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can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to?
#22055031 - 08/06/15 06:51 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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do you find it difficult to perform if it's with someone you're not physically attracted to in the slightest?
I've kind of been going out for drinks with someone...we've fooled around a bit and I think she's really fun and cool, but I don't feel I could actually have sex with her. She doesn't just doesn't turn me on - and I feel like this kind of contradicts the idea of sex.
Any tips or tricks? I feel like she's expecting the D, and I'm too nice to kind of break it down the way I just did here.
I don't know...what would you do??
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy] 1
#22055035 - 08/06/15 06:52 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Drink more. Always works for me, or turn the lights off.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy]
#22055036 - 08/06/15 06:52 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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and wow this sounds so shallow
I just feel like I wouldn't be able to do it...and I mean that in the most sincere/nicest way possible
I know there's more than flesh, but it just isn't there. Like I said, she's cool, I like her...but not like that. I just feel like I've kind of been leading her on.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy]
#22055046 - 08/06/15 06:55 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm not picky. I'll bang anyone with a pussy
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy]
#22055057 - 08/06/15 06:58 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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How long do you feel like you've been leading her on? If it hasn't been that long, it's probably best to tell her now you aren't looking for anything if you want to stay friends with her, the longer she thinks you're interested the more let down she'll be.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: nooneman]
#22055058 - 08/06/15 06:58 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm not really picky either, I just...I don't know! I just feel like they're experiencing emotions I'm not.
And I love hanging out with her...she's my drinking buddy. But I just...she likes to start kissing and getting physical, and I just don't feel the energy/connection/whatever.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy]
#22055069 - 08/06/15 07:01 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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A few weeks?
I mean, we've hooked up (obviously - that's how I know it isn't something I want). But I don't want to lose her as a friend. I guess it only makes sense to come clean, but it's gonna be hard for me. She told me that she's liked me for a while.
I gave it a chance, but it isn't working out. Like I said, it comes down to me not wanting to change the way things are.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy]
#22055071 - 08/06/15 07:02 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Don't sweat it man if you won't fuck her she'll find someone who will
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: nooneman]
#22055077 - 08/06/15 07:03 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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man If I would be her I'd be wanting to be with you now, and you should think maybe you're thinking of her now, what more can you want than that how do you feel so compotent i mean in your thinking not being attracted, like geez maybe you arent now but in time maybe you're attractions are in transition, like she could paradime shift taste.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy]
#22055082 - 08/06/15 07:05 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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i got jerked off by a 40 year old man through a glory hole in mid-june 2015
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: TravelerOfSorts]
#22055084 - 08/06/15 07:05 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I've known her for years
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: TravelerOfSorts]
#22055085 - 08/06/15 07:05 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I decided after reading this and my own post that I know nothing about any of this and I retract my statement.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: TravelerOfSorts]
#22055091 - 08/06/15 07:07 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I've never had this maybe the opposite, man actually man, I think the opposite, what if she was someone you never got to hook up with or had much fun with but you were attracted to. wouldnt matter because you'd never get to where you are now based on attraction.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: TravelerOfSorts]
#22055095 - 08/06/15 07:07 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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yea i could bang someone im not attracted to physically, MAYBE but onlyMAYBE
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: Sheekle]
#22055116 - 08/06/15 07:10 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'd say its not about banging I dont think tahts the case it appears like are oyu willing to try loving her moreso?
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: shadyy]
#22055124 - 08/06/15 07:11 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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no way bro, i couldnt do it..
then what if they become attached and u're not even into them, just turns into a fucking circus
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: zZZz]
#22055134 - 08/06/15 07:13 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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unless u just want to bang her but u dont want to deal with all the drama u should let her know beforehand where u two stand
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: TravelerOfSorts]
#22055136 - 08/06/15 07:13 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I think its in your head it wasn't a man it was a woman that has to use a LOT of sanitizer hence the tough calloused hands
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: TravelerOfSorts]
#22055150 - 08/06/15 07:17 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I bang whoever I want. Just don't answer the phone if you think they're getting attached. She will get the message.
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Re: can you bang people you're not phsysically attracted to? [Re: TravelerOfSorts]
#22055170 - 08/06/15 07:22 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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No, I don't love her.
I think she's cool. I have fun with her -- it doesn't go beyond that. I'm not physically nor emotionally attracted to her.
If you have a physical attraction but nothing more - this can easily be a one night stand (or a dead end relationship). End of story. If the physical attraction lacks but you're emotionally invested, that can turn into something more - and in turn - physical attraction can grow.
The problem is neither of these are present. I simply have fun with her, going out getting drunk, partying, laughing and stuff like that. Friend stuff.
Just friends.
But I feel like she thinks we're more than that. I can understand why. Maybe I should just make it clear that we ARE just friends. I'm just afraid of the aftermath.
Am I wrong here??
Like I said, we have played some "games," which would only push toward the idea that it's more than friends. But it isn't. In my eyes, we've gotten drunk and fooled around. Maybe it's my slutty way of thinking, but it was nothing more than having fun.
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