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    #21976302 - 07/21/15 05:16 PM (5 years, 7 months ago)

How do I get my hormones to start firing on all cylinders? I want to spank some booty but im tired of being shy & timid. I have a damn difficult time with women, do girls prefer for a guy to be straight up? idk I need help getting my libido to start working for me again. I want to be confident but without being pretentious or a prick. this post might be better suited on the sexuality relationships forum but there seems to always be more activity here & this problem of mine I believe is all in the mental.


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Re: libido [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #21976419 - 07/21/15 05:44 PM (5 years, 7 months ago)

Don't take steroids... that's number 1...

You didn't say your age, so I'm assuming very young.  A girl is just a guy with a place for you to stick your dick that feels great, and she loves it just as much as you do...   

And this post from craiglist seems to be what you need...

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    Look, I know you men have it difficult. Women are just about impossible to understand, much less please. In a post-feminist society, you never know exactly what you should be doing. Women are bloody picky, I know we are. It can be scary, too, when women freak out about what appear to be benign issues. And men who do their best to be respectful, female-positive humans, I salute you, I do.

    But please, please just fuck me already. Honestly, I appreciate your thoughtfulness. I like that you want to take things slow. I can totally get behind the idea of emotional connection, but dearjesusinheaven, FUCK ME. We've done dinner and drinks. We've gone dancing. We've cuddled and watched a movie. I'm wearing a low cut shirt and you've been staring at my breasts all night. Goodgodalmighty, get to it and fuck me.

    When we get hot and heavy, please take charge. Please, please fuck me. Trust me, I'm not going to just lie still - I'll get involved. But don't make me force your hand into my panties. That makes me feel like a rapist. We've been kissing for a half hour and your hand keeps grazing my ass. That's nice, but it's time to move forward. Get on top of me. Don't make me get on top right out of the gate and start bobbing up and down on your cock like I'm practicing some crazy new aerobic yoga because YOU won't go down on me. Roll on top and start dry humping like a good boy should. Don't gently suck my nipples and then pull back when I moan with pleasure. You being coy is totally not what I want. It's not what WE want.

    OK, I know it's scary. There are lots of women out there who make fucking really difficult. So, I have compiled some handy tips. Don't think of this as complaining, or as schadenfreude for the Andrea Dworkins of the world. Just some simple tips, for timid men who have forgotten what it means to fuck like men:

        Taking charge is not bad. Oh, there will be some women who feel that you are pushy. If you are making out with a woman, and she starts to push back, ask nicely if things are moving too fast. If she says yes, say something like "I'm sorry - you just look so fucking delicious. I'll go slower." Otherwise, skillfully move forward. If you start kissing a woman, and she responds well, and before long, you're both on the floor with her skirt pushed up, and you on top of her, it's not the time to roll onto your back and start awkwardly stroking the top of her head. Seriously, grow a goddamn pair. YOU'RE the man. Act like one.

        Ohmyfuckinggod, please learn to respect the clit. It's different for every woman, so ask what she likes. Do not, I repeat, do not just wiggle your fingers around her pussy like you're trying to tickle her. Do not drum your fingertips against her vulva like you are impatiently waiting at the Sears Tire Center for your receipt. Do not push the clit like it is a doorbell at some house that you need to get inside of. Start by using all four fingers with firm yet gentle pressure against the outside of her pussy. Do not charge in with a single finger and start jabbing at things. And if you really don't know what to do, ask her. Just ask. "How do you like it?". It's a simple question, and most women will answer straight out. If she's being all coy, ask "Do you like pressure? Is it sensitive?" The clitoris is a varied item, indeed. Treat each one as though you have never encountered one before. Forget everything that your last partner liked.

        Most women like to be fucked, and fucked well. Yes, there are women out there who want to "make love" every time - sweet, gentle, rocking love with lots of eye contact and loving kisses. Those women are not the majority. The majority like to be pounded. The majority like to have their hair pulled. The majority like a good, solid jackhammering. When a woman is bucking wildly against you, it's not because she wants you to pull back and slowly swirl your cock around her vagina like you're mixing a cake batter up there. It's because she wants you to hold down her arms, or grab her hips, or push her legs above her head, and fuck her harder. Don't be too afraid of what this means as far as gender equality goes - I am a raging feminist bitch, but I still want to be penetrated like you are planning on fucking my throat from the inside out.

