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Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways 1
#22001410 - 07/26/15 07:15 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I went out with some guy friends to a bar on Friday night. We were sitting at a table talking when this really cute girl comes over and starts talking to us. I eventually get her number and ask her to dance with me. The song that comes up right as we are about to dance is a slow song, so we slow dance. It was really cool. We were really close to each other while dancing.
I leave with my friends and drop them off. When they leave I check my phone and find out that the girl I just danced with wants me to come over to her place. So I go over.
We chill and have some more drinks and it's cool. She wants me to sleep over there, so I do. She wants to have sex, but I don't want to, not on the first night.
The next day, which was yesterday, we are texting all day and I pick her up and take her to my place late at night. We have good sex. Friday night and Saturday night both were great nights with her. She's really cool and we got along great.
Today, Sunday, we wake up and are laying in bed and all is good. I drop her off at her place and she gives me a kiss while she's leaving.
I am feeling good.
Shortly after she texts me saying:
"I'm just going to put this out there. I don't think we should pursue each other anymore. I had a great time with you I just don't think we are very compatible."
I respond with "Thats a bit of a bummer to me. I thought we got together along really well, im not rly sure what you are talking about."
She says "It's really not about anything specifically it's just how I feel."
I say "Sometimes ppl feel weird emotionally the day or two after sex... I did enjoy being in ur company and i really think you liked being in mine. I think you shouldn't be so quick to want to stop pursueing each other."
Idk y'all... I've never been dumped the day after having sex with some one. I feel pretty shitty 
I kinda liked this girl. She has a relaxing voice and is funny. I could totally tell she was into me. I just want some support or something
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: lifeiswhatyoumake] 2
#22001605 - 07/26/15 07:56 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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You should have said I agree, we aren't really compatible. She would be sucking your dick the next day, she put out a test and you failed it, better luck next time.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: qman] 1
#22001649 - 07/26/15 08:12 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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qman said: You should have said I agree, we aren't really compatible. She would be sucking your dick the next day, she put out a test and you failed it, better luck next time. 
Any person who would play those mind games is only worth having mindless sex with and nothing more.
I feel for OP, had a weird situation with a FWB where she stopped wanting to have sex but started saying I love you.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: Yukon Cornelius] 1
#22001798 - 07/26/15 08:40 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Sounds straightforward to me. She wanted a casual fling, she got one, and now she's done. No mind game there. Why create drama where none exists? OP, sorry it didn't turn out how you imagined it would. Kinda sucks, but it's really not that big of a deal IMO.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: lifeiswhatyoumake] 2
#22002004 - 07/26/15 09:12 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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"Dumped"? ... After a few days? You think you were in a relationship because you had sex? You must be young.
Here's the deal and it should make you feel good. If the sex is good, there's really no such thing as a one night stand. It's more like a three night stand. So take solice in the fact that you're probably decent in the bed, you picked up a cute girl at the club, and had a 3 night stand with her.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: automan]
#22002147 - 07/26/15 09:51 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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go do it all over again with a different face
lovedick for bar chicks is a bad time
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: thelanzii]
#22002914 - 07/27/15 05:16 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yeah dude she wanted a bit an could prob tell you were falling for her so she cut you off to avoid the drama.
You were a weekend booty call.
DONT TEXT HER ANY MORE!
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: automan]
#22003005 - 07/27/15 06:08 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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automan said: Here's the deal and it should make you feel good. If the sex is good, there's really no such thing as a one night stand. It's more like a three night stand. So take solice in the fact that you're probably decent in the bed, you picked up a cute girl at the club, and had a 3 night stand with her.
QFT. Good going and don't worry about it. If she's not interested in you for actual dating, then just leave it at that, tell her you really liked hanging out with her and if you feel up to it, offer her to contact you again if she wants to have a nice night in the bedroom with no strings attached.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: koraks]
#22003265 - 07/27/15 07:48 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I feel like I read something different than what automan & koraks read. They're talking about a "three night stand", but I read it like this: OP and some girl hung out for two nights, and had sex once. What am I misreading here?
