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Love of my life wants too much sex... is this normal?
#22106780 - 08/18/15 01:32 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm a 30 y/o male. Started dating the love of my life a few months ago and everything has exceeded my wild expectations. Everything from loving, kindness, and just pure happiness. LSD trips that mean everything, unconditional love when sober as well, and expectations of having a family together.. Some of you know the deal.
The problem I'm having is that she constantly is horny. I'm talking about as soon as we wake up, as soon as we get home from work, and before sleep every night.
If this was roughly 5 years ago I would've been delighted but my old bones call it once a day enough now lol. the problem is, if I'm not in the mood, she gets a bit frustrated...more like unwanted and feels bad about herself which I reassure her is not the case.
Any ideas on how to make this situation a bit more comfortable on both ends?
Thanks for any advice. 
Edit: Fuck, this was supposed to be anon LOL. Still need some answer.
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Edited by kr0nik0 (08/18/15 01:33 PM)
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Re: Love of my life wants too much sex... is this normal? [Re: kr0nik0]
#22106844 - 08/18/15 01:54 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Have you talked to her about it? Could it be just a phase? Trying to get pregnant?
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Re: Love of my life wants too much sex... is this normal? [Re: bm0322]
#22106852 - 08/18/15 01:57 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Haha, reverse roles and that's me and my lady.
Maybe suggest she get a vibrator?
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Re: Love of my life wants too much sex... is this normal? [Re: kr0nik0]
#22106867 - 08/18/15 02:01 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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You're gonna have a lot of kids jump in here saying they wish they had that problem....WTF are you complaining about?..lol. I know what you mean though...sometimes, a hard days work , or just life in general can take you out of the mood for constant sex. Once a day sounds pretty cool to me.
If you have a good, open and honest relationship...I would tell her that your drive is just not there all the time for various reasons....certainly not because she is undesirable. Maybe recommend her pleasing herself if her drive is that prominent....even buy her a toy or something....I knew a woman like that ...she already had quite a assortment of devices. lol
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Re: Love of my life wants too much sex... is this normal? [Re: kr0nik0] 1
#22106918 - 08/18/15 02:17 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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My girl is kinda like that too Kr0n I basically had to explain to her that I'm not always in the mood
She got all butthurt at first and then eventually got over it.
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Re: Love of my life wants too much sex... is this normal? [Re: Thayendanegea] 1
#22106942 - 08/18/15 02:21 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Even when I am not in the mood, i can get there in a few minutes 
Maybe you can satisfy her, but tell her she cant expect a glorious cumshot from you three times a day. Maybe throw in a charging battery analogy
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Re: Love of my life wants too much sex... is this normal? [Re: Thayendanegea]
#22107054 - 08/18/15 02:55 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Thayendanegea said: You're gonna have a lot of kids jump in here saying they wish they had that problem....WTF are you complaining about?..lol. I know what you mean though...sometimes, a hard days work , or just life in general can take you out of the mood for constant sex. Once a day sounds pretty cool to me.
If you have a good, open and honest relationship...I would tell her that your drive is just not there all the time for various reasons....certainly not because she is undesirable. Maybe recommend her pleasing herself if her drive is that prominent....even buy her a toy or something....I knew a woman like that ...she already had quite a assortment of devices. lol
Lol. I knew quite a few people would say that it's not a problem, but yea, it's just a bit much at times. Almost feeling guilt for not making love to her.
We do have a very honest relationship. The only honest relationship I've had in my life to be honest. We've talked about it, and she also pleases herself..even if I were to have sex with her multiple times a day.
We have a lot of toys, and I love using them on her but like I said, it's constant sexual energy coming from her.
She's happy and all with how things are but I do feel guilty at times. That's really what the issue is.
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Re: Love of my life wants too much sex... is this normal? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#22107059 - 08/18/15 02:58 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Tripsurfer said: Even when I am not in the mood, i can get there in a few minutes 
Maybe you can satisfy her, but tell her she cant expect a glorious cumshot from you three times a day. Maybe throw in a charging battery analogy
I used to be the same way until a couple years ago if not a bit less. Just have no desire for it sometimes, it's a very weird, new feeling for me.
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: My girl is kinda like that too Kr0n I basically had to explain to her that I'm not always in the mood
She got all butthurt at first and then eventually got over it.
Yea, I figure that's what's going to happen. Not really butthurt on my lady's part but I know what you're saying.