        A little roughness is nice. Do not pretend that you had no idea that some women like their hair pulled. Do not act shocked if she wants you to spank her ("Really? Spanking? Won't it hurt?" - yes, it does. That's the fucking point). We know you've read Stuff and Maxim, and that's all those laddie mags talk about in their "How to Please Her" sections. Start with light, full handed smacks to the area of her ass that she sits on. Judge her response and continue on from there. You don't have to bend her over one knee and tell her she's a naughty girl and that Daddy's going to punish her; save that for the fifth date. Women are less delicate than you think, so don't worry about breaking her hip.

        It's OK for you to make noise. Otherwise, we feel like we are fucking a ninja. Unless you actually are a ninja, and have sneaked into our rooms with vibrating nanuchaku and zippered black pajamas, please, please make some noise. If you're banging a woman, and she's crying out and saying your name and moaning, and you can't even manage a grunt, she's going to feel like an idiot. You don't have to make the sounds she is making, but do SOMETHING. You know how when you are watching porn, and the girl does something great to the guy and the guy kind of goes "Ah!", half grunt, half yell? That's HOT. Do that. Whisper our name (assuming you know it) gruffly. Groan against her neck when you're in missionary position. You don't have to grunt like a mountain gorilla, but if you are totally mute, she's going to get worried.

        Most women like dirty talk, in addition to the grunting. If you'd like to get some dirty talk going, ask her if she likes the way you fuck her. If she responds well, continue with something like, "I love fucking you. God, you look so fucking hot." Is she still moaning in response? "Your tits are so beautiful." Does that work? If she doesn't respond well to the term "tits", you might have to stop there. If she keep moaning or responding, pass Go and collect $200. Try the following:

    "Oh, god. Your pussy is SO tight." "You're so wet - are you wet because you like the feel of my cock ramming you?" "I think I'm going to come inside you. I'm going to fill up your little cunt." It doesn't matter that you're wearing a condom; we LOVE hearing this.

    If all of those work, you can then progress to things like "sexy little bitch" and "dirty whore". Tread carefully, but please, tread. Do not tiptoe. Do not sit down. Charge.

        You're not obligated to eat a woman out. In return, she's not obligated to choke on your dick. Don't skip one and expect the other. If you do eat a woman out, the only comment you should make about her pussy is how nice it is. The length of her labia minora, the color of her interior, her waxing job or full bush - you are not John Madden. No time for color commentary.

        Do not bitch about condoms. Oh, we hate them. Trust us. They hurt us more than they hurt you. But we don't want to be preggers, and you don't want to catch anything, right? Don't whine about condom sex. Do not explain that you can't come with one on. LEARN to come with one on, or if not, help us figure out what to do with you once we're satisfied and it's time for you to let loose your load.

        We really like it when you come. It's called a money shot for a reason. Watching semen shoot out of you is one of the most gratifying things EVER. However, do not assume that she wants you to jack it off onto her face. She might, but don't assume. Seeing and/or feeling you come is rewarding for us, so there's no need to deprive us of it, but please do consult us before unleashing. "I think I'm going to come - how do you like it?" is a fair question that shouldn't rob you of your testicles.

    In recent memory, I've been fucked by a very aggressive, manly guy, and I've been... well, fucked is the wrong term here. I've been penetrated by a total and utter wuss. Who am I going to run back to when I'm ready for my fill? Manly McHardon, that's who. ----------------------------------------------------

    New point of clarification - some people have brought up some really great issues in response to this post, so let me say this: I don't mean to imply that all women like to be treated like whores. I do mean to say that most women I know have told me that they like sex rougher than most men give it to them. Rough does NOT equal chains and bondage. And this applies to the bedroom only, and does not mean that she wants you to choose her dinner for her, or treat her like less of a person. *Some women have said that they don't like it rough and what the hell am I thinking? Well, girls, you're in the minority. HOWEVER, all women need to remember that, in addition to be straight forward about your sexual desires, you need to be straight forward about your sexual limits. Don't be afraid to ask for more, but when something feels wrong, say so. Don't ever do something you don't want to do in silence and then blame the guy. Silence is dangerous.


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Re: libido [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #21976817 - 07/21/15 07:14 PM (5 years, 7 months ago)

Tell her what you want, flirt and make it clear that you are attracted to her. If she responds with stuff like 'I want your d' go for a kiss.

Practice to overcome your fear of rejection.
Be straight up but don't be freaky about it, use innuendos and joke around.

E.g. "What do you want to do anon?"
- I want to do something beautiful and hot but i'm happy just grabbing a coffee too.


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Re: libido [Re: sudly]
    #21977088 - 07/21/15 08:22 PM (5 years, 7 months ago)

And if you're ever wondering if a girl is going to welcome a kiss, just gently stroke her hair.  There will be two outcomes - she recoils or you go in and kiss her.

