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Synthe
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What is a young person supposed to do about erectile dysfunction?
#21965056 - 07/19/15 01:38 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Well it's not something I'm proud to be talking about but I need some real talk advice over here.
I've been dealing with this for a few months now, can't get it up all the way on my own. I've recently started seeing a girl for the first time, and although it doesn't seem to bother her I'm still afraid I'm underperforming in the sack.
I more or less quit porn months ago, sometimes I might look once a week but that's it. I exercise like a maniac, weights and cardio. I don't smoke weed anymore. I take phenibut and kratom a couple times a week. I've tried taking ibuprofen, ashgwanda, even those shady gas station dick pills before hand, on top of the phenibut which is supposed to help, and I still can't get to full mast. Sure I last forever, but sex is supposed to be about pleasure, not mentally berating your dick and telling it to stay up.
So here's the real kicker. I'm only 18. So what the fuck am I to do?
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Re: What is a young person supposed to do about erectile dysfunction? [Re: Synthe] 1
#21965073 - 07/19/15 01:42 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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try a cock ring, it helps maintain an erection and can be a fun accessory. beyond that the biggest thing i can stress is RELAX, the more you focus on the item or lack of item at hand the more difficult you will find the issue. there are more then one way to skin a cat, ie find out what your sexual partner wants and do it well, licking/sucking/whatever, it doesn't always have to be about full cock penetration.
also ban for underage!?
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Re: What is a young person supposed to do about erectile dysfunction? [Re: Synthe]
#21965084 - 07/19/15 01:44 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Do you notice that kratom has a negative impact? For me, kratom makes it difficult to cum. Maybe cease kratom use?
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Re: What is a young person supposed to do about erectile dysfunction? [Re: ReposadoXochipilli]
#21965090 - 07/19/15 01:46 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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ReposadoXochipilli said: try a cock ring, it helps maintain an erection and can be a fun accessory. beyond that the biggest thing i can stress is RELAX, the more you focus on the item or lack of item at hand the more difficult you will find the issue. there are more then one way to skin a cat, ie find out what your sexual partner wants and do it well, licking/sucking/whatever, it doesn't always have to be about full cock penetration.
I think you make a good point about trying to relax, I think it's definitely partially performance anxiety. I guess even phenibut can't fully take that away, and I know it's better if I learn to cope on my own.
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ReposadoXochipilli said: also ban for underage!?
I'm not though
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Re: What is a young person supposed to do about erectile dysfunction? [Re: 4HO-DMT]
#21965095 - 07/19/15 01:47 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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4HO-DMT said: Do you notice that kratom has a negative impact? For me, kratom makes it difficult to cum. Maybe cease kratom use?
Without a doubt, you're right. High doses of kratom kill any desire for me. However, I avoid taking it on any day I'm going to see her. Do you think that's enough, or I need to quit it entirely?
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Re: What is a young person supposed to do about erectile dysfunction? [Re: Synthe]
#21965102 - 07/19/15 01:49 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I don't think you need to quit entirely. Try an experiment, go a week without kratom and see if that helps. Also, I notice that phenibut makes me horny but it also takes me forever to come when I take it.
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Re: What is a young person supposed to do about erectile dysfunction? [Re: Synthe]
#21965106 - 07/19/15 01:50 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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if you can be open enough with a sexual partner where you can trust full acceptance it will ease the pressure and anxiety. whats the worst that can happen? make a mess, take a shower, laugh, and do it again
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Re: What is a young person supposed to do about erectile dysfunction? [Re: ReposadoXochipilli]
#21965110 - 07/19/15 01:51 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Go fully sober and eliminate stress.
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Re: What is a young person supposed to do about erectile dysfunction? [Re: ReposadoXochipilli]
#21965130 - 07/19/15 01:53 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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ReposadoXochipilli said: if you can be open enough with a sexual partner where you can trust full acceptance it will ease the pressure and anxiety. whats the worst that can happen? make a mess, take a shower, laugh, and do it again 
I would say I'm already in that position, she's opened up to me about a lot of things she likes so we can talk about what I'm comfortable with, and if there was anything special I wanted within reason she'd be down for it. The thing is though there's nothing special I really want to do, all I really want to be able to do is keep it up all the way which I haven't achieved in probably months.
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Re: What is a young person supposed to do about erectile dysfunction? [Re: Synthe]
#21965166 - 07/19/15 01:58 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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remove meat/ dairy and eat a plant based diet. I promise your ED will go away. ED is the first sign of heart disease, and a sign of poor blood flow
You should also exercise if you have low sex drive. It raises testosterone .
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Re: What is a young person supposed to do about erectile dysfunction? [Re: RanOutOfWeed]
#21965200 - 07/19/15 02:04 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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RanOutOfWeed said: remove meat/ dairy and eat a plant based diet. I promise your ED will go away. ED is the first sign of heart disease, and a sign of poor blood flow
You should also exercise if you have low sex drive. It raises testosterone .