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: Burke Dennings]
#22003314 - 07/27/15 08:07 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Seems like you're right and op wrote they had sex on only one night. Doesn't make much of a difference though.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: koraks]
#22003516 - 07/27/15 09:16 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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It sounds like the sex was better for you than it was for her. Blow a girl's mind and she'll never stop calling back.
Honestly you probably dodged a bullet though. Every girl I've ever dated who started kissing me goodbye after the first fuck tried their hardest to never let me go.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: thelanzii]
#22003585 - 07/27/15 09:40 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Nemmies said: go do it all over again with a different face
lovedick for bar chicks is a bad time
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: The Doobie Dude]
#22003604 - 07/27/15 09:42 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Time to give up man. Sluts will be sluts
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: Rebelutionsssss] 1
#22003623 - 07/27/15 09:47 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Rebelutionsssss said: Time to give up man. Sluts will be sluts
Why is she a slut for making whatever decision she thought she was right for herself? While I agree OP should give up, calling her a slut is straight hogwash. 
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: empty space] 1
#22003633 - 07/27/15 09:50 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Some girl approaches him at a bar and brings him home to fuck him only to break it off the next day... Bar slut. Face the facts
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22003641 - 07/27/15 09:51 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Rebelutionsssss said: Some girl approaches him at a bar and brings him home to fuck him only to break it off the next day... Bar slut. Face the facts
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: Rebelutionsssss] 1
#22003951 - 07/27/15 11:08 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Rebelutionsssss said: Some girl approaches him at a bar and brings him home to fuck him only to break it off the next day... Bar slut. Face the facts
This is pretty much spot on but then again I do not consider "slut" to be pejorative. I fucking love sluts.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: zappaisgod]
#22004133 - 07/27/15 11:50 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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To me a slut is nasty. Like if she let him fuck her the first time without a condom then she's a slut. And then he is a dumbass and should go to the doctor.
Just cause she fucked him once and then dumped him doesn't make her a slut. Thats just a little rude. Maybe he didn't fuck her well. I would do the same if a girl was a bad lay. My definition of a slut is clearly a little different than yours.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: empty space]
#22004149 - 07/27/15 11:54 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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so fucking someone on the first date with a condom= Wife material Fucking someone without a condom on the first date= Slut
Uhhh yea our views are different
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22004185 - 07/27/15 12:06 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I didn't say anything about wife material. Whenever you go out clubbing you are looking for your potential wife? That's a way to look at women I guess ahah I don't hit on women I just hang out w everybody and let women come to me. This guy went to the club, a girl came to him without him having to do much. So what if she doesnt want a relationship? Id say that's pretty chill and he scored. No need to demean the woman.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: empty space]
#22004191 - 07/27/15 12:08 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Well for me you're either going to marry the person you're dating or it's just a sex fling. I would prefer to find my soul mate.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: empty space] 2
#22004238 - 07/27/15 12:18 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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empty space said: To me a slut is nasty. Like if she let him fuck her the first time without a condom then she's a slut. And then he is a dumbass and should go to the doctor.
Just cause she fucked him once and then dumped him doesn't make her a slut. Thats just a little rude. Maybe he didn't fuck her well. I would do the same if a girl was a bad lay. My definition of a slut is clearly a little different than yours.
I had one date with my wife. We went home to her place the first night. We didn't use a condom. We have been married for almost 20 years.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: sun_spots]
#22004351 - 07/27/15 12:46 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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sun_spots said: Sounds straightforward to me. She wanted a casual fling, she got one, and now she's done. No mind game there. Why create drama where none exists? OP, sorry it didn't turn out how you imagined it would. Kinda sucks, but it's really not that big of a deal IMO.
