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Why is it so hard to believe?
    #22034323 - 08/02/15 04:36 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

So I have a very close friend who I consider a brother. We'll call him D. Him and I had a get together last night and everyone was drinking and having a great time. The night goes on and everyone is getting more and more intoxicated. D decides he is going to lay down to stop the spinning and ends up passing out. Well D's girlfriend of 3 years and mother of his child is there as well and by this point she is pretty damn drunk herself but sober enough to realize D was passed out and wasn't waking up anytime soon. She starts to hit on this guy who was there. Next thing I know they're both missing. I go looking out of curiosity. Find her giving the guy a blowjob in his car. Naturally, I interrupt it and tell her I am telling D the second he is coherent enough to understand. She begs me not to, but I am not having any of it. I stay up all night thinking of how D would take the news. He gets up in the morning, and I let him wake up a little and I pull him aside and fill him in on the situation that unfolded last night. At first he thinks i'm joking, then he just flat out states that he doesn't believe me that she would do anything like that and that I should drop it. I know that it's a hard thing to take in news like that about someone you love but we have been best friends since 4th grade. Why would I lie about something like that? Even if I didn't like her to begin with I would respect the relationship because she makes him happy. Maybe we're not as close as I had thought? Or maybe he just can't handle the truth? Any opinions on the matter?


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217] * 10
    #22034328 - 08/02/15 04:38 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

you did your friend a favor.. what he does with it is up to him.

you have done what is in your control now you gotta let him handle it.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: rackem]
    #22034340 - 08/02/15 04:40 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

^solid advice^


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: rackem] * 10
    #22034341 - 08/02/15 04:40 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

You should blow your friend so he can have the proper revenge.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217] * 1
    #22034342 - 08/02/15 04:40 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

He can't handle the truth. Stick by his side and you have to endure him thinking you'd lie about something like that, plus know she's a whore. That sounds painful.

Or you can take a stand, say I'm not lying and we can be friends again when you understand that. That's tough love.

Or you can move on with your life like nothing happened and never think about it again, because maybe he's just trying to tell you it's not your problem.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: larry.fisherman]
    #22034358 - 08/02/15 04:43 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Yeah, I plan on still sticking around as his friend. Will just be tough having to see them together knowing that he loves her so much he won't believe me and she loves him so little she would do it behind his back and not fess up


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217] * 1
    #22034360 - 08/02/15 04:43 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Now that you know she's easy like that you should tell her that she needs to give you head so you won't tell him.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #22034378 - 08/02/15 04:47 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Haha, sad thing is she would probably do it. I always thought they were good together. She has always been pretty flirtatious but I always passed it off as a bubbly personality. Never thought she was actually messing around. Now I wonder just how long it has been going on


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217]
    #22034405 - 08/02/15 04:51 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Well here's the thing- we live in a society that is very obsessed with sex. To the point where I don't really think this kind of thing is all that uncommon. I bet in the majority of relationships there has been some cheating on the part of one or the other (or both) partner. I'm not trying to defend cheating, and it's not something I've ever engaged in, but I wouldn't necessarily jump to the conclusion that it means she doesn't still love and care about him and that they can't still have a happy life together.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217]
    #22034412 - 08/02/15 04:52 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

You could always get the other guy to admit it in text then show your friend. :shrug:

Fuck, text her, maybe she would admit it arguing with you about it.

Be warned though, if you push it she might push back. Many guys have lost friends over this exact situation.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217] * 2
    #22034418 - 08/02/15 04:54 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

If you push the issue too far you may very likely lose your friendship with him.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217]
    #22034459 - 08/02/15 05:04 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

You planted the seed. Whether or not he says he doesn't believe it now is kind of irrelevant. It's going to stick with him and he's going to start to notice things. May take days, may take weeks, eventually the truth will come out though. Highly doubt it was her first time and will be her only time. He'll catch her eventually.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217]
    #22034468 - 08/02/15 05:05 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I feel like there is often a funny degree of competition between long time best friends and lovers. In most cases the lover wins.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217] * 2
    #22034493 - 08/02/15 05:09 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

dude's in denial


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Niffla]
    #22034498 - 08/02/15 05:10 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

