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Re: Just created a dating profile on POF... [Re: resonant111]
#22017107 - 07/29/15 08:34 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well match.com or eharmony would be better than pof, I'm assuming
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Re: Just created a dating profile on POF... [Re: resonant111]
#22017357 - 07/29/15 09:23 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well if you're going to pay, at least know what you're getting
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Re: Just created a dating profile on POF... [Re: moonrockmushy]
#22017607 - 07/29/15 10:19 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Go pay for a root... if you get a reasonable girl.. you will feel empowered and have more confidence for the next time you try approach a girl.
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Re: Just created a dating profile on POF... [Re: Lachy] 1
#22017740 - 07/29/15 10:50 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I bet OP is creepy, gotta be scary to have chosen an avatar like that. Did she ever reply OP?
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Re: Just created a dating profile on POF... [Re: resonant111] 1
#22017747 - 07/29/15 10:52 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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My message to this chick ended up being pretty great, I would be shocked if I don't get a date.
You're definitely NOT lying about being new to online dating...
I realize it's probably pretty hard if you're just on there trying to slay 8s or 9s or something. But this girl I'm looking at is so much like me, I mean it's uncanny. When I read her profile I was like "omg this is her" No one else came close.
She seems to be at a similar point in her life too. I feel something really strong pulling me towards her and like I said, I'd be shocked if she didn't reciprocate.
Im not sure how to let you down gently, but Ill try.
The chances of any woman messaging you back are <10%. Even then, their inbox is fucking packed full of dudes just like you. From what Ive seen on dating sites, the women are more interested in seeing whats available to them rather than actually sticking their necks out and taking a chance. This is like jerking off for women. When they feel lonely, they log on to see how many men are desperate to meet them. Its a confidence boost and it helps them sleep at night.
I used to troll dating sites years ago. I would use the exact same profile but different pictures and incomes for different areas. The results were as exactly as you'd imagine. Its a sad scene. You have a muuuuch greater chance at just meeting and chatting somebody up at a party or something.
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yea it's actually making me kind of sad for humanity, seeing all these fat, ugly, desperate, lonely (and often shallow) people looking for love (or ego boost or whatever the hell they're after). funny part is i only feel lonely when i actually want a girlfriend. if i'm like "nah fuck that shit" i'm all good, no issue.
so yea i quit! that's why i wanted someone to talk me out of it lol
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Re: Just created a dating profile on POF... [Re: resonant111]
#22017815 - 07/29/15 11:13 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I would use your free time to pursue ultimate goals. Go to school to be a fucking astronaut or something. Women are attracted to your confidence and passion for success (among other things). This is something thats nearly impossible to portray over the internet. Especially when theres like a million fucking profiles and theyre all exactly the same. I dont want to tell you to give up hope, but online dating sites are seriously the worst thing in the world.
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i think dating in general is the worst thing in the world too much bullshit and games. generally ends in heartbreak and disappointment.
like you said, much better to put all of that time and energy into something good...like a book, or a hobby or something. i'm almost glad she didn't respond, i'm finally coming back to my senses!!!
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#22019063 - 07/30/15 09:50 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Thats how you do it Op
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Re: Just created a dating profile on POF... [Re: IISkuNkII]
#22019066 - 07/30/15 09:51 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Works every time
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They probably think you are ugly.
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Re: Just created a dating profile on POF... [Re: Bill_Oreilly]
#22019724 - 07/30/15 12:50 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I found my boyfriend that I've been with for 4 years on POF.
Mind you... I had to worm through some creepy ass people... Some girls are crazy bitches though.
Good luck!
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Re: Just created a dating profile on POF... [Re: Fluzzball]
#22022014 - 07/30/15 08:55 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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The thing is, online dating is basically a looks contest because you can't see a person's mannerisms and the way they act in real life, etc. The two main things a girl is gonna look at on your profile, are your pictures and the height you put yourself as being. Until you meet them in person, looks and height and maybe your income are all that matter.
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MagicalOrangutan said: The thing is, online dating is basically a looks contest because you can't see a person's mannerisms and the way they act in real life, etc. The two main things a girl is gonna look at on your profile, are your pictures and the height you put yourself as being. Until you meet them in person, looks and height and maybe your income are all that matter.
hence the reason i am fucked. sub $25k a year income lol and that aint changing anytime soon cuz i enjoy what i do. like i said i might as well not even bother w/ the dating game, it's all bullshit.
its looks and money and i got neither. i'm looking for something real, like heart to heart connection. it's all good though, i kinda figured i wasn't cut out for the game.
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Re: Just created a dating profile on POF... [Re: resonant111]
#22022241 - 07/30/15 09:47 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Yeah I used to think I hated online dating, then I remembered I hated regular dating too. Online dating is the worst for me though, because I always do myself in by trying to be funny in the profile, which comes off as creepy, or making the hugest mistake ever when it comes to online dating by actually being honest and forthcoming
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Re: Just created a dating profile on POF... [Re: resonant111]
#22022288 - 07/30/15 09:58 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Good luck with POF; I have no luck meeting anybody from there.
OkCupid, however... I have met around six girls at least from there in person
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Yeah I always had better luck with OKC. Honestly I didn't even see anyone attractive on POF, and I'm not that picky. I think it is probably a regional thing, as I've heard alot of people say POF is where it's at. I had alot better luck when I lived in a more populated area, but I think that goes without saying.
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