This.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: zappaisgod]
#22004366 - 07/27/15 12:49 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said: I had one date with my wife. We went home to her place the first night. We didn't use a condom. We have been married for almost 20 years.
You also said you love sluts. I love sluts too. I love being a slut but I've been good lately and wear condoms w everyone I fuck because I haven't been to the doctor since me and my ex broke up and we were both sluts.. Had more than a few threesomes w her slutty friends. There's nothing wrong with being a slut if you're ok with it. But i think its kind of rude and disrespectful to call someone a slut. It didnt sound like you were going to appreciate me calling your wife a slut. Why demean the girl? She's just trying to have fun.
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Rebelutionsssss said: Well for me you're either going to marry the person you're dating or it's just a sex fling. I would prefer to find my soul mate.
Ok whatever makes you happy. Personally I'm in no rush to look for a soulmate. I don't have time for dating right now. But I definitely have time for sex and I'm going to fuck as many women as I want until I meet my soulmate. Probably afterward too because I'm polyamorous and I'm a freak so my soulmate will have to be the same.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: empty space]
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zappaisgod said: I had one date with my wife. We went home to her place the first night. We didn't use a condom. We have been married for almost 20 years.
You also said you love sluts. I love sluts too. I love being a slut but I've been good lately and wear condoms w everyone I fuck because I haven't been to the doctor since me and my ex broke up and we were both sluts.. Had more than a few threesomes w her slutty friends. There's nothing wrong with being a slut if you're ok with it. But i think its kind of rude and disrespectful to call someone a slut. It didnt sound like you were going to appreciate me calling your wife a slut. Why demean the girl? She's just trying to have fun.
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Rebelutionsssss said: Well for me you're either going to marry the person you're dating or it's just a sex fling. I would prefer to find my soul mate.
Ok whatever makes you happy. Personally I'm in no rush to look for a soulmate. I don't have time for dating right now. But I definitely have time for sex and I'm going to fuck as many women as I want until I meet my soulmate. Probably afterward too because I'm polyamorous and I'm a freak so my soulmate will have to be the same.
"there's nothing wrong with being a slut if you're ok with it"
I agree, but a slut can never gain respect for it like a stud can, sorry for the double standard but that's just the way it works.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: qman]
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: qman]
#22004951 - 07/27/15 02:49 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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qman said:
"there's nothing wrong with being a slut if you're ok with it"
I agree, but a slut can never gain respect for it like a stud can, sorry for the double standard but that's just the way it works.
Maybe not from people like yourself. An awesome woman is worth far more to me than just her sex or body. I know plenty of women who you'd probably call sluts that I'm sure are way cooler I imagine than you are. And I know plenty of men who you'd probably call "studs" (I put quotes around it because I find that word funny as fuck, usually used by people who resort to crap PUA media to learn how to get laid) who fuck lots of women but are basically moronic, worthless. Like women, men also earn no appreciation from me simply for their sexual exploits, and I think the kind of people who respect a man just for having a lot of sex are simpletons.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: empty space]
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i just reread the op, why would you deny her for sex on the first night? makes no sense
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: Anonymous #1]
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Anonymous said: i just reread the op, why would you deny her for sex on the first night? makes no sense
...Kinda fucked that you even have to ask. Sad standards you have
I also call slut. She knew she had him hook line and sinker for a fuck so she lead him on. I mean who ever met someone, thought they liked them, then AFTER fucking two days later changed their minds?
