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MagicalOrangutan
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Don't get me wrong, the OP based on his posts seems like a very nice, cool guy and not to be gay but I'd say he's good looking too.
I'm not dissing him. I'm dissing the average woman for being judgmental and superficial, to where they think anything remotely nerdy, or non-pretty-boy-looking, to be unattractive. Like skater dudes and gangstas and all those superficial "cool" stereotypes
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Zhu
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Okay now. For the friendzone (oooh i love these kind of problems haha) I can share my personal experience, as I'm no ordinary man. I have bypassed the friendzone. That's how I did it.
I got REALLY, like completely mad on her for some reason (i don't care, find it, and make it a good one), so bad that she thought I'd never speak to her again, as she later revealed. Next, get together after a few days. (we actually bumped into each other, so that's some bonus points for you not giving a fuck about her) Now is the time for you to be noble and forgive her. Just after you say chitchat about something completely unrelated, say something like: You: You know what, you owe me something. Hotbabe: Really? What? You: This: *stick out your cheek and point your finger to it* In my case she was like: "Oh, Okayz" and if your HB refuses to do it, you can play it off as you should do anyway: Hotbabe: *pecks your cheek* You: WTF WAS THAT??? I was pointing at my ear! I wanted for you to apologize! To say sorry and not to throw yourself at me! (Seem serious and watch her go deep red)
Some general insights: It took me 2 months to get out of friendzone. Don't expect it to happen so fast. Always be playful. Don't get your feelings hurt and remember that it's a game. Playful and flirty. Don't be afraid to express that you are a sexual creature and you feel attracted to her as a woman. The way this works in my opinion is giving a lady some clear signals that you two might just part ways. And she doesn't want that. My lady said that she started to feel attracted to me just after all of this. I think the "break up" with that kiss prank is very important, it connects being happy, me and kissing into one rewarding experience for her, and she was JUST SOO happy to see me (and I love that) I haven't read the whole thread but I hope she knows your intentions. I told her that way before she liked me, and I think that was my mistake, but also I think that if I haven't done it I wouldn't have made enough clarity which path for her to choose 
I guess I might treat myself for making a post this long. Feel free to ask questions.
I almost forgot!!! The key part of making this all work - when in doubt, just whip it out.
And yeah for all of these guys and that wingwoman shit - what if you see your wingwoman as your main reason to live and *other romantic shit*? Huh?
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Sheekle
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Re: Friendzone [Re: Zhu] 1
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Zhu said: Okay now. For the friendzone (oooh i love these kind of problems haha) I can share my personal experience, as I'm no ordinary man. I have bypassed the friendzone. That's how I did it.
I got REALLY, like completely mad on her for some reason (i don't care, find it, and make it a good one), so bad that she thought I'd never speak to her again, as she later revealed. Next, get together after a few days. (we actually bumped into each other, so that's some bonus points for you not giving a fuck about her) Now is the time for you to be noble and forgive her. Just after you say chitchat about something completely unrelated, say something like: You: You know what, you owe me something. Hotbabe: Really? What? You: This: *stick out your cheek and point your finger to it* In my case she was like: "Oh, Okayz" and if your HB refuses to do it, you can play it off as you should do anyway: Hotbabe: *pecks your cheek* You: WTF WAS THAT??? I was pointing at my ear! I wanted for you to apologize! To say sorry and not to throw yourself at me! (Seem serious and watch her go deep red)
Some general insights: It took me 2 months to get out of friendzone. Don't expect it to happen so fast. Always be playful. Don't get your feelings hurt and remember that it's a game. Playful and flirty. Don't be afraid to express that you are a sexual creature and you feel attracted to her as a woman. The way this works in my opinion is giving a lady some clear signals that you two might just part ways. And she doesn't want that. My lady said that she started to feel attracted to me just after all of this. I think the "break up" with that kiss prank is very important, it connects being happy, me and kissing into one rewarding experience for her, and she was JUST SOO happy to see me (and I love that) I haven't read the whole thread but I hope she knows your intentions. I told her that way before she liked me, and I think that was my mistake, but also I think that if I haven't done it I wouldn't have made enough clarity which path for her to choose 
I guess I might treat myself for making a post this long. Feel free to ask questions.