It's not just a river in Egypt


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #22034529 - 08/02/15 05:19 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Yeah, as much as i'd like to think it was her first time and a drunken mistake I don't think that's the case. It's sad too because I thought she was a chill ass chick until then too. I think he will come to realize that I wasn't just saying it to drive a wedge. If not than that's on him since there isn't anything I can do to convince him without pissing him off. I'll just let things play out. Sucks though to have a close friend in that situation


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: nicechrisman] * 1
    #22034541 - 08/02/15 05:21 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Your friend is a fool. Plain and simple. I would take a stand and probably be distant from him if he said that i was lying about the situation. That tells me he isnt as close to you as you believe


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217] * 3
    #22034542 - 08/02/15 05:21 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

remove yourself from it asap man..

you keep going on like this and your going to be out a friend.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: rackem]
    #22034565 - 08/02/15 05:27 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I haven't said anything to him about it since I initially told him. Even though it sucks to see him with someone like that it's his choice.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217]
    #22034575 - 08/02/15 05:30 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

At any rate, whatever this leads to, it sounds like you're a good friend.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: larry.fisherman]
    #22034579 - 08/02/15 05:32 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Thank you


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217] * 4
    #22034815 - 08/02/15 06:44 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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Trickyricky217 said:
We'll call him D




Can't we just call him Dave or something? Dan? Dean? D just doesn't sit right with me, I've never known a person to be called D before.

And if you value your friendship, just let it go. Some people just prefer to live a lie. When he eventually catches her in the act of sucking another guys cock, and eventually breaks up with her, he will realise you were being honest. Just let him live in his fantasy world until that time comes.

Turns out she didn't love the D, or did she...


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Artnotwar]
    #22035112 - 08/02/15 08:05 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

she probably loves the fuck out of Dude. But people are adults. kindness is preferable to honesty, you had nothing to gain, and he would've found out sooner or later.

if you're a real friend, you don't breathe a single word about this to any of your other real life friends. i'm sure you didnt, but if you did, you really aren't a good friend.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: jack_straw2208]
    #22035120 - 08/02/15 08:08 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Nah, it's not my place to spread their personal business. I wish I didn't know..


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: jack_straw2208] * 3
    #22035124 - 08/02/15 08:09 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Artnotwar]
    #22035161 - 08/02/15 08:17 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

alcohol bro..

but yea sucks, i'll bet it wasnt just the chicks fault tho, im sure the dude who got a bj took advantage of the fact that they were both drunk..


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: zZZz]
    #22035168 - 08/02/15 08:19 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

He was probably drunk too. Maybe she took advantage of him.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: nicechrisman] * 1
    #22035174 - 08/02/15 08:20 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

that too, bitches love the D :whatyougonnado:


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: zZZz]
    #22035186 - 08/02/15 08:23 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

They were both drunk and I wasn't right there so no telling who really instigated it but you don't put someone's junk in your mouth if you're not into it as well and odds are it wouldn't have stopped at just that had I not shown up.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: zZZz]
    #22035211 - 08/02/15 08:30 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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zZZz said:
alcohol bro..

but yea sucks, i'll bet it wasnt just the chicks fault tho, im sure the dude who got a bj took advantage of the fact that they were both drunk..




That makes no sense, you sound like feminist.  :facepalm:


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: zZZz]
    #22035217 - 08/02/15 08:31 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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qman said:
Quote:

zZZz said:
alcohol bro..

but yea sucks, i'll bet it wasnt just the chicks fault tho, im sure the dude who got a bj took advantage of the fact that they were both drunk..




That makes no sense, you sound like feminist.  :facepalm:



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nicechrisman said:
He was probably drunk too. Maybe she took advantage of him.



