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OfflineJustForToday
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Re: It's me again with another question. (Reasonable though) [Re: koraks]
    #22092183 - 08/14/15 05:55 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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koraks said:
I don't know what you should do really. I can only say what I'd do. If I were you, I'd s tick around for a while and enjoy her company. Be supportive when she needs it. You'll find out the details about the bf situation soon enough. And if it takes too long and you lose interest, well, just move on.




I understand. But what if she wants me to make a move on her?


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Offlinezappaisgod
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Re: It's me again with another question. (Reasonable though) [Re: JustForToday]
    #22092217 - 08/14/15 06:12 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Make one and find out.  Fuckin' hell this isn't complicated


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OfflineJustForToday
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Re: It's me again with another question. (Reasonable though) [Re: zappaisgod]
    #22092605 - 08/14/15 08:20 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I will see tomorrow. I will report back here.


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Invisiblesudly
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Re: It's me again with another question. (Reasonable though) [Re: JustForToday]
    #22092667 - 08/14/15 08:38 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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JustForToday said:
I love how zappa always +1's somebodies lame ass jab at me. And you know it's him because he stay salty all the time about that columbian girl I fucked for a month straight.





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Re: It's me again with another question. (Reasonable though) [Re: JustForToday]
    #22092782 - 08/14/15 09:18 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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JustForToday said:
Okay so anyways.. There is this girl that I know from my meetings. Screw the other girl I told you guys I was dating. She seems like she is almost out of the picture and has so much going on with her I do NOT want this thing to continue. I met this other chick at my homegroup. Very attractive. I mean holy shit. And she actually introduces herself to me. So anyways it's just always flirting and stuff when I see her at the meeting. I ended up getting her number some months back. And now she is getting to the point of where she is all over me most times when I see her even when I want to avoid her.

Anyways. Here is the catch. She has a boyfriend of 3 years. I actually just gave out a medallion to them both last week. Impressive stuff. And tonight she told me she was going to rent a car and come pick me up so she could take shots of me with her camera. (Trying to get my portfolio started). ANYWAYS. I wanna fuck this girl. I don't know how to go about doing that with the boyfriend situation and I already feel guilty as fuck for even thinking like this. What should I do? I mean.. she is pretty up there in looks and she is really down to earth. I tell her things in spanish all the time. "Eres hemosa, ves te muy bien." Things like that. And she seems to love it when I do. I'm not a bad guy. I don't want to live that way anymore but i'm so attracted to her it's hard to stay away.



You havent been laid in 6 years man get a hooker


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Re: It's me again with another question. (Reasonable though) [Re: The Doobie Dude]
    #22092926 - 08/14/15 10:19 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Dating isn't a committed relationship, the girl is fucking single, bang her.


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InvisibleAmanita86
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Re: It's me again with another question. (Reasonable though) [Re: JustForToday] * 2
    #22092977 - 08/14/15 10:52 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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JustForToday said:
Quote:

koraks said:
Either way it's up to her to decide where she wants to take this. No matter what you say or do.




What should I do though? Should I try to make a move or just back off?



You want to know my take on it?  Look here, and this is indeed me being serious.  From one dude to another... here goes.

People who ask these sorts of questions, are usually very inexperienced.  As in never had someone they rolled up with real tight. 

See, if in your past you ever had a real close girl, that you called a mate, you would know instinctivly, you don't break that boundary on a whim  if you are the outside guy.  It's your place to go conquer that mountain that doesnt already have a flag on it...so to speak.  If you have ever been ..you know, in love..and I mean love, not lust..  you would know or atleast somehow percieve what it would be like, to have someone move in on that..  anyone with a brain, half way decent morals, and a desire to keep their pulse doesnt cross that line.

You just dont do that..period.

It's not in her hands to decide for you either.  Chicks are just as crazy as dudes. And it DEFINES YOU which bait you take and which bait you don't.. when you do things like..."well she down to fuck, so I fucked".. it makes you a worthless, disposable pawn... but a pawn challenging someone who didnt reach that point being a spineless fuck.. someone who has things invested..  someone who will, ...for every action, there is an equal and OPPOSITE reaction..  see what I'm saying?

This again, is a question that most people wouldn't even give a split second to consider, much less have to ask advice on..  you leave that shit where you found it.. go find your own..

One day when you fall head over heels, and you see some dude at a bar, try and get slick past you..playing that game, ...those emotions that trigger will tell you every answer you ever needed to know, about the question you asked,


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InvisibleAmanita86
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Re: It's me again with another question. (Reasonable though) [Re: JustForToday] * 1
    #22093026 - 08/14/15 11:15 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

You know what Im saying man?  You didnt come up and ask, "is it ok to wipe my ass after I take a shit?"... because you KNOW..right?

I'm telling you man.. just have fun, be nonthreatening, lose the ego, stop with the thinking you need to be alpha male motherfucker.. and remeber what it was like to play, as a little kid... that's it..

You dont need racks of check out line magazines to tell you "how to land your dream girl"... just have fun..

I don't want to be around some alpha female who has the best job, best car, best clothes, best bla bla bla..

I want someone I can joke with, who I dont have to watch my back around... someone I can TRUST...  someone I can lick olives off her face, and not be judged...

All that alpha display fades man.. and when youre a wrinkled up fat ass prune of a broken soul, all that alpha shit means nothing..

Work on your tan, or dont, but do it because its YOU.. Hit the gym, or dont, but do it because its YOU!!..

