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The best response is no response?
    #22027325 - 08/01/15 08:27 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Last night I learned a huge lesson. While at some kickback, some guy kept poking at me to start an arguement. It began when he began a discussion on gay rights. For some reason he was very abrasive to homosexuals (I really couldn't figure out why). I never had met him before, but he was grilling my intensely on whether or not I supported this or not.

I kept trying to switch the topic. "Where did you get this weed?" "I dont really care much" "I dont know" "How is ur internship going?"; everytime he tried to ask me about a new huge political issue, I tried to either avoid it or change the subject. Eventually it turned into an arguement because my attempts to misdirect it failed completely

But looking back, this whole issue could have been avoided had I said literally nothing. I feel a lot of arguement/conflicts can be avoided by saying nothing. I have done this over text, but I was wondering how to execute this in person? Do I turn to them with a blank face? Do I go on pretending i never heard what the person said?(ie not looking and continuing the activity i was doing? packing a bowl, checking my phone etc.) Do I smile to indicate no hard feelings?


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Re: The best response is no response? [Re: topdog82] * 3
    #22027330 - 08/01/15 08:31 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

why dont you just say you dont want to talk politics? that really isnt an unreasonable thing to say. some people just dont always feel like debating

straight up ignoring someone when they know you can hear them will probably piss them off even more. and its equally disrespectful as asking too many questions or prying


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Re: The best response is no response? [Re: topdog82]
    #22027331 - 08/01/15 08:31 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Just give him the dead mackerel eyes and if he doesn't get the message and shut up then just walk away


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Re: The best response is no response? [Re: topdog82]
    #22027342 - 08/01/15 08:35 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Just point out the obvious like you just did. "Just stop. I've been gently trying to change the subject and your not taking the hints so- stop trying to argue about everything."

What you did would normally work. Some folks are dense and you have to be direct.


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Re: The best response is no response? [Re: topdog82]
    #22027354 - 08/01/15 08:39 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

People regularly come at me looking for debates, probably because they want to prove something by debating a lawyer.  Sometime I engage, but if I don't want to, I generally use one of three techniques:

1.  If it's someone I don't respect, like, or give a shit about, I'll often say, "It really wouldn't be fair for me to do intellectual battle against an unarmed man." and then ignore the dude.

2.  If it's someone I will have to deal with again and must keep cordial, I'll say, "Dude, I do this all day.  Unless you're going to pay my hourly rate, can I just enjoy my off-time?"

3.  If it's someone I care about, I say something like, "I'm all for [social justice, world peace, whatever's relevant], but right now, I'd be happy with just [a cold drink, more chips, whatever]" and that usually signals that I'm not interested in talking about it at that moment.


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Re: The best response is no response? [Re: Enlil]
    #22027397 - 08/01/15 08:55 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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Gresh said:
why dont you just say you dont want to talk politics? that really isnt an unreasonable thing to say. some people just dont always feel like debating

straight up ignoring someone when they know you can hear them will probably piss them off even more. and its equally disrespectful as asking too many questions or prying



This could be true in the situation painted above. But I am really really for a template to deal with many more situations

For example, there are many other situations where a person does not realize he is treading in unessacary territory

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OhMrJohnson said:
Just give him the dead mackerel eyes and if he doesn't get the message and shut up then just walk away



I was thinking this
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Matt87 said:
Just point out the obvious like you just did. "Just stop. I've been gently trying to change the subject and your not taking the hints so- stop trying to argue about everything."

What you did would normally work. Some folks are dense and you have to be direct.



I will try this in a direct manner
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People regularly come at me looking for debates, probably because they want to prove something by debating a lawyer.  Sometime I engage, but if I don't want to, I generally use one of three techniques:

1.  If it's someone I don't respect, like, or give a shit about, I'll often say, "It really wouldn't be fair for me to do intellectual battle against an unarmed man." and then ignore the dude.

2.  If it's someone I will have to deal with again and must keep cordial, I'll say, "Dude, I do this all day.  Unless you're going to pay my hourly rate, can I just enjoy my off-time?"

3.  If it's someone I care about, I say something like, "I'm all for [social justice, world peace, whatever's relevant], but right now, I'd be happy with just [a cold drink, more chips, whatever]" and that usually signals that I'm not interested in talking about it at that moment.



The third one is a really good one


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Re: The best response is no response? [Re: topdog82]
    #22027423 - 08/01/15 09:06 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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Re: The best response is no response? [Re: twelvelookslikeu]
    #22027439 - 08/01/15 09:13 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Pull out a big pocket knife and start cleaning your finger nails. All the while staring intensely into his eyes and smiling with an evil grin.

Works every time for me.


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Re: The best response is no response? [Re: topdog82]
    #22027453 - 08/01/15 09:20 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I would say this is only really true if you're speaking to Law Enforcement. Every solicitor, lawyer or barister has always said the same thing to me, and it's saved my ass a lot of times.

If you can fight, stand the fuck up for yourself, people, even gang pricks will respect you if you're willing to stand behind what you say (although if they had a gun to my head, it might change my actions :tongue:).


