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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: yeah]
#22071118 - 08/10/15 10:13 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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But yeah, the meditation I do I feel has literally been a godsend. I'll tell you more if you want.
Sure.
Sorry, but I have no wisdom to share vis-a-vis your problem.
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When World’s Collide: Meeting Your Twin Flame
Twin Flame will stir you up to look deep within. Can you handle it?
Our Twin Flame unions have the potential to be a whole world apart from what we have experienced to date. Other worldly in fact! These advanced spiritual soul mates shine a light on us and reflect all our issues back to us in spades.
Twin Flame relationships are the ultimate challenge. They inspire great healing within but if you are not ready to shift all of your nonsense, dramas and negative patterns it is very unlikely you will ever be lucky enough to fully connect. The Universe only tends to allow this union when both parties have gone through a whole lot and are ready for a whole lot more!
This might not sound very romantic. But the Twin Flame connection is so powerful that it is about spirit and soul much more than a mere physical connection; though that is all included if you are lucky enough to hook up in this life time.
Typically both parties have to have evolved to a certain level of consciousness or vibration before the universe allows the connection.
You do not happen upon your Twin Flame in a casual way, nor do you go out of your way to find them. It is quite simple, when the time is right you find each other.
The beauty of this connection is that usually there is a strong telepathic link that dispenses with the need for words.
The universe will start to give you very definite clues in the form of synchronous coincidences. There will be subtle signs which you may well resist at first because you will not quite believe what is happening. There will be magic in the air and yet you may feel some resistance too. Sit loose to it all with a wry smile on your face because of course there really is no panic. You will feel quietly confident and assured deep within. This all makes complete sense as they are your twin. They have been wanting to connect with you just as much as you with them. so why sweat it?
If we are meant to connect with our Twin Flame in this life time we will cross paths soon enough and both parties will just ‘know’. There will be no doubts. Like magnets drawn together in a compelling, unavoidable way the nature of the Twin Flame relationship is undeniable.
Remember that connecting with your Twin Flame may well be challenging. When you initially connect – after the inevitable fireworks – you may feel some resistance and adjustment. This is only natural. Hooking up with your Twin Flame is a major reality check that can be more than a little bit uncomfortable. It is often like dealing with a part of yourself you have chosen not to look at for quite some time.
This all makes sense in a way. Connecting with your Twin is like looking squarely in the mirror and seeing the naked truth warts and all. No one is pretending that this kind of connection is going to be plain sailing. There is also quite a high chance that your Twin may be coming out of a relationship in which they have had to fulfill certain karmas. So, there will be adjustments on all sides.
Of course the things in the way of this magical connection ultimately work to confirm its validity. The challenges heighten mutual determination but only if it is the right TIME for this connection. Bravery is required on both sides.
Practical Tips To Attract your Twin Flame into your life:
1) Eliminate clutter and create space.
2) Create the right conditions to magnetize your mate both within and without: Enhance your living environment with attractive decor.
3) Ditch the past within and without: Let go and embrace the void for a while if needs be. You need to be strong and independent to attract your mate.
4) Clear Obstacles: Release all evidence in your environment that you might be hanging on to the past.
5) Identify and Clarify: Tune in and get a sense of what your Twin Flame might be like. Feel what it would be like to be with them. Magnetize your feelings and trust yourself to draw the right person to you.
6) Love connections: Fully appreciate and experience your Soul Mate connections first. Sort out issues with your nearest and dearest.
7) Forgive yourself past mistakes and do not anticipate you will repeat them. With your Twin Flame you definitely will not do so.
8) Maintain a vibration of love, spirit and openness to all. Prepare your heart and be ready.
Hmmm... 
I have been totally redoing my life. Is there something to this? Seems to resonate on so many levels.
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All I know is that love makes us insane, at least temporarily. I'm not saying love's a bad thing, but it does turn us into crazy fools for a while. For me, time has been the only healer of wounds like this, and I've had them. I'm honestly not sure whether it is better to have loved and lost, than not loved at all. That's a tough call.
Please be well, OC.
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I have had my heart broken before such as when I found out my fiancé was seeing another man. This is worse. How is it possible than an 8 hour connection was stronger than a 3 year connection to a woman I wanted to marry?
My rational mind reels.
I am tempted to send her the Twin Flame article, but then she will really think I am a wackjob, but so much of that fits.
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Signs That You Are In A Twin Flame Relationship
- An overwhelming sense of love and attraction.
- A sense of completion that goes beyond words.
- A magnetism to the other stronger than anything you have ever experienced.
- You will complement one another.
- A complete and total breakdown of your lives as you knew them upon finding one another.
- The desire to be with one another no matter what the obstacle blocking your way.
