|
Patlal
You ask too many questions



Registered: 10/09/10
Posts: 44,797
Loc: Ottawa
Last seen: 7 hours, 12 minutes
|
Well, I just missed out on my first actual opportunity at love because I'm a fucking child...
#22106084 - 08/18/15 10:17 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
This roommate of mind that I've been having a fun time with has constantly wanted to have something more than just fun. I constantly said that I'm not avaialble emotionally (out of fear of attachment and commitment and all the other dumbass walls I built in front of me....
Now she met a guy, she wants to stop seeing me and it fucking blew my mind.... For the first time, I cared. I just had the most emotional conversation of my life about it... It pushed me to the wall and forced me to make a decision. I went for yes, I'll I'm willing to man up and do the adult thing for once in my godamn life, but it's too late.... She's going for that douche of guy she broke up with in the past and is willing to give him another chance... I know its a mistake. Rookie mistake even to give an ex another chance... But there's no changing her mind... I missed the boat. now it's sailing away.
I totally got what I deserved. I get that I lost. She gave me all the shots in the world and I was too much of a child to to catch the ball and score a touchdown.
I will survive. I don't even know why I'm writing this. This website needs to know every detail of my life for some reason. I'm compelled to tell you guys everything.
I don't need your sympathies or nice words or whatever. I learned a lesson the hard way. I grew up in a sense. Never will I put obstacles in front of me again. Cause this time I put one too many and I tripped, fell and hurt myself. Truly eye opening what you can do to your own self without even realizing it.
Life... What a strange thing...
So, how have you guys fucked your personal life lately?
--------------------
Edited by Patlal (08/18/15 10:18 AM)
|
Sheekle
FREE BURKE



Registered: 01/11/10
Posts: 53,153
|
Re: Well, I just missed out on my first actual opportunity at love because I'm a fucking child... [Re: Patlal]
#22106089 - 08/18/15 10:19 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
that blows man, sorry to hear that
i haven't really made any significant mistakes worth writing about lately in terms of my personal life or w/e, but if i did i'd intelligently discuss it
-------------------- "Ur cat died because he hated u" - Koods "I hope JSB kicks your ass one day." - Vandago "you are the biggest 'internet guy' I have ever come across"- Jokeshopbeard "The more I see you post the more I realize you're just this fuckin tie dye loser who trolls the Shroomery 24/7." - Herbologist "Sheekle you cannot vile the dice of bullshit you have posted on this forum over the years, I like databases" - thelastoneleft "or maybe i just come from a blood line of superior intelligence" - trees R.I.P Kelsy, ?/?/?? - 6/11/16
|
makaveli8x8
Stranger

Registered: 02/28/06
Posts: 21,636
Last seen: 7 years, 7 months
|
Re: Well, I just missed out on my first actual opportunity at love because I'm a fucking child... [Re: Patlal] 1
#22106090 - 08/18/15 10:20 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
i clicked and then realized i misread the title what a fucking let down
anyways you should not masterbate for like 2 weeks, and by that time i think you'll realize what you need to do to fix this situation.
--------------------
  We were sent to hell for eternity Ø h® We play on earth to pass the time Over-population the root of all Evil-brings the Elites Closer to the gates.
|
Zombi3
Bella Ciao!!




Registered: 01/11/13
Posts: 27,086
Loc: Bat Country
|
Re: Well, I just missed out on my first actual opportunity at love because I'm a fucking child... [Re: Patlal] 4
#22106095 - 08/18/15 10:22 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
I've fucked up in a few ways I don't care to mention and a few ways you can read about across the forums, life sucks this summer 
Luckily among my 99 problems a bitch ain't one but if you having girl problems I feel bad for you son.
-------------------- You’ve Met With A Terrible Fate, Haven’t You?
Click here to enter this weeks Ban Lottery!! In Crust We Trust
|
ballsalsa
Universally Loathed and Reviled



Registered: 03/11/15
Posts: 20,859
Loc: Foreign Lands
|
Re: Well, I just missed out on my first actual opportunity at love because I'm a fucking child... [Re: Zombi3] 3
#22106099 - 08/18/15 10:25 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
she was gonna get back with that guy either way. you saved yourself the extra pain of being serious with her. you were the rebound fling.
--------------------
Like cannabis topics? Read my cannabis blog here
|
qman
Stranger

Registered: 12/06/06
Posts: 34,927
Last seen: 2 hours, 7 minutes
|
Re: Well, I just missed out on my first actual opportunity at love because I'm a fucking child... [Re: Zombi3] 2
#22106104 - 08/18/15 10:27 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
This woman sounds like a flake, she dates you for a few weeks and then wants a commitment, WTF? So you turn it down and now she goes back to her ex, talk about manipulative bitch.
This has nothing to do with you being child, she's the one behaving like one.
Edited by qman (08/18/15 10:34 AM)
|
Prisoner#1
Even Dumber ThanAdvertized!


