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InvisibleIcelander
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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: OrgoneConclusion] * 1
    #22798796 - 01/19/16 11:41 AM (8 years, 12 days ago)

You could get more vulnerable? :curbyourenthusiasm:


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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: Icelander]
    #23002988 - 03/13/16 03:18 PM (7 years, 10 months ago)

I wrote her after she threatened a restraining order if I sent one more e-mail. I am still free! :elmo:




OK, so maybe lust played a small part... :naughty:


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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
    #23004239 - 03/13/16 09:53 PM (7 years, 10 months ago)

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I wrote her after she threatened a restraining order if I sent one more e-mail. I am still free! :elmo:





Clearly she's wanting you to be a man and force yourself on her.


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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: Rahz]
    #23004299 - 03/13/16 10:13 PM (7 years, 10 months ago)

You jest, but there may be something to that. A very wise man here once wrote:

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That's one version of reality, but I think it's along the same line that got you to this dilemma in the first place. Consider other perspectives. What you did accomplish was to flatter the woman, which is not a bad thing despite the shock of your suddenness. If you truly did butcher things, then congratulations on getting rid of the bitch quick. But my experience is that if a woman likes you she will give you plenty of chances and be very generous in that regard, keeping in consideration her own feelings and need for centerness. You rocked her boat a little too rough, but no big deal she will get over it. There's no single thing you can do to ruin such an opportunity. If a woman likes you, it takes a concerted series of fuck ups to truly change her mind.




Got a note the other day wherein she APOLOGIZED for not writing back sooner, laughed and said some encouraging things. :whoa:

Am trying to set up the first meet in 11 months come May. Then maybe I can let go or move this thang forward. A year between dates is a bit much. That would mean I could get in maybe 10 dates before I kick the bucket.


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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
    #23004343 - 03/13/16 10:27 PM (7 years, 10 months ago)

I never realised you were such a creep.


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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: viktor]
    #23004350 - 03/13/16 10:30 PM (7 years, 10 months ago)

Someone here is envious that they have no one to stalk them.

:unwanted:


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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
    #23004427 - 03/13/16 10:57 PM (7 years, 10 months ago)

You're almost as creepy as SeaShrooms.


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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: viktor]
    #23004465 - 03/13/16 11:09 PM (7 years, 10 months ago)

Widdle white wabbits cannot be creepy. :nono:


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InvisibleKurt
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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
    #23004669 - 03/14/16 12:50 AM (7 years, 10 months ago)

All things must go their way.
Do existential narrarives burn through to ash?
I think that's what the jelly-fish say.


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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
    #23004737 - 03/14/16 01:24 AM (7 years, 10 months ago)

Goes to show, you can fuck up and still do good. Thanks for chronicling the account, you're obvious agony during parts of this ordeal has been very amusing. :smile:

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OrgoneConclusion said:
You jest, but there may be something to that. A very wise man here once wrote:

Quote:

That's one version of reality, but I think it's along the same line that got you to this dilemma in the first place. Consider other perspectives. What you did accomplish was to flatter the woman, which is not a bad thing despite the shock of your suddenness. If you truly did butcher things, then congratulations on getting rid of the bitch quick. But my experience is that if a woman likes you she will give you plenty of chances and be very generous in that regard, keeping in consideration her own feelings and need for centerness. You rocked her boat a little too rough, but no big deal she will get over it. There's no single thing you can do to ruin such an opportunity. If a woman likes you, it takes a concerted series of fuck ups to truly change her mind.




Got a note the other day wherein she APOLOGIZED for not writing back sooner, laughed and said some encouraging things. :whoa:

Am trying to set up the first meet in 11 months come May. Then maybe I can let go or move this thang forward. A year between dates is a bit much. That would mean I could get in maybe 10 dates before I kick the bucket.




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"You’re not looking close enough if you can only see yourself in people who look like you." —Ayishat Akanbi


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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: Rahz]
    #23041338 - 03/24/16 01:03 PM (7 years, 10 months ago)

Rahz, she agreed to meet with me come May! She wrote: "I have to after all we have been through!"

Stockholm Syndrome anyone? :elmo:


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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
    #23041547 - 03/24/16 02:14 PM (7 years, 10 months ago)

Stand her up.


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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: Sun King]
    #23041644 - 03/24/16 02:40 PM (7 years, 10 months ago)

Haha! You always have the sagest advice on here.  :nicetry:


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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
    #23041703 - 03/24/16 02:56 PM (7 years, 10 months ago)

I wish you all the luck, OC.


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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
    #23041775 - 03/24/16 03:14 PM (7 years, 10 months ago)

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DividedQuantum said:
I wish you all the luck, OC.



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I wrote her after she threatened a restraining order if I sent one more e-mail. I am still free! :elmo:




OK, so maybe lust played a small part... :naughty:





If she knew, she wishes her pic wasn't on The Shroomery.


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If we could look into each others hearts, and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care.

It takes a lot of courage to go out there and radiate your essence.

I know you scared, you should ask us if we scared too.  If you was there, and we just knew you cared too.


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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: CosmicJoke]
    #23041889 - 03/24/16 03:51 PM (7 years, 10 months ago)

That is not her - just what she looks like to me! :crazy2:


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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
    #23043252 - 03/24/16 10:40 PM (7 years, 10 months ago)

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Rahz, she agreed to meet with me come May! She wrote: "I have to after all we have been through!"

Stockholm Syndrome anyone? :elmo:




If there's one thing we can learn from Beauty and the Beast, it's that love's all that matters if you keep them locked up long enough. :cookiemonster:


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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
    #23043292 - 03/24/16 10:55 PM (7 years, 10 months ago)

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OK, so maybe lust played a small part...




ya think?

not really an existential ...

:wink:


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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: laughingdog]
    #23043467 - 03/25/16 12:11 AM (7 years, 10 months ago)

No, not lust. That was just me playing to the audience here.

To this day some 9 months later, I cannot have a sexual fantasy about her. Not that she is too pure or that it is forbidden or sacrilegious, nor that my libido is gone. I just can't - and I have no explanation for that. Never happened with any other woman I cared about romantically or was seriously attracted too.


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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
    #23043799 - 03/25/16 05:16 AM (7 years, 10 months ago)

You are maturing.

:innocentjoy:


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