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jakeandkane
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Looking for some emotional support
#22113595 - 08/19/15 07:01 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Recently my best friend of 4 years had a falling out. We did alot of shrooms together and I feel like this big part of my life is ruined. Shrooms are some thing I do not want to stop doing because of the amazing things they do but I feel like they are ruined because of me and him no longer talk. Any tips or words of advice from my fellow shroomers? Thanks.
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mindbodysoul
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Re: Looking for some emotional support [Re: jakeandkane]
#22113619 - 08/19/15 07:06 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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why did you guys have a falling out
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Re: Looking for some emotional support [Re: jakeandkane] 1
#22113625 - 08/19/15 07:07 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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After awhile,once some time as passed and you've processed this loss, I doubt it will be a big problem. Time will make your loss less immediate relevant and less painful.
You know how you feel and think about this even, and you know how mushrooms make you think. It's entirely up to you to accurately determine how you'll think and feel about under the influence of mushrooms.
For what it's worth, I used to trip with friends and strangers all the time. Now, I greatly prefer to trip alone.
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jakeandkane
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Re: Looking for some emotional support [Re: mindbodysoul]
#22113640 - 08/19/15 07:10 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Alot of emotional things. I guess we just reached our limit.
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jakeandkane
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Re: Looking for some emotional support [Re: LSDreamer]
#22113645 - 08/19/15 07:11 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Thank you. Yes I'm sure with time I will get better. Hopefully it'd be easier for me. It just seemed everything I do watch and listen to me and him loved. So he's everywhere in my life.
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Re: Looking for some emotional support [Re: jakeandkane]
#22113672 - 08/19/15 07:17 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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hang in there bud
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Re: Looking for some emotional support [Re: jakeandkane]
#22113695 - 08/19/15 07:21 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Everything dissolves. Relationships, friendships, etc. Learn from it and move on. Quit thinking about him and go make new friends
The only person you can count on for happiness is yourself. Be complete in yourself and hang with other people who feel the same, but don't rely on people for happiness.
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mindbodysoul
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Re: Looking for some emotional support [Re: RanOutOfWeed]
#22113721 - 08/19/15 07:28 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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maybe a long break could help mend the relationship. some of my close friends,who i have hanged out with for a long time are just to intense sometimes. it becomes boring hanging out with them but after having a long break and seeing them again the relationship is restored
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Re: Looking for some emotional support [Re: mindbodysoul] 1
#22113730 - 08/19/15 07:30 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Get over it OP. I make and lose friends all the time. Its just the way it works
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Re: Looking for some emotional support [Re: jakeandkane]
#22113931 - 08/19/15 08:14 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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people come and go. i went through something extremely similar this year myself OP. with time, the pain fades.
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jakeandkane
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Re: Looking for some emotional support [Re: zZZz]
#22114072 - 08/19/15 08:43 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Kinda words thank you
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jakeandkane
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Re: Looking for some emotional support [Re: RanOutOfWeed]
#22114079 - 08/19/15 08:44 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Absolutely- thank you kindly. very good words
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jakeandkane
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Re: Looking for some emotional support [Re: 404]
#22114087 - 08/19/15 08:45 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Time heals all wounds I've heard. Thank you.
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Re: Looking for some emotional support [Re: jakeandkane]
#22114112 - 08/19/15 08:49 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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yeah, i know it's not much. maybe give it some time and then try to talk to them openly about how you feel? sorry for the blunt short response.
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jakeandkane
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Re: Looking for some emotional support [Re: 404]
#22115370 - 08/20/15 05:05 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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It's alright. I appreciate everyone's time.
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Re: Looking for some emotional support [Re: jakeandkane]
#22115382 - 08/20/15 05:11 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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l0l thats like saying breathing is ruined because you don't breathe around your old friend no more
you still like water these days?
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OP you said you feel as if they're (tripping shrooms) are ruined....
I would recommend to get in touch with your aspect of feeling.
Ask yourself why you feel the way you do.
I'm sure you'll be honest.
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Re: Looking for some emotional support [Re: HalluciNate]
#22115605 - 08/20/15 07:12 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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What exactly happened?
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jakeandkane
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Well its more if I'm tripping will my mind wander to my old friend. He was more of a brother than anything and I just don't want myself stuck on it.
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jakeandkane
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Re: Looking for some emotional support [Re: HalluciNate]
#22116865 - 08/20/15 01:54 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Very true . I've sat a while and thought about it and it's just sad mainly. I kmow in time I may find a better friend simply. Get over it. The fact that it ended on a very sour not is mostly why it's bitter.
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