Sluts thats who. Teaches OP not to try to fall for bar skanks tho. Hope you didnt go down on her
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: bloodsheen] 3
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A lot of you all sound very young. A woman taking charge of her own sexuality is a slut? Trading orgasms on the first time you have a sleepover is sad standards? I thought younger generations might have more open minds when it comes to sexuality and gender roles, but you guys seem to be taking a step back from where we were a quarter century ago.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: automan] 2
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automan said: A lot of you all sound very young. A woman taking charge of her own sexuality is a slut? Trading orgasms on the first time you have a sleepover is sad standards? I thought younger generations might have more open minds when it comes to sexuality and gender roles, but you guys seem to be taking a step back from where we were a quarter century ago.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: empty space]
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Whatever man. A guy makes a strong impression on a girl, makes her think hes into her, then pump and dumps her and hes a scumbag. This girl is a 21st century woman
Im for equality but not the backward as fuck equality you guys want. I choose to hold men to a higher standard not women to a lower one
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: empty space]
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qman said:
"there's nothing wrong with being a slut if you're ok with it"
I agree, but a slut can never gain respect for it like a stud can, sorry for the double standard but that's just the way it works.
Maybe not from people like yourself. An awesome woman is worth far more to me than just her sex or body. I know plenty of women who you'd probably call sluts that I'm sure are way cooler I imagine than you are. And I know plenty of men who you'd probably call "studs" (I put quotes around it because I find that word funny as fuck, usually used by people who resort to crap PUA media to learn how to get laid) who fuck lots of women but are basically moronic, worthless. Like women, men also earn no appreciation from me simply for their sexual exploits, and I think the kind of people who respect a man just for having a lot of sex are simpletons.
"people who respect a man for having a lot of sex are simpletons"
Both men and women respect males who have many different female partners, it's the opposite for sluts, it's basic biology.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: qman]
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And I think those men and women are simple people. There's so many reasons to respect people other than sex like if they are good at their craft or hell, if they are just nice people. It just seems very childish and shallow to pass judgement on a woman, or anyone for that matter, just because of their sexual history.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: empty space]
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empty space said: And I think those men and women are simple people. There's so many reasons to respect people other than sex like if they are good at their craft or hell, if they are just nice people. It just seems very childish and shallow to pass judgement on a woman, or anyone for that matter, just because of their sexual history.
I think that passing a judgment on a woman because of her sexual past is quite normal.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: zappaisgod]
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empty space said: To me a slut is nasty. Like if she let him fuck her the first time without a condom then she's a slut. And then he is a dumbass and should go to the doctor.
Just cause she fucked him once and then dumped him doesn't make her a slut. Thats just a little rude. Maybe he didn't fuck her well. I would do the same if a girl was a bad lay. My definition of a slut is clearly a little different than yours.
I had one date with my wife. We went home to her place the first night. We didn't use a condom. We have been married for almost 20 years.
You guys might be the exception rather than the rule.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: WAN]
#22007798 - 07/28/15 01:55 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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It shows that automan and zappaisgod are the ones with experience here. Well said gentlemen.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: qman]
#22007999 - 07/28/15 04:33 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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qman said: You should have said I agree, we aren't really compatible. She would be sucking your dick the next day, she put out a test and you failed it, better luck next time. 
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: memes]
#22008002 - 07/28/15 04:34 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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i was talking to a friend (who i sleep with occasionally) on the phone and she said something along the lines of "well, that doesn't make me want to have sex with you anymore"
"ok"
she followed that up with a laugh and something along the lines of "that WOULD be you, wouldn't it. i say i don't want to fuck you anymore and you're like "ok well there's this awesome pizza place down the road we should eat""
"yeah. i aint stressed"
test passed.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: lifeiswhatyoumake]
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lifeiswhatyoumake said: I went out with some guy friends to a bar on Friday night. We were sitting at a table talking when this really cute girl comes over and starts talking to us. I eventually get her number and ask her to dance with me. The song that comes up right as we are about to dance is a slow song, so we slow dance. It was really cool. We were really close to each other while dancing.
I leave with my friends and drop them off. When they leave I check my phone and find out that the guy I just danced with wants me to come over to her place. So I go over.
We chill and have some more drinks and it's cool. She wants me to sleep over there, so I do. She wants to have sex, but I don't want to, not on the first night.