Quote:

zZZz said:
that too, bitches love the D :whatyougonnado:




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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: nicechrisman] * 1
    #22035236 - 08/02/15 08:39 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

It might be the very excuse this woman uses when she finally admits to her husband about the blowjob. This is how false rape allegations develop, girl gets caught cheating while drunk and she panics and accuses the guy for raping her. Her husband would feel better knowing that his wife isn't the dirty slut he thinks she might be.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #22035250 - 08/02/15 08:45 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Can't handle the truth bro. I know that I wouldn't be able to handle the truth if I found out the girl I loved blew some other nigga. Your a good friend, I don't think I have friends that I  care enough about that id tell them that their girlfriend is cheating on them and risk starting drama. If was in your position and it was my current best friend I honestly wouldn't give a shit tbh because I don't care for drama and don't care enough about my best friend to risk starting drama over it. I would tell my friend if it was serious but other then that my best friends aren't exactly like brothers to me. They are just kinda my friends. You are your best friend have a special bond that I wish I had with my friends.  You made the right choice.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: qman]
    #22035262 - 08/02/15 08:48 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

maybe if he drank responsibly, he would've had his cock sucked that night


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Vsnares.Zappa]
    #22035292 - 08/02/15 08:56 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

You should've woken his ass up and drug him out there to see for himself


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #22035553 - 08/02/15 10:02 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

And in what way was she flirtatious? Exactly what things does she say to guys other than her boyfriend? Has he ever cheated on her? Sorry for all the questions just curious


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Shroomslip]
    #22035585 - 08/02/15 10:10 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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Shroomslip said:
You planted the seed. Whether or not he says he doesn't believe it now is kind of irrelevant. It's going to stick with him and he's going to start to notice things. May take days, may take weeks, eventually the truth will come out though. Highly doubt it was her first time and will be her only time. He'll catch her eventually.





This. You weren't wrong in talking to him about it. But now what's said is said and you just have to let it play out. Don't force anything. Like Shroomslip said the truth will come out. And when it does your friendship will only grow stronger.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #22035595 - 08/02/15 10:12 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Have you confronted her about it? Maybe you can make her so embarrassed and ashamed about the incident she will confess or at least feel guilty enough to not do it again. Then again, maybe this has happened before and your friend is in some deep denial or even embarrassed enough himself to not let you know how he feels about it. But the best thing you did was let him know, and perhaps at least he has the idea floating around in his head and that he will catch some fishy behavior and the red flags if it happens again. Shitty situation but don't be persistent otherwise he will just get even more upset. Cheaters are usually pretty sloppy about things are more than likely if it happens more than once he will find out eventually.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: OsculateOfDemise]
    #22035671 - 08/02/15 10:34 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Yeah I meant to ask have you talk to her after that night. While you both were not intoxicated. Cause as you said you wanted to talk to your buddy while he was coherent. Have you talked to her while she was coherent?


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: OsculateOfDemise]
    #22035686 - 08/02/15 10:37 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Where was the their kid? Even with a sitter, when a kid is involved, parents shouldn't be so drunk they are passing out/sucking strange dick. Hate to judge but..

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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: spock]
    #22035694 - 08/02/15 10:39 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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Where was the their kid? Even with a sitter, when a kid is involved, parents shouldn't be so drunk they are passing out/sucking strange dick. Hate to judge but..

Peace
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Interesting. I forgot all about their kid.  I'm assuming the child was with a baby sitter but who knows that is an assumption.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Boomer The Great]
    #22035703 - 08/02/15 10:41 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Maybe he doesn't really consider a bj vh
cheating, since i know a lot of people don't co.sider it sex.:shrug:


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: LuSiD enthusiast]
    #22035729 - 08/02/15 10:46 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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Maybe he doesn't really consider a bj vh
cheating, since i know a lot of people don't co.sider it sex.:shrug:




Sometimes a BJ is harder to get out of girl than sex LOL!


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: OsculateOfDemise]
    #22035791 - 08/02/15 11:00 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I think if he confronts her about it he pretty much won't be able to see his friend anymore.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #22035799 - 08/02/15 11:02 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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I think if he confronts her about it he pretty much won't be able to see his friend anymore.