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Re: Love of my life wants too much sex... is this normal? [Re: kr0nik0]
#22107076 - 08/18/15 03:03 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yeah I've had this issue before. I think when girls are really in love their libido grows to such gigantic proportions that any mortal man would have trouble keeping up. That girl from my case wanted it seven times per day if it was up to her. No way. I never figured out how to deal with it though, I just ended up eating pussy constantly
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Re: Love of my life wants too much sex... is this normal? [Re: kr0nik0]
#22107084 - 08/18/15 03:05 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Bee pollen has an incredible amount of vitamins and minerals in it, plus roughly 16g of protein in it when fresh, and will increase your libido, as well as make you generally very healthy. I've been eating it throughout the day every day -- now I have giant cumshots and can fuck a girl over and over for hours.
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Re: Love of my life wants too much sex... is this normal? [Re: empty space]
#22107115 - 08/18/15 03:09 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I've also heard that combining ammonia and bleach helps with increasing libido as well.
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Re: Love of my life wants too much sex... is this normal? [Re: empty space]
#22107128 - 08/18/15 03:11 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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When I'm not feeling it a little head usually changes my mind. If you stay soft after that mabey you should get medicine from a doctor.
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Re: Love of my life wants too much sex... is this normal? [Re: kr0nik0]
#22107143 - 08/18/15 03:16 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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get her an IUD, most women experience a loss of libido. and 5 year birth control too.
*WARNING, could also turn her into a crazy bitch
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Re: Love of my life wants too much sex... is this normal? [Re: Matt87]
#22107149 - 08/18/15 03:16 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I hate how people think that men should always be in the mood and that there is something wrong with them if they aren't. Such bullshit. People's libido's vary
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Re: Love of my life wants too much sex... is this normal? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy] 1
#22107224 - 08/18/15 03:33 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: I've also heard that combining ammonia and bleach helps with increasing libido as well.

Hey more bee pollen for me and my friends. Not a problem. There's a shortage anyway and the last thing we need is buttfunk riff raff fools running around horny as fuck and reproducing with equally basic women. Would rather people like you drink ammonia and bleach anyway.
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Re: Love of my life wants too much sex... is this normal? [Re: Matt87]
#22107232 - 08/18/15 03:35 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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empty space said: Bee pollen has an incredible amount of vitamins and minerals in it, plus roughly 16g of protein in it when fresh, and will increase your libido, as well as make you generally very healthy. I've been eating it throughout the day every day -- now I have giant cumshots and can fuck a girl over and over for hours.
I'll definitely have to look into that. Thanks for the tip.
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GoldenEye said: Yeah I've had this issue before. I think when girls are really in love their libido grows to such gigantic proportions that any mortal man would have trouble keeping up. That girl from my case wanted it seven times per day if it was up to her. No way. I never figured out how to deal with it though, I just ended up eating pussy constantly 
haha. Yes, a lot of pussy eating has been going on recently. Thankfully I really enjoy it.
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Matt87 said: When I'm not feeling it a little head usually changes my mind. If you stay soft after that mabey you should get medicine from a doctor.
My girl gives the best head I've ever experienced. It's fucking tantalizing and I'm still astounded. It's not that I can't get my dick up, it's just that I rather not fuck for the sake of fucking. It's taken on a lot more meaning to me over the last few years when it comes to making love vs fucking.
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Re: Love of my life wants too much sex... is this normal? [Re: empty space]
#22107241 - 08/18/15 03:36 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Is your butt hurt right now sir?
Can you provide me with a peer reviewed source that proves that bee pollen increase libido?
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Re: Love of my life wants too much sex... is this normal? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy] 1
#22107268 - 08/18/15 03:42 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'll smear some be pollen on my dick if need be.
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Re: Love of my life wants too much sex... is this normal? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#22107279 - 08/18/15 03:44 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yes I have pages and pages of it but Im not going to do the research for you. You seem like you suck as a human so why the fuck would I give you my secrets? If you are curious then go figure it out yourself.

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kr0nik0 said: I'll smear some be pollen on my dick if need be.
Eh that wouldn't do anything for you but then you could have your girl suck it off your dick which sounds fun in its own regard.
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Re: Love of my life wants too much sex... is this normal? [Re: empty space]
#22107303 - 08/18/15 03:48 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I am really curious. Jokes aside. Where would I procure bee pollen?
Sure as hell am not going to start popping Cialis to keep up with my woman's libido.
I was thinking about it, and this all may have something to do with a beta-blocker I was prescribed roughly 4 months ago. It's Atenelol and it was first given to me to regulate my heart beat when I quit drinking. Apparently after all this time without drinking I still need to take it or my BP goes through the roof. Scary stuff since I'm constantly active and at least in decent shape.
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