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OfflineSteelPanther

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What to do sober
    #22020114 - 07/30/15 02:34 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I am currently recovering from a serious injury, I used to be heavily into working out at the gym, riding my bike, and lots of other physical stuff. The only other thing I am really into is drugs and I need to take a break from them because of some stuff life has thrown at me, but I also want to take a tolerance break and learn to do something besides drugs.

I do not enjoy tv or video games, I like being outside and doing physical things but right now the most I can do is walk, and swim for about 10 minutes so its pretty depressing going to the beach when I can only go in the water for 10 minutes.

What I really want to do is get a girlfriend but I don't have the first clue how to do that. Thre are girls at the beach, but its awkward always beig at the beach and not being able to go in the water for the most part.

What are some non physcially demanding things you can do sober to enjoy life? Also does anyone know things or places to go where I may meet a girl?


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Re: What to do sober [Re: SteelPanther]
    #22022159 - 07/30/15 09:26 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

getting a girlfriend wont make you suddenly enjoy being sober
sorry man


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Re: What to do sober [Re: Anonymous #1] * 3
    #22022419 - 07/30/15 10:27 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Take up some reading perhaps? get yourself into a really good book & that may eat up several hours per day. How about some writing/drawing? I myself love writing of any kind & I can do it for hours on end. Depending on the injury could you still do some leisurely walks through the park or better yet the forest? one of my personal favourite solitudinous situations to partake in. As for the females, that's not my area of expertise.. I could offer suggestions but its probably best to await someone else's adice :lol:


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Edited by caman (07/30/15 10:42 PM)


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Re: What to do sober [Re: caman]
    #22022533 - 07/30/15 11:06 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

reading was my first thought aswell. How about something like photography...?


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Re: What to do sober [Re: PDU]
    #22022937 - 07/31/15 02:34 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I am not into photography, but walking around is something I do, I just can't stand doing the same thing over and over. I also crave human interacion, knowing very well it will not be a replacement for drugs however it seems beneficial.

I'm thinking I am going to try and get a girl to go on a date with me to this really awesome nude hotsprings full of hippies and people who don't care at all what you do. If I can get a girl on a date, that would be an amzing one. You could literally have sex on the shore if you got that far, and the other people would walk around you if they have to walk by. I have walked right by a couple having sex on the ground, I don't find it awkward.


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Re: What to do sober [Re: SteelPanther]
    #22023073 - 07/31/15 04:40 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I recently got into amateur astronomy, and that has been really enjoyable.  The telescope cost a few hundred bucks, but in the end that's cheaper than the cost of dating somebody by quite a bit.  The last girl I dated seriously was costing me a few hundred bucks per month.

Amateur astronomy will definitely keep your mind occupied; it's quite challenging and the rewards of success are highly enjoyable.


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Re: What to do sober [Re: Ped]
    #22025131 - 07/31/15 04:44 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

climb mountains and trees, if you can.

get a girlfriend from another culture.

they love you because you're exotic,

and diversity tends to make love.


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Re: What to do sober [Re: SteelPanther]
    #22025229 - 07/31/15 05:12 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Quote:

SteelPanther said:
I'm thinking I am going to try and get a girl to go on a date with me to this really awesome nude hotsprings full of hippies and people who don't care at all what you do. If I can get a girl on a date, that would be an amzing one. You could literally have sex on the shore if you got that far, and the other people would walk around you if they have to walk by. I have walked right by a couple having sex on the ground, I don't find it awkward.




Terrible idea for a date unless you have a very special kind of girl....

This is in general an immature and poor mindset with which to approach this IMO.


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Re: What to do sober [Re: PDU]
    #22025316 - 07/31/15 05:30 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Pick up some new hobbies like learning an instrument or remote control helicopters and airplanes.  Start a garden. Hang out with your grandparents if they're still alive. Adopt a pet. Try cooking........


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Re: What to do sober [Re: cubedryeguy]
    #22026573 - 07/31/15 11:20 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

^and if they're not alive you can still visit them.
i agree with pet - very rewarding


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Re: What to do sober [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22032043 - 08/02/15 03:39 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Thanks for the advice, also I realize how bad my ideas of dating girls are. I have never been with a girl for more than 2 weeks besides a time I was with a girlf for months but it was in secret and long story short we did about zero talking about anything you would talk about if you had a relationship. A good idea of how that one was would be to imagine sitting at a table with friends, including her boyfriend and her giving me at least just as many has him if she even played with his dick at all.

I am mostly craving a social interaction I now see, and I desire having a relationship with a female. I also want to get laid often (relationship or not).

I'l probably post more tomorrow.


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