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OfflineEnjoywho
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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: Webster10]
    #22053874 - 08/06/15 02:37 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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Good job, man. Being in a rut does really suck. It sounds like you just needed a rut-buster. Just one tip, ditch the camo pants haha. I know some girls really do love the clean cut look, but honestly the haircut and good hygiene is enough to pull off the clean cut look. Camo pants are a little overboard IMO. Besides, I don't know many girls that would prefer a military looking guy over a clean-cut ripped guy in some semi-fancy casual clothes that you'd normally see people wearing in a club or bar. Good luck man!

Also, a guy who won't escalate things is sometimes a turn off for a lot of girls. Most girls I know like it when a guy knows what he wants and tries to take it. Thats not to say to get pushy and aggressive, obviously feel out the situation and do whatever feels right, but definitely make a move. The worst thing that could happen is you getting rejected. Some light ass grabbing and neck kissing is generally a good way to get a girl turned on. Also, next time I wouldn't get stoned right before I go out. Instead go sober and drink just enough alcohol to ease your social reservations but make fucking sure not to get sloppy. Have fun man! 




Ya not making a move is a bummer. There are a lot of oppurtinities looking back with pretty girls that i just didnt pull the trigger as i wasn't as confident in myself as I'd later become. Never heard from those girls again.

I wouldn't say im aggresive but i am dominant and women love it. The last 2 girls i wouldnt even undress them myself as things were escalating. I'd just say "take off your clothes" both of there responses were similiar. "I like a man that can take charge" i know what i want and wont beat around the bush anymore. And from my experiences they love that shit.


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: SleepyE]
    #22053910 - 08/06/15 02:44 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I'm also in a 3 month dry spell because recently I had a pretty big change in my life:laugh:( aka lots of travelling) and I'm only half over my ex.

I mean if I were in my home town I know lots of people but it hasn't been like that for a minute.

I also agree that a slight alcohol buzz is best for social interaction, sometimes weed can help but its a gamble because other times it has you over thinking everything.

Take advantage of good health, opportunities and such and such because life is a gift
Be well all:smile:


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: ergoticmandala]
    #22054446 - 08/06/15 04:46 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Well said


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: SleepyE]
    #22054600 - 08/06/15 05:19 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Women are not particularly intelligent and its not difficult to manipulate them for personal gain (sex etc). They obey a set of rules hardwired into their behaviour and once you realize how to exploit these behavioral patterns you will get a lot more pussy. Good luck.


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: sunkeep]
    #22054653 - 08/06/15 05:32 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

o yah?



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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: SleepyE]
    #22054754 - 08/06/15 05:56 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

It's always amusingly rude when one girl is chatting you up and another one comes in and nudges the first out of the way like they own you.

Someday you might miss the time you spent alone.


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: SleepyE] * 1
    #22054772 - 08/06/15 06:00 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I relate to you guys like crazy.  You have to integrate the trips/rolls.  Drugs don't have the answers, you have the answers and drugs help you find them.  But if you don't use the answers you found, what is the point in asking the questions? 

Remember: EVERYONE out there is imperfect perfection- especially you!  Each one of us has our own bag of shit we carry with us.  It's best to own it, set it down, and leave it in the past.  The best part is: NO ONE CAN SEE THE SHIT YOU CARRY WITH YOU!  Just like you can't see all the problems everyone else has in their lives.  Even if you could would you judge them for it?  NO!  So stop judging yourself for being human! 

Get comfortable in your own skin!  Whenever I'm feeling anxious or self-conscious, it is usually because I'm living in a constant state of inebriation of some sort and not taking care of myself like I should.  A little sobriety goes a long way in these instances.

I embrace my weirdness and social-awkwardness.  If people talk behind my back that is their character flaw, not mine.  As long as you are positive and respectful of people while having a good time, there is nothing to be anxious about.  Total self-acceptance is the key.  If there are things you don't like about yourself- change them!!  If they can't be changed, embrace who you are and accept that certain things are the way they are, but you won't let that dominate you. 

Next time if you get shaky just tell them you've been drinking red bull and vodka all night so you're kind of wired.  If she's grinding on you when the songs over turn her around and kiss her. 

Or better yet, while you're grinding slide your fingers in her hair, get a firm but not tight grip on her hair close to the scalp in the back of the head, and pull her head back and stick your tongue in her mouth.


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: MrBlueYoMind] * 1
    #22054957 - 08/06/15 06:34 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Nice :laugh: Women always come in threes. There will be two more soon. It's always like that, mark my words!


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: GoldenEye] * 1
    #22054992 - 08/06/15 06:41 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I am glad to have read this and judged you accordingly lol I've done exactly this, but never had girls other then I like the bar tenders.?
so I notice you say military looking and short hair style n sh. I want to add is it not the image I cant get to deep on this but obviously im interested, It must be that you got to be careful cuz I've purposely baught some gang clothing and camo pants that are too big to wear  without a belt. I assume the girls I would attract would be dissapointed that the only coke I've got is in my rum


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: TravelerOfSorts]
    #22055118 - 08/06/15 07:10 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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I've purposely baught some gang clothing and camo pants that are too big to wear  without a belt. I assume the girls I would attract would be dissapointed that the only coke I've got is in my rum




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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: MrBlueYoMind]
    #22055373 - 08/06/15 08:13 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

She doesn't like you, she was trying to make the other guy jealous


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: highasfuk]
    #22055413 - 08/06/15 08:21 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Whatever u say, but why make someone jealous thats not even there, most of the flirting happened when he wasnt even there, besides, they arent "together", maybe he feels some dominion over her.


