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dry spell with women finally turning around??
    #22051759 - 08/06/15 03:52 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Dude, this is fucking weird, i went out for nights and nights trying unsuccessfully to make connections with more girls, nothing would go bad its just i never gain any sort of friendship from it.
I was starting to think womens standards were way to fucking high nowadays but fuck it i decided to bring my ass out tonight at a local bar/hangout i usually go to half expecting to meet no-one.

Now i was getting hit on by 2 hot girls who were kinda groupies/supporters for my Buddy whos a talented rapper
anyways the girl i was most attracted to was the one who was being the most forward, she took my hand to go dance and she was grinding on me super sexually and told me she thinks im really cute, shit was escalating so quick and its been a while since ive been in that sort of situation so i was a bit nervous, she actually said i was shaking a bit and i was like fuuck i cant cut it off lol.

I kind of stalled on escalating and could have started kissing her because we were hugging stupid close for time and ended up kissing her neck. but it was weird for me because the dude that was with her a few weeks before this night was there too but i assumed they broke off whatever was going on between them but apparently they didn't really and she said he gave her weird looks after being all up close with me.

i was chilling with my friend and her friend in her car a bit later when she told me this but then she said they were good friends but she doesnt like that he does aggressive shit like grab her throat and stuff.

I dropped her and the crew off at my buddies place to crash because he had a basement but we hugged for like 1-2 minutes before we all parted ways.
i dunno if i should feel like an asshole or not because i legit didnt know they were still a thing but it seems like they are just friends that kind of dislike eachother, fuck i dunno its weird.
Its not like id be in danger if he had a seriously problem because im bigger than most dudes id randomly meet at a bar since i weight train a fair bit :awesomenod:

Im gonna see her again at the same place on saturday, thinking i should definitely escalate this further, i was caught off guard and hit a nice bowl before i left to the bar so i was pretty ripped while all this hitting on and grinding was happening :lol::crazy2:
I just find it crazy how you can go many nights with zero love and then one night just have multiple girls almost throw themselves at you.

Game did not seem to matter at all, seems female attraction at bars is mainly physical so if you go in looking as "alpha" in size with a pretty face then you dont need to be able to communicate with flawless wit, which i dont have because im nervous around women. due to lack of constant exposure of course, but it doesnt take too much to desensitize me. But it must helps if you go in looking like a military dude.:lol: "short comb-over hair cut, strong build, and camo pants" :yesnod:


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: SleepyE] * 4
    #22051836 - 08/06/15 05:08 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

The last two sentences is probably why u had a dry spell lol


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: ergoticmandala]
    #22051841 - 08/06/15 05:14 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

:shrug: yeah yeah im a douchebag w/e. At least im not going to die alone :smirk:


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: SleepyE]
    #22051846 - 08/06/15 05:17 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

not to say that i think you will, im sure you have plenty of loved ones.

but its nice to know i wont be left out in the cold aha :dancingbacon:

i dont wish that shit on anyone.


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: SleepyE]
    #22051852 - 08/06/15 05:23 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Haha I don't either, but I think most girls are looking for guys of which somewhat fit their type and I don't think the military look is doing great. But for the story, I'm glad u broke ur  dry spell!


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: ergoticmandala]
    #22051855 - 08/06/15 05:27 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

thank you! and im not really trying to look like that, its just what hairstyles i choose for some reason makes me look like a mockery of it, it could look stupid or charming i dunno. I look stupid with any other haircut


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: SleepyE]
    #22051987 - 08/06/15 06:50 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Good job, man. Being in a rut does really suck. It sounds like you just needed a rut-buster. Just one tip, ditch the camo pants haha. I know some girls really do love the clean cut look, but honestly the haircut and good hygiene is enough to pull off the clean cut look. Camo pants are a little overboard IMO. Besides, I don't know many girls that would prefer a military looking guy over a clean-cut ripped guy in some semi-fancy casual clothes that you'd normally see people wearing in a club or bar. Good luck man!

