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HamHead
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What constitutes a 'relationship'?
#22077557 - 08/11/15 05:49 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I've been told by a higher up at work that I need to inform HR that I am in a relationship with a co-worker. As far as I know, we are only dating.
So I ask, what is a relationship to you?
Even though she says we are only dating and that we are both 'single', should I tell HR that we are in fact dating??
Thoughts/opinions/advice please.
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Re: What constitutes a 'relationship'? [Re: HamHead]
#22077820 - 08/11/15 06:36 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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If you are both single and just dating, then Id say its none of HR's farkin business. If it gets serious though I think it would be a wise move to protect your job security!
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Re: What constitutes a 'relationship'? [Re: empty space]
#22077848 - 08/11/15 06:41 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Ask them for a clear definition.
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Re: What constitutes a 'relationship'? [Re: Mr.GuessWork]
#22078170 - 08/11/15 07:49 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm just affraid of what could happen if nothing is said, when I was told to. I understand we're only dating, but I feel if I don't say anything at all, it could be used against me in the future.
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Re: What constitutes a 'relationship'? [Re: HamHead]
#22078915 - 08/11/15 10:02 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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what the fuck business is it of your bosses who you are or aren't dating? that's such fucking bullshit
also there's not really much difference between "dating" nd "relationship" usually they're interchangably used terms
tell HR to F off tho (not really but idk)
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Re: What constitutes a 'relationship'? [Re: Sheekle]
#22079030 - 08/11/15 10:19 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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To be fair, my 'boss' said it doesn't matter to him if we're in a relationship or not. He only said that if we are, we need to tell HR.
We work in a casino dealing table games. Same shift and we deal on the same craps table together.
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Re: What constitutes a 'relationship'? [Re: HamHead]
#22079326 - 08/11/15 11:33 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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That's horseshit man. More erosion of privacy. I dunno if it's cause of the fact you're in the industry you're in, and particularly as you may be able to conspire to cheat the casino (being on the same table)? but either way, I'd look up some citizens advice before I made any decision on the matter.
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Re: What constitutes a 'relationship'? [Re: Jokeshopbeard]
#22079382 - 08/11/15 11:47 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
Jokeshopbeard said: particularly as you may be able to conspire to cheat the casino (being on the same table).
New suggestion. You two should pretend to hate each other at work and then conspire to cheat the casino w a friend.
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Re: What constitutes a 'relationship'? [Re: empty space]
#22079720 - 08/12/15 01:57 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
empty space said:
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Jokeshopbeard said: particularly as you may be able to conspire to cheat the casino (being on the same table).
New suggestion. You two should pretend to hate each other at work and then conspire to cheat the casino w a friend.
Lol, surveillance doesn't know wtf is happening most the time anyway, in my casino that is. They're pretty good in other states but not in the town I work in. Most times there's not even a box person or supervisor within 30 feet. Still, I would like to keep my job.
A co-worker made a good point the other night. If they bring it up, I can very easily say to them "Prove it!".
I think I'll keep my personal business to myself until things get more serious with this girl. There's already rumors going around about us, I don't want to give them any more ammo.
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Re: What constitutes a 'relationship'? [Re: HamHead]
#22079910 - 08/12/15 04:46 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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You only have to report it if you are actually in a relationship, and since you have no idea WTF they mean by that, then you should ask HR exactly what defines a "relationship", and then you can decide if you're in one or not according to their policy. That is how you cover your ass. And talk to your squeeze about it too, so they don't fuck her over for not talking to them.
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Re: What constitutes a 'relationship'? [Re: HamHead]
#22080801 - 08/12/15 10:52 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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people just need to learn how to mind their own fuckin business man.
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