I think that is lame! (but true :frown:)


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #22035810 - 08/02/15 11:04 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

OP if your friend is foolish enough to believe her lie and then on top of that, doesn't care about you enough to believe you or to stand up for himself to be friends with you despite her not wanting you two to be friends (due to you confronting her about this),, you should kick his dumb fuck balless pussy self to the curb


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #22035868 - 08/02/15 11:19 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I'd be sticking fat by what you have done. Maybe distance yourself from him a bit until he comes to. Or get her to admit it in a message whether it be facebook, txting, anything. Tough love is good for friendships. It proves the worth of the friendship.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Lachy]
    #22036437 - 08/03/15 05:54 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

No I haven't confronted her since it happened. I haven't brought it up again to either of them. I don't wanta push too far. As for their kid, he was with D's mother for the night. Normally we don't drink when we hang out because he has to be there for his kid but we had been planning this night for a month or so


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: nicechrisman]
    #22036523 - 08/03/15 06:57 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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but I wouldn't necessarily jump to the conclusion that it means she doesn't still love and care about him and that they can't still have a happy life together.





I agree :thumbup:

I think this little scare for her might put things into perspective, like how much she really does or doesn't love her man.


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    #22036739 - 08/03/15 09:12 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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You should blow your friend so he can have the proper revenge.




Neg.

He's gotta blow the guy from the party better than his girlfriend did, thus establishing dominance.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: The Ecstatic]
    #22036752 - 08/03/15 09:18 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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The Ecstatic said:
Quote:

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You should blow your friend so he can have the proper revenge.




Neg.

He's gotta blow the guy from the party better than his girlfriend did, thus establishing dominance.



This made me literally lol. haha


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217]
    #22036924 - 08/03/15 10:15 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

soooo...... did they guy get to cum in her mouth or did you ruin that for him?


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Salomon]
    #22036932 - 08/03/15 10:16 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

.


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    #22036950 - 08/03/15 10:21 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I ruined it


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Salomon]
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soooo...... did they guy get to cum in her mouth or did you ruin that for him?




She spun her head around at him and went:



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    #22037342 - 08/03/15 11:56 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

lol my poor avatar :frown:


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217]
    #22037490 - 08/03/15 12:30 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Did she know you saw her?
If so, what was the reaction when she/they saw you?


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: shLong]
    #22037500 - 08/03/15 12:34 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

She was shocked to see me and could see she was afraid. I don't think he knew that she was with someone or just didn't care because there was no reaction out of him really. When she got out of his car he left without another word


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217]
    #22037512 - 08/03/15 12:37 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

So you walked up on em mid BJ, she saw you, and then stopped sucking his dick and got out of the car?

How'd she see ya if she was throat deep in penis?


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: shLong]
    #22037572 - 08/03/15 12:51 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I knocked on the window. Said to her that it is time she goes back inside and sleep it off like her boyfriend is and that I would be telling him when he could understand. As drunk as he was even had I woke him up and took him out there he probably would have blacked it out. Anyways, she got out of the car and went inside and the dude left. He was a friend of a friend, I didn't really know him well.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217]
    #22037574 - 08/03/15 12:52 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

You should have either finished the dude.

Or let the girl blow you. Depending on how you roll.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Psychonautica] * 1
    #22037604 - 08/03/15 01:00 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I'm not into dudes, and I respect my friends way too much to ever even consider messing with their significant other. If she was someone who isn't a close friends girlfriend I wouldn't be in this situation because I wouldn't give a shit.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217]
    #22037612 - 08/03/15 01:02 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

But he might believe you if it was your dick in her mouth, and you would have gotten a blowjob. How is that not a better option?

If you were a true friend you would have been blowing the guy from the start, so his girl didn't have anyone to cheat with.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Psychonautica] * 1
    #22037626 - 08/03/15 01:05 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Those are both terrible options lol. Good friends don't let their buddies girl blow them even if it is for "proof" and who is to say he would even believe you then and if he did he would be pissed because you let her blow you. Lose/Lose. Also, there is no way in hell i'm blowing anyone lol


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217]
    #22037693 - 08/03/15 01:19 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Anyways, forgetting some of the 'tryna be funny' comments, report back in with any updates.
I'm curious how this will all pan out.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: shLong]
    #22037717 - 08/03/15 01:25 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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shLong said:
Anyways, forgetting some of the 'tryna be funny' comments, report back in with any updates.
I'm curious how this will all pan out.