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Re: The best response is no response? [Re: Cepheus]
    #22027799 - 08/01/15 10:49 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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I would say this is only really true if you're speaking to Law Enforcement. Every solicitor, lawyer or barister has always said the same thing to me, and it's saved my ass a lot of times.

If you can fight, stand the fuck up for yourself, people, even gang pricks will respect you if you're willing to stand behind what you say (although if they had a gun to my head, it might change my actions :tongue:).



true. But politics gets dirty pretty quick. Rarely does it ever become a proper discusion. Just a screaming match


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Re: The best response is no response? [Re: topdog82]
    #22027839 - 08/01/15 10:58 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

People get way too butthurt about politics so I generally just refrain from saying anything that isn't super generic. If I was in your situation topdog I probably would've just told him to shut up or just avoided him most of the njfht


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Re: The best response is no response? [Re: topdog82]
    #22027841 - 08/01/15 10:59 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

The best response, I've found, is simply asking why they ask. Never stop questioning them until you and everyone around them know's their integrity is weak. And when you feel comfortable knowing that it is a pointless topic, just say oh ok. If they have the balls to ask again, say something like didn't we just talk about this? x) Have some fun with it. Usually anyone who wants to fight, physical or verbal, will do and say just about anything. Entertain them but always be in control.


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Re: The best response is no response? [Re: Shiithead]
    #22028222 - 08/01/15 12:44 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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The best response, I've found, is simply asking why they ask. Never stop questioning them until you and everyone around them know's their integrity is weak. And when you feel comfortable knowing that it is a pointless topic, just say oh ok. If they have the balls to ask again, say something like didn't we just talk about this? x) Have some fun with it. Usually anyone who wants to fight, physical or verbal, will do and say just about anything. Entertain them but always be in control.



Well it wasnt just politics. This guy was just generally being an ass. Asking personal questions. I was really loking for a method to prevent this kind of sitation in any aspect of life


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Re: The best response is no response? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
    #22028226 - 08/01/15 12:45 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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People get way too butthurt about politics so I generally just refrain from saying anything that isn't super generic. If I was in your situation topdog I probably would've just told him to shut up or just avoided him most of the njfht



Like the above post. I am concerned with a method for future reference


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Re: The best response is no response? [Re: topdog82]
    #22028240 - 08/01/15 12:48 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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topdog82 said:
Last night I learned a huge lesson. While at some kickback, some guy kept poking at me to start an arguement. It began when he began a discussion on gay rights. For some reason he was very abrasive to homosexuals (I really couldn't figure out why).





remember in 3rd grade and you would pull the hair or pick on a girl you liked


I think you know what's really going on and you should have just told him that
it's OK for him to take a pecker in his pooper but he should balance things out
by sucking a cock at the same time, you know, to effectively make him water tight


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Re: The best response is no response? [Re: Prisoner#1]
    #22028558 - 08/01/15 01:36 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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topdog82 said:
Last night I learned a huge lesson. While at some kickback, some guy kept poking at me to start an arguement. It began when he began a discussion on gay rights. For some reason he was very abrasive to homosexuals (I really couldn't figure out why).





remember in 3rd grade and you would pull the hair or pick on a girl you liked


I think you know what's really going on and you should have just told him that
it's OK for him to take a pecker in his pooper but he should balance things out
by sucking a cock at the same time, you know, to effectively make him water tight



Thats also a good point. I'll hit him up

Also, I like your sig


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Re: The best response is no response? [Re: topdog82]
    #22028627 - 08/01/15 01:51 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

when people on this website try to troll me i love completely ignoring them, cuz you know it pisses them off, theyre looking for a response

i love to see those posts, ignore them, then wait for someone else to post then i quote that post and say fucking anything to like acknowledge that im still in the thread but im ignoring your bullshit

they always melt...like for real im untrollable, i think theres only one topic that might kinda make me melt lol, but im not gonna say it for obvious reasons




theres a few members here who always try to troll me and its so funny to see them never succeed, and those members know who they are lol


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Re: The best response is no response? [Re: topdog82]
    #22028732 - 08/01/15 02:15 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

My solution to awkard situations is to work up a nice, STINKY fart, then interrupt him by saying "wait! Shhh! do u Hear that?" then  right when its real quiet, i let out my bottled  up fart as loud as possible.

Then i say "fuck! I shit my pants. I gotta go". Thats when u leave holding your hands on your asshole.

Should work perfectly :thumbup:






im still waiting on the situation where i actually need  to use this escape tactic.


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Re: The best response is no response? [Re: DigitalTorture]
    #22029303 - 08/01/15 04:19 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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Pull out a big pocket knife and start cleaning your finger nails. All the while staring intensely into his eyes and smiling with an evil grin.

Works every time for me.



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Re: The best response is no response? [Re: SunnyD]
    #22029380 - 08/01/15 04:32 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

when someone starts a conversation with me i dont wanna have i ask them if they have accepted jesus as thier personal anal savour yet.


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