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: SleepyE]
    #22055426 - 08/06/15 08:24 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

But i get ur probably just trying to make me feel bad about myself, probably why u have a zero shroom rating :yesnod:


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
    #22055705 - 08/06/15 09:25 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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The only time I can be myself is on MDMA pretty much. Otherwise I have trouble making eye contact or just having a conversation flow freely even with some of my close friends. It's just like I can't get myself off this edge that I'm always on. That's why I spend a lot of my time alone eating psychedelics to try and piece together a solution but it's not working. Outside of festivals I'm extremely socially aquward and I guess that's why I've only had like 2 girlfriends my whole life, slept with a couple more but nothing with any real connection :frown:

I need help :/




Hey I can really relate to where your coming from.  When I was younger I was in a very similar situation and I would look to psychedelics for solutions also.  And honestly, looking back, I think they can make things worse.  I know this won't fly with alot of people on this site but it's how I feel now.  At the time I loved my nice shroom trips throughout the summer after foraging for them all spring.  And I do think think they help you realize alot of things that you otherwise wouldn't have.  But I think some people get caught up in the mindset that psychedelics can help you with anything.  I used to be one of these people.  Didn't really realize it at the time but looking back I did think this way.

I think mushrooms have caused me more anxiety and social awkwardness then I would have had if not taken at all.  I used to love tripping and I still think everyone should experience it at least once in their life.  But now even when I think about tripping I feel like I need to pop a xanax to relive the anxiety it makes me feel.

After being away from mushrooms and similar sunstances for years now I feel like a better, more confident, more productive person.  I don't know if I can attribute this to just getting older or if I just did too much or whatever.  But I've had friends go through similar situations.

I know I've gone way off topic but I guess what I'm saying is sometimes stepping away from psychedelics for awhile may be beneficial.  Trying to find a different mindset without drugs has helped me immensely.


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: DTCharlieB]
    #22055734 - 08/06/15 09:31 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

i personally havent been using psychedelics for many months. just smoking weed.

giving myself time to work on creating, so im trying to keep myself grounded by being as sober and in some cases cynical as possible :blush:

but i fluctuate for balance in grounding and flying. you need the flying for inspiration but too much and you cant root anything.

at least thats how i have made sense of it.

Being too mystical minded is unhealthy for me so its good for me to be pessimistic and cynical as i said, grounding :smile:


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: SleepyE]
    #22055767 - 08/06/15 09:39 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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Whatever u say, but why make someone jealous thats not even there, most of the flirting happened when he wasnt even there, besides, they arent "together", maybe he feels some dominion over her.




I don't know man this kind of thing happens, I've seen girls do it before.  Not saying this is what's happening in your case.  I ve seen girls who found out their boyfriends have got up close and personal with another female and they feel like they need to "get even" so they go and do something similar to balance it out.  It may not even to make her male friend jealous, could be she's just trying to balance out what she feels has happened to her.

Having said this, I can't even begin to say for sure what her intentions are, it's just that you never know.  I'm happy for you though but if you thought enough about this other fellow to tell us about him then that just makes me think something fishy could possibly be going on.  But all I have to go off of is what you wrote so I really don't know one way or the other.  All i'm saying is have fun but be weary of any shenanigans.

Hope everything works out for the best man. Good luck.


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: SleepyE]
    #22055783 - 08/06/15 09:43 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

the benefits of psychedelics seems to vary greatly on what has happened to you and whats going on in your life right now, for superficial worries it has the ability to erase, but traumatic memories takes a lot of different kind of work that psychedelics wont fix but definitely do influence how you handle the emotions from the traumas.

the only real benefit i can count on is the beauty of the visions and the advantages it gives you if you can remember the visions enough to put on paper.:crazy:


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: DTCharlieB]
    #22055797 - 08/06/15 09:47 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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Whatever u say, but why make someone jealous thats not even there, most of the flirting happened when he wasnt even there, besides, they arent "together", maybe he feels some dominion over her.




I don't know man this kind of thing happens, I've seen girls do it before.  Not saying this is what's happening in your case.  I ve seen girls who found out their boyfriends have got up close and personal with another female and they feel like they need to "get even" so they go and do something similar to balance it out.  It may not even to make her male friend jealous, could be she's just trying to balance out what she feels has happened to her.

Having said this, I can't even begin to say for sure what her intentions are, it's just that you never know.  I'm happy for you though but if you thought enough about this other fellow to tell us about him then that just makes me think something fishy could possibly be going on.  But all I have to go off of is what you wrote so I really don't know one way or the other.  All i'm saying is have fun but be weary of any shenanigans.

Hope everything works out for the best man. Good luck.



its all good, either way i got what i want. But shes not dating that dude, they just hooked up a bit a few times, barely


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: SleepyE]
    #22055808 - 08/06/15 09:50 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I see I get ya man.  Also strong possibility he's still into her while in reality they are done and he's just jealous.


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: DTCharlieB]
    #22055817 - 08/06/15 09:53 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

yeah she was acting pretty fucking single that night, she barely spoke to the dude, i assumed they were over, i didnt even start second guessing till much later but then she said they werent even a thing in her friends car so im sure it was genuine, even if she wanted to make him jealous its flattering that she choose me to do that so either way win win right :yesnod:


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