I almost forgot!!! The key part of making this all work - when in doubt, just whip it out.
And yeah for all of these guys and that wingwoman shit - what if you see your wingwoman as your main reason to live and *other romantic shit*? Huh?
What? You're actually advocating that people fake anger towards someone and pull a huge conspiracy "prank" towards someone to get out of the non-existent friend zone? Are you like, 15?
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Re: Friendzone [Re: Sheekle]
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its hella earli in the morning, what r u doin up
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Turtletotem
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Re: Friendzone [Re: 404]
#22065748 - 08/09/15 04:16 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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404 said: its hella earli in the morning, what r u doin up
He's kicking ass.
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Apollyphelion
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All the friendzone is a term created by guys who they they deserve an award for being nice to a girl.
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Lachy
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Apollyphelion said: All the friendzone is a term created by guys who they they deserve an award for being nice to a girl.
Not wrong. It's often the case. Then half the time you are considered to be gay, simply because you know how to treat a woman, with getting into her pants not being your main priority or one at all. I get this a lot haha.
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Zhu
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Re: Friendzone [Re: 404]
#22065779 - 08/09/15 04:51 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I am. I think that relationship is an art. And I've been into this things for like 6 years from now on. I'm manipulative and egocentric prick. Read The Game by Neil Strauss (amazing book) to get a popular opinion about the pick up artists. If I was chasing the girl of my dreams, I'd do anything to get her.
(Diff timezones guys) Edit: i didn't fake no anger nor I recommend anyone to. Now I know why ppl post disclaimers. And what do you define by the word conspiracy? Stealing a peck to the cheek? I must be missing something. There are proven ways to "pick up" girls by saying same things over and over again. They do work. And I'm just sharing my insights of the technical side so please dont get emotional.
And if anyone benefits from what I write, I'm more than happy.
Edited by Zhu (08/09/15 05:07 AM)
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ShiVersblood
VAmPiRES HELLA ❤



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Re: Friendzone [Re: Zhu]
#22066426 - 08/09/15 09:57 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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The friendzone is a term when a female leads a guy on. Why waste a guys time when you don't even want to date him? It just seems cruel to me. I would much rather the girl be upfront and forward with me and tell me she is not interested so I can move on with my life, instead of having her drag it out even tho she knows it will never lead to anything. Hell the guy could have been taking to a different girl who actually returns his feelings instead of being friendzoned and lead on for months and months on a dead end girl.
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g00ru
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i always thought it was when you were trying to like hang w/ her but in the end she just wants your company, nothing else.
so not really a big deal cause being friends is great, but if you are tryin to hit that then maybe you should just get space or something. it's only an issue if you actually care about hanging out with her that badly.
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ShiVersblood
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Re: Friendzone [Re: g00ru]
#22066657 - 08/09/15 10:58 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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if a guy already has a girlfriend, or is homosexual male, then sure maybe he actually wouldn't mind making a new female friend. But a single guy? Nobody got time to be playing that friendzone game. Especially a guy in his mid to late 20s who is trying to find a girl and settle down.
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g00ru
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yeah, i refuse to be put in a box
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tryptkaloids
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Re: Friendzone [Re: g00ru]
#22066668 - 08/09/15 11:05 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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i always thought it was when you were trying to like hang w/ her but in the end she just wants your company, nothing else.
so not really a big deal cause being friends is great, but if you are tryin to hit that then maybe you should just get space or something. it's only an issue if you actually care about hanging out with her that badly.
no. wrong. if I want to bang a chick I most certainly won't be asking her to hang out... your company is the best thing you can give someone.. If I know someone well enough to know I don't want to hang out with them then I know I don't want to have sex with them... if you ask a girl to hang out you're not getting laid.. at least not by someone noteworthy IMO
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g00ru
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tryptkaloids said: if you ask a girl to hang out you're not getting laid.. at least not by someone noteworthy IMO
wait, isn't that just like asking her on a date? or it coudl be like that...kinda...
anyways i will hang out with a girl for reasons other than sex so i don't sweat it but like, i still don't want to be in a box ya know?
