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Re: Overcoming shyness and social anxiety/awkwardness [Re: specialpeopleclub]
#22050953 - 08/05/15 11:19 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sounds like a personal problem
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specialpeopleclub



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Re: Overcoming shyness and social anxiety/awkwardness [Re: Hobozen]
#22050962 - 08/05/15 11:22 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Not a problem so much as too much stimulation, plus thieves. Vulnerability in group settings is a risk. Being high makes one much more compliant
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Re: Overcoming shyness and social anxiety/awkwardness [Re: specialpeopleclub]
#22051026 - 08/05/15 11:31 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yeah big ones can be like that, especially in the city. Never had that problem in smaller tight knit ones tho.
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Re: Overcoming shyness and social anxiety/awkwardness [Re: Hobozen]
#22051035 - 08/05/15 11:32 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm referring to parties where you may not know everyone
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Re: Overcoming shyness and social anxiety/awkwardness [Re: specialpeopleclub]
#22051077 - 08/05/15 11:40 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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It's a little risky but what's a little risk.
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Re: Overcoming shyness and social anxiety/awkwardness [Re: specialpeopleclub]
#22051091 - 08/05/15 11:44 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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specialpeopleclub said: I'm referring to parties where you may not know everyone
Like most parties I'm pretty socially awkward too and have found anything that helps besides MDMA during the moment. Obviously I can't just be rolling the rest of my life
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Re: Overcoming shyness and social anxiety/awkwardness [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22051300 - 08/06/15 12:35 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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The best cure for anxiety is to stop fearing others judgement. What makes them better than you? Money? No. Social prowess? No. Physical fitness? No.
Nothing objectively makes an individual better than another, so their judgement means nothing more than how you feel about yourself. Your anxiety is because you don't feel good about yourself, and thus you fear the others.
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Re: Overcoming shyness and social anxiety/awkwardness [Re: ModestMouse]
#22051328 - 08/06/15 12:45 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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society tells you that those things make them better people and I guess it's just hard to break the mold when nobody is looking at the inner beauty and looking only at what they can do for you. I'm happy with my small existence but everyone always wants more more more
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Re: Overcoming shyness and social anxiety/awkwardness [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22051336 - 08/06/15 12:47 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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There most certainly are better and worse people. Some deserve respect, others need to have a hot was of phlem in their face
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Re: Overcoming shyness and social anxiety/awkwardness [Re: The Doobie Dude] 1
#22051433 - 08/06/15 01:14 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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The Doobie Dude said: Just lift heavy weights and be alpha
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