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Good date ideas
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Wasn't it just like a couple hours ago you basically said you can't ask a woman out? Why the hell do you need date ideas? Does your hand require a wine and dine first?
As for the actual question You're going to get 50 different answers and probably none of them would be as good as what you could come up with by knowing a little info about the person. If you absolutely don't know the person or their interests, then it's one of the cliches. Walk on the beach, going to a fancy restaurant, just basically anything that is the norm that allows you to talk to each other and learn about each other.
If you know anything at all about their hobbies or interests, then it's pretty much endless. It's up to you to get creative and really make an impression.
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Edited by Shroomslip (08/19/15 02:34 AM)
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Shroomslip nailed it. Show her how much you were paying attention and make it personal.
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Re: Good date ideas [Re: Matt87]
#22109594 - 08/19/15 03:14 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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never hurts to have a plan. Plus there's this really cute girl at my work I want to see but I know I shouldn't considering it could fuck up my job
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Well that's the problem. You can't really plan when you don't know who you're planning for. The only thing you can do is lay down some generic shit. If you know nothing about them, your options are pretty limited. You can try and get unique and just hope for the best, but chances are it's not going to work in your favor. For example you could take her hiking to point out some extraordinary sites, but if she's not the type to like to be outdoors and hiking and shit, it's most likely not going to be the best impression.
To really get "good ideas" you need to know the person, need to learn their interests and build a unique date around those interests. Something that makes her feel like you really "get it". A date could be anything. It could be a Monster Truck Rally, she could really be into astronomy and it could be just taking her far out into the country and laying on the hood of you car and having her point out various constellations and letting her share her interest with you. You'll never really be able to plan unless you know what to plan.
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Re: Good date ideas [Re: GoldenEye] 2
#22109615 - 08/19/15 03:31 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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invite her to go to a sex shop with you maybe see if she wants to crash a funeral perhaps a picnic in a grocery store parking lot - shopping carts make for excelent dining tables/picnic baskets
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I like to take my first dates to the driving range so I can subliminally place it in their heads that I can hella drive a set of small balls using a little wire thin tool, and also that I have a serious lack of aim when it comes to driving those balls. I like them to know me for who and what I am..
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Actually I just thought of something. If you have a big bed and can cook for women, you're pretty much golden. That shit works wonders for Enjoywho
I'm sorry I just couldn't resist. But seriously, if your culinary skills are good, that might be a good option. Still in the cliche ball park, but it's not as ridiculously common as the beach or a restaurant. Would be best if you could figure out some of her favorite foods and really nail it (the food, not her, couldn't resist again ).
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I was just thinking about asking her to go to the beach 
Now that I think about it that was my first date with my ex fuck I'm predictable
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By all means go for it, but you better be bringing your A-game. And you're really going to need a small miracle. The beach can work, if you are able to hold a good conversation, can read body language, show a genuine interest in her and somehow make it not mundane. There's a fine line to walk to make it work. You need to be trying to learn all about her, while not refusing to talk about yourself, but not overly talking about yourself, and not coming across as if there is nothing interesting about you (which will happen if you just keep constantly deflecting the attention to her). It's a difficult situation to make work, because all there really is, is you and her.
When dating you want to be memorable, and you want to stand out. You want to lure her in and make her want to see more of you. This is easiest done when you can take limited knowledge of her interests and turn it into (what is for her at least) an amazing and unforgettable night. On the beach or just at a dinner, that is pretty hard to accomplish. A good themed date can take the focus of you solely. When you put yourself in the spotlight like that though, You've really gotta nail it to make an impression.
That's not to say that if you don't, there won't be a further date(s), but if you can make the night amazing for her, you're almost guaranteed a second date.
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With my face against the floor I can’t see who knocked me out of the way. I don’t want to get back up but I have to so it might as well be today. Nothing appeals to me no one feels like me, I’m too busy being calm to disappear. I’m in no shape to be alone contrary to the shit that you might hear. You can't wake up, this is not a dream. You're part of a machine, you are not a human being With your face all made up, living on a screen. Low on self esteem, so you run on gasoline
Edited by Shroomslip (08/19/15 03:55 AM)
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If she's into you it's not going to matter where you are or what you're doing. All that shit is just stage dressing. The connection between you is the real focus.
But if you need an activity, maybe try roller skating. It's fun and nobody does it anymore so you'd probably have the rink to yourselves.
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Re: Good date ideas [Re: Adden]
#22110046 - 08/19/15 07:36 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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basically jus do all the awesome stuff you would already be doing anyway but with the girl if you really want to melt her heart u can go play with penguins at the aquarium or other stupid girly stuff.
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Swim with the tiger sharks at sea world? That's got to get a girl going right? All the danger and shit canceling out her doubts about how unattractive and broke I am
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You'll need money to swim with the tiger sharks at seaworld though.
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rock climin, paintball'n, kayaking, music show, shopping at cool shop areas/flea markets n shit, berry picking, wine tasting, idfk what is ur girl like?
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Kayaking is not the best... You can't get touchy feely if you're isolated in your own kayak.
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