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Synthe said: I exercise like a maniac, weights and cardio.
I work out 6 days a week. Just curious, why remove meat/dairy?
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Re: What is a young person supposed to do about erectile dysfunction? [Re: 4HO-DMT]
#21965220 - 07/19/15 02:09 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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4HO-DMT said: Do you notice that kratom has a negative impact? For me, kratom makes it difficult to cum. Maybe cease kratom use?
Kratom for me makes it hard to keep an erection over 10-15 minutes. Really, any opiate/opioid does that to me. Shitty situation for me because my girlfriend has been out of town for close to a week, coming back home in a few hours and well, I guess I'll be able to please her but I won't be able to cum myself. booooo.
Alcohol in excess (whiskey dick) I get that too nowadays. Weird because until my mid 20's it didn't affect me that much. Good thing I don't really drink anymore. Same thing with other GABA agonists like Benzos. A small dose of xanax will make me really horny, but a slightly larger dose will make me flaccid while still keeping interest. (that's the worse)
What else...The first 2 weeks my doctors put me on Atenolol (BP meds) sex drive shot down like crazy but then rebounded back to normal. I only started taking these meds a couple months ago and they work wonderfully to treat both my BP issues and anxiety without the need for an SSRI and/or benzo (which also causes ED)...Fucking pharmaceuticals man...
Fucked my dick up good lol. At least weed usually offsets all these ED situations I have so, 
Side note: When I exercise daily, well 5-6 days a week, sex drive also shoots up to early 20's levels. I've just been lazy the past couple weeks but still have been staying active which helps.
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Re: What is a young person supposed to do about erectile dysfunction? [Re: Synthe]
#21965222 - 07/19/15 02:09 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Because vegans fuck better.
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Re: What is a young person supposed to do about erectile dysfunction? [Re: GoldenEye]
#21965260 - 07/19/15 02:13 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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What would give you that assumption?
The one vegan girl I've had sex with in my life just laid there like a fish out of water. I blame the vegan-ness. 
Shouldn't be fuckin around with vegans anyways. I think it's the silliest thing in the world to not eat animal protein but that's a whole big can of worms I don't want to open right now.
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Re: What is a young person supposed to do about erectile dysfunction? [Re: GoldenEye]
#21965262 - 07/19/15 02:13 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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OP that looking once a week or so is what gets ya!
If you really want to bone this chick accordingly, ya gotta leave that ish behind.
Anyways, travel safely on your journey inward!
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Re: What is a young person supposed to do about erectile dysfunction? [Re: HalluciNate]
#21965306 - 07/19/15 02:20 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Can you get a full woody when you masturbate? If so, then you just need to relax with the girl and fool around until you're comfy enough to be completely okay with making a fool of yourself. I can't even masturbate when I'm stressed or concerned about something. Sex is hugely psychological.
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Re: What is a young person supposed to do about erectile dysfunction? [Re: RanOutOfWeed]
#21965393 - 07/19/15 02:28 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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RanOutOfWeed said: remove meat/ dairy and eat a plant based diet. I promise your ED will go away.
That's a big promise. Let's see how this goes. I'm skeptical. Also, heart disease at age 18 due to bad diet? Come on.
OP, are you actually mentally/emotionally aroused when you're trying to have sex, or do you not feel much of anything?
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Re: What is a young person supposed to do about erectile dysfunction? [Re: Mr.GuessWork]
#21965416 - 07/19/15 02:32 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Mr.GuessWork said: Can you get a full woody when you masturbate? If so, then you just need to relax with the girl and fool around until you're comfy enough to be completely okay with making a fool of yourself. I can't even masturbate when I'm stressed or concerned about something. Sex is hugely psychological.
No, it's been like this for months unfortunately, even through long sober periods.
I'm honestly considering getting viagra or cialis or something. For now I'm gonna hit up GNC for some arganine/citruline for blood flow, but if that doesn't work, getting a lengthy supply of viagra for $40 is really tempting. However, I really don't want to resort to that.
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Re: What is a young person supposed to do about erectile dysfunction? [Re: kr0nik0]
#21965419 - 07/19/15 02:32 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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kr0nik0 said: What would give you that assumption?
The one vegan girl I've had sex with in my life just laid there like a fish out of water. I blame the vegan-ness. 
Shouldn't be fuckin around with vegans anyways. I think it's the silliest thing in the world to not eat animal protein but that's a whole big can of worms I don't want to open right now.
That was full sarcasm, that claim that removing meat and dairy from the diet would fix ED was ridiculous.
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Re: What is a young person supposed to do about erectile dysfunction? [Re: GoldenEye]
#21965527 - 07/19/15 02:45 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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So you can't get hard while masturbating? That narrows it down to a physical rather than psychological/performance anxiety issue. Cialis mostly doesn't have the side effects of Viagra and you can pretty much get a nice bone at will for 3 days. I'd probably check in with a doctor though.
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