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Anonymous #1
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My own friends act like I'm invisible.
#22065025 - 08/08/15 11:12 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I've noticed in my life that a lot of times people just kind of keep me on the backburner. I offer up solid advances and ways to solve problems, but usually someone will claim that suggestion as their own and I'm left just being another dude. I'm sick and tired of people taking my ideas and running with them as if they were theirs.
Of course you can't bring this up, it just breeds hostility. But at the end of the day, why should I work shit hours and recieve shit pay, when I'm the one directing this boat? This hierarcy thing has me at a loss for words, and I'm starting to get angry.
And it's not like I can jump ship, because then I just start off as bottom rung once again. I'm seriously getting sick of how things play out time and time again.
Any advice is appreciated.
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Anonymous #2
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Re: My own friends act like I'm invisible. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22065063 - 08/08/15 11:19 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Don't let yourself be so desperate for friends that you are willing to have shitty friends. In time everyone finds true friends, but in the mean time it's better to not have any friends while you wait for those good friends to come along rather then spending your time with douchebags. If you take this advice I'm sure you will be much happier in life.
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Anonymous #3
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Re: My own friends act like I'm invisible. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22065685 - 08/09/15 03:12 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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You have to put yourself first. Took me til up until the start of this year to realise that. You can only help so many people before it damages your own state of mind. It's a good satisfying feeling, knowing that you have helped in some way or form, to make someone else happy.. even for a moment.
But when is it your turn? Find what makes you happy and chase it. Sounds like your friends aren't the 'friends' for your to be around and continue sharing your life with.
There are so many other people in the world, in your city, area who are more than likely going to appreciate the person you are, not take you for granted.
I've been through 4-5 even maybe 6 groups of friends since finishing High School.. I've carried one or 2 with me through each group.. I now have a solid friend circle who I can call my true friends.
Any form of substance abuse will show you who your mates are, once you are OFF the substance. Truth be told.
Get your own shit together, be selfish as you deserve to be to progress, but do it as selflessly as you possible can, nobody likes a wanker. Except for stupid girls :P but that's for another time.
I hope you get at least something out of what I have said, I was much in your situation or quite close to earlier this year.
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Anonymous #4
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Re: My own friends act like I'm invisible. [Re: Anonymous #3]
#22066677 - 08/09/15 11:09 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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"I'm sick and tired of people taking my ideas and running with them as if they we" not to be an ass but i have to wonder if other people running with your ideas are because you don't get around to it. No insult intended as i don't know you but in many cases i have known people who complain about the same thing but they themselves don't show the motivation to get their own ideas of the ground. Also sounds like you really do need better friends, don't put up with crap over the concern that you might lack friends. True friends will always support and encourage you. Slart
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Anonymous #5
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Re: My own friends act like I'm invisible. [Re: Anonymous #4] 1
#22069796 - 08/09/15 10:07 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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And it's not like I can jump ship, because then I just start off as bottom rung once again.
dude what the fuck do you care about "rungs"?
there is no place for "rungs" unless you are HELLA beta. Just be you, do you, live your own truth.
the reason you're being so socially raped is because you are caught up in this kind of bullshit.
You should see yourself as on the same "rung" as everyone else.
Edited by Anonymous (08/09/15 10:09 PM)
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Anonymous #6
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Re: My own friends act like I'm invisible. [Re: Anonymous #5]
#22070698 - 08/10/15 07:15 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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And it's not like I can jump ship, because then I just start off as bottom rung once again.
dude what the fuck do you care about "rungs"?
there is no place for "rungs" unless you are HELLA beta. Just be you, do you, live your own truth.
the reason you're being so socially raped is because you are caught up in this kind of bullshit.
You should see yourself as on the same "rung" as everyone else.
No. You should be the guy laughing at the top of the ladder.
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Anonymous #7
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Re: My own friends act like I'm invisible. [Re: Anonymous #6]
#22070707 - 08/10/15 07:22 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I would suggest keeping your "ideas" to yourself. You coworkers probably don't care, and you're wasting your breath.
Pretend you work for the CIA: don't volunteer information, and You just do Your thing to get stuff done. No suggestions, no explanations.
Sounds like people around you are dead-heads, anyway.
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Anonymous #8
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Re: My own friends act like I'm invisible. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22070841 - 08/10/15 08:30 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Maybe you are invisible.
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Anonymous #5
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Re: My own friends act like I'm invisible. [Re: Anonymous #6]
#22074326 - 08/10/15 11:07 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous #8 said: Maybe you are invisible.
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And it's not like I can jump ship, because then I just start off as bottom rung once again.
dude what the fuck do you care about "rungs"?
there is no place for "rungs" unless you are HELLA beta. Just be you, do you, live your own truth.
the reason you're being so socially raped is because you are caught up in this kind of bullshit.
You should see yourself as on the same "rung" as everyone else.
No. You should be the guy laughing at the top of the ladder.
There is no ladder. if there is, everyone is at the top rung unless they consciously decide not to be. attitude and confidence are everything
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Anonymous #2
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Re: My own friends act like I'm invisible. [Re: Anonymous #5]
#22075238 - 08/11/15 08:06 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Anonymous #5 said:
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Anonymous #8 said: Maybe you are invisible.
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Anonymous #6 said:
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Anonymous #5 said:
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And it's not like I can jump ship, because then I just start off as bottom rung once again.
dude what the fuck do you care about "rungs"?
there is no place for "rungs" unless you are HELLA beta. Just be you, do you, live your own truth.
the reason you're being so socially raped is because you are caught up in this kind of bullshit.
You should see yourself as on the same "rung" as everyone else.
No. You should be the guy laughing at the top of the ladder.
There is no ladder. if there is, everyone is at the top rung unless they consciously decide not to be. attitude and confidence are everything
Exactly its all about how you view yourself. If you think you're not on the top rung of this theoretical ladder then that's a problem within yourself you need to address.
Edited by Anonymous (08/11/15 08:06 AM)
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Anonymous #9
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Re: My own friends act like I'm invisible. [Re: Anonymous #2]
#22090085 - 08/14/15 06:05 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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'The Invisible Man' - H.G. Wells
Good book.
BTW I have no real friends at the moment, but everything comes in it's own time, and eventually you and I will have people to call REAL friends; Don't get sold short because people keep fucking you over.
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Anonymous #10
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Re: My own friends act like I'm invisible. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22091441 - 08/14/15 02:18 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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When you flatulate you don't even have to blame the dog.
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Anonymous #11
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Re: My own friends act like I'm invisible. [Re: Anonymous #10]
#22091596 - 08/14/15 03:00 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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For some reason I can't see the original post. I think he really is invisible and is just butthurt over it.
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Anonymous #12
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Re: My own friends act like I'm invisible. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22115225 - 08/20/15 03:17 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sounds like you haven't discovered your sense of self respect yet.
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Anonymous #6
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Re: My own friends act like I'm invisible. [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22115622 - 08/20/15 07:24 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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