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best friends ex
#22081873 - 08/12/15 03:12 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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my best friends ex, K, is trying to fuck me. my friend is living in europe for the next 3-4 months. K already dated someone for at least a year after they broke up, but she is still really good friends w my friend. i think she is really sexx but ive been deflecting her advances because im not really sure where i stand on the best friends ex thing. im not at all interested in a relationship with her because i just finished going through a somewhat rough breakup (shes in the same boat and we are on the same page about this), but she is really kinky and shes been throwing down pretty hard. where is the line drawn?
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zappaisgod
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Don't fuck her.
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You draw it right down between her legsQuote:
zappaisgod said: Don't fuck her.
Don't listen
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Re: best friends ex [Re: ballsalsa] 1
#22081920 - 08/12/15 03:24 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I did this once, I even asked my friend if he was cool with it before I went through with it. Oddly, her name began with K too.
I wouldn't advise it. It caused loads of tension between my friend and I in the long run; to the point we're no longer friends. We fell out as I ended up marrying a girl he'd always fancied but had never got. That might not have been an issue if this earlier instance of shagging his ex had never occurred.
She was kinky as hell too, but terrible once it actually got to the sex.
IMO, definitely not worth it.
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But the guy she just broke up w is such a doucher! And she was into me long before she ever dated my friend.
Plus you know what they always say, the best way to get over someone is to get under someone. She could use a proper dicking.
Then again, that Atmosphere song raises a good point.
But then again, Sluggo can be quite a wuss when it comes to women.
I think Im going to need more Shroomery input than this.
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zappaisgod
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I had a hard and fast rule. I did not fuck any of my friends' exes no matter what. And some of them did come on to me pretty hard. You know what? I didn't lose any friends. You said you don't want a relationship with the woman and do with man. Don't do it. Find somebody else to fuck.
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Quote:
zappaisgod said: I had a hard and fast rule. I did not fuck any of my friends' exes no matter what. And some of them did come on to me pretty hard. You know what? I didn't lose any friends.
You raise some good points.. however:
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zappaisgod said: You said you don't want a relationship with the woman and do with man.
They are both really good friends of mine. I dont want to date her. But I dont want to date my buddy either. 
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zappaisgod said: Find somebody else to fuck.
Well, K already introduced me to one of her friends. Then I fucked her brains out for 3 days straight & she told K how good it was. K was already all about it before but now she reallllllly wants it.
Is there really something wrong with helping her blow off some steam?
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Sounds like you've already made up your mind brother.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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zappaisgod
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Quote:
Anonymous said:
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zappaisgod said: I had a hard and fast rule. I did not fuck any of my friends' exes no matter what. And some of them did come on to me pretty hard. You know what? I didn't lose any friends.
You raise some good points.. however:
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zappaisgod said: You said you don't want a relationship with the woman and do with man.
They are both really good friends of mine. I dont want to date her. But I dont want to date my buddy either. 
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zappaisgod said: Find somebody else to fuck.
Well, K already introduced me to one of her friends. Then I fucked her brains out for 3 days straight & she told K how good it was. K was already all about it before but now she reallllllly wants it.
Is there really something wrong with helping her blow off some steam? 
Let her blow off steam with somebody else
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Mr.GuessWork
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This is a bros before hoes situation, like others have said. You have to decide what matters more to you.
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Jokeshopbeard said: Sounds like you've already made up your mind brother.
Hey, I can think with more than one head at a time.
I know what I want. At the same time, she's trying really hard. I'm not that easy.
Oh well, we already had plans to hit the club tonight.
Edited by Anonymous (08/12/15 08:16 PM)
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Hit it and quit it and deny everything
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The Doobie Dude said: deny everything
Yeah, cause that sounds exactly like the way you'd wanna treat your best friend.
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thats actually...not a bad plan. Deny everything. hold out under all scrutiny. say that she's a liar and that she only said she banged you to get back at you because you told her no
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The Doobie Dude said: Hit it and quit it and deny everything
Genius.
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zappaisgod said: I had a hard and fast rule. I did not fuck any of my friends' exes no matter what. And some of them did come on to me pretty hard. You know what? I didn't lose any friends. You said you don't want a relationship with the woman and do with man. Don't do it. Find somebody else to fuck.
QFT Plus, there's too many fish in the sea to wiggle your dick around in the same stink hole your buddy did.
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Re: best friends ex [Re: azur]
#22083650 - 08/12/15 09:53 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Jesus, there's some serious fail going on in this thread.
-------------------- Let it be seen that you are nothing. And in knowing that you are nothing... there is nothing to lose, there is nothing to gain. What can happen to you? Something can happen to the body, but it will either heal or it won't. What's the big deal? Let life knock you to bits. Let life take you apart. Let life destroy you. It will only destroy what you are not. --Jac O'keeffe
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LackToast
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If you go through with this youll fall out of touch with your friends and stir up trouble. To each his own.
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zappaisgod said: I had a hard and fast rule. I did not fuck any of my friends' exes no matter what. And some of them did come on to me pretty hard. You know what? I didn't lose any friends. You said you don't want a relationship with the woman and do with man. Don't do it. Find somebody else to fuck.
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