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Anonymous #1
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life seems to have a lot of complexity as of late
#22097321 - 08/16/15 02:07 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Some days I have to be thankful for life being like it is but I don't know what to do sometimes. My wife left me but we have come to an amazing understanding. We are finally on good terms even though she still wants to go through with our divorce. She really is my best friend a fact neither of us can deny, we both miss one another and we spend time together when I visit my sons. We even still make love, we just can't live together do to the fact that I have an over active sex drive, she never intentionally denied my needs but they were more than any female I've meet has been able to handle. I lack an impulse control due to a birth defect caused by oxygen deprivation at brith. She understands that and I understand that it's not my fault that was made as I am. I need sex more than most people and I can't control my drive to seek out release from my drive. She still loves me and I her. I don't know what I should do. Should I continue my relationship as it is and eventually phase out sex with my soon to be exwife and best friend and just see escorts or find a new girlfriend when the opportunity arises. I'm not sure. I just know I want to maintain the emotional relationship with her and a new girlfriend would have to be understanding of the friendship and of course I will still have to stop fucking my ex. I'm just trying to figure out the best way I can put my sons first and still have my needs taken care of. I know that if I see escorts my time with them is less than having a girlfriend and that gives me more time with my sons and best friend. But I'm not sure about paying for sex, I've never done it and in not sure if I really want to. I mean don't get me wrong we all pay in some way
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JohnnieYen
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Re: life seems to have a lot of complexity as of late [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22102907 - 08/17/15 01:51 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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just beat off more, no need to end your marriage. unless its something more than the release you crave... I dunno man, seems like cop out. You really think escorts are the answer?
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Re: life seems to have a lot of complexity as of late [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#22103087 - 08/17/15 03:00 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Spice.
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