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MagicalOrangutan
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Male physical imperfection that turns women off the most
#22039307 - 08/03/15 07:46 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I definitely think it must be male pattern baldness. I have early stages of this disease and I'm slowing it down with finasteride, but my observation is that any geeky, lame, fairly short/ugly dude with long thick hair can get beautiful girls to look at him, whereas even very handsome balding/shaven bald men aren't considered as attractive as average looking dudes who haven't started losing their hair. Seriously, I was considered completely gorgeous until I started going bald, now I don't ever get looked at by any girls in that way..
What do you think is the physical flaw that men have that turns women off the most?
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Re: Male physical imperfection that turns women off the most [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
#22039325 - 08/03/15 07:48 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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obesity would be my guess
as far as ones that arent preventable, and arent straight up 'deformities', id agree with baldness, unless you look particularly good bald.
Edited by Adolin (08/03/15 07:49 PM)
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Re: Male physical imperfection that turns women off the most [Re: Adolin]
#22039335 - 08/03/15 07:50 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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thinking that everything leads to sex
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Re: Male physical imperfection that turns women off the most [Re: Konyap]
#22039346 - 08/03/15 07:52 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Konyap said: thinking that everything leads to sex
is that really a psysical imperfection, though?
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Re: Male physical imperfection that turns women off the most [Re: Konyap] 12
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Being a little bitch
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Re: Male physical imperfection that turns women off the most [Re: Adolin]
#22039361 - 08/03/15 07:53 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Ok. Extreme morbid obesity or being a midgit or being hideously deformed would be worse. But those aren't common problems, male balding is extremely common.
Not to mention, it bothers me because I feel that balding doesn't reflect poor genes, you can be the epitome of both health and masculinity and yet be balding, yet women are more turned off by balding than by having greasy hair, pimples, being a little ugly in the face, etc. I feel that a geeky kinda short guy with no muscle is likely to get more looks from beautiful women, than is a tall handsome muscular guy who has only balding as his one physical imperfection.
It seems illogical..then again we are talking about what WOMEN want, which is very illogical
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Re: Male physical imperfection that turns women off the most [Re: MagicalOrangutan] 1
#22039369 - 08/03/15 07:55 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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SPS - Small Penis Syndrome
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Re: Male physical imperfection that turns women off the most [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
#22039372 - 08/03/15 07:55 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Poor hygiene if you want to count that as a physical imperfection (if obesity is one I can't see how it wouldn't be though).
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Re: Male physical imperfection that turns women off the most [Re: RobZombie68]
#22039383 - 08/03/15 07:57 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Women would probably generally prefer a 5'9, skinny, pimple face dude with average features and a small penis, to a handsome 6'0 guy with a large penis but who either was balding or had a shaven head. Balding is worse than everything else COMBINED
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Re: Male physical imperfection that turns women off the most [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
#22039410 - 08/03/15 08:01 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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i agree theres no reason to be put off by balding. its just the way it looks and some women dont like it
being short obviously also puts men in a shitty situation. alot of women will just flat out openly say they wont date men shorter than them
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MagicalOrangutan said: Women would probably generally prefer a 5'9, skinny, pimple face dude with average features and a small penis, to a handsome 6'0 guy with a large penis but who either was balding or had a shaven head. Balding is worse than everything else COMBINED
thats not true at all. i think you're making shit up. redeeming features can easily make up for some baldness . enough redeeming features can make up for ANYTHING.
some guys just look better bald, too.
Edited by Adolin (08/03/15 08:02 PM)
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Re: Male physical imperfection that turns women off the most [Re: Adolin]
#22039441 - 08/03/15 08:06 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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No, I'm pretty sure women really are that shallow and care about hair that much. Hair is more superficial than facial features or height or muscle. Facial features indicate genetic integrity which is why retarded people usually are ugly, frankly. Height and muscle indicate masculinity. Hair..doesn't mean shit. It's not even important to health in any way and doesn't indicate better vs worse genetics
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Re: Male physical imperfection that turns women off the most [Re: MagicalOrangutan] 4
#22039458 - 08/03/15 08:08 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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jesus. go to an MRA reddit or something. your obviously only looking for sympathy and approval of your ridiculous ideas, not an actual discussion
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Re: Male physical imperfection that turns women off the most [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
#22039462 - 08/03/15 08:08 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Physical? Maybe being short. Women frequently seem to reference men that are at least taller than they are as being desirable.
More broadly? Lack of confidence.
Unfortunately, "physical imperfections" go hand in hand with lack of confidence.
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Re: Male physical imperfection that turns women off the most [Re: Tantrika]
#22039478 - 08/03/15 08:12 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Gresh, you really disagree, logically? I've never met a balding guy that women were attracted to even good looking ones but I've met many short, chubby dudes with good hair who women were attracted to
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Re: Male physical imperfection that turns women off the most [Re: MagicalOrangutan] 1
#22039488 - 08/03/15 08:15 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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yeah.i totally disagree with those sweeping generalizations. ive known plenty of bald men, patrially and fully, who regularly have girlfriends.
in fact, of the 6 'good friends' ive had in my life, 2 of them were bald and one is married now and the other has been with his girl for 4 years
your hair is not the only thing women care about. if you actually think that you're delusional, and probably have alot of other unattractive traits
Edited by Adolin (08/03/15 08:16 PM)
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Re: Male physical imperfection that turns women off the most [Re: MagicalOrangutan] 1
#22039489 - 08/03/15 08:16 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Deal with the baldness. Finasteride has terrible side effects. It should have never been approved by the FDA.
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Re: Male physical imperfection that turns women off the most [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
#22039519 - 08/03/15 08:20 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Generally speaking, women put less stock into physical features than men. Especially as you get older, women look into status, power, and influence more than physical appearance. You're balding? Get a good job.
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Re: Male physical imperfection that turns women off the most [Re: badchad]
#22039541 - 08/03/15 08:21 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Edited by koods (08/03/15 08:23 PM)
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Re: Male physical imperfection that turns women off the most [Re: koods]
#22039564 - 08/03/15 08:23 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Finasteride can have bad side effects and I did lose my libido for like the first year taking it..but my body eventually adjusted, I'm actually glad I started.
And yes I'm probably being overly negative but let's be honest, you have to be a rare breed of man to be attractive bald. Most men who are attractive, wouldn't be attractive if they were going bald. Baldness is worse than overweight or short because you have a high chance of being attractive despite being short or chubby, but you have a low chance of being attractive if you're balding. You pretty much have to be a black guy
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Re: Male physical imperfection that turns women off the most [Re: MagicalOrangutan] 2
#22039580 - 08/03/15 08:24 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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MagicalOrangutan said: Gresh, you really disagree, logically? I've never met a balding guy that women were attracted to even good looking ones but I've met many short, chubby dudes with good hair who women were attracted to
Finasteride is going to turn you into woman physically. It seems you're already there in spirit.
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