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Trickyricky217
ThatOneGuy



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Thank you
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Artnotwar
Chemical Researcher


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Trickyricky217 said: We'll call him D
Can't we just call him Dave or something? Dan? Dean? D just doesn't sit right with me, I've never known a person to be called D before.
And if you value your friendship, just let it go. Some people just prefer to live a lie. When he eventually catches her in the act of sucking another guys cock, and eventually breaks up with her, he will realise you were being honest. Just let him live in his fantasy world until that time comes.
Turns out she didn't love the D, or did she...
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jack_straw2208
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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Artnotwar]
#22035112 - 08/02/15 08:05 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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she probably loves the fuck out of Dude. But people are adults. kindness is preferable to honesty, you had nothing to gain, and he would've found out sooner or later.
if you're a real friend, you don't breathe a single word about this to any of your other real life friends. i'm sure you didnt, but if you did, you really aren't a good friend.
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Trickyricky217
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Nah, it's not my place to spread their personal business. I wish I didn't know..
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Akeldama


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All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident
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zZZz
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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Artnotwar]
#22035161 - 08/02/15 08:17 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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alcohol bro..
but yea sucks, i'll bet it wasnt just the chicks fault tho, im sure the dude who got a bj took advantage of the fact that they were both drunk..
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nicechrisman
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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: zZZz]
#22035168 - 08/02/15 08:19 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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He was probably drunk too. Maybe she took advantage of him.
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zZZz
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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: nicechrisman] 1
#22035174 - 08/02/15 08:20 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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that too, bitches love the D
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Trickyricky217
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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: zZZz]
#22035186 - 08/02/15 08:23 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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They were both drunk and I wasn't right there so no telling who really instigated it but you don't put someone's junk in your mouth if you're not into it as well and odds are it wouldn't have stopped at just that had I not shown up.
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qman
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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: zZZz]
#22035211 - 08/02/15 08:30 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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zZZz said: alcohol bro..
but yea sucks, i'll bet it wasnt just the chicks fault tho, im sure the dude who got a bj took advantage of the fact that they were both drunk..
That makes no sense, you sound like feminist.
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nicechrisman
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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: zZZz]
#22035217 - 08/02/15 08:31 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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qman said:
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zZZz said: alcohol bro..
but yea sucks, i'll bet it wasnt just the chicks fault tho, im sure the dude who got a bj took advantage of the fact that they were both drunk..
That makes no sense, you sound like feminist. 
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nicechrisman said: He was probably drunk too. Maybe she took advantage of him.
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zZZz said: that too, bitches love the D 
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qman
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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: nicechrisman] 1
#22035236 - 08/02/15 08:39 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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It might be the very excuse this woman uses when she finally admits to her husband about the blowjob. This is how false rape allegations develop, girl gets caught cheating while drunk and she panics and accuses the guy for raping her. Her husband would feel better knowing that his wife isn't the dirty slut he thinks she might be.
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Janky Tits
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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: nicechrisman]
#22035250 - 08/02/15 08:45 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Can't handle the truth bro. I know that I wouldn't be able to handle the truth if I found out the girl I loved blew some other nigga. Your a good friend, I don't think I have friends that I care enough about that id tell them that their girlfriend is cheating on them and risk starting drama. If was in your position and it was my current best friend I honestly wouldn't give a shit tbh because I don't care for drama and don't care enough about my best friend to risk starting drama over it. I would tell my friend if it was serious but other then that my best friends aren't exactly like brothers to me. They are just kinda my friends. You are your best friend have a special bond that I wish I had with my friends. You made the right choice.
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Vsnares.Zappa
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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: qman]
#22035262 - 08/02/15 08:48 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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maybe if he drank responsibly, he would've had his cock sucked that night
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MagicalOrangutan
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You should've woken his ass up and drug him out there to see for himself
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MagicalOrangutan
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And in what way was she flirtatious? Exactly what things does she say to guys other than her boyfriend? Has he ever cheated on her? Sorry for all the questions just curious
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Boomer The Great


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Re: Why is it so hard to believe? [Re: Shroomslip]
#22035585 - 08/02/15 10:10 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Shroomslip said: You planted the seed. Whether or not he says he doesn't believe it now is kind of irrelevant. It's going to stick with him and he's going to start to notice things. May take days, may take weeks, eventually the truth will come out though. Highly doubt it was her first time and will be her only time. He'll catch her eventually.
This. You weren't wrong in talking to him about it. But now what's said is said and you just have to let it play out. Don't force anything. Like Shroomslip said the truth will come out. And when it does your friendship will only grow stronger.
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OsculateOfDemise



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Have you confronted her about it? Maybe you can make her so embarrassed and ashamed about the incident she will confess or at least feel guilty enough to not do it again. Then again, maybe this has happened before and your friend is in some deep denial or even embarrassed enough himself to not let you know how he feels about it. But the best thing you did was let him know, and perhaps at least he has the idea floating around in his head and that he will catch some fishy behavior and the red flags if it happens again. Shitty situation but don't be persistent otherwise he will just get even more upset. Cheaters are usually pretty sloppy about things are more than likely if it happens more than once he will find out eventually.
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Boomer The Great


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Yeah I meant to ask have you talk to her after that night. While you both were not intoxicated. Cause as you said you wanted to talk to your buddy while he was coherent. Have you talked to her while she was coherent?
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spock
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Where was the their kid? Even with a sitter, when a kid is involved, parents shouldn't be so drunk they are passing out/sucking strange dick. Hate to judge but..
Peace Spock
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