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OfflineAiko Aiko
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Another stupid post
    #22076028 - 08/11/15 11:32 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

So my ex and I have been apart for quite a few months. With little to no communication. About a month ago she starts messaging me in a friendly manner and we chat sporadically a couple times a week. She knows I still have feelings for her.

So I get a peach fest ticket given to me by this chick that is extremely pressed on me and wants to hook up and all that but I'm not at all interested in her on various levels and I've told her that.

So I tell my ex about the free ticket and when she asks how I got it I tell her I didn't really wanna say. Then she kinda got an attitude with me and we didn't talk again for a couple days. First off I didn't think she had a right to get an attitude but whatevs. So I finally tell her that a girl that wants to hook up with me who I am not interested in one bit gave it to me and now I havent heard from my ex now in a couple days. I'm assuming she didn't like that.

Heres the thing, I've told her more than once that if she was on the same page as me, I'd love to try one more time with us. She hasn't shown any interest other than some friendly convos and we went bike riding one time. If she wasn't interested in me like that anymore, than what I told her about how I got the ticket shouldn't have mattered, right? I was just trying to tell her that the reason I didnt wanna say how I got it was because I was a little uncomfortable with telling her how the chick was all into me. I was just being honest with her.

Am I just an idiot or does my ex still have feeling and now shes butt hurt cause im going to a fest with another chick?? Part of the reason we're not together is cause she has trouble talking about how she feels. I on the other hand wear my emotions on my sleeve and probably talk too much about it. My ex has given me so much stress and trouble, I am never the one that initiates communication. She kept saying at the end she needed space, well damn if I havent given that to her. Now she thinks she can just pop into my life whenever its convenient for her and expect everything to be just how she wants it?? If we're just friends, then what I told her shouldn't have mattered, if there are feelings, then she needs to come out and say it.

Am I a dumbasss or playing my cards like a pro?? Not that im really playing anything...


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OfflinePatlal
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Re: Another stupid post [Re: Aiko Aiko]
    #22076190 - 08/11/15 12:40 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

An ex is an ex for a reason.

You should forget about her. Move on. It didn't work the first time, why would it work now?

Plus, based on what you wrote, she seems jealous and you're not a couple anymore...

I would try my best to move on.


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Re: Another stupid post [Re: Patlal]
    #22076211 - 08/11/15 12:46 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Thats what my heart says too. I'm just a little perplexed and maybe more curious as to what is going through her mind cause she never acted jealous before, then again I never gave her a reason to be. Dont get me wrong, I didnt do this to make her jealous. I seriously did it in the off the chance we did try again, I was completely honest with her.


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Re: Another stupid post [Re: Aiko Aiko]
    #22076221 - 08/11/15 12:48 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Honesty is key. Plainly write her that it won't work (or whatever). Just make sure the message is clear and precise so that she can't read something between the line that you did not mean.


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Re: Another stupid post [Re: Patlal]
    #22076248 - 08/11/15 12:54 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Good idea. I think though I'm just not gonna say anything. If I dont hear from her again, well, I guess that really ruffled her feathers, lol!I still have feelings, but I've pretty much gotten over her. I was just seeing if by me telling her that stuff was an asshole thing to do, like out of line, or something. Maybe it wasnt. :shrug:


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Re: Another stupid post [Re: Aiko Aiko]
    #22076337 - 08/11/15 01:15 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Do what you think is best


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Re: Another stupid post [Re: Patlal]
    #22076344 - 08/11/15 01:16 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I appreciate your reply though homie! :thumbup: I just like hearing different opinions, cause lord knows, I suck at relationships, lol!


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Re: Another stupid post [Re: Aiko Aiko]
    #22076402 - 08/11/15 01:27 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Yeah don't take my advice to seriously, I had an 11 months relationship in my life with 6 months long distance and that's my current record. So, yeah....


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Re: Another stupid post [Re: Patlal]
    #22076596 - 08/11/15 02:07 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I think you should find a big stick and start swinging it to keep these crazy girls away from you. The ex is clearly jealous and not handling it well, and the other girl arouses my suspicions somehow too, though she may not be crazy.


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Re: Another stupid post [Re: Mr.GuessWork]
    #22076819 - 08/11/15 02:57 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Jealousy is a weird and unpredictable beast


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Re: Another stupid post [Re: koods]
    #22076908 - 08/11/15 03:17 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

The other girl is crazy another reason I'm not givin it to her. Shes a friend, but theres no benefits there with sleeping with her. Koods, you are correct sir. In fact, I was the one that was the jealous bf because I didnt approve of her having drinks with guys at the bar as well as her house. Drinking on occasion with her er ex bf, like just them two at her house or bar. She was also "friends" with her ex husband. Too many and too close exes that were just "friends" around for my liking. But now I mention one girl who I told her I wanted nothing to with on that level and she stops communicating. I will never understand women. As Patlal said, we're exes for a reason.


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Re: Another stupid post [Re: Aiko Aiko]
    #22076942 - 08/11/15 03:24 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Just swing the big stick around like a mad man then. When there are no crazy girls running at you, you'll know you're safe for a little while.


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Re: Another stupid post [Re: Mr.GuessWork]
    #22077051 - 08/11/15 03:50 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I don't know man, crazy girls love big sticks just as much as the sane ones. Sometimes more.


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Re: Another stupid post [Re: empty space]
    #22077101 - 08/11/15 04:06 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

That's a solid point.


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Re: Another stupid post [Re: Mr.GuessWork]
    #22077151 - 08/11/15 04:17 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Na, this isnt a good crazy. Like crazy with real issues that I dont want any part of. My big stick would just exacerbate her issues. Like stage infinity clinger, lol!


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Re: Another stupid post [Re: Mr.GuessWork]
    #22077251 - 08/11/15 04:42 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Mr.GuessWork said:
That's a solid point.



Thats what she said

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Re: Another stupid post [Re: Aiko Aiko]
    #22077284 - 08/11/15 04:50 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Aiko Aiko said:
Na, this isnt a good crazy. Like crazy with real issues that I dont want any part of. My big stick would just exacerbate her issues. Like stage infinity clinger, lol!




You could turn her into a scarf and wear her around your neck for a while and see what happens.

But more seriously, it sounds like all your options right now are for dysfunctional relationships, so I'd swing that big stick around in the privacy of my own home when nobody else was around if I were you.


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Re: Another stupid post [Re: Mr.GuessWork]
    #22078261 - 08/11/15 08:04 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Thanks for the advice, mang! :grin:


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