Also, a guy who won't escalate things is sometimes a turn off for a lot of girls. Most girls I know like it when a guy knows what he wants and tries to take it. Thats not to say to get pushy and aggressive, obviously feel out the situation and do whatever feels right, but definitely make a move. The worst thing that could happen is you getting rejected. Some light ass grabbing and neck kissing is generally a good way to get a girl turned on. Also, next time I wouldn't get stoned right before I go out. Instead go sober and drink just enough alcohol to ease your social reservations but make fucking sure not to get sloppy. Have fun man! 


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: Webster10]
    #22053327 - 08/06/15 12:10 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Thanks dude, thats great advice :smile:


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: SleepyE]
    #22053482 - 08/06/15 12:55 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

and yeah being stoned makes it waaay harder, ramps up the nervousness like ten times.

i should have escalated further but i think that it probably wouldnt have been proper since she didnt entirely break off whatever she had with the other dude. at least i think, dude just sketched me alittle. :blush:


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: SleepyE]
    #22053516 - 08/06/15 01:05 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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she didnt entirely break off whatever she had with the other dude.





If she's telling you the truth.  I have been involved with women that would say something along those lines to a guy they were interested just to start a fight between the dude and me, and we'd still be in a relationship.


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: Dilsnique]
    #22053529 - 08/06/15 01:08 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

yeah but the dude was long gone and we were still flirting and shit, who knows, either way il take advantage of the situation :yesnod:


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: SleepyE]
    #22053539 - 08/06/15 01:11 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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yeah but the dude was long gone and we were still flirting and shit, who knows, either way il take advantage of the situation :yesnod:





Right on, man!  Shoot your load, ask questions later....


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: Dilsnique]
    #22053557 - 08/06/15 01:14 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

lol:awesomenod:


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: SleepyE]
    #22053685 - 08/06/15 01:52 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Enjoy it man. I'm so fucked with relationships and women :sad:  I'll go months and months without any female attention and when I finally get a thing going with a girl another one will magically come up and tell me how much she's liked me this whole time and then I end up fucking up both chances. Women want what they can't have and I'm available 99% of the time.

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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
    #22053731 - 08/06/15 02:01 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

yeah, life seems to be set up like that for some reason. makes things more confusing and complicated.


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
    #22053760 - 08/06/15 02:09 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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Enjoy it man. I'm so fucked with relationships and women :sad:  I'll go months and months without any female attention and when I finally get a thing going with a girl another one will magically come up and tell me how much she's liked me this whole time and then I end up fucking up both chances. Women want what they can't have and I'm available 99% of the time.

Makes me sad




i've heard of girls doing that intentionally as a sort of test. idk if it really happens out of highschool lol depends if there are any chance they even know each other.

also its been theorized that you just act more confidently when your getting some and that change in character is what causes the attraction.


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: SurReality]
    #22053785 - 08/06/15 02:15 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I'm a super introvert and really shy so it's really hard for me to make connections with women, or people in general for that matter. I just have a really awkward vibe to me that I can't seem to change. It's pretty much haunted me my whole life :sad:


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
    #22053823 - 08/06/15 02:21 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

i bet if you took some nbome before you went out it would fix that :P


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: SurReality]
    #22053838 - 08/06/15 02:25 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

its best being a bit tipsy on alcohol and nothing more i think, any type of psychedelic really takes away from your ability to be on point with conversation, although last night i seemed to manage fine despite the mental social impairment of the high but i would have been less nervous 100% sober.


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Re: dry spell with women finally turning around?? [Re: SleepyE]
    #22053867 - 08/06/15 02:33 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

The only time I can be myself is on MDMA pretty much. Otherwise I have trouble making eye contact or just having a conversation flow freely even with some of my close friends. It's just like I can't get myself off this edge that I'm always on. That's why I spend a lot of my time alone eating psychedelics to try and piece together a solution but it's not working. Outside of festivals I'm extremely socially aquward and I guess that's why I've only had like 2 girlfriends my whole life, slept with a couple more but nothing with any real connection :frown:

I need help :/


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