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InvisibleCapers
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: trekie] * 2
    #22055405 - 08/06/15 08:18 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

A gentleman never denies a lady the dick.


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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: Enjoywho]
    #22055518 - 08/06/15 08:48 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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Enjoywho said:
I mean if you can't see yourself dealing with this person every day forever then it's best to end it now.

I don't see how people think like this. Why not enjoy the person your with at any given moment. Why does it always have to be your entire life? Nothing lasts forever. I just don't get that way of thinking at all.




Well  if she gets pregnant then he has to deal with her for the rest of his life.  I don't see how people can't think like this...


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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: MrBlueYoMind]
    #22055536 - 08/06/15 08:51 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I think he's more concerned because he's afraid his friendship with her is at risk and that if he has that fun with her then it could completely destroy it especially since she kinda likes him and he doesn't feel the same, so it isn't like it's exclusively for sex in her mind. He said she's a cool chick and he likes hanging out with her and has known her for a while, and sex with her or continuing to let her think he's into her would ruin it totally when she finds out he doesn't feel the same.

He could have fun with her, but wants to maintain the friendship, save that fun time for girls who aren't friends, namean? At least if you want to stay friends.


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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: SirShroomsAlott]
    #22055879 - 08/06/15 10:11 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

You should be honest with her, leaving out the implication that she's not attractive, and tell her that the friendship is important to you but you don't see a serious relationship between you two happening. You could say you've enjoyed hooking up, and are willing to have casual sex but don't want to complicate the friendship. Use the word friendship frequently. If she still wants to bone just perform terribly, try to cum as fast as possible, let her decide she doesn't want you. She'll get over you, and you guys can continue on as friends.

Likely once she's no longer interested you may get that whole "want what ya can't get" phenomenon and decide you want to go after her. By then it will be too late.


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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: Speckles]
    #22055937 - 08/06/15 10:28 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

what about a fat unattractive bitch

fuck no and fuck that

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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy] * 2
    #22055944 - 08/06/15 10:30 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I would never have sex with someone I didnt find attractive.


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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: Moonshoe]
    #22066732 - 08/09/15 11:22 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

so after a night of drinking, we came back to my place (again)

we were watching always sunny and she was like, "Do you wanna watch this?"
I'm like, "What do you mean?"
She's like, "Like, do you wanna watch this or do you wanna put on music and make out?"
I said, "I'm actually kind of tired."

Do you think this is kind of a dead giveaway?


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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy]
    #22066742 - 08/09/15 11:24 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

shh, ur reminding me of when some chick didnt wanna make out with me nd fell asleep shortly after a lil ago


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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy]
    #22067165 - 08/09/15 01:09 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

i hate liz said:
so after a night of drinking, we came back to my place (again)

we were watching always sunny and she was like, "Do you wanna watch this?"
I'm like, "What do you mean?"
She's like, "Like, do you wanna watch this or do you wanna put on music and make out?"
I said, "I'm actually kind of tired."

Do you think this is kind of a dead giveaway?



maybe, but there's times when we're just tired too.

I don't think the passive aggressive route is the best way to play it if you want to keep the friendship.

you basically have to have the conversation sooner or later and friendzone her brah. :shrug:


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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy]
    #22067238 - 08/09/15 01:33 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Everyones beautiful in rope :bondage:


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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: Beanhead]
    #22067264 - 08/09/15 01:38 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I have to be attracted to that person, but I also need to click with them emotionally at least enough to be compatible - that goes into a person's attractiveness to me. I don't expect perfection at all, and some physical flaws often grow on me if their personality is attractive.

I don't bang people just to bang, I can deal with any urges myself(heh). I just need to be attracted to someone physically, but a huge part of that is personality.


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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: pirate-blues]
    #22068339 - 08/09/15 05:18 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Yes. If I've grown attracted to men and women through other means. I've dated a couple of people who weren't my "type" physically but had other positive attributes. Sex, for me, is primarily about intimacy and that intimacy is built through stimulating conversation, a sense of humor, and a bit of stubbornness. But that's just me.

As far as your situation? I think you should tell her you are not attracted to her and remove any possibility of her misinterpreting your interactions. This gives her the chance to find someone who does find her appealing and absolves you of seeming to be an opportunistic, manipulative, cad.


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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: dionysiandame]
    #22068499 - 08/09/15 05:51 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

It seems like youre more asking about it ruining the relationship, rather than actually banging her - atleast from what i can tell.

I could never kiss someone i found unattractive, thats just gross to me.

Fucking, on the other hand, is absolutely nothing.

If im sitting there hanging out and all of a sudden i look at the person and think "hmmm...i could stick my dick in that right now with no effort..." 10/10 times im going to do it.

Ive fucked guys on this principle. Its just a feel good hole, thats all sex is. For me atleast

If you want to bang her without being sexually attracted to her, think of anything, get a hardon, and smash her warm pussy with limited foreplay.

Or get her to give you a bj, its nearly impossible to stop after that


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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy]
    #22069798 - 08/09/15 10:08 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Using reverse psychology to get an old fashioned.


While watching TV . Well played sir.:fedora:


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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: trekie]
    #22069801 - 08/09/15 10:09 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

i do this every day. its just sex


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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: Mr.PhilCybin]
    #22069804 - 08/09/15 10:09 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

Mr.PhilCybin said:
Quote:

i hate liz said:
so after a night of drinking, we came back to my place (again)

we were watching always sunny and she was like, "Do you wanna watch this?"
I'm like, "What do you mean?"
She's like, "Like, do you wanna watch this or do you wanna put on music and make out?"
I said, "I'm actually kind of tired."

Do you think this is kind of a dead giveaway?



maybe, but there's times when we're just tired too.

I don't think the passive aggressive route is the best way to play it if you want to keep the friendship.

you basically have to have the conversation sooner or later and friendzone her brah. :shrug:



yea this is the best advice here


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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: god2hateyou]
    #22069838 - 08/09/15 10:18 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

god2hateyou said:
i do this every day. its just sex



Gay 4 pay . Good for you
:goodluckwiththat:


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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: Sheekle]
    #22069839 - 08/09/15 10:18 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Looks should be second in line after how she treats you If you think she getting emotional about you than you need to telling her your not interested Or you can seriously hurt what sounds like a good friendship On the other hand you can man up and think more about how this chick is gonna treat you in the long run She may end up being the love of your life and you don't even know it


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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: Splinta]
    #22069935 - 08/09/15 10:42 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

It's called a condom

Do you not want ugly kids?

Wear a condom.


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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: Konyap]
    #22070182 - 08/10/15 12:25 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I only slept with one girl I did not find physically attractive all the other ones have been cute.


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