The next day, which was yesterday, we are texting all day and I pick her up and take her to my place late at night. We have good sex. Friday night and Saturday night both were great nights with her. She's really cool and we got along great.
Today, Sunday, we wake up and are laying in bed and all is good. I drop her off at her place and she gives me a kiss while she's leaving.
I am feeling good.
Shortly after she texts me saying:
"I'm just going to put this out there. I don't think we should pursue each other anymore. I had a great time with you I just don't think we are very compatible."
I respond with "Thats a bit of a bummer to me. I thought we got together along really well, im not rly sure what you are talking about."
She says "It's really not about anything specifically it's just how I feel."
I say "Sometimes ppl feel weird emotionally the day or two after sex... I did enjoy being in ur company and i really think you liked being in mine. I think you shouldn't be so quick to want to stop pursueing each other."
Idk y'all... I've never been dumped the day after having sex with some one. I feel pretty shitty 
I kinda liked this girl. She has a relaxing voice and is funny. I could totally tell she was into me. I just want some support or something
Ive been dumped a day after some good sex
It cryed for a bit
Shit hurts
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: SunnyD]
#22010388 - 07/28/15 03:34 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Feels bro
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22011533 - 07/28/15 07:13 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Alot of you should have the letter A branded into your forehead. I'll pray for you guys. My god have mercy on you when your judgment day arrives.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: DTCharlieB]
#22011643 - 07/28/15 07:38 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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DTCharlieB said: Alot of you should have the letter A branded into your forehead. I'll pray for you guys. My god have mercy on you when your judgment day arrives.
Letter A? What do you mean?
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: EDM]
#22011652 - 07/28/15 07:41 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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For awesome dude. I think we're badass
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: EDM]
#22011701 - 07/28/15 07:50 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Go read the book The Scarlet Letter, write a book report on it, then report back. I'll have a test on the book waiting for you. I'll have to have someone else grade it because I could only read 3 pages of that dumb book.
It's a book written by Nathaniel Hawthorne I believe about a lady who gets pregnant out of wedlock in 1600s I think. And she has to wear a letter A on her clothes for adulterer. In case you didn't know the background, thats what I was referring to.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: automan]
#22011715 - 07/28/15 07:53 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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automan said: "Dumped"? ... After a few days? You think you were in a relationship because you had sex? You must be young.
Here's the deal and it should make you feel good. If the sex is good, there's really no such thing as a one night stand. It's more like a three night stand. So take solice in the fact that you're probably decent in the bed, you picked up a cute girl at the club, and had a 3 night stand with her.
I didn't think we were in a relationship yet, but things were feeling pretty good between her and I for those three days.
She said she was looking for some one she could call up whenever and have sex with, and that sounded good to me at the time, probably because I had some drinks and was horny. So, I thought that our fling would last longer than three days, at least.
I am not too experienced with casual sex, so I was giving it a shot. I just don't think it's for me.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: lifeiswhatyoumake]
#22011719 - 07/28/15 07:55 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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And I apparently made her cum once each time we had sex, so that's good for my morale haha.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: DTCharlieB]
#22011736 - 07/28/15 07:59 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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ya laugh it up. It's terrible how people have changed over time. People where once wholesome and virtuous and if you weren't you were out casted and branded an adulterer for such acts. Now if you sleep around in these present times your branded with an A... for "awesome".
SHAME!
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: lifeiswhatyoumake]
#22011738 - 07/28/15 07:59 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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And there was a big cum stain on the bedsheets afterwards where her pussy was.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: DTCharlieB]
#22011774 - 07/28/15 08:07 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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You could have still had sex with her whenever but you probably scared her off with your inexperienced antics! It's ok everyone's been there. Sometimes you just don't see the picture for what it is because of how smitten you where with her, which made you blind to the situation. It happens. Don't fret. You sound like a swell fellow you, I'm sure you'll find a nice young female that will really tickle your fancy. And after a year and 4 months of dating you can get engaged and 6 months after that get married. Don't stray from the timeline.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: DTCharlieB]
#22011884 - 07/28/15 08:29 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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DTCharlieB said: You could have still had sex with her whenever but you probably scared her off with your inexperienced antics! It's ok everyone's been there. Sometimes you just don't see the picture for what it is because of how smitten you where with her, which made you blind to the situation. It happens. Don't fret. You sound like a swell fellow you, I'm sure you'll find a nice young female that will really tickle your fancy. And after a year and 4 months of dating you can get engaged and 6 months after that get married. Don't stray from the timeline.