Hanging yourself out there is like "selling" your car, you can't say its a lambo when its not and sooner than later, the "buyer" is going to see this..  just do you.  In the long run, thats where your gold is at..

"Perfect women" are fake as fuck... find someone you'll give the key to your front door to.. you know?  Someone you can say anything to..  fucking fades, when it's based off percieved perfection.. but time spent with someone you can "open flaw" with is where you'll find life..

That's real fucking talk right there, and some of your most beautiful people never figure that out..


Moral of the story.."you don't mow another man's lawn.."...:peace:


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Re: It's me again with another question. (Reasonable though) [Re: Amanita86] * 1
    #22093052 - 08/14/15 11:25 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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Amanita86 said:
See, if in your past you ever had a real close girl, that you called a mate, you would know instinctivly, you don't break that boundary on a whim  if you are the outside guy.  It's your place to go conquer that mountain that doesnt already have a flag on it...so to speak.  If you have ever been ..you know, in love..and I mean love, not lust..  you would know or atleast somehow percieve what it would be like, to have someone move in on that..  anyone with a brain, half way decent morals, and a desire to keep their pulse doesnt cross that line.

You just dont do that..period.



Fucking well said man.


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Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not.
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Re: It's me again with another question. (Reasonable though) [Re: Jokeshopbeard] * 4
    #22094031 - 08/15/15 08:46 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I can't be the only one here who sees these threads for what they really are: lame excuses for jft to brag about getting momentary attention from a female.  Giving him serious responses just serves to validate this pathetic behavior.


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shut ur fucking mouth. before a penis is are be enters

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Cheese poop... Who gives a fuck gotta eat lots of cheese.


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OfflineJustForToday
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Re: It's me again with another question. (Reasonable though) [Re: sun_spots]
    #22094097 - 08/15/15 09:13 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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sun_spots said:
I can't be the only one here who sees these threads for what they really are: lame excuses for jft to brag about getting momentary attention from a female.  Giving him serious responses just serves to validate this pathetic behavior.




You couldn't be anymore wrong in this post.


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InvisibleThe Doobie Dude


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Re: It's me again with another question. (Reasonable though) [Re: sun_spots]
    #22094108 - 08/15/15 09:17 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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sun_spots said:
I can't be the only one here who sees these threads for what they really are: lame excuses for jft to brag about getting momentary attention from a female.  Giving him serious responses just serves to validate this pathetic behavior.



He is lying he has not had attention from any female in a while and has not had sex in 6 years.  He is fabricating a lie.


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OfflineLoveNaborFuckHater
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Re: It's me again with another question. (Reasonable though) [Re: JustForToday]
    #22094122 - 08/15/15 09:21 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Maybe the bf is made up just to make you want her more :awesketch:


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OfflineJustForToday
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Re: It's me again with another question. (Reasonable though) [Re: LoveNaborFuckHater]
    #22094151 - 08/15/15 09:30 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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LoveNaborFuckHater said:
Maybe the bf is made up just to make you want her more :awesketch:




No. I just met him last week. He is a really good kid and there is no way I could do this terrible thing.. :aweman:

He has no ego, he is very nice, and looks innocent. I can't even believe I was entertaining the idea. He picked up his year with her last week.


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OfflineJustForToday
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Re: It's me again with another question. (Reasonable though) [Re: JustForToday]
    #22104279 - 08/17/15 08:07 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Welp. Didn't hang out with her last saturday. Thank God. But I just did something rather foolish today. I'm probably going to pay big time and I'm not talking about it here soooo..


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OfflineShining Cosmos
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Re: It's me again with another question. (Reasonable though) [Re: JustForToday]
    #22104956 - 08/17/15 11:44 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Then why would you mention it


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Offlineempty space
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Re: It's me again with another question. (Reasonable though) [Re: Shining Cosmos]
    #22105331 - 08/18/15 04:06 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Guysssss he fucked the prez's wife obviously


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Re: It's me again with another question. (Reasonable though) [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #22105646 - 08/18/15 07:37 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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Jokeshopbeard said:
I was hanging out with this absolutely stunning chick a few years back who was glamour model. Dropping her off outside her house one night, we're talking in the car, and she starts on about how she can control her gag reflex and how hard she can suck (she showed me by sucking on my thumb). Then she comes out with 'let me suck your dick'.

Now I was single at the time, but she had a boyfriend. This was probably gonna be the best blowjob from the hottest chick I was ever gonna get.

Now morally, I don't agree with infidelity (I have never been unfaithful myself). So there I am, rock hard, wanting what she's offering so bad but knowing in my gut that in order to preserve my moral sanity I was gonna have to decline.

It was a fucking struggle, but I turned it down (the repeated pleading from her didn't make it any easier). I'm glad to this day I did. I think you have to ask yourself how you feel morally about this. This is an inherently immoral world IMO, and my own moral sanity is my defence against it. If I compromise that, then I compromise my sanctuary, my last bastion of hope in this crazy world.





Someday, I won't be lying on my death bed wishing I'd received less blow jobs...


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InvisibleJokeshopbeard
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Re: It's me again with another question. (Reasonable though) [Re: automan]
    #22105653 - 08/18/15 07:42 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Ah ok, now I see why you closed my thread.


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Re: It's me again with another question. (Reasonable though) [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
    #22106656 - 08/18/15 12:51 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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empty space said:
Guysssss he fucked the prez's wife obviously





Yea I'd be pretty ashamed of that act too. *shudder*


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