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Tantrika
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Re: Friendzone [Re: Zhu]
#22067501 - 08/09/15 02:38 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Zhu said: I am. I think that relationship is an art. And I've been into this things for like 6 years from now on. I'm manipulative and egocentric prick. Read The Game by Neil Strauss (amazing book) to get a popular opinion about the pick up artists. If I was chasing the girl of my dreams, I'd do anything to get her.
(Diff timezones guys) Edit: i didn't fake no anger nor I recommend anyone to. Now I know why ppl post disclaimers. And what do you define by the word conspiracy? Stealing a peck to the cheek? I must be missing something. There are proven ways to "pick up" girls by saying same things over and over again. They do work. And I'm just sharing my insights of the technical side so please dont get emotional.
And if anyone benefits from what I write, I'm more than happy.
There are indeed a lot of women that pick up artistry works on -- in a sense it is kind of like shooting fish in a barrel, because it means using tried and tested methods to land people who want to be landed that way. The methods are easy to employ and fairly consistent in terms of results -- looking to get frequently laid? It's basically a how-to guide.
There are also educated women who familiarize themselves with these methods and shoot down the men trying to employ them. Being called on the bullshit after numerous instances of success hits as a bit of a sobering experience. 
What it comes down to in my eyes is whether or not the "girl of my dreams" is a woman who falls into the category of ones that open their legs any time anyone says the password.
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RanOutOfWeed
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Re: Friendzone [Re: Tantrika] 3
#22067505 - 08/09/15 02:40 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Pick up artists are lame as fuck. They may be able to get a girls number sure, but do they know how to do anything beyond that? Likely not
Women want a man, not a boy. They want you to be direct and go for what you want. They friendzone men to test them
If you agree to being her friend in hopes that you'll become her boyfriend in the future, you've already lost. You need to walk away in this situation and state that you are not interested in being friends at all.
Do not continue to contact her. She'll get in touch with you if she wants more.
Betas get friendzoned.
Alphas walk and usually get laid because the woman respects them going for what they want and not settling for less.
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Tantrika
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Stealth1Vampire said: The friendzone is a term when a female leads a guy on. Why waste a guys time when you don't even want to date him? It just seems cruel to me. I would much rather the girl be upfront and forward with me and tell me she is not interested so I can move on with my life, instead of having her drag it out even tho she knows it will never lead to anything. Hell the guy could have been taking to a different girl who actually returns his feelings instead of being friendzoned and lead on for months and months on a dead end girl.
Why is the woman being pinned with the expectation of acting in accordance with the guys desires.
Why would a guy waste his own time on a woman who doesn't even want to date him? Because he lives with the illusion that he deserves every woman to bow to his expectations. Hell, the guy could have been talking to a different girl who actually returns his feelings instead of investing all his energy into an imaginary relationship he is playing out in his mind that does not match the reality of his situation.
Try to wrap my head around these situations sometimes, but it seems difficult to do. Are there guys out there who have never met a woman they are not attracted to? Have they never met women that are attracted to them but the guys aren't attracted to those women? Have they never leveraged such connections to bang those women's more attractive female friends? The claims of being "friendzoned" are basically the same thing -- women who think the guy is a decent person, but do not find him attractive.
Women are people just like men are, it is really not surprising that they have preferences like men do. If you give them everything they want out of you without dating you, why would they date you? Being "in the friendzone" is a choice a man actively makes, actively pursues, and then wonders why it does not pan out in his favour.
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MagicalOrangutan
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Imho it's not about being an alpha vs beta male or any of that bullshit. If a girl thinks a guy has good genes she might want to fuck him. If he's kinda ugly or bald but is the most alpha male of all time, he still won't get laid by many attractive girls, unless we're talking about incredibly non picky sluts who don't even count
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ThatKidWithTheFace
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Dude, I don't know where you're getting this bald shit from. I've met lots of women that dig bald guys. If you're going bald and don't dig it, just shave your head.
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Tantrika
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MagicalOrangutan said: Imho it's not about being an alpha vs beta male or any of that bullshit. If a girl thinks a guy has good genes she might want to fuck him. If he's kinda ugly or bald but is the most alpha male of all time, he still won't get laid by many attractive girls, unless we're talking about incredibly non picky sluts who don't even count
It's not, but it's still fun, at least as a system of classification.

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