You're totally right. I told her while dropping her off on day three that those two times we had sex were my 17th and 18th times haha. Maybe that's too low of a number for her.
She smoked cigs anyways, so it's not a big deal that we are done.
and ya i'm confident I will get another girl soon.
So, when I got this girl's number this past Friday night something happened earlier in the evening with another girl:
Two of my guy friends and I went to a Seth MacFarlane show. A mom and her daughter sat next to us; the daughter was hot.
During intermission we go to get some beer and come back to our seats; as we are standing at our seats, about to sit down, the mom says to me that she loves my shirt. I'm wearing a Spongebob and Patrick in outer space shirt; it is badass. We talk about spongebob for a few minutes and then start talking about her daughter; she tells me her daughter is in college. One of my friends starting talking to the daughter and I'm talking to the mom.
Some how the mom and I end up talking about Jersey Shore and she says that she likes Snooki. I say she's alright. The mom says she used to be like Snooki in college. I ask her if that means she had a lot of sex and she said no hahah.
So, the show starts again and I sit next to the mom and her daughter is on the other side of her; my two friends are next to me on the opposite side.
Throughout the show the mom and I and her daughter look at each other and laugh at things in the show.
At the end of the show the mom says bye to me and I say bye, but then I tap on the daughter's shoulder and say "hey I had fun tonight. I would like to do it again soon. Can I have your number?"
The daughter gives me her number and the mom says "I approve" hahhah. The daughter invites us to a bar that they are going to go to after the show. I ask my friends if they wanna go, since I am driving them around, and they say sure.
So we go to the bar and, well, the mom and daughter never show up; the daughter never responds to my texts, either.
I do end up meeting the girl I talked about in the first post in this thread at the bar the mom and daughter never showed up to, however. So it's all good.
I have learned that my Spongebob and Patrick in outer space shirt is a chick magnet!
It looks similar to this:

That's my weekend, in a nutshell.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: lifeiswhatyoumake]
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Hahah that's pretty sweet. When one door closes a window opens..... or something to that affect haha,
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: DTCharlieB]
#22012204 - 07/28/15 09:23 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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That's true. Life is good.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: lifeiswhatyoumake] 1
#22012250 - 07/28/15 09:32 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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That cat gets me every time
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#22021757 - 07/30/15 07:47 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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me too lol

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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: lifeiswhatyoumake]
#22024565 - 07/31/15 02:18 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Sorry OP. Women are women. You can't understand them. Don't even try. Men have went to mental asylums trying to figure them out.
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: JustForToday]
#22025324 - 07/31/15 05:32 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I'm over it now. Already talking to another girl that is much more on my level in what we want, so life is good.
Did you ever get laid? I remember you said you really wanted to or somethin' and it has been eight yearz?
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Re: Met a girl few days ago, had sex last night, today she says wants to go seperate ways [Re: lifeiswhatyoumake]
#22025377 - 07/31/15 05:44 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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lifeiswhatyoumake said: I'm over it now. Already talking to another girl that is much more on my level in what we want, so life is good.
Did you ever get laid? I remember you said you really wanted to or somethin' and it has been eight yearz?
I did. And she broke my heart. This columbian girl.. everything was fine for like 4 weeks. Then she started making up excuses and just stopped fucking with me completely. I don't understand why. Now i'm dating this girl and i'm just confused as fuck.
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