Also make sure to grab her face... not "GRAB" but you know... how you see in the movies.  Works every time.  They love that shit.


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    #21977958 - 07/21/15 11:22 PM (5 years, 7 months ago)

I'm not sure if being shy and timid is a hormonal imbalance.  Sounds like you're uncomfortable or scared or rejection.


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Re: libido [Re: Cognitive_Shift]
    #21978108 - 07/22/15 12:05 AM (5 years, 7 months ago)

I think it's just being too easily intimidated and having low self worth.


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Re: libido [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #21985911 - 07/23/15 05:13 PM (5 years, 7 months ago)

>> How do I get my hormones to start firing on all cylinders? I want to spank some booty but im tired of being shy & timid.

If you are preoccupied with "spanking some booty", chances are your hormones are just fine.  Modifying them by any means is not liable to help you overcome the psychological block between you and the booty.

I'm not one to buy into the modern day rhetoric about confidence and self-image, as these things are just reflections of our experiences and can't be meaningfully adjusted in any applied sense.  There's no effective way to buffer confidence and self-image ahead of the activities which require them: only undertaking the activities themselves can develop those traits in a meaningful way.

Comfort with courtship requires an amount of courage, practice, and most of all patience.  It's simply a matter of approaching women, interacting with them, accepting what transpires without judging or dwelling, and repeating the exercise.  Depending on your personality, one or more of these aspects might require extra practice, but accepting what transpires without judging or dwelling is probably the most important skill to have, as this is a pathway to comfort in your own skin.  It takes time and patience to develop; there are no fast tracks.

It might be helpful to place less emphasis on the end goal of spanking some booty.  While you are preoccupied with that as a future outcome, you're not really attentive to the woman you're interacting with, and you're thereby less equipped to connect with her in a constructive manner.  When interacting with a woman, listen to her, pay attention to her whole being, and tune in to the dynamics of the situation.  This can be every bit as electrifying as spanking her booty, and it will increase your comfort level and courtship skills at the same time.


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Re: libido [Re: Ped]
    #21986653 - 07/23/15 07:46 PM (5 years, 7 months ago)

I agree with the above :thumbup:


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Re: libido [Re: Ped]
    #21990902 - 07/24/15 04:35 PM (5 years, 7 months ago)

In response to meowshroom i'm twenty years old so yeah pretty young & thanks that craigslist post was an interesting read forsure.

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Cognitive_Shift said:
I'm not sure if being shy and timid is a hormonal imbalance.  Sounds like you're uncomfortable or scared or rejection.


I do feel very uncomfortable in these situations & I am scared of rejection. But I didn't always use to be/feel this way. I got out of a really fucked up relationship like a year & half ago from which I have never been the same. I am scared of females.. they can be so fucked & scary. I am aware not all are like this but its still a huge fear of mine to ever date a lady that is bat shit crazy. I didn't use to be a ladies man or anything but I was able to be myself & could put the flirtations out without a single care if the chick bailed but if she dug it then great, I want that attitude back but i' a timid as fuck nowadays. My ex gf physically & mentally abused me so it was very fucked, I was fucked for letting it happen to me for so long.


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I think it's just being too easily intimidated and having low self worth.




true.


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>> How do I get my hormones to start firing on all cylinders? I want to spank some booty but im tired of being shy & timid.

If you are preoccupied with "spanking some booty", chances are your hormones are just fine.  Modifying them by any means is not liable to help you overcome the psychological block between you and the booty.

I'm not one to buy into the modern day rhetoric about confidence and self-image, as these things are just reflections of our experiences and can't be meaningfully adjusted in any applied sense.  There's no effective way to buffer confidence and self-image ahead of the activities which require them: only undertaking the activities themselves can develop those traits in a meaningful way.

Comfort with courtship requires an amount of courage, practice, and most of all patience.  It's simply a matter of approaching women, interacting with them, accepting what transpires without judging or dwelling, and repeating the exercise.  Depending on your personality, one or more of these aspects might require extra practice, but accepting what transpires without judging or dwelling is probably the most important skill to have, as this is a pathway to comfort in your own skin.  It takes time and patience to develop; there are no fast tracks.

It might be helpful to place less emphasis on the end goal of spanking some booty.  While you are preoccupied with that as a future outcome, you're not really attentive to the woman you're interacting with, and you're thereby less equipped to connect with her in a constructive manner.  When interacting with a woman, listen to her, pay attention to her whole being, and tune in to the dynamics of the situation.  This can be every bit as electrifying as spanking her booty, and it will increase your comfort level and courtship skills at the same time.


thanks this was a really good post dude :thumbup:


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