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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy]
#22055173 - 08/06/15 07:22 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I don't get it. Are you gay? Is there something really messed up about her face or body? Be a man and bang her.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: Capers] 4
#22055183 - 08/06/15 07:26 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Some guys don't just fuck anything and everything.
Let that sink in.
I could go ahead and do it, and then even further complicate the situation (you know, the one where I'm not interested in her in that way but she seems to feel the opposite).
Great plan!
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy] 1
#22055187 - 08/06/15 07:28 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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You've been leading her on for weeks. I understand that shit happens sometimes, but god damn. Don't act like you're being all considerate of her feelings or some shit.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: Capers]
#22055192 - 08/06/15 07:29 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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sex at dawn book about primate sex.
cant tell you to read it cause I haven't read it all but the first half.
basically you not being slutty and nothing needs to change because of sex, in tribes of hunter gatherers women believe that their belly grows only if she collects the semen of as many men as she can for the full duration of pregnancy
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: Capers]
#22055195 - 08/06/15 07:30 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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So instead of trying to set things right, I should just go ahead and make things even more awkward and increase the odds of me losing her as a friend?
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: Capers]
#22055205 - 08/06/15 07:31 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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And I was giving it a chance, but it isn't working out the way I thought it would. It's not like I was using her.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: TravelerOfSorts]
#22055208 - 08/06/15 07:33 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I never had sex with a girl whow as my friend, and it means nothing, I remembered a similar happening I am sure now in heindsight we should have had sex with the pet watching and her mom in the next room but I didnt know how to act nothing happened, and im not friends with her now because I couldnt realise what was happening at the time I've never had a relationship and I almost assure you she thought less of me for not taking a chance on her.
hmmph got me thinking anyway bro good luck may the force be with you. If thats a choice you've got the chance to make I think you'll be suprised how its not a thing that's in your control.
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Edited by TravelerOfSorts (08/06/15 07:35 PM)
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy]
#22055229 - 08/06/15 07:40 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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If you've been friends with her a while, just tell her the truth, you wanted to give it a shot but you aren't into it like that and don't want to ruin your friendship with her, but phrase it differently and way more nicely. No matter what it's going to be awkward, might as well just stop it before it ruins your entire relationship with her.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: SirShroomsAlott]
#22055241 - 08/06/15 07:42 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I know...I just feel bad. Thought that maybe there would be someone who was in a similar situation that could share their story and how it worked out.
Thanks for the replies, guys.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy]
#22055245 - 08/06/15 07:43 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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And Capers, I didn't mean any hostility toward you, I just felt like you weren't fully understanding where I was coming from.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy]
#22055257 - 08/06/15 07:47 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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With enough alcohol I've definitely made some questionable calls in my past.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy] 1
#22055260 - 08/06/15 07:48 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I've been in that situation, I ended it after a bit and we were friends for a long time before that, we hung out with friends a few times shortly after and it was a little awkward and we pretended everything was normal, and then we slowly drifted apart.
I didn't want to say that because it might not be the case for you and she might be fine with it and you guys can stay friends, but unfortunately I think I saw you say in an earlier comment that she told you shes liked you for a while, which means you'll probably stay "friendly" but most likely not close friends anymore.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy] 1
#22055265 - 08/06/15 07:49 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
i hate liz said: And Capers, I didn't mean any hostility toward you
Same to you.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: SirShroomsAlott]
#22055282 - 08/06/15 07:54 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
SirShroomsAlott said: If you've been friends with her a while, just tell her the truth, you wanted to give it a shot but you aren't into it like that and don't want to ruin your friendship with her, but phrase it differently and way more nicely. No matter what it's going to be awkward, might as well just stop it before it ruins your entire relationship with her.
Pretty much this.
Nobody can tell you how it will work out. Sounds like she's catching feels it happens 
But if your just not into it then you aren't. Be honest with her and honestly you might not be friends after this. But it is what it is.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: SirShroomsAlott]
#22055296 - 08/06/15 07:57 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
SirShroomsAlott said: I've been in that situation, I ended it after a bit and we were friends for a long time before that, we hung out with friends a few times shortly after and it was a little awkward and we pretended everything was normal, and then we slowly drifted apart.
I didn't want to say that because it might not be the case for you and she might be fine with it and you guys can stay friends, but unfortunately I think I saw you say in an earlier comment that she told you shes liked you for a while, which means you'll probably stay "friendly" but most likely not close friends anymore.
Bingo
There comes a point where you move beyond being friends. And it's hard to maintain that connection once its become apparant that one or the other doesnt feel as strongly. You just drift apart. Such is life.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy] 2
#22055297 - 08/06/15 07:57 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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This probably goes without saying but I'd say definitely leave out the "not attracted to her physically" part in any conversation you might have with her about this.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: psi]
#22055331 - 08/06/15 08:04 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I honestly don't know how you can have this conversation without offense. Your friendship will never be the same she obviously has feels for you and have reciprocated kissing her back and such. It is what it is man but don't lead her on because your afraid of losing a friend. She could be hanging out with someone that wants to do those things with her.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy]
#22055343 - 08/06/15 08:06 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Start spending less time with her, and when you do use words like "Sup buuuddddyy?" (Like Pauly Shore)
Just use more language that friend-zones her.
I'm the same way. If the physical attraction isn't somewhat there then it is nearly impossible for me to be sexually interested.
For instance there is a woman who hangs in the same circle I often find myself. She's definitely interested in me, but she came on to me wayyy too strong and I'm not very attracted to her. It's not that she is unattractive, but the way she came at me turned me off. Like super desperate and clingy. But I'm not an asshole so I'm cool with her, but she takes it as interest. Shit happens. I won't take advantage of her because I'm not selfish like that.
Maybe you're just in denial? Maybe you are used to infatuation and not love? I mean if you can't see yourself dealing with this person every day forever then it's best to end it now.
Definitely don't tell her you aren't attracted to her.
Just tell her you see her more as a friend, and it's the truth. It might suck and she'll be hurt, but the longer you wait the more it'll hurt and the more you'll feel like shit as well.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: MrBlueYoMind]
#22055365 - 08/06/15 08:11 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I mean if you can't see yourself dealing with this person every day forever then it's best to end it now.
I don't see how people think like this. Why not enjoy the person your with at any given moment. Why does it always have to be your entire life? Nothing lasts forever. I just don't get that way of thinking at all.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: Enjoywho] 1
#22055398 - 08/06/15 08:17 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Drink more . Don't look at porn or goto the strip club. Wait like a week or less save dat seed and you will good .
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