Seems I may have gone over the mystic waterfall. Diploid, come slap me!
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this is cute.
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OrgoneConclusion
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What? Seeing the hardcore skeptic go down in (twin) flames?

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akira_akuma
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yes.
gee, i hope you don't LOSE YER MOJO, muahahahaha. 
doomed to be happy for no rational reason.
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Seriously though, while I still have strong sexual desires, I haven't once fantasized about making love to her, though I am sure it would be cosmic. Very strange. Any other woman I was really attracted to I would be mentally fucking her day and night.
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oh really, no shit?
you actually care about this person and aren't rationalizing, just wanting to do her?
whoa, are you sure you're really not in the lab and this is all a simulation?
love is never rational. and love's most certainly distinct from sexual desire; it's a reason to live, not just a seduction. it's not about progress - who needs that? it's about filling the cup.
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I'm fairly young, and don't have too much life experience, so take this with a grain of salt.
I don't think there is such a thing as a soul mate. The way I see it, when someone says, "I saw her at the corner of my eyes and knew she was the one" I think, "What does that mean she's the 'one'? She's the 'one' who fits this ideal in your head that she's perfect for you? She's the 'one' who you've projected this idea of who you'd want to be with onto her?" If you see someone across a room and say that you know that she was perfect for you, I think that's just deceiving yourself. Your projecting this whole baggage of expectations onto someone and not even allowing them to show their true self to you.
And then after telling yourself over and over, "I have to be with her. She's 'the one.' This is the only way I'll be happy. This is my only shot at love in my life" and it doesn't work out, then it's a self-fulfilling prophecy: it was a set up for failure from the start. It's giving yourself an unrealistic ultimatum: either happiness or doom.
Of course, maybe she really is great and you hit it off. That's awesome if that happened. You talked about this comfort and peace you felt while you were with her. But maybe the comfort and peace that you felt was from this was a mental idea that you told yourself, "yes, things should be going this way." and the comfort and peace was ultimately setting up this expectation and fulfilling it, and then once the circumstances stopped fulfilling this expectation you had, it lead to disappointment.
I don't want to down play your pain though. I'm sorry to hear about this set of circumstances. I hope you can find that comfort and peace again that you mentioned in your OP. Best of luck man. Beyond all this pain though, it seems like you have a lot of love here on the Shroomery.
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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: r72rock]
#22071839 - 08/10/15 01:44 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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My rational mind agrees with all that you say. I never once thought "she is the one" when I was with her as I was too much in the moment. But on my drive back home I was hit with a tsunami of emotion the likes of which I have never felt with such a deep love and compassions so as to not make any sense.
She was very ordinary in one sense and extraordinary in another sense. If you guys saw her, you would be all like "She's OK, I guess." 
One phrase kept running through my head is that I have felt more protective of this woman than anyone else I have ever known.
Years ago I read a story where a bear attacked a young couple - well the woman anyways. The young man beat the bear with his fists to get the bear away from her. The bear tore half the kid's face off with a single swipe - though he lived.
I never understood this. The old me would have run away and left the woman to fend for herself. Now I actually 'get it'
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When you were little did you wish you could be a real boy?
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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: Sun King]
#22071898 - 08/10/15 01:58 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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My last gf liked it when I lied.
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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: r72rock]
#22072132 - 08/10/15 03:00 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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r72rock said: I don't think there is such a thing as a soul mate.
I totally respect your opinion r72rock, and before it happened to me I would have shared your opinion exactly.
Then it happened to me. It might happen to you one day, I don't know if everyone experiences this in their lifetime, I suspect not. But if it ever does, I bet you'll eat your words.
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Maybe try just being honest and apologizing to her for overreacting. If you can break the ice again telling her about your past would be a good way to become closer to her and would help to explain your lack of sanity in the situation.
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Thanks everyone for listening. Y'all are invited to visit me at the wedding (or the sanatorium) next year.
At the moment I feel better for having blathered on like a love-sick idiot.

I am now wondering how I am going to reclaim my old status after vomiting this out in public.
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Re: My Existential Crisis [Re: xFrockx]
#22072188 - 08/10/15 03:16 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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xFrockx said: Maybe try just being honest and apologizing to her for overreacting. If you can break the ice again telling her about your past would be a good way to become closer to her and would help to explain your lack of sanity in the situation.
Tried. No response.
When a woman closes her heart, apologies, clever words and logical arguments have no effect.
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OrgoneConclusion said: I am now wondering how I am going to reclaim my old status after vomiting this out in public. 
I gotta admit OC, I really like seeing this side of you. There's nothing quite so heart warming as humans being real humans, problems, complexes, warts and all IMO.
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