Registered: 01/22/03
Posts: 193,665
Loc: Pvt. Pubfag NutSuck
|
Re: Well, I just missed out on my first actual opportunity at love because I'm a fucking child... [Re: makaveli8x8] 1
#22106105 - 08/18/15 10:28 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
makaveli8x8 said: i clicked and then realized i misread the title what a fucking let down
anyways you should not masterbate for like 2 weeks, and by that time i think you'll realize what you need to do to fix this situation.
masturbation?
|
makaveli8x8
Stranger

Registered: 02/28/06
Posts: 21,636
Last seen: 7 years, 7 months
|
Re: Well, I just missed out on my first actual opportunity at love because I'm a fucking child... [Re: ballsalsa]
#22106108 - 08/18/15 10:29 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
or she's trying to make him jelly and get him to make a move like some romeo shit, but he's gotta want it so bad he chases her down streets n shit, like not really but like in his mind, but he prolly masterbates to much to ever gain that much confidence, which is why i suggested not doing so for 2 weeks
--------------------
  We were sent to hell for eternity Ø h® We play on earth to pass the time Over-population the root of all Evil-brings the Elites Closer to the gates.
|
Thayendanegea
quiet walker



Registered: 02/20/12
Posts: 7,596
Loc: 7 Lodges Nation
|
Re: Well, I just missed out on my first actual opportunity at love because I'm a fucking child... [Re: ballsalsa] 1
#22106112 - 08/18/15 10:31 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
ballsalsa said: she was gonna get back with that guy either way. you saved yourself the extra pain of being serious with her. you were the rebound fling.
_________________________________________
-------------------- Look Deep Into Nature,and Then You Will Understand Everything Better. Albert Einstein
|
Patlal
You ask too many questions



Registered: 10/09/10
Posts: 44,797
Loc: Ottawa
Last seen: 7 hours, 12 minutes
|
Re: Well, I just missed out on my first actual opportunity at love because I'm a fucking child... [Re: qman]
#22106115 - 08/18/15 10:31 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
qman said: This woman sounds like a flake, she dates you for a few weeks and then wants a commitment, WTF? So you turn it down and now she goes back to her ex, talk about manipulate bitch.
This has nothing to with you being child, she's the one behaving like one.
No, she's very nice. She's a mother, she needs someone and made it abundantly clear that she wanted to be with me. I'm the flake. I missed out on the opportunity. This is 100% on me, by me, for me.
Life decided to teach me an important lesson today. When someone teaches, I listen.
I fucked up without even realizing it until it was too late. That's what happened.
--------------------
Edited by Patlal (08/18/15 10:32 AM)
|
Thayendanegea
quiet walker



Registered: 02/20/12
Posts: 7,596
Loc: 7 Lodges Nation
|
Re: Well, I just missed out on my first actual opportunity at love because I'm a fucking child... [Re: Thayendanegea]
#22106116 - 08/18/15 10:32 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
For some strange reason, I wanna go pet a cat.
-------------------- Look Deep Into Nature,and Then You Will Understand Everything Better. Albert Einstein
|
Patlal
You ask too many questions



Registered: 10/09/10
Posts: 44,797
Loc: Ottawa
Last seen: 7 hours, 12 minutes
|
Re: Well, I just missed out on my first actual opportunity at love because I'm a fucking child... [Re: Thayendanegea]
#22106122 - 08/18/15 10:33 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
It's strange.
Nobody ever mans up to take responsibility of their fuck up on this website. When I do, suddenly everybody is trying to say that's not my own fault.
Do we have some sort a of guilt issues up in here?
--------------------
|
qman
Stranger

Registered: 12/06/06
Posts: 34,927
Last seen: 2 hours, 7 minutes
|
Re: Well, I just missed out on my first actual opportunity at love because I'm a fucking child... [Re: Patlal]
#22106150 - 08/18/15 10:40 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Patlal said:
Quote:
qman said: This woman sounds like a flake, she dates you for a few weeks and then wants a commitment, WTF? So you turn it down and now she goes back to her ex, talk about manipulate bitch.
This has nothing to with you being child, she's the one behaving like one.
No, she's very nice. She's a mother, she needs someone and made it abundantly clear that she wanted to be with me. I'm the flake. I missed out on the opportunity. This is 100% on me, by me, for me.
Life decided to teach me an important lesson today. When someone teaches, I listen.
I fucked up without even realizing it until it was too late. That's what happened.
Maybe if she really cared about you, she would have given the both of you the chance to get to know each other!!!
It takes a lot of time before a man can make a serious commitment with any woman, let alone a woman that has a child, unless she didn't care if you bullshitted her.
|
Patlal
You ask too many questions



