And by asked out, I mean asking if he can get a hand job.
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NotSheekle said “if I believed she was 16 I would become unattracted to her”
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: koods]
#22120889 - 08/21/15 07:01 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Interesting. I often wonder what man or woman was on the other side of his glory hole experience.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22120925 - 08/21/15 07:16 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Rebelutionsssss said: I just told her that I was gonna go out to the bars to grab a drink this weekend and was wondering if she wanted to come
Your mistake was not texting her per say. You saw her today and should have asked in person. But you shouldent have texted her the day you saw her a few days after you saw her would be fine. It would imply you were busy and NOW you know you wanna hangout, ya feel me. That is not even that big of a deal honestly you goofed when you asked her if she wanted to come to the bars. The text should have looked like. "Hey, I'm going to the bars this weekend what time should I pick you up." or if you ain't ballsy enough for that one "Hey, I am going to the bars this weekend and wanted to know which is your favorite?" Don't ask tell OR imply but don't ask. Either way use good grammar bitches love good grammar.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22120948 - 08/21/15 07:25 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Rebelutionsssss said: So she actually did say she can't go this weekend but would love to go out next weekend so is that like a "I'm not interested" or is she just actually busy this weekend?
Here is what you gonna do man. Go to the bars and take a single good picture of what looks like everyone ESPECIALLY you having fun. Post that shit on Facebook which I bet you both are friends on, show her you are fun. Then around this time next week ask her when you should pick her up. She is interested dont over think it. NEWS FLASH sometimes people mean what they say homie
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: The Doobie Dude]
#22120959 - 08/21/15 07:28 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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OP, Just text her and say "I think u should come over so we can fuck."
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: The Doobie Dude]
#22120966 - 08/21/15 07:30 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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in salesman speak they usually call that as the assumptive close. i dunno how well it would work out of the blue to get a chick to go out with you. atleast prob not something i could get away with. they'd prob be like wtf is he on about, lol.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Soulidarity]
#22120970 - 08/21/15 07:32 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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The assumptive close makes you sound like a cocky douche.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: Soulidarity]
#22120973 - 08/21/15 07:33 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Soulidarity said: in salesman speak they usually call that as the assumptive close. i dunno how well it would work out of the blue to get a chick to go out with you. atleast prob not something i could get away with. they'd prob be like wtf is he on about, lol.
You cant have a full blown conversation as your normal self and then out of the blue be ballsy confident you gotta work up to it but idk it works for me
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: koods]
#22120979 - 08/21/15 07:36 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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koods said: The assumptive close makes you sound like a cocky douche.
Hey, I am heading to the bars Koods what time should I pick you up?
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: The Doobie Dude]
#22120980 - 08/21/15 07:37 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I've noticed that when you walk into a bar reeking of sex, it makes people's necks break looking at you.
Unfortunately most guys going to a bar by themselves don't have anyone to make them reek of the needed sex.
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Re: So I finally got the balls and asked her to grab a drink with me [Re: kr0nik0]
#22120982 - 08/21/15 07:38 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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kr0nik0 said: I've noticed that when you walk into a bar reeking of sex, it makes people's necks break looking at you.
Unfortunately most guys going to a bar by themselves don't have anyone to make them reek of the needed sex.
IK right? Like if you eat a chick out and you have that smell on your face/beard women give you so much attention its crazy
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