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When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it...
#22028664 - 08/01/15 01:59 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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it means she is either dying to spill her guts or give you a piece of her mind. 
When a man says he doesn't want to talk about it, unsurprisingly it means he doesn't want to talk about it.
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Re: When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it... [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
#22028696 - 08/01/15 02:06 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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In my experience women say that once they've already said their piece. What it means is they don't want to hear what you have to say about. When a guy says it, it mean shut the fuck up.
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Re: When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it... [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
#22028748 - 08/01/15 02:17 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I think it has more to do with the insecurities of the individuals. hence the reason why neither want to hear it.
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Re: When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it... [Re: Lain-chan] 1
#22029206 - 08/01/15 04:03 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Let's say its not interpersonal. When a gf says she had a really bad day and she doesn't want to talk about it, it means you had better ask her about her day if you want some affection later that night.
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Re: When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it... [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
#22029269 - 08/01/15 04:14 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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A persistent mate > a mate that gives up
but no means NO
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Re: When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it... [Re: Kickle] 1
#22029280 - 08/01/15 04:15 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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After a while it gets exhausting playing all of the read-my-mind and other silly games.
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Re: When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it... [Re: OrgoneConclusion] 1
#22029309 - 08/01/15 04:20 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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only because you want to win the games
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Re: When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it... [Re: Kickle]
#22029334 - 08/01/15 04:23 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Don't have a link handy, but when women were polled who were unhappy with their partner in bed were asked if they ever told the man what they wanted. 79% said "No."
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Re: When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it... [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
#22029359 - 08/01/15 04:28 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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But it may be the case that the follow up question: Did your man ever ask you what you wanted? was 78% no
leaving the 1% for whom nothing is ever good enough
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Re: When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it... [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
#22029633 - 08/01/15 05:28 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Exactly, it's wanted but hidden by insecurity.
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Re: When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it... [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
#22030015 - 08/01/15 06:42 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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"Men are jerks. Women are psychotic." --Kurt Vonnegut
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Re: When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it... [Re: DividedQuantum]
#22030120 - 08/01/15 07:07 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Kurt Vonnegut was such a gem.
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Re: When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it... *DELETED* [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
#22033567 - 08/02/15 01:38 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it... [Re: night_shift]
#22033618 - 08/02/15 01:50 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Are you saying men actually want to talk about it but don't know how to?
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Re: When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it... [Re: night_shift]
#22033723 - 08/02/15 02:27 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Do you tell your lover how you like to be stroked or do you expect him to read your mind and get pissed when he is unable?
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Re: When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it... [Re: OrgoneConclusion]
#22034689 - 08/02/15 06:11 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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bitchs want atilla the hun. they dont want to talk, just threaten to cut her head off if she ever says a word to you and she'll stay forever
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Re: When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it... [Re: jack_straw2208]
#22034727 - 08/02/15 06:20 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I don't know that I would put it that way, but in my short time on this marble I think I have enough experience to say that any woman you ask will deny that, but that it is in fact more or less true, anyway, at least psychologically. I believe there is even a slogan for it: "nice guys finish last."
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Re: When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it... *DELETED* [Re: GoldenEye]
#22035871 - 08/02/15 11:21 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Re: When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it... [Re: night_shift]
#22035947 - 08/02/15 11:40 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Good point.
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Re: When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it... [Re: night_shift]
#22035973 - 08/02/15 11:51 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Quote:
night_shift said:
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GoldenEye said: Are you saying men actually want to talk about it but don't know how to?
Men know how to talk to men and they assume the same approach works with women. Which is exactly what women do. The situation is the same in both camps really. But yeah, women tend to be the ones who will eventually burst out into long rants because "didn't I tell you", while men tend to be the ones who will eventually take an action out of the blue because "didn't I tell you".
It's not so much that men only know how to talk to men. We just think a certain way. That translates into our speech and that is why you say that men know how to talk to men. It's not that. It's that men think like men.
Women don't want to talk, really. They just want to hear their own thoughts in a much deeper voice.
That's a problem because mindreading is pretty difficult.
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Re: When a woman says she doesn't want to talk about it... [Re: night_shift]
#22036095 - 08/03/15 12:38 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Eh. I tell him to strike me instead of stroking me. I only get pissed if it's not hard enough. Was this helpful?
It will be when we meet up.
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#22038213 - 08/03/15 04:01 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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