Registered: 10/09/10
Posts: 44,797
Loc: Ottawa
Last seen: 7 hours, 12 minutes
|
Re: Well, I just missed out on my first actual opportunity at love because I'm a fucking child... [Re: qman]
#22106162 - 08/18/15 10:43 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
I would have kept refusig commitment. I know myself. This is a perfect example of no knowing what you got until you lose it.
--------------------
|
qman
Stranger

Registered: 12/06/06
Posts: 34,927
Last seen: 2 hours, 7 minutes
|
Re: Well, I just missed out on my first actual opportunity at love because I'm a fucking child... [Re: Patlal] 1
#22106182 - 08/18/15 10:52 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
Patlal said: I would have kept refusig commitment. I know myself. This is a perfect example of no knowing what you got until you lose it.
You're already missing the days of sticking your pee pee in her poop hole.
|
badchad
Mad Scientist

Registered: 03/02/05
Posts: 13,372
|
Re: Well, I just missed out on my first actual opportunity at love because I'm a fucking child... [Re: Patlal] 2
#22106185 - 08/18/15 10:53 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
A single mom, and random piece of strange that you've been tapping for a few weeks flakes out on you.
And its got you this broke up? I'm all for empathy, but you're gonna have to get a grip and suck it up Patal.
-------------------- ...the whole experience is (and is as) a profound piece of knowledge. It is an indellible experience; it is forever known. I have known myself in a way I doubt I would have ever occurred except as it did. Smith, P. Bull. Menninger Clinic (1959) 23:20-27; p. 27. ...most subjects find the experience valuable, some find it frightening, and many say that is it uniquely lovely. Osmond, H. Annals, NY Acad Science (1957) 66:418-434; p.436
|
Janky Tits

Registered: 06/19/14
Posts: 4,037
Last seen: 5 years, 6 months
|
Re: Well, I just missed out on my first actual opportunity at love because I'm a fucking child... [Re: qman]
#22106197 - 08/18/15 10:58 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
It's ok brah, it happens to all of is. It happened to me at the tender age of 14 and it nearly drove me to end my life even though the whole situation was petty and trivial and did not even remotely matter in the long run. Regardless man it's ok, just get back up and keep on doing you. If you really like this girl then just tell her how you feel and own up to fucking up. If not just move on man, moving on sucks but the older you get the more you realize it's not that hard and sometimes it's for the best. The best thing you can do is learn from this mistake and make sure when the next opportunity comes around you won't make that mistake.
|
Bigfeely123
Stranger
Registered: 01/30/15
Posts: 2,594
|
Re: Well, I just missed out on my first actual opportunity at love because I'm a fucking child... [Re: Janky Tits]
#22106201 - 08/18/15 11:00 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
I agree with the qman's comment where he says "Maybe if she really cared about you, she would have given the both of you the chance to get to know each other!!!"
Edited by Bigfeely123 (08/18/15 02:02 PM)
|
Patlal
You ask too many questions



Registered: 10/09/10
Posts: 44,797
Loc: Ottawa
Last seen: 7 hours, 12 minutes
|
Re: Well, I just missed out on my first actual opportunity at love because I'm a fucking child... [Re: badchad]
#22106223 - 08/18/15 11:07 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
Quote:
badchad said: A single mom, and random piece of strange that you've been tapping for a few weeks flakes out on you.
And its got you this broke up? I'm all for empathy, but you're gonna have to get a grip and suck it up Patal.
Fully aware of that.
I've been given advice in the R&S forum based on logic and common sense. It's harder IRL.
--------------------
|
nicechrisman
Interdimensional space wizard



Registered: 11/07/03
Posts: 33,241
Last seen: 4 years, 6 months
|
Re: Well, I just missed out on my first actual opportunity at love because I'm a fucking child... [Re: Patlal]
#22106229 - 08/18/15 11:09 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
|
|
I think some of us are just more independent than others in regards to relationships. Don't try to fit yourself into the mold that society has created for you. You gotta be yourself man. Don't beat yourself up.
-------------------- "Cosmic Love is absolutelely ruthless and highly indifferent: it teaches its lessons whether you like/dislike them or not." John C. Lily
|
|