Will do. I'm just gonna sit back and let them work through it on their own. They're both adults so it's their choice and i'll still hang out with him either way. Just hope he comes to the realization that i'm not trying to bullshit him and stir the pot or something like that.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: shLong]
    #22037727 - 08/03/15 01:28 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I'm sure his dumbass will keep being with that girl and she will keep cheating only this time she'll be way smarter about it and always get away with it. Once a cheater always a cheater. 
Women are worse about cheating than guys, they just get away with it because all they have to do is cry rape, if things go downhill. Plus they are way more sneaky and conniving than men, so they don't get caught as often


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #22037751 - 08/03/15 01:33 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Will you still even be in his girls presence, like if you hang with him and she shows up, what will that be like?


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
    #22037812 - 08/03/15 01:53 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I'm sure it would be a little awkward but that would be his decision and I would respect that. I won't ever trust her again but i'll be nice enough to keep the peace for the sake of my friendship with my buddy


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217]
    #22037839 - 08/03/15 02:00 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Sounds like you're approaching this the best way you can.

Good luck with all this.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: shLong]
    #22100479 - 08/16/15 09:17 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Well here is an update. Today I received a call from him, he then proceeded to apologize for not believing what I told him and went on to tell me that ever since I had said something he just couldn't get it off his mind. Kept asking himself why would I say something like that after all this time. Until last night he finally confronted her and asked her to be up front. According to him at first she started to lie about it but quickly changed her story to the truth. Admitted to it happening 1 other time at another party as well when questioned further with a different guy. He says for now they are going to try to work through it. I told him he didn't need to apologize for not believing me because we're bros and then told him there would probably be some awkwardness for a while since I don't trust her but so long as he wants to be with her and work things out I will be polite and respectful. I think now he realizes that I wouldn't just say something like that to be saying it. Hopefully I never have to tell him it again though.


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    #22100495 - 08/16/15 09:22 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Told you. All that needed to be done was plant the seed. Eventually one way or another the truth would come out because he was never going to be able to just forget it.

Glad things worked out for you and him. Can't say anything about him and her. I know people can change, but IME it's not really likely.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Shroomslip]
    #22100509 - 08/16/15 09:26 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Yeah I agree, she's done it twice already what is to say it won't happen again. If that's the road he wants to go down though it is his decision, all I can do is bid him good luck. Maybe it will work out and she really can keep her word but her track record isn't good thus far. Only time will tell I suppose


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217] * 1
    #22100542 - 08/16/15 09:34 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Two times would beawefully hard to overlook


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Trickyricky217]
    #22100593 - 08/16/15 09:56 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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Yeah I agree, she's done it twice already what is to say it won't happen again. If that's the road he wants to go down though it is his decision, all I can do is bid him good luck. Maybe it will work out and she really can keep her word but her track record isn't good thus far. Only time will tell I suppose



2 times that YOU KNOW about.

i bet she's kissed him with another man's cum in her mouth


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: rackem]
    #22100601 - 08/16/15 09:58 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Overlook it yeah fucking right


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    #22100615 - 08/16/15 10:02 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Yeah I'd be out yesterday


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: rackem]
    #22101531 - 08/17/15 05:27 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

He's lucky he has you as a friend. I would have just said "haha you're kissing Another guys dick" and then said to hell with both of those dumbasses.


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Salomon]
    #22102392 - 08/17/15 11:18 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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Quote:

Trickyricky217 said:
Yeah I agree, she's done it twice already what is to say it won't happen again. If that's the road he wants to go down though it is his decision, all I can do is bid him good luck. Maybe it will work out and she really can keep her word but her track record isn't good thus far. Only time will tell I suppose



2 times that YOU KNOW about.

i bet she's kissed him with another man's cum in her mouth




There is a chance of that i'm sure, sad as that is to say. I personally have never put up with cheating, would have started moving all her things to the front lawn as soon as I found out lol. He wants to give her another chance though, we'll see how long it lasts. I think now that he knows for a fact she has cheated he won't be able to get it out of his mind until it's over but stranger things have happened I suppose


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